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+1 I (24nb, unmarried and no desire for kids) just had my bisalp done in South Korea by Dr. Peter Chung at Houm (http://houm.co.kr/eng/). The website doesn't advertise this, as they are primarily a birthing center, but Dr. Chung agreed to do the surgery surprisingly quickly. The entire process with him was smooth and clear of bingos, and he only asked if I knew this procedure was permanent and offered an IUD instead. He helped me get NHS coverage, and it cost me around 1.3 million won.
Dr. Dr Yeo Woon Geol Seoul Urology Bundang Branch. Jan 2024. Vasectomy on 42-year-old man. I walked into the urologist, no referral, just waited about 45 minutes and spoke to the doctor and then made my appointment for the operation. I'm covered here under national insurance so the consult was cheap, but the operation at $380 USD wasn't covered under insurance so that's the price for anyone.
Dr. Moon Hyun-chang from Eurojin Clinic in Busan. I (26M, married, no kids) had my consultation and no-scalpel vasectomy done on the same day (40 minutes total). The doctor and nurses can't speak English very well but they all made me feel comfortable and used Google translate to communicate with me. There were no bingos, he just explained the procedure, that reversals are not guaranteed and asked if I discussed it with my wife. The consultation and procedure cost 350,000 won and I went back two months later for the semen test (which was free).
Thais are very family oriented so especially young people trying to get vasectomies might experience resistance.
International Section, Paolo Memorial Hospital Good hospital near Saphan Khwai BTS station. I can't find the name of the doctor, but there is one who does vasectomies. I was 27 and lied that I have two kids back home. He "had to check hospital's opinion". I needed to wait 2 more days and then I was told it is okay and got snipped the same day. Price about 400$ (26h 41m) (2015).
Population and Community Development Association Near Asok BTS station. There is a forum discussion about the place. Almost free vasectomy. I was 27 when I went there and lied that I have 1y and 3y old kids. They told me to come back when I am at least 29 and the youngest kid should be at least 2 (these might change depending on the person working there, those where ~50y old women).
+1 McCormick Hospital, surgeon Dr Manopunya sterilized unmarried 30F from Philippines, August 2024. Perfect bedside manner and no bingoes from him. Gynecologist recommended bilateral salpingectomy for permanent contraception and family history of ovarian and colon cancer. Usually they recommend tubals only just for sterilization no questions asked. I spent a total of ฿ 70, 370 (Philippine pesos - 2108.22 USD) for my bilateral salpingectomy. I was treated with the utmost respect and care by my doctors and nurses in Thailand. I made two trips to Chiang Mai- first for consultation and the second is for the surgery. I spent 4 days in my first trip and 2 weeks for the surgery. If you want to make just one trip, I suggest staying in Chiang Mai for at least 2.5 weeks, it can cover your consultations, surgery, and recovery time.
Maria Villa ladies' clinic If you're stuck in Japan and have an unwanted pregnancy, this clinic can take care of it for you as long as you are under 12 weeks. Make sure you bring a translator.
Okinawa
MILITARY DEPENDENTS/ACTIVE DUTY ONLY. (as of October 2020). Make consultation for sterilization at Women's Health at your stationed base - ask for Dr. Erin Shiv.
Kuala Lumpur
Dr. Vikramjit Singh Saren KPJ Sentosa KL Specialist Hospital, Kuala Lumpur. (03) 4043 7166. Nov. 2023. Vasectomy on 26-year-old redditor. I'm 26 Male, unmarried but engaged. Brought my fiancee to the initial consultation. Consultation on 11 Nov, and managed to get surgery scheduled immediately on 17 Nov. Cost at 5000MYR. Surgery conducted under full anesthesia.
Dr. Lê Anh Tuấn 135A Nguyen Van Troi St., Ward 12, Phu Nhuan Dist., HCMC. Agreed to perform vasectomy on 50 year old man, without any pushback. Cost: about USD560.
Dr Beh. Laparoscopic sterilization with filshie clips. F 32 single and cf. Dr Beh had a brief chat to make sure I understood what I couldn't do after getting the procedure done. I know he was just covering his bases. He didn't challenge me about any of the usual bingos although he needed to say some of them for his sake. Immediately booked me for surgery on the first appointment.
+1 Dr. Beh. Sterilization with Filshie Clips on 29-year-old, married redditor. Dr Beh and the staff at Thompson Medical were professional, no one judged me for being CF. Wait times are minimal. Married patients to bring the spouse along during the consult as he does want to ensure both parties are on the same page. Patients using CPF: Medisave can be used to offset costs, however procedure isn’t covered under MediShield. Cost around $3250.
Dr. Deepak Rao Motherhood hospital, CMH road Bangalore Ph - +91 9880108844, performed hysterectomy for a childfree 35 year old woman.
The Crowdsourced List of Gynaecologists We Trust PLEASE be mindful that not all of these doctors are childfree friendly, you need to read through the individual listings before scheduling with a doctor.
dr Maximilian Lanner at Privatklinik Villach in Villach Austria. He was a dream regarding the process; we had a brief consent chat, but there was no bingoing, no questions about my partner and what he thinks/if he agrees. Dr Lanner requires 2 visits, two weeks apart, prior to setting a date, to ensure full consent. I did not have to pay for anything until the date of the surgery (50%) and the rest right after. There was also no problem me being from another country.
Clinic in Vienna that is willing to do tubals on woman 25+)
Dr Thomas Treu 25+, ~, most experienced Dr for vasectomies in Vienna, and has fast appointments)
+1 Dr Treu, vasectomy. "He was amazing and did a great job."
Kepler Universitäts Klinikum Ambulance in Linz Upper Austria that does tubals on women 25+ (Cost as of 2016 is about )
Dr.Prof. Huber Agreed to write me a recommendation for laparoscopy + tubal ligation for my standard insurance in Austria.
Woman & Health clinic in Vienna, Dr. Johannes Seidel. Does bilateral salpingectomies. Asked me a few standard questions, but no bingos, no judgment, the whole thing was pretty uncomplicated and took less than 2 months from first consultation to the surgery itself. Cost as of 07/2020: 1200 EUR.
Innsbruck
Dr Florian Zangerl 26m vasectomy, no kids.
Dr. Ferdinand Walser Andreas-Hofer-Str. 4 6020 Innsbruck Telephone: 0512 5820 390. My boyfriend (childfree) got a vasectomy at the age of 29 after we were searching for a long time to find someone. Dr. Walser was very friendly, understanding, no bingoing and did a great job.
Linz
dr.med. Karin haselsteiner 29yo childfree bilateral salpingectomy
Katrien De Coster, Lommel. doctor De Coster ordered a vasectomy for me (30M) without much questions being asked. Simply expressing desire of a childfree life was enough. No bingoing.
Dr. Stefaan Bafort I went to the hospital AZ Damiaan in Ostend, Belgium. Laparoscopic sterilisation, 26, not married and childfree. 1 month wait for the first visit, 1 month wait for the surgery, no questions asked besides "since when do you want this, how old are you, are you not getting forced and are you sure".
+1 Dr. Bafort. June 2024. Bisalp on 28-year-old redditor. I am insured through my employer (the Flemish government). The insurance company is AXA. I haven’t received the bills yet so I don’t know yet how much insurance will cover. I had only met Dr. Bafort once before surgery. During the first and only consultation, he asked me what my occupation is to assess whether my mental capacity was high enough to make this decision. Besides this, he just asked me if I was certain and was convinced as soon as I said “yes” once. He didn’t interrogate me or make me feel like I was taking an oral exam. The consultation took about 15 minutes and by the end of it, we had scheduled a date for the surgery. I didn’t need any referral. I had heard about this gynaecologist through a friend and then made an appointment at the hospital where he works.
Ruben Vanspauwen in AZ Turnhout, Belgium. He is the head of the department and I must say that I am very happy with him. He listened to me in my first visit and never gaslighted me about my childfree attitude or minimized the medical reason I had to need a hysterectomy. He even suggested a salpingectomy on top to reduce chances of cancer. He made me wait three months until I got it aproved, which is stupid but not too inconvenient and it might be a hospital rule, I am not sure.
+1 Dr. Vanspauwen. Oct. 2023. Bisalp on 26-year-old redditor. No bingos, just what he was legally obligated to ask and say. Also no waiting period to see if I changed my mind or anything and no psychological evaluation. 1 month between consultation and sterilisation.
Dr Hans Goethuys Very experienced, no bingos.
Johan Verhaeghe, prof. dr., Vlaams-Brabant, Leuven. I had my sterilization done last week with Filshie clips. I'm 37 and childfree (never had any kids or pregnancies). I'm also single. Use with caution if under 30 as there is a risk the doctor will refuse to perform sterilisation.
Brussels
Dr. Jean Vandromme in Brussels. 21F (20 when starting the process), bilateral salpingectomy, single and childfree. 1st appointment with the doctor 2nd with social nurse to explain contraception options (very respectful and not infantilizing at all actually) 2 appointments with a psychologist from the hospital. Had to write a letter for the second meet-up. I actually kind of hated her. Got the results after the team had a meeting about my case. Doctor said they very rarely refuse (!!!). Got my tubes removed in September (process started in March). Even though the psychologist wasn’t amazing I would still recommend him and his team. They were caring and absolutely lovely when I got my surgery done.
Ghent
Dr Bart Bronselaer AZ Sint-Lucas. Nov 2023. Laparascopicly assisted vaginal total hysterectomy with bilateral salpingectomy at age 30. I first contacted Dr Merchiers (on the list already) and after 2 appointments he referred me to Dr Bronselaer. No bingos at all. I was told medically he needs to inform me of the risks involved but its my choice so if I want it he will do it. He just asked I do a psychological evaluation beforehand.
Erik Merchiers. Very professional and friendly. Did my tubal ligation at 24 years old without giving me much trouble. Just checked if I was sure and informed about my decision.
+1 Doctor Merchiers gave me a full hysterectomy at 27 years old (removal of uterus, cervix and fallopian tubes). I was required to get a psychological report before the operation (to make sure I was of sound mind).
+1 Tubal ligation on 22 year old woman.
+1 I got sterilised by Dr Merchiers (Belgium, Ghent) at 22(F). He was very kind and did not bingo me, only asked the necessary questions, always adding "I am legally obliged to ask/tell you this" so as not to come across as condescending. He required me to get a proof of competence letter (verklaring van wilsbekwaamheid) from my GP and then a few weeks later we could already plan the surgery. He performed a laparoscopy sterilisation tubaligature coagulation.
+1 Dr Eric Merchiers (Ghent, Belgium, hes already on the list) I got a bilateral salpingectomy done by him at age 18. He was very professional and gave me no bingos (he did suggest i look into getting an iud, but he didnt mention it again when i immediately dismissed the idea). I had to get a psychological evaluation done by a psychiatrist, which was a bit annoying, but it wasn't too hard to get. My first appointment with him was in end February, i had the surgery end September (however the reason it took so long for me was because i couldnt get it done in July, otherwise i wouldve gotten it end July). I was surprised with how professional he was about it and how accepting he was, because i expected a lot more difficulty getting sterilised at 18.
Dr Antoine Raad - Brussels, Hopital St Jean - Might not want to do it if you're "too young" but will do if you insist a bit and give a good argumentation or if you are late 30's.
Dr. Carl van Haute Performed a vasectomy on me (male, 24, in a relationship, fully childfree) Geconventioneerd. Professional, did not bingo me beyond what he is required to by medical rules.
Dr. Dominique Carly and Fleurus and Gozée. He asks for a letter from a psychiatrist (NOT a psychologist) and once you have that he asks no further questions - he is basically all business, doesn't care about age or reasons or anything else. No bingos.He does the operation at the Grand Hôpital de Charleroi, site Notre Dame.For his private practice, you can book an appointment online and there is usually one available within a week or two.This man is a godsend, one of the only doctors who performs bilateral salpingectomies in French-speaking Belgium. Anyway, hope this can help someone else.
Dr. Gergana Kolarova and Dr. Georgi Kolarov - Sofia, ul. Angel Kanchev 34 - Will give IUDs to young nulliparous women. A bit pricey but they are both very nice and highly qualified.
Dr. Milen Katzarov (Urologist and Andrologist) - Sandor Petofi street, number 39, site - drmilenkatzarov.com, phone number - +359 888 222 369, email - milen_k@hotmail.com, Spoken languages - Bulgarian, German, French, Russian, English - Went in for a check up to see if I am viable for a vasectomy, 0 bingos from his side towards me, he just made sure I know what is going to happen and that the operation to fix it IF, at some point in time, I changed my mind, was 30% sucessful. Scheduled the operation for about 2 months after the inital check up, went in the hospital he operates in MBAL Doverie, got the snip, you can leave 2 hours later (if you feel unwell, you can stay for 2 days), local and full anesthesia is offered. Personal opinion - the doc is cool, made jokes as I was going into the operation and when I was coming out of the full anesthesia.
MUDr. Aleš Sobek, male, Fertimed, Olomouc - Bilateral Salpingectomy, 26yo, Nov 2024. Had a Skype consultation with the Dr as I don't live in Czechia (he speaks great English). The surgery went well, he removed both of my tubes entirely and even some endometriosis that I didn't even know I had. He even showed me a picture of my removed tubes. Also, not once during the entire process did he ask why I'm childfree, let alone bingo me. Always answered all my emails and questions in a kind and professional manner. Overall a highly positive experience.
Fakutlní Thomayerova nemocnice Do only bilateral salpigectomies.
Dr. David Čapka, Adress: Českomoravská 2510/19, Praha 9 190 00, Name of the clinic: (Vazektomie bez skalpelu/Iscare). Great doctor, professional execution, kind, non-judgemental. Vasectomies.
Městská nemocice Ostrava does vasectomy for men. Standard 2x 14 days period as per Czech legislation applies; available to anyone above 18 years of age. Call them ahead as there is only one doctor (female) willing to do the procedure.
Jiří Chod Hospital: Canadian Medical, Prague 5 Cost of procedure: 40,000 CZK (covered by my insurance, but depends on insurance of course) Procedure is performed at the Prague 5 location, which is very modern with very kind nurses. All speak excellent English for those who need it.
Reprofit - Brno Pisárky Sterilize women from the age of 21. They speak 8 languages.
Dr. Lucas Bittner at Centrum Mediol in Olomouc. Vasectomy for a 23/M. Legal for people 21 and older.
MUDr. Šrámková at Fertimed, Czechia. There are two clinics, one in Prague and one in Olomouc. The required consultation can be done over Skype and takes about 20 minutes. The wait times are a bit long, I waited about two months for the consultation and three months for the surgery. The surgery took 15 minutes and I was at the clinic for 40 minutes total. Staff was friendly and professional. The price of 13900 CZK includes a sperm count after three months, and you don't need to pay again if the surgery was not successful.
MUDr. Aleš Sobek, Ph.D. and he works at Fertimed in Olomouc. I had really good experience with this doctor, he didn't try to talk me out of surgery like others. I'm 28 F and I've had salpingectomy. He told me that usually he removes only part of fallopian tubes, but if you request is to remove all of it, he can do that. It's legal to have salpingectomy at 21 in Czech Republic.
MUDr. Jan Karhan Bilateral Salpingectomy(Removal of the fallopian tubes) 31yo Iscare clinic Prague Českomoravská metro station
MUDr. Alice Fuxová, ISCARE Hospital, Prague. Without any bingoing or judgement (I am 24 F), after a short consultation and medical tests, she agreed to sterilize me. The surgery took place in July, required a hospital stay for 2 nights, and cost around 17k Czech Crowns (not covered by insurance). During my multiple appointments, she was always friendly, open minded and professional. Later I learnt she is childree as well. I can only recommend this doctor to any people residing in Czechia, who wish to be sterilized.
Herlev Hospital - the team I was sent to at Herlev Hospital were great. When surgery was decided, I asked if they could remove both tubes while they were in there, and the doc was like "if you ask nicely, I'm sure it can be arranged". Basically having a short chat to make sure I wasn't just panicking, but actually wanted it. And the performing surgeon also asked only once, the same way you'd ask any patient if they are still cool with what they are about to cut into. I also emphasized that I had no desire to preserve fertility, and asked if that affected the need for laparocopy. They explained that they had to do it that way whether I wanted kids or not.
Lægerne Korsgade Only ask if you already have children and accept it when you say you don't want them.
Læge Anders Amundsen, Lyngby, Quickly accepted my (29M) intention of getting a vasectomy when I showed that I was determined and had deliberated on the subject previously. Adviced on what to expect from the procedure from own experience and experience of other patients that had gone though it and gave the necessary refence to schedule an appointment with a clinic.
Speciallæge i kirurgi og mavetarmkirurgi, ph.d, Anders Bak-Christensen, Allerød, performed vasectomy after being referenced by own doctor, was quick, professional, informative and accepting.
We have a legal right to get sterilized, and the doctor performing the sterilization is not the same as the one you have the convo with and you don’t get to choose the actual surgeon. But it’s free, so that’s nice. I’m 32 woman, no kids, partnered, unmarried. General practictioner: lægerne ilbjerg alle, specifically Tine Stougaard Kristensen, she thinks getting sterilized is very invasive but didn’t fight me on it when I told her I was serious.
Childfree friendly gynecologist: kvindeklinikken i København, technically he didn’t have anything to do with the sterilization, but when I told him my doctor had suggested not getting sterilized he spent a bunch of time explaining the procedure and made me feel way safer about it. He makes you feel like you’re an equal and warned me that the hospital might give me some pushback and told me that hormonal iuds are the right choice for a lot of people, but not everybody and that should be respected. He recommended a salpingectomy to lower risk of cancer. I know he doesn’t necessarily qualify for this list, but finding a gynecologist that’s in your corner as a cf woman is hard, but no bingos, no nothing. He’s very much a gynecologist and not an ob and I wish I’d known about him earlier, no kids all over the waiting room either.
Guldberg Kvindeklinik, Rikke Guldberg in Fredericia. Sent me straight to Kolding Hospital with a referal when I asked about it, no bingos. The hospital demanded a waiting period and an interview asking about relationsstatus and werent all that positive, but did the op. Some complications and 3 months untill no more pain. Tubal ligation 30+.
From this Facebook group:
Google docs list of doctors who will sterilise (some are not necessarily childfree friendly, review their entry carefully before choosing one):
Dr Claude Olivier Devins, 27 yo, married, Bilateral salpingectomy, with vNotes technique (a new one, that goes through the vagina and does not leave any scaring on the abdomen). No bingo whatsoever. Said yes within five minutes of me sitting in his chair on the first appointment. He is very professional, efficient, and fast, which could be almost seen as cold for some. The operation itself went well and the pain afterwards was light. A note: he asks for a psychiatrist letter saying you're sound of mind, as a way to "cover himself just in case" as he said. But I had one where the psychiatrist asked wtf he needs in this letter bc she'd never heard of needing a recommendation for that, and he put it in my file and considered it done. So this guy is sure to operate on CF people, without any bingo. Just expect a small delay, given the 4 months before the first and second consultation as required in the law, during which you can make the psychiatrist appointment.
+1 Dr Devins,. I had a BISALP done via the vagina so without outside cuts but it is possible to have the cuts done. (I think the right term is hysteroscopy). I am 32 going on 33 this week. I’m married and was engaged at the time BUT the question was never asked. I was not bingoed at all. Wait time was the legal one (4 months) cost is 400€ for surgeon + 150 for anesthesia ONLY IF the « mutuelle » covers it otherwise it’s 0€ (well the cost is covered by social security) the 550 are called « dépassement d’honoraire » they will give you a « devis » and you ask your « mutuelle » if they’ll cover it.) Room is free at minimum (covered by social security) I took the 57€ option that insured me I’d have a room and a snack (sandwich, tea or hot chocolate, yogurt) Afterwards I needed nurses home for seven days (once a day) it cost 24€ I think but was reimbursed. Nurses were very nice they have an app to tell them if you have a disability (I have autism and feel it was managed as well as possible and you can ask for someone to accompany you if you have a diagnosed handicap). The app is mandatory they will tell you how to download it disability or not. You get a post surgery meeting approximately three weeks after to check how it is. PIV is forbidden for 6 weeks so you can take your post surgery exam after to be sure you can have PIV again if you don’t feel abnormal pain or bleeding.
Evry: Dr David Charbit provided a vasectomy for a 27 year old man
La Rochelle : Dr Stéphane Milcent : https://twitter.com/SurLePonton/status/929032020889604096
Lille: hôpital Jeanne de Flandre, Dr Géraldine Giraudet and Dr Jessica Giordano sterilised me on Wednesday. I'm 36 and have no children.
Lyon : Dr Sergine HECKEL : OB/GYN, tubal ligations for young childfree (18+)
Versailles/Le Chesnay : Dr Pierre Panel May 2023. Tubal ligation on 21-year-old redditor. He was incredibly respectful, as was his medical secretary (she's an absolute angel) and as were the rest of his staff. No bingo, no distasteful questions, no patronization, just patience, listening skills and empathy, and explaining in simple terms without being condescending. I was asked my reasons to make sure i wasn't forced of anything, but i just said i didn't want children and that was it. You may have to get a note from a psychiatrist, but he doesn't require this. Dr. Panel practices in the private sector on Thursdays and in the public sector the rest of the week. I chose the private sector because I specifically wanted him to operate. Sécurité Sociale covers 80% of the cost if you have the surgery done on the public sector. The rest is almost always covered by your insurance but if it isn't you can have ~50 euros to pay. Appointments are covered (no payment in advance, there is the "tiers-payant" where the social security covers the amount in advance). For private sector care, appointments are 100 euros, reimbursed at 70% of the base public price for a specialist (so 70% of ~50-60 euros) and the rest is usually covered by most insurances. The procedure in itself is also covered 80%, mine had complications (he treated me for endometriotic lesions), so, of the 1330 euros that were due, i only had 260 euros left to pay, which is covered by most insurances, so in the end i did not pay anything at all.
Roquebrune Cap Martin (next to Monaco, approx 30 mins by car from Nice) : Dr Cristina Longo No bingos, no judgement. 5* doctor! 23 and CF and had zero problems getting a tubal + ablation. Will operate on anyone aged 18+. Speaks English, French, Romanian, and Russian.
Marcq-en-Barœul : Dr Phillippe Koenig, vasectomy.
Tbilisi
Madona Jugheli. I recently got approved for bisalp and my doctor was SO professional and didn't question me once, didn't bingo or anything. I'm 22 she approved me and even directed me to a childfree friendly surgeon! Caraps Medline has a medical tourism option.
Here (https://www.selbstbestimmt-steril.de/karte/) is a map with German doctors who perform sterilisations on women. The doctors are on that list voluntarily and have minimum age and/or number of children requirements added.
Dr. Mattias Stroh, Dr. med. Frauenarztpraxis FÄ Dr. med. M. Stroth - Alte Potsdamer Strasse 7 - 10785 Berlin. 2023. Does sterilization via partial tubal salpingectomy. Speaks English, very professional. Can book consultation on Doctolib. No bingos, firmly believes that he has no business telling you what to do with your body. Generally says he'll do the procedure on 30 year olds and up but it's not a hard limit. Has been doing tubals for years. Booked my procedure a month after my consultation. Cost is not covered by insurance, was around 1600€.
Gyndoctors, Dr. Teichmann and Dr. Schröder Buchen for the talk and pre-op stuff one day before the surgery, Hospital in Hardheim for the actual procedure. Done in a few hours, you can go home same-day. They offer ligations with cauterizing, bisalps and ablations. Bisalp + Endometrial Ablation. I'm 23F, no bingos, very respectful. Cost was 1600€, very clean incisions and great belly button reconstruction after laparoscopy. Endometrial ablation done via rollerball method. I waited 6 months because I was saving money, otherwise about ~2 months time to get a surgery date.
Klinikum Landkreis Tuttlingen, secretary: Frau/Mrs Kille Tel. 07461/97-1401 Fax: 07461/97-51401 E-Mail: gynaekologie@klinikum-tut.de. Adress: Klinikum Landkreis Tuttlingen gGmbH Zeppelinstraße 21 78532 Tuttlingen. The procedure completed: Bisalp, 28, F, single, no kids. I sent a mail, asking for a consult for bisalp. - they answered: cost: 600,00 € , appointment in 2 weeks. - NO comment about changing my mind whatsoever during the consult - very professional - i was there for a consult, got my bisalp literally the next morning - they removed my IUD (Gynefix)
The procedure was done in a partner clinic: https://www.klinikum-tut.de/klinikum/medizinische-behandlung/ambulante-angebote/zentrum-fuer-ambulantes-operieren/
Dr. Torsten Ehrich and I got a tubal ligation done by him. https://frauenaerzte-friedrichshain.berlin/ (link to the clinic) For information, I was 26 years old at the time of the operation and in a relationship and have never had kids before. My experience: The consultation was with Dr. Susann Ehrich (her husband was busy with other patients). Got no bingos, no questions about relationship status asked either. She gave an in-depth explanation about the operation, healing time and risks and then gave me the paperwork for the operation and anesthesia to read through. Appointment for the operation was around 5-6 weeks later and was around 900 Euros (anesthesia included!) out of pocket. Also got a sick leave note for 2 weeks.
Worms, https://urologie-worms.de/. The doc was a little overwhelmed with my age and cf status, but never made any negative remarks and was all around very pleasant. The complete cost of 450€ i had to pay cash in full.
Urologische Praxis im Zentrum in Wiesbaden. When in doubt, ask for Dr. Spielhaupter, who appears to be very relaxed about doing the procedure on someone who seems confident enough in his decision.
+1 for Dr. Spielhaupter, he didn't have any problems with my age. But he only does vasectomies with general anesthesia, and it costs about 780€. Other than that I can wholeheartedly recommend getting your vasectomy here.
+1 Dr. Söffker has also sterilised a 23 M unmarried, "It was almost painless."
+1 Dr. Söffker sterilized 30M from Sweden, appointment via email, no questions asked
+1 Dr. Söffker sterilized unmarried 22M from Italy, appointment made already at 21 years old, no questions asked
+1 Dr. Soffker. Vasectomy on 22-year-old redditor. Perfectly acceptable bedside manner and great English fluency, was perfectly fine with my request to see any removed bits, did try to rush us out the door once done though.
Dr. Andreas Putz, Dietrich-Bonhoeffer-Klinikum in Neubrandenburg. He does hysterectomies on young childless women with an psychological assessment (psych. Gutachten). I am 24 and get my uterus removed due to adenomyosis and endometriosis.
Praxis Dr. Bung, Dr. Richter, Fr. Prochnau in Bonn. Referred to from ProFamilia Bonn from good experiences with previous sterilizations. Got a tubal ligation in early 30s. Dr. Bung was not happy, but the only judgement came in a form to sign. Brought my hubby and dressed like middle management, assuming that shut him up.
Dr. Andreas Roth, Munich: Got a tubal ligation at the age of 22. I wasn't asked ask a lot of questions, however I did have a referral from my gynecologist and a history of problems with other forms of birth control.
-1 Dr Roth, gave a 24AFAB a lot of bingoes when requested to provide a hysterectomy. OP ultimately did not feel comfortable trying to move forward with this specialist.
Dr. med. Mehmet Bastug, tubal ligation 25yo. Dr. Bastug already operated on me last year. During a post-op checkup I asked him if he would perform a sterilisation (apparently tubal ligation is the golden standard in Germany). No bingos at all. Endometriosis resection was also part of the surgery. I got the endometriosis diagnosis within a few month of being a patient of his while my (former) OB-GYN never even mentioned it in over 8 years. So thats also a big plus. I felt comfortable and was very well taken care of by the whole team - before and after the surgery.
Gynäkologische Praxisklinik Hamburg (https://gph-online.de/), Dr. Gerd Kügler did my sterilization when i was 30. He cuts each tube 3x + cauterizing the ends. Costs: ~700€. Told him my motivation, he asked me one time if i was really sure, i answered that i am sure for 10 years and that's it.
+1 Gynäkologische Praxisklinik Hamburg, Speersort 8 20095 Hamburg. Telefon: 040 30 38 28 28. I called, talked about how I recently moved there and needed a gynocologist. All questions I got where about potential risks and the texts I read, the doctor did not bingo me, I was not even asked to state reasons on why I wanted a bisalp! I just needed to sign that I am sure about the risks and its my own decision to go through with everything. Everyone was extremely friendly and careful. The doctor performing my surgery was Dr. König, also really friendly, helpful, great vibe! The only downside for me in the whole scenario was that the anaesthesiologist, Mrs. Burmester, who has an own doctors office but seems to be in charge of anesthesia for surgeries at GPH, tried to bingo me right before I went into the surgery room.
„Frauenklinik an der Elbe“ in Hamburg, Germany (no specific doctor, all doctors & staff members I spoke to were kind, helpful & actually listening!). I got a bisalp done in my late 20s (no children, unmarried, but in a committed relationship of several years). I was expected to provide documentation of my childfree status in the form of statements of my other doctors (ob/gyn, general, etc.) that contain the info that I am sure of my decision and how long I am childfree to their knowledge. This needs preparation, because your „normal“ doctors would need to document your childfree status every visit some years (3 for me) in advance. The doctors & staff are kind, the overall experience is professional. I had to pay the procedure myself.
Praxis Radler - Keller in Mannheim: Got a vasectomy at the age of 27, it was done by Dr. Joachim Häfele. He asked some questions, then said my answers made him feel that I understand what I was doing and that it was my decision. He explained the procedure and answered all questions very well. Rest of the team was also very professional. Cost ~600€
Prof. Dr. Bastian Keck 91054 Erlangen. Oct. 2023. Vasectomy on 25-year-old CF redditor. Cost ~750€, no bingos or other issues. He used the no scalpel technique with both ends closed under local anesthetics.
Dr. A. Maucher - OPZ Hürth: Sterilizes (childfree) woman from the age of 25. As of Nov 2023, Dr. Maucher no longer performs surgery, but will refer.
+1 for OPZ. Incredibly no-fuss about the whole thing. Not a single bingo From anyone on the staff. Procedure was not done by Dr. Maucher himself but a young female colleague of his.
+1 for OPZ. Provided bilateral salpingectomy for a 27yo. Dr Kemper did initial consult, with Dr. Schwirz-Groos performing the surgery. "She and the rest of the team were also very supportive and professional".
+1 for Dr. A. Kemper - OPZ Hürth. Nov 2023, referred from Dr. Maucher. Bisalp on 33-year-old redditor. Three weeks from consult to surgery. Paid 900€ (that's the full all inclusive price out of pocket).
[Dr. Mangold Laupheim](laupheim-gyn.de) - Germany. 2nd Office is in Ulm. Sterilisation for childfree 24yo.
Weimar sophien und hufeland Klinik from the age of 23 but only with a psychology control (Psychologisches Gutachten)
Dr. Möckel - Leipzig Didn't really asked for my motivation. I was 28 and childfree.
Dr. med. Lars Norrenberg (Oberarzt) - Frauenklinik Reutlingen I was 28 y/o at this time, childfree and asked for a sterilization. He didn't asked me why. No bingos. He is very easy going. The procedure costs 500€.
Dr. Heß - Bochum Head of the MediPlaza medical center. Amazingly open-minded about various degrees of childfreeness. Can perform most forms of IUDs. Can‘t perform a sterilization herself but will refer you to a colleague in Dortmund who will make exceptions based on Dr. Heß‘ referral.
Urologie Frechen/Hürth I got a vasectomy from Dr. Lipphardt when I was 27. While he seemed a bit hesistant at first (asked a few questions), he did it when seeing I was committed to it.
Park-Klinik Kiel CF got a salpingectomy at the age of 30. Was asked a few fair questions, to check if the decision was really well thought through. Cost 500€.
Dr. Neubauer - Hamburg did my vasectomy at 24, had a short talk about my reasons beforehand, there might lay a few weeks between the first appointment and the surgery; 350€ "all inclusive"; local anesthesia only
Dr. med. Norbert Gildein - Schwäbisch Gmünd Vasectomy for 33yo
Dr. med. Ali Barhoum. Vasectomy. I am 27 years old, married, without kids. The doctor gave me stern talking to and advised against it, since I am not 30 yet and have no kids. When I demonstrated that I was sure, he had me sign a waiver. The procedure costed 550€, he offered me a date in the following week.
Dr. Bernd Friedel, Wittekindstr. 105, 44139 Dortmund: Bisalp on 23 y.o. woman, very professional, no bingos.
+1 to Dr. Bernd Friedel in Dortmund Germany. Very professional, no bingos, no age restriction. Costs are: 430€ for a salpingectomy, 274€ if you have your Doctors note for removal of a cyst. 2 appointments needed, one for talking and then the operation (took me exactly 7 days) he will call you the evening after the operation to ask if you’re feeling alright and resting well.
+1 Dr. Bernd Friedel, Wittekindstr. 105, 44139 Dortmund. Operates 21 and above. No bingos. One exam and one talk and you can schedule a week later. Very calm team, punctual, also does ablation if you have a doctor's note. I am female, 27, no kids, single, fat. Paid 560 euros, he will call you in the evening and hand you aftercare instructions.
Dr. Daniel Karohl Schönhauser Allee 118 10437 Berlin GERMANY. I had a tubal ligation under general anaesthetics.
Contact points for sterilisation - Selbstbestimmt steril Officially contacted contact points for sterilization requests. Map online since 31.08.2020 and will be updated regularly.
Arthur Karsten in 54439 Saarburg - I'm 22 and have no kids, but he took me serious immediately, offered me an appointment within two weeks and was overall a pleasure to work with. The procedure (tubal ligation) was performed under full anesthesia, I was in the hospital from 7am to 11:40am. It cost 600€, wasn't covered by insurance
+1 Dr. Karsten While he didn't sterilize me, he gave me the crucial referral (Überweisung) for my hysterectomy for another clinic, which refuses to operate on me without it. He never questioned me about why I didn't want kids and was only focused on helping me.
Sana Krankenhaus Benrath in Düsseldorf, Germany Aug 2024. Bisalp on 31-year-old redditor. I had to pay it privately (500€). For scheduling an appointment at the hospital, I needed to have a note from a doctor stating that I had been previously advised about the procedure and knew about the risks. Once I had that, I was able to schedule an interview with a doctor at the hospital who asked me some questions about my reasons to get sterilized and my contraception history. After that she got approval from the head of the Gynecology department and I was able to schedule my procedure for one month ahead.
Dr. Katharina Schwarzkopf Gynecologist - required to refer to surgeon. Borna, Saxony, Germany. Absolutely positive experience throughout the last 4 years I've been a patient at her office. My childfree status was accepted right from the start, absolutely no bingos. She takes all the time needed to help you and objectively suggests treatment options from all fields. She is also fairly knowledgeable regarding endometriosis and adenomyosis, but isn't doing excision surgery anymore herself. Also: Surgeon - Dr. Francis Nauck, Gesundheitszentrum Bitterfeld-Wolfen, Saxony-Anhalt, Germany Procedure: Hysterectomy Dr. Nauck is certified as a MIC III specialist (certification for minimal invasive surgery) and highly knowledgeable in treating endometriosis, fibroids and other uterus-related conditions. He is very childfree-friendly and I experienced absolutely no pushback requesting my hysterectomy during our 5 min phone consultation. The examination pre-surgery was extremely insightful, he took a lot of time answering all potential questions and to suggest the best surgery approach while still leaving the final decision to me. I also received in-depth aftercare after my surgery to make sure I'm leaving completely fine. Compared to a previous surgery the year before (endo excision and bisalp) my recovery was also way faster, although this second surgery was more invasive. According to fellow patients I met at the hospital and numerous online reviews Dr. Nauck performed a lot of bisalp and hysterectomy surgeries on other childfree people in the past, who had a similarly pleasant experience.
Dr. med. Dipl. Kfm. Arne Behm Prasix Mainurologe "Very professional and friendly. No bingos at all, just made sure I was sure about this and that's that. Carefuly explained the procedure to me. Had to wait a month for the preminilary talk appointment and then another month for the procedure. Procedure itself was quick and painless. 10/10" I'm 33, no kids, not married, CF all my life.
Dr. Reimar Domnitz, "Facharztpraxis für Urologie im Ärztehaus Friedrichshain", Landsberger Allee 44, 4.OG 10249 Berlin. I had two appointments with Dr. Domnitz. The first time I went there, I got bingoed by some nurses at the entrance and had to talk my way through to Dr. Domnitz, because they told me they would decline my request for a vesectomy. Dr. Domnitz sat down with me, heard what I said and told me to think about it and come back in 6 months. I called back 6 months later, got scheduled and had the procedure done without any more questions or complications.
+1 Dr Domnitz, vasectomy consultation booked via Doctolib, delay was pretty long but I actually managed to get an earlier appointement by being reactive. On the day of the consultation, I met with Dr Domnitz and I could discuss the topic of my vasectomy in english easily. As a 33yo male, childfree, he mentioned I was a bit on the younger side but that I seemed to have done my research. We discussed briefly of my situation, reasons (didn't feel judged at any time) and then about the procedure. He explained clearly the procedure, that it was really hard to reverse. At the end of the appointement, he asked me to check with the nurses to schedule a date. I had my vasectomy 2.5 months later with no issues, with follow-up tests scheduled as well.
Janusz Rudzinski,Prenzlau, Germany he performed sterilisation on three of my CF friends, He's renowned for performing abortions on Polish women who cannot do it at home due to draconian laws on it, and is famous advocate on women's rights to self determination and deciding their fate. Though I have to warn he's also very talkative. :) He works with a couple of clinics and also has extensive contacts in the industry, so if he cannot take a patient, he will refer to someone who will be able to perform sterilisation at a similar cost.
Dr. Rüdiger Söder from Mic.Ma Mainz, a women's clinic in Mainz, Germany. Dr. Söder was extremely respectful and friendly. He asked me once in referral and once before surgery "are you sure you don't want kids?" I said yes and he replied, "good then we may proceed." No judgment, no extra hoops.
Profamilia 30M, vasectomy. Childfree for years and wanted to finally have peace of mind. He called them and had to go there. They just checked if he was sure and if he understood what it means. No pushbacks at all. Had to wait 3 months for surgery.
Dusseldorf - DR. Hans-Wilhelm Coenen, the clinic: https://www.frauenaerzte-kaiserswerth.de/ I'm 28 female, from Lithuania (in my country female sterilisation is illegal) so i had to travel to Germany. I'm not married but have a boyfriend. We are both childfree. The doctor was amazing, no bingos. He was very understanding and kind. I sent them a letter and the doctor contacted me by phone, we had a consultation and he easily made surgery appointment for me. The surgery cost 1500€ + 500€ anesthesia.
Dr Tryfos Dimitrios - performed a tubal ligation on me when I was 21, unmarried and childfree. He gave me no hassle, just asked me if I was really sure I wanted it and my surgery was booked the next day. It cost about 3600 euros out of pocket.
[Padua GP Clinic, Cork City] (No website available) Dr Shane Murphy believes that people should be able to choose whether or not to have children. Is willing to make a referral. Will advise based on age that you may be considered too young, but this is to prepare you for what consultants will say. Asked questions many would find bingoish (relationship status being one) but the information was for the referral letter for a gynaecologist to help build a case for me.
Cork Medical Centre - Dr S McLaughlin in Cork, Ireland. I am 30F, unmarried, no kids. I first went to them for an IUD but it gave me such horrible side effects that I asked for it out only six months later. The doctor told me that they like to see, in Ireland, that you've tried different contraceptive methods first before requesting sterilization (IUD, implant, BC pills, all of which I'd used in the past). But ultimately, she said that if I wanted sterilization then that's what I wanted, and she wrote me a referral to the CUMH Gynaecology Dept on the spot. It's been about two months, and I just got an appointment for a consultation in the mail. Originally she had referred me for a tubal ligation, but I called back asking about a bilateral salpingectomy and she said it's the same referral form so when I go to my consultation I'll just ask for that procedure instead of the tubal ligation and it should all be fine.
Dr John McCormack (http://vasectomyireland.ie/) did my vasectomy at age 23 and didnt put up much fight to persuade me otherwise. He asked me the usual questions on relationships, why I wanted it done (didnt offer any rebutals just listened) and was I aware that its permanent , 50% chance of reversal etc. Since I had not caused a pregnancy before sent me to get a fertility test done. This was simply to verify if I even needed one before going ahead with the procedure and avoid the risk of any possible complications. It cost me 500 in total, was no needle no scalpel and almost completely pain free for the procedure and afterwards. He operates in Cork City, Galway City and Dublin City on weekly rotations so covers the whole country.
Dr Ravi Kumar - Clonard Surgery, Wexford town, Ireland No: (053) 914 2459. Method: Scalpel incision. Personal info: 36, single and no kids. Dr Ravi is practicing his profession for over 35 yrs and to my knowledge the only doctor who can provide this service in my home town. On the initial consultation he asked very thorough questions ensuring I was in the correct frame of mind without being invasive. He was extremely open minded to my decision to have this procedure and made me feel very at ease. The surgery went very well and he made me feel very comfortable all the way throughout. The procedure cost €450 but thankfully my insurance will cover 80% of this. I had to wait 4 weeks for the surgery as there was a backlog and he only performs this surgery twice a week on Fridays so I’d suggest taking this day off and resting the whole weekend
Doctor Marco Torrazzina Verona: Consults out of Bussolengo Hospital, Via Ospedale 4/6 - 37012 Bussolengo, Verona. Performs surgery at San Bonifacio Hospital, Via Circonvallazione, 1, 37047 San Bonifacio VR, Italy. +39 335 42 85 54. marcotorrazzina@gmail.com. Email for appointment. Performed a bilateral salpingectomy on 27-year-old international student. Initial consultation is 150 euros but if you have a tessera sanitaria (Italian health service card) the surgery and post-surgery medicine will be free. The sterilization even offered an overnight stay. Learn some Italian as while he can speak English, some of the staff do not.
+1 dott. Marco Torrazzina, he's definitely the one to go to if you're in Italy. I just got my bilateral salpingectomy and I'd like to add my experience to the list because it was overwhelmingly positive, I got treated with the outmost respect and kindness by the whole stuff without being bingoed not even once even tho I'm just 24yo. They were very considerate about my phobia of needles and did whatever they could to ease my discomfort. The whole procedure didn't cost me a dime except for €150 for the first consultation with my doctor.
+1 dott. Marco Torrazzina. Oct 2024. Bisalp on 24-year-old Italian redditor.
AIED The Pordenone office is the only one to perform vasectomies.
Dr. Pasquale Scarano at the Nuova Ricerca in Rimini accepted to perform a vasectomy on my husband after a visit. He needed a little of persuasion and justified the operation as if my husband had chronic pain (vasectomies aren't illegal in Italy but doctors are more paranoid than American ones). To be noted that he usually treats infertility problems.
Milan: Dr. Marco Cosentino He was very professional and had no problems with my age (27) or the fact I didn't have any kids. I had a bilateral no scalpel vasectomy the same day as the consultency. He is based in Padova, but can travel to various Italian cites. This was done privetly, so was very expensive in comparison to being done publicly (€1800), but it was a very easy experience. He speaks perfect English and most of the staff in the Milan also spoke English.
-1 Dr Cosentino quoted a patient €2200 when in the Italian website clearly says he's willing to do the procedure for €800, up to maximum €1500 based on the kind of anesthesia).
The following doctors are unverified, but may perform bilateral salpingectomy:
Milan: Massimo Luerti, massimo.luerti@ic-cittastudi.it, Nr appointment +39 0223932041. He asked me for a counseling or a possible letter from a psychologist/psychiatric visit because of my age.
Milan: Paolo Vercellini, "Hospital Policlinico of Milan", paolo.vercellini@policlinico.mi.it, Nr for appointment +39 800.638638. May ask for a psychiatrist/psychologist visit.
Verona Valentino Bergamini City Verona "Via Ca' di Cozzi, 10, 37124 Verona VR" valentino.bergamini@aovr.veneto.it nr +39 045 916433 asks for a psychiatric visit before his appointment experience : After reading my letter it was instant approval. He was accommodating of my sexual trauma and gyn exam phobia, didn't push me for internal exams, and allowed me to have an external ultrasound. He was warm like a grandpa and very understanding. I paid private to see him because getting an appointment through the health system would have taken months. He was also kind enough to speed the surgery date, was able to get it after 3-4 months of wait. I was also allowed to not wake up with a catheter (phobia), and per request they gave me the video of the surgery on the USB I brought with me. The hospital is known for one of the best in Italy, and it showed. Not one person judged me or my age, everyone was kind and warm. I still remember the kind nurses and anesthesiologist who held my cheeks as I was going under.
Additional note from OP: in Italy we gained the right to sterilisation together with the right to abortion. It is covered by the Italian healthcare system SSN, you only need to be over 18 and able to consent for yourself. If any hospital they give an number of age or kids to be allowed the surgery, know its only the rules the doctors of the hospital made and its not law.
Pontedera Near Pisa Via Roma: Massimo Srebot Retired but still answers his mail, n. 147 - 56025 Pontedera, srebot2406@gmail.com. Gave me the number +39 0587273234 and said someone named Barbara takes appointments. He confirmed the hospital does bilateral salpingectomy
Rome: Stefano Vitali, San Camillo Forlanini Hospital, dottstefanovitali@gmail.com, Nr +39 392 086 3344, From past reviews online and my own experience, he is very slow at responding,my friend met him and he is very warm and welcoming. Found him in a live stream where he was advocating for women rights to abortion and sterilisation.
Pisa Roberta Tana Tel: 0587 273330 (Mon-Fri 12:00-13:30) The person on the call was kind and assured me many times that they do not discriminate based on age or kids, and the choice is fully of the personal and respected. Met with Roberta Tana, was the most professional person met so far. They asked me the reason why I want the surgery, asked me if I want the exams, did not push for them and allowed me not to get a transvaginal ultrasound. I only did the external. She made me sign the preo operation papers, and the waiting is a short 2 months ! After surgery : Amazing experience, most of the surgery staff were women!
From another forum: I emailed (info@myclinicriga.lv) My Clinic Riga to know if they offer either hysterectomy or bisalp. To my surprise, they do offer hysterectomy without the need for a medical emergency. I can request it and they will do it. The costs are a bit high though. Your consultation will be online (WhatsApp) for 80 euros. The doctor speaks both English and Russian. The surgery itself will cost from 2000 to 3000 laparoscopic. It will depend after the consultation. Stay in the hospital will be 150 Euros per night. NB this member has not achieved sterilisation from this hospital yet.
-1 My Clinic Riga I'm a single childfree women in my mid 20's trying to get a laparoscopic total hysterectomy purely for elective reasons and period pain but no medical reasoning. I paid for the 80euro consultation after letting them know exactly what I wanted done and my situation. The doctor offers removal of fallopian tubes for 1,500 euros and inserting a iud for 150 euros at no less than 29 years of age and he requires this as a first step before offering a hysterectomy which would be an additional 3,000 euros if you aren't satisfied with only having a iud for period management after a minimum of 1 year following the initial surgery. The consultation was awful and he spent half the time condescendingly going over bingos. He also started by going over personal questions which I know aren't relevant to the surgery and of course especially aren't relevant given he doesn't even offer hysterectomies for women under 30, so the whole consultation was a waste of my time, 80 euros, and was upsetting to hear him insist on bingos.
Dr Victor-Emmanuel JOURET +352 49 12 17. Vasectomy, 29yo. I haven't received the bills from the hospital for the anesthesia and a few other things yet but the doctor's fee was 500€, not covered by the Luxembourgish social security. No bingos but was insistant on making sure I knew it was non reversible and that it was my choice (aka not being pushed by my girlfriend).
See this thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/childfree/comments/9f8a0n/psa_vasectomy_rocks_3/
The doctor is not on the list, I live in Malta. Not sure how that list works, but it was this clinic: http://www.stannesclinic.com/
Should a Maltese person happen to read this, I can only give the highest recommendation to the clinic. Very efficient and friendly service.
I only had one consultation before the operation, and it was rather quick. I expected more intrusive questions, especially as Malta is very into Catholicism, but my worries were unfounded.
The doctor went over the procedure, and explained the unlikely bad scenarios (swelling, pain), and also reiterated a lot of stuff I already knew, having read about the procedure online (it is safe, it has no effect on sexual performance etc). Then he did a quick check and I was out in 10-15 minutes.
Alrijne Leiden Houtlaan 55, 2334 CK Leiden. Contact 071 582 8048 (Polikliniek Gynaecologie). Dec. 2023. Bisalp on 28-year-old redditor. I went to my GP and explained in a very calm and respectful way what my convictions were in terms of being CF and how I’ve never in my life wanted children, he asked me a couple of follow up questions and gave me a referral to Alrijne Hospital department of Gynecology. At Alrijne it was quite busy to make an appointment but made one with Dr. Joyce Williams, who was available at the time. Dr. Williams was very agreeable and open to hearing me out and super understanding and respectful of my choice. She explained that bisalp was a better choice for sterilization than other procedures and told me she would consult with the rest of the department because of my age. A week later I got a call saying they cleared me to go through with it and got placed in a waitlist. I waited for about a month to make an appointment for the actual surgery, I got a call and was able to choose the date. Dr. Williams wasn’t available to operate me on the date that I wanted so I got Dr. Suzanne Hazelbag who was truly so nice and gracious. She gave me a vibe of trust and no judgment. Everyone at the hospital was open to speaking English to me as I don’t speak Dutch very well, it was a very good experience.
Dr Nader Naderi at Den Haag. They never asked if I had kids, just if I was satisfied with how many I had. If you are over 30 years old it is super straightforward, under 30 has a few more hoops to jump through but they have all the info on their site.
Dr H. van Dongen and Dr. R.G.W. Nijman at the Groene Hart Ziekenhuis in Gouda performed removal of Fallopian tubes via laparoscopy for 30F.
Dr. Weinans, Gelderse Vallei Vivre in Ede. This doctor is a bit sceptical at first and will ask you all the questions and probably send you through to a psychological evaluation to make sure you are certain in your decision. He didn't refuse the procedure after I explained what I wanted and why. After some convincing he was very friendly.
Bergman Clinics in de Bilt and in Amsterdam. I (28f, married, no kids) recently had a bisalp at Bergman Clinics Hilversum (april 2024). The whole procedure was a breeze for me. I wrote a motivation letter to my GP, sent it in a digital consult, then made a physical appointment to discuss my letter. I got no bingoes and my GP sent my letter along with my referral. At the clinic I had an intake with the Physian Assistant. She also did not bingo me. She was happy with the letter as an opening point and was impressed I was so well informed. About the method, I said I preferred a bisalp and that was immediately accepted, she did not even tell me the other options. Later I learned they don't even have filshie clips in stock anymore and my impression was that the bisalp is their preferred procedure too. She did have to discuss my case with the team before planning me in (standard procedure under 30, nothing personal). Again, I was happy to have written that letter because it gave them my undiluted version of the story to discuss. I had a call with the doctor who would do my surgery and after that I was planned in. Again my doc said he was very happy with my letter because they have such a short time to get to know someone and their motives, and such a letter helps a lot. He did not bingo me at all. The facilities themselves are pretty good. Professional staff, and I got a private room for the day where my husband could chill out while waiting. He said the coffee was good :P The time between my GP appoinyment and surgery was 2 months. I was fully covered by insurance (not sure yet about 'eigen risico' but idc), otherwise it would have been €2000.
Dr. Andreas Thurkow at the Academisch Medisch Centrum. NB no longer sterilising young, unmarried women.
Dr. Klapwijk, located at the Vivre clinic in Hospital De Gelderse Vallei, Ede. NB Dr Klapwijk has retired.
Dr. Westerling, located at Medisch Centrum Tollius, Amersfoort. She was the one that gave me my referal at age 30. The "worst" bingo I got was a "We don't normally approve someone so young without kids" but beyond that I got all the information about the procedure. Managed to impress her about my knowledge and even being able to recite failure rates. And she provided two possible locations, in-house and the local hospital, so I could choose where I would want to have it. She told me that if their in-house wouldn't approve me I would get her written approval to go to the hospital. I chose to have mine performed by their in-house doctor, Dr. Kars (see below). She also told me that if there was doubt about your conviction they even provide "psychological screening" in-house to determine your mental state and maybe get you approved that way.
Dr. Kars, located at Medisch Centrum Tollius, Amersfoort. Specialises in male sterilisation. Has a "phone intake" before he approves patients. During the phone intake he did the usual questionare they are required to do and approved of my decision without any hassle. Also gave me the full list of information about how he does the procedure. When I got to my appointment I got a short recap of all the information just before the procedure and simply got told to remove my pants and lie down. Very friendly, funny and supportive man.
Dr. Oosterbaan, located at Jeroen Bosch Ziekenhuis, Den Bosch. I explained to him that I had no desire to have kids. We went through all the standard questions and he informed me that my case would have to be brought up to a council due me being under 30 (I'm 28). He would defend me and it looks like he won. This hospital works on a referral base though.
Dr. Vork, located at Alrijne ziekenhuis, Leiden. He had no problems sterilizing me at 26. He did have to discuss it with the other gynecologists because I was under the age of 30. Just a head's up: they did ask my to do a psychological evaluation with a psychologist in the hospital to make sure you don't do it because of coercion or psychological issues. I did tell them (after I passed the evaluation) it was condescending, the psychologist understood and was very understanding during the hour we talked.
Dr Brunekreef at huisartspraktijk Kiewiet,Zwolle. She referred me to a urologist at the Isala clinic (which I hear can be quite hard, especially here in the Dutch Bible belt). I don't remember which urologist I got (I'll try akig them later, but I don't think you get to choose the doctor anyway). It took a bit of smooth talking about why I didn't want kids (I exaggerated my family's already serious history of hereditary diseases), and he agreed. I think he was more afraid about me changing my mind later. I assured him that I won't come back to cry about it. He laughed and gave me the ok. Procedure was done in 20 minutes or so. My balls hurt for a few days, and that was it.
Dr. Bas Veersema Location: UMC (Utrecht) Procedure: Bilateral salpingectomy Me: 26 years old, not married and childfree. A friend of mine had recommended this doctor, I got a referral through my GP and dr. Veersema stated: most gyno's would say you're too young. I don't think that way. He just wanted to hear why I wanted it (I wrote down my arguments beforehand) and agreed to do the procedure within minutes. He even helped me with my insurance. NB this hospital previously had a policy introduced not allowing sterilisation for people under 35, this has since been overturned.
J. van de Ven. and A.P. Gijsens in het Elkerliek Ziekenhuis/ven,-de-heer-dr-j-van-de.html) in Helmond. Sterilisation for 21F. OP writes: I will say that my own doctor gave him a message that explained really well why I wanted to get sterilized wich was his reason to approve me since he mostly just gets message saying "Sterilization" without an explanation. So I would recommend to mention that you will need to give a bit more detail than just "I want it".
Dr. Serrarens-Janssen of the Elkerliek hospital in Helmond, I am happy to say that I just got my bilateral salpingectomy approved (24f, virgin, no boyfriend). Asked a lot of questions of course, and had me talk to a psychologist too, but no bingo's.
Dr. Oncko van Vierssen Trip and the whole team at Andros clinic (we visited their branch in Baarn), https://www.andros.nl/. For 23 male, they followed basic legal procedure for under 30: you need a GP referral, 1st visit they ask you if you're sure and they explain the procedure and recovery. No bingos. After that they schedule the actual vasectomy in about a month or two depending on how busy they are (and then the count check after 3 months). They were also great at following up and answering questions about recovery.
Dr. Marielle Bergmeijer, from Huisartesen Zuid Amersfoort, https://huisartsenamersfoortzuid.nl/, referral without questions or bingoes. Her only question was "are you sure?", and she did note that we need a private clinic as hospitals don't approve vasectomies under 30.
Public option in Norway is very limited but private sector can cover you.
Morten Andersen, C-Medical Moelv. Vasectomy, 26 Y/O, single, with no kids. 10-12 day wait time. Only question that was asked was basically just "Are you sure", and when I said "yes", that was enough. "Drop you clothes down under and get on the table". They also asked about relationship status and kids during the procedure, I answered honestly "single, no kids" and he said it was my choice, and mine alone. When I asked him, he said he usually does at least 1 vasectomy a week. And that one year he'd done about 450. Price: from 5750 NOK, minimum age for a vasectomy is 25 years old.
Sevat Løkensgard Molven Clinic was professional and friendly, still you need to fill in forms and be over 25. He did ask if i was sure but procedure table as just one meter away. They do not offer sperm count test after the vasectomy.You can book online
Dr Dariusz Dobrowolski He sees patients in Lodz, Poland at two locations: the Kopernika Hospital and the Pulsmed Hospital. I made an appointment at Pulsmed by calling the number listed on https://pulsmed.com.pl/ The procedure costs 2000 PLN + initial consultation 200 PLN + cost of Covid test before surgery 100 PLN + medications and dressings ~150 PLN. During the initial consultation there are NO questions about the reasons for the vasectomy, the doctor did not ask if I have children. He immediately explained the procedure and its consequences in a matter-of-fact manner. The procedure scheduled for a month later went very smoothly (3 hours in the hospital, 30 minutes of the procedure itself). After the procedure, he gave a private phone number to contact with any questions or concerns.
Dra Joana Faria - http://www.drajoanafaria.pt/en/. She has been wonderful with me and I had my bisalp earlier this year. She was able to get it covered by my medical insurance due to other conditions. But in Portugal it’s very rare to get this. The standard cost at a private hospital is €4500. Oct 2024.
Dr. Rui Prisco CUF Porto Hospital, Estrada da Circunvalação, 14341, 4100-180 Porto +351 220 039 000. Vasectomy on 31-year-old CF redditor. First appointment: 80€. Surgery, meds etc: 1.7k€. I did the procedure self-pay, without insurance. The whole thing was a piece of cake, the staff was amazing and I was sedated during the procedure so it was kind just a nap and a snap ( pun intended). Doctor Prisco didn’t push back and respected my choice. He was reachable through whatsapp, email, phone etc.
[Dr. Dorin Grigoraș] Centrul Medical Dr. Grigoras. Profesor universitar. Medic Şef Secţie Clinica II Obstetrică Ginecologie Sp.Cl. Municipal de Urg.Timişoara. Adress: Str. Calea Sagului Nr. 20 Telephone:0356 912 Had a friend ask for a favor with this doctor to do a tubal ligation, while I was 24 y.o. in 2011. He programmed me 4 days after the initial discussion. We had a long discussion about other contraceptive methods, bingos and such. I payed 350 euro and it was mentioned in my file that I had an ovarian cyst removed. We went through the insurance system on emergency protocol (cyst), but he also had available his own medical centre (more costly though). Surgery was done with laparoscopy as he is the best at it in the whole west part of the country. If you ever want to go to him for a tubal ligation, mention that there was a girl 9-10 years ago who he handled and she is happy with decision still and is married to a childfree sterile man - one of the bingoes was - "what if the love of your life wants children?" The line that sealed the deal was "I am getting this procedure done and some doctor will perform it on me, but I would rather have the best doctor do it, rather than a mediocre one." He helped me reach my goal and I hope he will help you too.
Iasi - Tiberiu Gireada Bilateral Salpingectomy, 32yo, September 2024, "He bingoed the hell out of me when I had the first appointment. He refused to use my insurance, so I had to save for 3 years. At the second appointment I was menstruating, so there was no consultation, we just scheduled the surgery. I had it one month later. Everything went well, I had no complications and no surprises. "
Dr.Francisco de Borja Caballero Borredá. He has his office at the Hospital Universitario Puerta de Hierro Majadahonda. You'll need to be registered at the Madrid's public health care system and Seguridad Social. First you will need to register at one of the two Centro de Atención Primaria de Majadahonda and choose hospital of reference to be Hospital Puerta de Hierro. In Madrid, you can freely choose your doctor and health care center
Then you need to ask for a consult with a Medico de familia, I recomend you Gimeno Santamaria, Maria Luz, she's a really nice woman. And them ask her/him to refer you to ginecologia and specific the name of the doctor. Ask him for "more permanent birth control".
Ramin Hajianfar, CLÍNICA GINECOLÒGICA SANTS - Carrer de Roger, 23, 08028 Barcelona, Spain. I'm 27 and he said "he doesn't mind doing the surgery for young people". However, all patients under 30 must go through a psychological exam. The first visit costs 50 euro and the exam costs another 50. This is subtracted from the surgery cost though, so you always pay 400 for the procedure. Additionally, you need to take a rapid COVID test when coming for surgery, this costs extra 70 (test with blood sample). The psychological exam and COVID test can be done elsewhere if you prefer but they offer them both in the same clinic. Most staff speaks English pretty well, only the psychiatrist didn't but one of the nurses translated for me. I have no genetic disease or anything like that, they were happy when I just told them I read about this a lot and considered all the options, and would rather adopt than have children of my own.
-1 CLÍNICA GINECOLÒGICA SANTS, another member phoned the clinic and was told they don't do tubal ligations.
Dr. med. Evgenia Bousouni. Practices at KSA, Aarau, Switzerland. Partial hysterectomy & bilateral salpingectomy. 24F, married for 3 years, both me & my husband are CF (we don’t have kids and we never want them). No bingos at all, neither by the doc nor the hospital staff. I had to wait for my first appt for 2 months, but had surgery 3 days after my initial consultation. Insurance covered all costs (it would‘ve cost approx $2k if I had paid out of pocket). The doc even offered a hysterectomy although I only asked for a bisalp („so I don’t have to deal with periods anymore“), so I felt taken care of & understood & respected for my wishes.
Dr. Irène Dingeldein. She did a bilateral salpingectomy on me (25yo), but required me to get an attest by a psychiatric before.
Dr. Med. Paolo Sommaruga Adress: Via Pietro Peri 2, 6900 Lugano, Ticino, Switzerland. Phone: +41.91.923.65.45 Email: studiosommaruga.lalia@gmail.com.
Frauenarzt Zürich Stadelhofen Dr. med. Florian C. Hirzel Stadelhoferstrasse 8, 8001 Zürich. I had tubal litigation with him, and then later partial hysterectomy with bisalp. He will ask you multiple times if you are sure and have you sign a paper, but he will do it because it's legally required in Switzerland. Surgery is usually scheduled quite fast in Klinik Hirslanden - both times I had to wait 2-3 months tops.
-1 Dr. med. Hirzel I went to him for a consult and it was very clear from the beginning, that he didn't like that he was on the wiki. After making some annoyed remarks, he said he would do the requested procedures but listed horrendous prices which were definitely made up. So it didn't feel like he was happy to do it.
Dr Roman Sokol, Trenčín. Dr Sokol did not question my decision to get a vasectomy at 32 years old without having children, providing my wife and I signed a piece of paper saying we understood what the vasectomy entailed. He speaks English and the 16 minute operation was absolutely painless and I needed no ice needed afterwards.
Gynpor Sliač s.r.o., SNP 9, 962 31 Sliač, www.gynpor.sk, 045 / 532 68 50, galad@gynpor.sk. UNCONFIRMED! To share your experience please edit this entry.
Mediklinik - CS Salvus s.r.o., ul. 29. Augusta 2, 934 01 Levice, 00421 903 463 425, info@mediklinik.sk. Confirmed to perform tubal ligation (likely with clips, NO bilateral salpingectomy or hysterectomy on elective basis) for 18+.
Gyneka Trenčín (http://www.gyneka.sk/) Dr.Jankovský respected my decision despite me not having any kids, he didn't want to hear any lengthy arguments, only that I am absolutely sure I want this. Excellent team and professional work, the operation was a breeze.
Basima Saadun. Nacka Sjukhus, about 30 minutes east of Stockholm. She simply made sure I understood the procedure (tubal ligation) was permanent, asked me my reasons for wanting to have the procedure done and had me sign the paper. Waiting times can be a bit long since it is an elective surgery. She was very friendly and didn't question my decision at all. My age was 25 at the time.
Anna Marie Kanold Also at Nacka Sjukhus gynolocology. Very straightforward. Asked questions about whether I understood that it was permanent, if I had children, and if my partner agreed with this choice, but didn't give any pressure and accepted all of my answers at face value. My age was 32.
Gastro Center Skåne for those living in Southern Sweden for vasectomies. You need to first get a Swedish "remiss", which is easy to get, just request one via the contact email on this page and motivate a little bit why you want one (this link applies for people living in Skåne, if you live in a different region, you need to find the page specific to your area). NOTE: you must be 25 years or older in Sweden to get sterilized. You can get sterilized at an earlier age, but only really if there are true medical reasons for doing so. According to Swedish law, you can not be denied sterialization after the age of 25. It helps to be able to articulate why you want to be sterilized, however the law is quite clear that clinics and doctors break the law if they deny you after the age of 25. I got a time at the Gastro clinic where the doctor was very much pro childfree, and then could get the operation done very fast only a few days thereafter. They use the scalpel version of the operation, cut out a decent chunk of the vas def, burn the tips and sew the ends and put a couple disolvable stiches the close up the testicles. Both doctors and nurses were extremely nice, helpful and supportive before, during and after the procedure. If you want the non-scalpel version (extremely difficult to find in Sweden), a redditor tipped me to Dalslands Kliniken as they mention on their page that they do the no-scalpel procedure. I do not know clinics for women, however you have a legal right to the operation, so just find the page to get a "remiss" in your region after you turn 25 and you will get a time to talk to a doctor guaranteed. Hopefully this info helps someone!
Doctor Isa Reuterwall approved me for sterilization at the women's clinic at Västmanland County Hospital in Västerås, Sweden (tel:+4621173800) https://www.1177.se/hitta-vard/kontaktkort/Kvinnoklinikens-mottagning-Vastmanlands-sjukhus-Vasteras/ No bingos, only double-checked I was sure and knew all the options. The surgery was performed by doctor Helena Engström, same hospital, who offered me different options and recommended bilateral salpingectomy. No bingos from the rest of the staff. Everybody was nice and supportive. Got approved at 34 years old. Surgery at 35. Unmarried, no children. Must be 25 years or over unless the surgery is for gender affirming reasons.
Anyone in the UK seeking a vasectomy can go direct to BPAS: https://www.bpas.org/. They will do it privately (self referral) or for free if your NHS doctor refers you to the service.
Dr. Martin Kittel, No-Scalpel Vasectomy. We did have to pay up-front for this, and we had to fill out 2 questionnaires: one for being from out of the country, and the other because we don't have (or want) kids. Just be honest and up-front; our choices were not questioned here, they just want to be sure that you're sure as they go on a case-by-case basis. The doctor was excellent and very professional, and they have a great staff.
Mrs Kalaivani Lingham, Consultant Gynaecologist/Urogynaecologist. Consults out of The Burton Clinic in Burton on Trent, Nuffield Hospital Derby in Derby and Spire Little Aston Hospital in Sutton Coldfield. Her secretary's number is 01283 566 333 ext 4378 to make an appointment. I saw her for bleeding problems for nearly a year before I decided I just wanted a hysterectomy and be done with it. She is very nice and very professional, and only asked the obligatory 'are you sure?'. She told me she respects people who chose not to have children as they've put a lot more thought into it than most people who have them, she's never had anyone she's sterilised come back regretting it, and although she has children herself said she had them when she was 'young and naive' and if she'd known then what she knows now she wouldn't have had them. I saw her privately at the Nuffield using my private medical insurance, I don't know if she does NHS cases at Burton or Sutton Coldfield.
Dr Austin Ugwumadu Consultant Gynaecologist/Obstetrician. Works for the NHS in St Georges Hospital Tooting (South West London). Very lovely man, asked me questions for about 5 minutes and then said he'd sterilise me. Says that women should be able to decide if they want children or not and that he wouldn't say no to someone purely because of her age (obviously you need to be over 18), won't even ask you if you have a partner or if they're OK with you having it done as to him it doesn't matter. Didn't utter a single bingo or allude to them. Does them mainly as day cases but if you have other health problems they will admit you overnight to be safe. From my appointment to operation date was less than 3 months (would be sooner but I have to spend the night in hospital)
-1 Dr Ugwumadu "I contacted one of the doctor of the list and his secretary told me that he doesn't sterilise women and won't even consider doing it to this option to someone as young as me (I'll be 29 soon)". This may be a case of a secretary rather than the doctor being childfree unfriendly.
Mr Ian Cameron works from Gateshead Queen Elizabeth Hospital for the NHS. He agreed to a bisalp with no issues after checking my understanding of the procedure. He mentioned at the time of surgery he had another 8 people on the list for the same surgery for the Protector Study. The protector study is for people with BRCA1/2 who are at higher risk, has the option of no surgery, bisalp with or without a delayed oophorectomy or a bisalp and oophorectomy at the same time. He agreed to the surgery regardless of whether I wanted to be part of the study. It is as yet unclear if Mr Cameron will sterilise medically healthy people.
Bournemouth - Mr Ash Monga and Dr Keith Louden Nuffield Health Care, Bournemouth. Bilateral Salpingectomy on 26yo, done privately. "The consultations cost £200 a pop, and with the surgery and one night stay the whole thing cost £5000."
Bristol - Dr Doron Boone. Fascial interposition vasectomy completed. 32yo, separated with no kids. Sent an enquiry through the website and was phoned back within 24hrs. Short conversation with the doctor then was emailed FAQ information and booking form. Wait to appt was less than 1 month. Private procedure so cost £695 (July 2022). 20min appt with counsellor before procedure to check in, but was very supportive. Procedure itself took 15mins and was only mildly unpleasant.
Birmingham - Birmingham Women's Hospital performed bilateral salpingectomy on 34-year-old redditor. Covered by the NHS.
Cheltenham - Dr Vellayan. The name of the hospital is Nuffield Health Hospital Cheltenham and address is Hatherley Ln, Cheltenham GL51 6SY and phone number is 01242246500. The name of the procedure done is Bilateral Salpingectomy. I’m 23 years old single, Childfree and an international student studying in the UK. I had to register through self pay because I don’t have health insurance in private hospitals the price is £4497. I first registered to be sterilised in NHS however the NHS extended my waiting list from 12 months to 16 months which was unlikely that I will still be here in the UK which lead me to seek private hospital. I had made this appointment within 2 months after consultation with Dr Vellayan which that is consultation with her on 9th of October and then surgery date was initially 30th of November but I had to change into late afternoon because of the train strikes which they were very flexible and understanding and even offered an overnight stay with a delicious meal and I was beyond happy. I decided to do it in 7th December to have time to recover over the holidays which is good. Procedure took place less than an hour because I woke up one hour later. I highly recommend 10/10 would do it again. Best of luck to you all. Your body, your choice make the best decision for you because you got one life.
Coventry - Dr Smruta Shanbhag, BMI Meriden Hospital Walsgrave Hospital Clifford Bridge Road Coventry CV2 2LQ 024 7766 47064. I had an bilateral salpingectomy by this lovely doctor in 2019. She listened to me (20F), didn’t bingo me, said as long as I signed the consent to procedure form she was happy to proceed. I used my health insurance but she will do some work on the NHS too.
Farnborough - Miss Prietzel-Meyer. You can also contact her PA Joyce Carey Email: joyce@surreygynae.co.uk Number: 01483 363034. I'm 25 , I have a bf of 5 years and no children. Really friendly/understanding, she goes through the typical questions of why you don't want children so she can just have it down on the system. Wasn't too fussed taking my tubes as she said IVF is always an option. £200 consultant fee and £3500-£5500 (higher price) depending if you need to stay over night. Saw her early Dec 2022 and she offered to do operation in Feb 2023. Based in UK Guilford/Farnham/Ascot/Frimley.
Hampshire - Mr Gardiner at Spire Southampton has just agreed to give me a bilateral salpingectomy with no conditions and no push back. £6k for bilateral salpingectomy, waitlist is less than three months from appointment to procedure.
Dorset - Dr Webster. He has already approved and performed a bi-salp on me.
Leeds - DR A Burkill, Priory View Medical Centre. Scalpel vasectomy under local anaesthesia and tying the vas deferens instead of cauterising. Unmarried, age: 24, 0 children, male. Had to get a GP referral to be granted the vasectomy. After that had a short 20 minute call with practitioner to verify I definitely wanted it, as well as explaining the procedure in all detail with possible after effects. Appointment for procedure was booked 60 days from initial phone call and had to sign consent and liability forms. Offers sedation for anxious patients.
Leeds - MSI Choices. March 2023. Vasectomy on CF redditor. Only had to have a quick consultation for being under 25, but besides that, really faced no hassle for my age.
London - Miss Jilly Lloyd, Consultant Gynaecologist/Obstetrician. She works with the NHS out of Guy's and St Thomas' NHS Foundation Trust in London. She is very nice and professional and made me feel very respected - my choice was not questioned. She informed me about how the operation would be performed, that is is intended to be irreversible and that there is a small chance of failure. My young age and nulliparity never came into the conversation. I had my pre-operative assessment for tubal ligation the same day. Overall, amazing doctor.
London - Michael Stafford, Chelsea and Westminster hospital, Chelsea, London, U.K. www.chelwest.nhs.uk. Procedure: laparoscopic bilateral female sterilisation, single 32 year old female with no children. Clip method used. No choice of type of laparoscopy given. Fully covered under the NHS. This is the only female sterilisation covered by the NHS. Current waitlist : 3-9 months. After years of trying to get drs to listen I finally convinced one to refer me to a gynaecology department. The doctor I spoke to was kind, not condescending, and while he did clearly have a list of offensive questions, it didn’t feel personally negative. He approved me right away and wrote a letter to request sterilisation. The staff on site on the day were amazing on the day! No odd question and no second guessing. The procedure it self just happened. Full general and local anaesthesia was used and I woke up feeling good. Sadly after 30 minutes I had some reactions to the anaesthesia which was vomiting and I couldn’t pee for about 5 hours which is rare and they almost had to do a catheter but it was fine for me to go home same day. They gave me codeine for pain and laxatives. Due to the anaesthesia I felt less well then expected, as though I was getting over the flu. I went back to an office job after five days and had normal discomfort and was more tired then usual. Stitches healed after a day or two. Amazing experience and I would highly recommend the gynaecology team at Chelsea Westminster hospital.
London - Ms Nadine Di Donato, Consultant Gynaecologist and Laparoscopic Surgeon. She works with The Harley Street Clinic in London. Her medical secretary told me she was happy to see me (early 20s) about sterilisation but advised she would have to follow the NICE guidelines. I sent in my binder prior to the appointment. Ms Di Donato was incredibly nice and friendly and made me feel validated and respected for the first time in my pursuit of sterilisation. I could not recommend her more. She was fine to sterilise me but because of my age I was referred to her colleague for a second opinion. They were very nice and respectful as well and happy to support my decision. Surgery was scheduled quickly and went without a hitch. Words cannot describe how grateful I am to have found this amazing doctor.
London - Dr. Stephan Ramnarine, with consultations with Mr. Edward Johnson and Mr. Kevin Hayes, London - St George's Hospital, Tooting. Bilateral Salpingectomy on a 33yo. The procedure was fully covered by the NHS, and all the specialists I consulted with were extremely professional - they took their time to ensure I was certain about the decision, but were very polite and respectful of my autonomy. The full wait time between seeing my GP for the initial referral and the procedure was about 8 months. I wasn't encouraged / asked to get an IUD, or to try any other forms of birth control.
Kent - Mr Ben Eddy. Male, 29, Kent UK. Scalpel Vasectomy, paid about £1000 privately, inclusive of subsequent sperm analysis and follow ups. Professional, courteous, friendly, and not a single bingo. When asked if my age was a problem, he replied “not a problem with me, you’re an adult and it’s entirely your decision.” Made sure I was comfortable and I wasn’t being forced into it, and did a bang-up job of the procedure.
Manchester - St Mary's Hospital Gynaecology NHS. Feb. 2024. Bisalp on redditor, performed by Dr. Rukiye Fusun Sirkeci. At my consultation I was adamant that I wanted a bisalp specifically. I tried to ask for a partial hysterectomy so I wouldn't have to deal with periods anymore as mine have been heavy & painful, and was talked down to an ablation with the possibility of a partial hysterectomy in future if the ablation isn't successful. To my absolute shock (and delight) it was agreed.
Manchester - MSI UK Manchester (M65QX) was the center I got my vasectomy at, but they seem to operate UK wide and explicitly say they don't reject anyone based on age, children, or marital status. They offer NHS and private treatment (GBP550). Everyone at the treatment center was very respectful and accommodating, despite being 20 minutes late, didn't cancel my appointment. No judgement from the nurse or the surgeon, I was treated like any other patient. The nurse said they believe that it's entirely my choice. My referral (needed if I wanted the NHS to pay for it) was made by Fallowfield medical center (M14 6YL), Dr. Smith was respectful of my opinion and didn't make me feel judged, she just wanted to make sure that I won't change my mind, and I knew what I was getting into.
Nottingham - Dr Shilpa Deb, Spire Nottingham https://www.spirehealthcare.com/consultant-profiles/dr-shilpa-deb-c5208007/ Laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy Late 20s, transmasculine In long-term relationship but not married No children. Paid for privately following self-referral. Procedure cost £4,180 plus £200 for initial consultation. Dr Deb was very professional and respectful of my autonomy, no issue with my choice of bisalp over tubal ligation/clips when I explained my reasoning. No bingos (apart from one comment about me being young) but very emphatic about establishing that I was 100% certain both in consultation and pre-surgery, made sure I was aware of procedure's irreversibility and unquantifiable small possibility of failure. All hospital staff were friendly and respectful. Waiting list c.6 weeks
Mr Ketan Gajjar, based at Nottingham Spire Hospital, Tollerton Lane, Nottingham, England, UK (I saw him privately through self-referral, although he also does NHS work at NUH). He performed a total hysterectomy with bilateral salpingectomy for me (age 33, single, no children - I did have other issues with bleeding and pain, hence the hysterectomy as well). The surgery itself and follow up appointment as a self-payer cost £8,500, plus £400 for two appointments with him prior. He was very friendly, asked about my plans for children and immediately accepted my answer of I did not want them and at no point was it questioned again. He asked if I had tried other methods of BC and when I said yes, he immediately moved on to offering hysterectomy + BSO without any issues. From first appointment to surgery was 4 weeks and the procedure was very smooth.
Oxford - Ms Lee Lim Beech Road, Headington, Oxford, OX3 7RP. Note: you do not require a referral from a GP to access Ms. Lim’s services. April 2023. Bisalp on 32 year old CF woman. Doctor was willing to be educated on the dangers of Filshie clips, and to provide bisalp for sterilization instead – one of the few in the UK to do so. She has been nothing but amazing and supportive of my CF choices.
Runcorn - Dr Kay, Halton Hospital, Hospital Way, Palacefields, Runcorn WA7 2DA. Scalpel vasectomy, 19yo. We had to request this through our GP surgery, and they referred us to the service. We had to have 1 telephone "counselling session" which we both had to be present for to see if they thought we were suitable, they asked us questions like what if we change our minds, what if we split up and why didn't I (female) get my tubes tied instead (wish that was an option!). Once they were happy that we understood that it was unlikely it could be reversed and the risks involved, they booked us in there and then. The lady who did the counselling session was a bit condescending but was no match for my husband, who had prepared answers for any questions they might have asked. On the day we had a little pre op where they informed us of the risks, aftercare, and the follow-up tests to check that it was successful. No one questioned our age or our decision. He had to wait for 30mins in recovery alone (the nurse came out to let me know he was OK) and then we were on our way. I think we were less than an hour in the hospital.
Dr Glenn in Belfast at the Kingsbridge Private Hospital. Performed a bisalp on me at 33, not married and no kids. Cost was £7400, included replacement of Mirena coil and follow up appointment. Initially referred by GP to NHS for the procedure with no bingos but the wait list was at capacity. OP was referred from the Clifton Street Surgery
Edinburgh Dr. Cameron Martin. 0131 316 2530 cameronwmartin@yahoo.co.uk He works with the NHS out of the Royal Infirmary in Edinburgh, but also will do salpingectomy through Spire. Cost was £3100. Did salpingectomy on 30-year-old woman who had to travel to get the surgery. Was willing to do screening over the phone. He will want you to be clear about what you're asking for, so do your research first. He's a very pleasant doctor to work with, and is very thorough. User experience
+1 Dr Cameron Martin. Performed a bisalp on me at 27 without hesitation and without any bingos. He is clearly knowledgeable and keeps up to date with scientific literature. Very friendly and uncomplicated. It cost me around £3900 including any pre- and aftercare appointments.
+1 Dr. Cameron Martin. Bisalp on 22-year-old redditor. He was absolutely amazing and from the first consultation was so good, completely non judgemental and was just such a friendly person who put me completely at ease.
+1 For Dr. Martin in Edinburgh, Scotland. 24, married. Entirely accepting of my decision to have a bisalp (procedure carried out May 2023), no bingos. Traveled from Ireland to Scotland, quick zoom meeting and then was happy to schedule.
+1 Dr Cameron Martin, 27F, single & no children. Complete bilateral salpingectomy done August 2023. Turn around time between consultation & procedure was less than a month. Travelled from Ireland for the consult & then procedure. Done privately, total cost was ~£4.9k which incl. overnight stay. 0 bingos whatsoever. Got asked what made me choose CF life once and that was to distract me while the anaesthesiologist was getting me prepped in the theater. Fantastic team & a great, smooth experience. Really highly recommend.
Jersey, Channel islands - Dr. John Maxey @ Cleveland Clinic - http://www.clevelandclinic.co.uk/Contact-Us/. 21/M/CF - Doctor was reasonable and initially took a little persuading, we compromised on a 6 month cool down and I am now booked in for a vasectomy.
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+1 Vasectomy, top end of tubes cauterized and covered in surrounding tissue Lower end of tubes snipped short and left open. 33yo, 14 year relationship and no kids
Dr Marie - Marie Stopes International - WA/Perth MSI clinic Midland. Tubal ligation- no problem getting even though no children, not married, <35yrs.
NB Marie Stopes has the following requirements for patients seeking vasectomy, "'Are you under 30 years of age with no children? All clients under 30 years of age with no children need to be referred directly to counselling prior to the booking being confirmed. '" Male sterilization/vasectomy info is at https://www.vasectomy.org.au/.
+1 Marie Stopes, Melbourne (East St Kilda), 31M, Vasectomy done with local anesthetic. Friendly staff, surgeon uses open ended method and close towards the vas, which (supposedly) is less likely to cause congestion pain.
-1 Marie Stopes: Vasectomy was denied based on age (21) by doctor despite positive assessment from in-house psychologist.
-1 Marie Stopes (Sydney): I told the nurse I wanted tubal ligation. She dismissed the idea, and pushed hormonal contraceptives. The surgeon saw that I asked about tubal ligation. As he read my file in front of me, he literally scoffed and mumbled, "well that's not going to happen". I don't remember his name, but he made me so uncomfortable that I almost walked out. n.b. Marie Stopes only offers tubal ligation in Western Australia.
Western Australia
Perth - Dr Todd Ladanchuk from WA Gynae & Surgery who didn’t bingo me once about my decision and after a quick discussion to confirm I’d considered my other BC options he had me booked in the next month. 30NB. I wanted a laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy (and got that) and Dr Ladanchuk agreed that that is the most common version of sterilisation he does nowadays. Dr Ladanchuk also has a great bedside manner and was super comfortable to talk to about all the questions you might have! I also live in regional WA and was able to organise everything through phone consults and email. I used my private health insurance so I went to Hollywood Private Hospital and paid only my insurance excess for the hospital. The surgeon fees were $200 post-rebate for the consult and ~$900 out of pocket for the surgery, which included my Implanon removal at the same time as my sterilisation. Anaesthetist fees were $400. All of the hospital staff were delightful and I didn’t get bingoed once. LGBTQIA+ side note: Hollywood Private’s computer system allows for gender neutral honorifics so I got to have Mx. on my name band!
Perth - Catherine Harris, Suite 1 60 Arnisdale Road Duncraig, WA 6023. +61 (08) 92433500. I am 36 years old. She asked if I was sure and when I said yes didn’t push any further or require any other psych appts etc. I was able to book in on the spot and she does not charge any health fund gap, does require you to have top cover though. Very friendly and non judgemental. Wait time for appt was 1 month, surgery booked for 3 weeks from now.
Perth - Dr. Phillip Snowball - Perth Vasectomy clinic - http://www.perthvasectomyclinic.com.au/ If you're particularly young (18 or so) he likes you to have psychiatric evaluation, which I found was easy to obtain. The psychiatrist I saw was a man called Kevin O'Daly in Fremantle. Dr Michael Beckett also does vasectomies here. His says he has no problem performing them for any male over 30 so you should have zero trouble if you're over 30.
Perth - Dr. Michael Beckett - Beaumaris Family Practice - https://beaumarisfp.com.au/doctors/dr-michael-beckett/ I went as a 30 year old and after a very friendly chat about him making sure I knew what I was getting myself in for, confirming that I really didn't want kids, and I had a rough idea of what I wanted in life, he basically said that at 30 I am adult and can make my own decisions
Perth - Dr. Ann Yoong - 133 Edward St Perth/St John of God Mt Lawley - https://www.sjog.org.au/find-a-doctor/search-results/y/o/o/n/yoong-annfuien-mtlawley 29/F, went in for severe PCOS and chronic bleeding. She recommended an IUD right off the bat without any prompting. She bulk bills whenever possible, and I only wound up paying about $235 for my visit to her, the short hospital stay and all following check ups. Keep note, she's a little bit quirky, but very friendly and easy to talk to. Also sex-worker friendly!
Perth - Dr. Roger Perkins - Suite 7/10 McCourt St, West Leederville WA 6007 - https://rogerperkins.com.au/ 25/F, I received a referral from two doctors from South Street Family Star Medical: Dr Vasanth Govindappa and Sherina De Almeida. Almeida was more reluctant to agree, but I refused to budge and she gave me the referral. Roger Perkins was quite reluctant to immediately agree to doing the surgery, and required me to see Suzanne Midford first. Midford is a clinical psychologist specialising in adoption situations. After the assessment came back perfectly fine, obviously, Perkins readily agreed to the surgery. As a surgeon, I believe he is one of the best: I basically had no pain during recovery from the inscisions or gas. I took one Panadeine Forte the afternoon after the operation, and literally no other pain killers during recovery because I felt zero pain, just physical discomfort from feeling uncomfortably full. The hoops I had to jump through just to get him as my surgeon: worth it.
Perth - Dr. Rose McDonnell completed a bilateral salpingectomy (tube removal) for me at the age of 36. I’m childfree by choice, never been pregnant. She did require a psychiatric evaluation / report first and had a substantial gap free. She pushed contraception but I refused it all (medical reasons for not being suitable for it). She also said “at least you can have IVF when you change your mind”. But she did it at least. At least she didn’t ask what my partner thought about it. This doctor will likely be unfriendly to younger members and should be used with caution.
Dr. Kathrine Penrose - Murdoch Gynecology - https://www.drkatherinepenrose.com.au/ - Really lovely doctor who helped me get diagnosed with PCOS as well as performed my bilateral salpingectomy. She first said no to the sterilisation because of my age (21) but I came back with a letter from my psychiatrist verifying my autism and supporting my choice of sterilisation after which she agreed. During the discussion she said that she’s absolutely sterilised women under 30 years old but was very hesitant to do a 21 year old but that my condition made me a unique case. Overall a great experience with her and have I since recommended her to friends and family seeking a good gyno.
Dr Steven Harding (public, approx 2 year wait at KEMH)
Dr Mark Sillender (requires Psych assessment)
Victoria
Boronia - Dr Geoffrey McCallum, (03) 9761 0444 http://www.obs-gyn.com - performed bi-salp on the 11th November 2020 on 29/30 year old without issues.
+1 Geoffrey McCallum (http://www.obs-gyn.com/). I'm single with no children. I went private and since I don't have insurance it cost about 5k. Geoff didn't bingo me at all, just asked a few times if I'd change my mind. All I said was no and didn't expand on it and he was happy with that. From my first appointment with him he had me booked in for my sterilization on the day! My GP did mention on my referral that I've been wanting for a long time and Geoff seemed to respond positively to that. October 2024.
Melbourne - Dr. Anthony Woodward, Bilateral Salpingectomy, 28yo, Very respectful and supportive. I was prepared to be very assertive, but there was no need. It was an easy conversation and we also talked about how the medical system generally treats women's autonomy.
Melbourne - www.drsnip.com.au - All the relevant information is on their website. Come prepared with either a letter from a local GP or Psychologist stating you are of sound mind or be well prepared to justify your decision to the surgeon himself. He's a nice guy but is more then willing to interrogate you beforehand just to cover himself legally.
Melbourne - Dr Judith Fleming - Epworth Cliveden Private Consulting Suites, East Melbourne : 03 9419 3477. Regional location: Colac Hospital (Colac VIC 3250) : 03 419 3477. I had my consult at Cliveden and will be having my procedure there in late November. Very respectful of an individuals self-autonomy and being able to make such a choice but want to make sure you are aware a hysterectomy is permanent. I will be just a month shy of 33 at the time of my procedure. *Update 15 March 2022 - Dr Fleming may be retiring in June.
Ballarat - Dr Kate Stewart - fully supports bodily autonomy and is happy to talk to women seeking sterilisation.
Melbourne - Dr Jude McNaughton - Jean Hailes For Women's Health (Clayton). 03 9562 7555. I got an IUD at the age of 25. She offered other contraceptive options but ultimately respected my choice and was happy to replace with another one in 5 years time when it expires. Not sure about sterilisation but she is open minded and respectful. 15 March 2022 - Dr McNaughton may have retired - currently waiting on confirmation.
Mornington - Dr Sarah Roberts at the Bays Hospital in Mornington, Victoria, Australia. I was approved at 28. I am a cis female, and was single at the time. The doctor did explore other options for contraception (that was mainly based on some medical problems I had), but accepted me. I got this done under the public health system, and had both fallopian tubes removed. I waited about a year. I spoke to the other surgeons and they were willing to approve people 30 and older - mine was a borderline case.
+1 Mornington - Dr Sarah Roberts approval gained for a bisalp 26f, currently with a partner of 4 years (unmarried), and am childfree. I was initially facing a month-long wait for an appointment, but luck was on my side. Admin reached out, offering a cancellation, and within a week, I found myself heading to see Dr. Roberts. Armed with a 50-page sterilization binder, I thought I'd need it, but Sarah, who greeted me warmly, was already intrigued. She asked about my partner's stance and potential changes of heart, to which I confidently replied. After discussing risks and the procedure, Sarah acknowledged my extensive research and commitment, promptly scheduling my operation at her private hospital. Thanks to my private insurance, I could choose any Tuesday for the procedure. It's set for two months from now, slightly delayed due to a pre-operation marathon.
Melbourne - A/Prof Alex Ades (03) 9347 7100. He is a very nice and thoughtful doctor. Will not provide permanent contraception for under 25's. +2.
-1 Dr. Ades. Denied sterilisation of 25-year-old CF redditor with the following message: We appreciate you reaching out and whilst we are understanding of your situation, Professor Ades prefers not to perform sterilisation procedures.
Melbourne - Dr Alex Polyakov - Suite 4/320 Victoria Parade, East Melbourne VIC 3002. 03 9486 0677. Sterilised a 28 year old with clips after reinforcing a couple of times that it would be permanent. Update (March 2020): I (20) was refused Bisalp, saying I was too young, he said that he usually only does 25+ years old, bonus points for having a husband.
Melbourne - Dr Emma Readman - https://dremmareadman.com.au/ She is a really nice and caring gynae, she also does a lot of pain and endo/ adenomyosis management. From that point of view, she likes to preserve fertility but she is also really open to discussing contraception, including sterilisation. I (20) went to her for a Bilateral Salpingectomy in March 2020, She was pretty open about it and we spent a long time discussing it, the end result was that she was happy to continue to talk to me about it and said to have another talk to her in 4 or 5 months and then if I was still sure, she would book me in. I feel that if I had persisted with her, she would have booked me in from the second consultation. Be careful, her receptionist will probably bingo you, but its worth it.
-1 Dr Readman, "She was almost combatative with me regarding a hysterectomy and even after my endometriosis surgery which showed signs of adenomyosis she completely refused to acknowledge my request for a hyster and concerns regarding my uterus. "
+1 Dr Readman, Procedure performed early 2022 - total laproscopic hysterectomy including removal of tubes. Left hosp next day (at 27yo, approved at 26). Unmarried with bf of 4 yrs. Was approved after initial consult (however i had also pre-sent a letter of support by a psychiatrist - during consult i was told this is generally a requirement they asked for before approving such procedures). She was respectful, non-judgemental, understanding and incredibly caring. I would highly recommend. Hysterectomy was elective/for contraceptive purposes with no underlying medical issues.
Dr Andrew Stirling - 118 Wellington Parade, East Melbourne VIC 3002. I'm 23 yrs old male, in a relationship, childfree. Did the procedure after a quick consultation & I didn't have any problems. Dr didn't have any qualms about performing the procedure on a young guy & if your single or childfree all you have to do is sign an extra consent form to proceed. Dr talked about how he has had young patients & childfree couples in the past.
Professor Thomas Jobling. Completed total hysterectomy + bisalp July 2020 (during second lockdown!). I was 29F, male partner (unmarried), both childless. Very knowledgeable, down to earth and realistic. Private, OOP cost was ~$200 for consultation and ~$3k for surgery (with PH). Mainly does gyn oncology and fertility preservation, but very open to sterilisation for pain management. I had ongoing uterine spasms and pain (no endo found) + PCOS and recurring torsions. I did find he would talk over me or ignore what I said at times so having my (male) partner there was great for emotional support and another voice. Also a couple of bingos but mostly tongue in cheek and/or emphasising permanence. Use with caution as this doctor may not be willing to move forward on a purely elective basis.
Anthony Woodward, Braybrook/Carlton North VIC Australia, Bilateral Salpingectomy, 28yo.
Queensland
Dr Brad Armstrong of Greenslopes Obstetrics and Gynaecology. He performed a bilateral salpingectomy on me (26f, married, completely childfree - never had/wanted children). Visiting this practice is expensive as they don't bulk bill, but you do get some money back through the Medicare rebate. He will make you get a second opinion consult and see a psychologist if you are young and have no children, but if these come back fine he will do the procedure.
+1 Dr Brad Armstrong, Greenslopes Obstetrics and Gynaecology, Brisbane. He performed a bilateral salpingectomy on me (30F, straight, with long term partner, no children). He was professional and respectful. Dr Armstrong took his time in hearing my justification and took copies of my supporting notes. He required a second opinion with another OB/GYN and a psychological evaluation, both done through his practice. I attended 4 appointments in total before I could book the procedure, but found all the staff to be super lovely and supportive.
Dr Amie Hanlon Greenslopes Gynaecology Brisbane, Queensland Australia. Dr Hanlon is kind, approachable, and LGBT+ friendly. She is happy to discuss all forms of sterilisation and backs the decisions of her patients. She is heavily booked which could impact availability, and the clinic is private meaning fees are high even with the Medicare rebate, though for the kind of care that Amie gives, I'd highly recommend. I am 30 yr old in the process of booking my bilateral salpingectomy.
Cairns - Alice Dobinson, Laparoscopic Bilateral Salpingectomy, 37yo. Alice was compassionate and accepting of my choices. She did run through the risks and alternate options for long term sterilisation, including regret, IUD etc as is appropriate for any elective surgery, but did not bingo, push or attempt to change my mind. Time from first consult to surgery was approx 6 months. Total cost was around $4-5k as I did not have private cover and went through private hospital and paid out of pocket. The only issue was that her office triage referrals based on urgency and initially I could not get an appointment for the procedure. The only reason I got in was because I had a later referral for an abnormal pap smear, however if you are willing to wait, you will eventually get an appointment. Cannot recommend enough, lovely doctor and an example of how OB/GYN should be towards childfree people.
Brisbane - Dr Graham Tronc - bilateral salpingectomy.
Brisbane - Dr. Sheehan Queensland Vasectomy he's very professional, respectful and doesn't care about age as long as you're 18 and are confident in your decision. PH: 07 3180 1525 Address: 298 Gilchrist Ave
Brisbane - Dr Greg Silver of Vasectomy Clinic Brisbane
Brisbane - Dr Stephanie Robinson of Chatswood Road Medical Centre in Daisy Hill : 07 3208 8622 : She is qualified to insert IUDs in the office and there is a medicare covered portion for the procedure, the office also bulk bills. Happy to discuss all birth control options, regardless of age or marital status etc. She is an amazingly sweet lady and thorough GP as well.
Brisbane - Dr Sumar at the Kallangur Medical Centre. I had my Implanon changed out with her and she gave me details for the Salisbury Clinic (listed above) She is fantastic, would highly recommend.
Brisbane - Dr Robert Burns, operates at multiple locations in Brisbane. I saw him at Aspley Medical Centre and had a very positive experience. He admitted me for a vasectomy after one consultation and only asked that I get somebody who has known me for a long time to contact him to confirm my stable mental state. He was very open and clear and supportive in discussions and was not judgmental in any way.
Brisbane - Dr Jamie Friebe, North West Private Hospital in Everton Park. Happy to perform a tubal ligation at 26 after two consultations. Also performed a tubal for my friend at 30. No major issues, asked why I wanted the procedure done, asked how my partner felt (but no official partner consent required), asked about other BC I'd tried. Was overall friendly and accommodating 🙂
+1 Dr Friebe, Tubal ligation and endometrial ablation, 37, married long term, child free. 2 week wait for initial consult with a referral from my GP. Surgery a week after consult. Approx: out of pocket after insurance and Medicare: $500 for gyno surgery fees, $695 for anaesthesia, $750 hospital.
-1 Dr. Friebe March 2023. Was happy to do a tubal ligation but refused to consider a bilateral salpingectomy on anyone younger than 40, citing that the tubal ligation, whilst considered permanent, was more reversible than the salpingectomy. Also refused to discuss the failure rate and instead cited his own success rate.
-1 Dr Jamie Friebe, Brisbane. He was happy to perform a tubal ligation on me after two consultations. I provided evidence about a bilateral salpingectomy being more effective. He agreed that tubal ligations are flawed however ultimately refused to provide a bisalp based on the finality of the procedure and my age (30F). While he does offer tubals I did not feel like he fully supported my reproductive autonomy.
Brisbane Southside - "Salisbury Day Surgery" Providing numerous services for women, including contraception, terminations, sterilisations. Doctor over the phone was absolutely lovely and there was zero judgment regarding conversations about being sterilised. Very professional. Pushing women's rights to be childfree. http://www.salisburydaysurgery.com.au/~~ **The Salisbury Day Surgery is CLOSED 5/5/2020
Brisbane (multiple locations in town) - "The Vasectomist" Dr. Dick Beatty, https://thevasectomist.com.au/
Brisbane - Dr Darren Po at Redland Hospital in Cleveland. Said he was pro choice in my appointment with him and he didn't ask any reasons why, just made sure that I understood it is permanent.
Dr Kate McDonald of Springwood General Practice can insert IUDs and was very respectful of my CF decision when talking about possible outcomes for long term contraception. Be prepared to explain your stance but she is polite, professional and easy to talk to, and held no opposition to my decision.
Brisbane - Dr Melanie Burnet of Greenslopes Women's Wellbeing Clinic. Respectful, professional, thorough. They do IUDs there too.
Varsity Lakes MSI- formerly Marie Stopes at www.vasectomy.org.au/. Jan 2024. Vasectomy on 26-year-old redditor. Booked online no referral required. I had a 15 minute phone call to organise phone call appointments, one 15 minute phone call with a counsellor to screen reasoning and one 15 minute phone call with the doctor to explain the procedure. I didn't really care about having a specific Doctor so I just selected the "nearest available date" option which at the time was about 3 months wait. To be specific I'm on the Gold Coast, I went to their Varsity Lakes clinic with Dr Matthew Valentine, I had a no scalpel open ended technique vasectomy under local anaesthetic. A couple of days before the surgical date I had to cancel due to getting a respiratory infection, but then on the rebooking the next available date was only 1 month away.
Pomona (QLD) Dr Ann Buchan at Cooroora Family Health is very supportive of the CF life. Respects choices about sterilization and fertility options. Is very good with women's health, and is an all-round amazing doctor - NB this doctor may no longer be in practice.
Toowoomba GP Dr Captan Beck at Seven Springs Medical Centre is very friendly, approachable and completely supportive of childfree people. This practice does not bulk bill to my knowledge.
Toowoomba Women's Health Only, Medici Medical Centre, 201/15 Scott St, East Toowoomba QLD. Dr Lanziz Homar. Very friendly and a straight forward consultation. Park on the street if you don't want to be charged for parking. Surgery performed at St. Andrews. Consultation was $160 (10h 40m) in 2016; Medicare rebate applies.
Dr David Chettle, Toowoomba, Queensland. Bilateral salpingectomy for 23yo. Needs a psych consult and a couple of follow up appts before moving forward.
New South Wales
Sydney Area (Coffs Harbour and Macquarie Fields) Blue Water Medical Vasectomy with no pushback.
Sydney (CBD and Bondi Junction) Dr. David Kowalski Park House, Level 7, 187 Macquarie Street, Sydney NSW 2000, T 02 9221 7390. Hysterectomy and bisalp on 39-year-old CF redditor. Initially my discussion with him was for endometriosis and I mentioned I would be happy to have my uterus removed. He did ask if I wanted kids and when I said no he said that was fine. He also suggested the Bilateral Salpingectomy. I went via the public waiting system which meant I waited a year but he does do private surgery at a cost. Overall he is very friendly and understanding.
Sydney (CBD) Dr Surya Krishnan - OBGYN - Sydney, Australia https://www.sydneywomensclinic.com.au/about/dr-surya-krishnan-obstetrician-sydney/ I had a full hysterectomy performed. I am 31f, unmarried, no children. He was genuinely lovely, he agreed to my hysterectomy at my initial consult with no arguments or bingo-ing. Did mention that if I was 19 he would have been less comfortable doing the surgery but at 31 it was completely my choice. My wait from initial consult to surgery was about two months, however it could have been sooner had I wanted. The surgery cost me $3900 all up, the surgeons fee was $2200, after insurance and Medicare.
Sydney (CBD) Dr Ai Nhi Bui - GP - Sydney, Australia https://www.hydeparkmc.com.au Provided my referral to my hysterectomy surgeon. She is incredibly lovely, was upset to hear that I’d had issues in the past trying to get sterilisation surgery and was happy to refer me straight away. Bulk bills her regular patients, new patients are privately billed.
Sydney (North Sydney) Dr Rajdeep Ubeja at North Sydney Medical Centre and Skin Cancer Clinic. Had a 10 minute discussion about why I wanted the procedure and the risks and then gave me a referral to see a specialist at the RPA Sexual Health Clinic. Is also a bulk billing practice.
Sydney (Chatswood) http://gynaecare.com.au/
Sydney (Turramurra) GP - Dr Amanda Wildsmith at Kissing Point Road Family Doctors. Dr Wildsmith is a fantastic GP who had no hesitation in drawing up a referral for me to discuss permanent contraception. She is very kind, professional and a great GP if you live in the area.
Sydney (Chatswood) GP - Susan McSweeney from Clinic 66 in Chatswood. She was a little hesitant because I don’t think many people had ever asked her for that type of referral but supported me seeking autonomy for my body completely.
Sydney (Chatswood) Dr Sarah Choi, Hysterectomy(Removal of the uterus) - She is very pro “your body your choice” mindset which is so refreshing. I spent thousands of dollars trying to find a gynae who would perform the hysterectomy on me - even with my severe endo & adenomyosis. Eventually found this amazing surgeon Dr Choi who is so kind and supportive!!!
Sydney (Bondi) Bilateral Salpingectomy - Dr David Rosen He completed my bilateral salpingectomy on myself a childfree woman in 20s. No guilt, no bingos. He simply said ‘you know your body best, let’s book this in for you’. There was the option for publicly funded but I self funded to speed up the process. I cannot recommend him enough.
+1 Dr Rosen, I booked with Dr Rosen with intent to obtain a full hysterectomy (25, CF). I explained my reasoning was relief for persistent pcos complications, a desire to live childfree, and to relieve my gender dysphoria. He informed me that my request was quite severe for the issues I was experiencing and offered me some other solutions such as birth control. When I refused those options, he offered me a total hysterectomy or bilateral oopherectomy and informed me of the risk/benefit of both. Dr Rosen asserted that despite his hesitation, it is my body and I have ultimate agency over how Id like to proceed. He required me to produce a letter from my psychologist claiming I am of sane mind and capable to make the decision. I was put on hormone blockers for two months to simulate menopause and treat it with HRT so I would have a stable hormone balance pre established before surgery. 3.5 months after our first meeting I successfully underwent a total laparoscopic hysterectomy + bilateral salpingooophorectomy with morcellation with Dr Rosen in a private hospital. My appointments + surgery were all eligible for rebate from my private health-fund as well as medicare. Dr Rosen's receptionist was more than happy to help me obtain the rebate. NB OP had other medical indications for the hysterectomy/oophorectomy and this doctor may not be willing to perform this surgery on a purely elective basis.
+1 Dr Rosen, did my (24 & nb asexual) hysterectomy of which I only kept my ovaries just a couple days ago. I wanted to recommend him since I found his information here and he didn’t bingo me just straight up understood and believed that this was my choice. He required a letter from a psychologist stating that the decision was made with sound mind and understood the ramifications and everything, this was the harder part as the psychologist gets nervous about being the deciding factor.
+1 Dr Rosen, hysterectomy for 22yo. I (24F) saw Dr Rosen seeking a complete hysterectomy, keeping my ovaries. I told him what I wanted and he said "ok, I can do that". He didn't ask why, he didn't ask if I had kids, he didn't even ask how old I was. He told me that I could do whatever I wanted with my own uterus and it wasn't his place to say otherwise. He ran me through the whole legal checklist (procedure is permanent, would you be interested in something else) and drew me a picture of how the surgery worked. He requires a letter from a psychologist confirming mental capacity and was transparent that this is purely to cover his ass legally. He performed a brief vaginal exam to see if he could feel my endometriosis, I don't know if he'll do this if you're there for a salpingectomy but keep it in mind. Dr Rosen is very polite, respectful of your autonomy and explains things in a way you can understand. It only took 3 months from my initial consultation to the date of my surgery. My incisions are extremely clean and with no external stitches as Dr Rosen specialises in non invasive surgery. The worst part of the experience was getting the mental capacity letter. I called almost 40 psychologists before finding one who would assess me. However, the receptionist is not very good at her job.Everything I have called her about (book appointment, send me papers, confirm payment) she did not do the first time and I've had to call back once or twice to get things sorted. I called twice 3 weeks ago to get a medical certificate and I never received it. She booked my 6 week follow up for 11 weeks after my surgery and I had to call back to reschedule it.
+1 Dr. Rosen. 2024. Total laparoscopic hysterectomy on 29F, CF redditor. Already had bisalp, however other gynaecologists declined hysterectomy as I couldn't then do IVF if I changed my mind. I was seeking a medically-necessary hysterectomy. Dr Rosen was supportive of my choices and knowledge of myself and goals, as well as my wellbeing and quality of life. He agreed hysterectomy seemed like the best option for my health and he was happy to proceed. My physical and emotional health have both improved since this surgery, and I am so grateful. I can't recommend Dr Rosen enough.
Sydney (Newtown) (Po-Yu Huang)[https://www.healthshare.com.au/profile/professional/108254-dr-po-yu-huang/#overview]. Has two offices, one in Newtown and one in Sydney CBD. Bilateral salpingectomy Very respectful and no bingos. Asked me (24F at the time) once for my reasons why I don't want children and accepted it when I said I just instinctively don't. I think it helped that I'd written a 4 page essay (with references) outlining all my reasons why I don't want children, why I was choosing a bilateral salpingectomy specifically (possibly reduces risk of ovarian cancer) and why I didn't want other birth control methods. Had my surgery scheduled and performed within a month after the initial consult.
Sydney (Wahroonga) Tubal Ligation/Salpingectomy - Dr Kris Urbaniak at Sydney Adventist Hospital. I was referred to him by Dr Wildsmith above after Dr Anne Pike retired. Very gentle and sensitive and will listen to you and work with you to find a solution that works best for you. He asked me once if I (26 F) was certain that I wanted it and understood the risks, and then went through the procedure with me. SAH is a wonderful but private hospital so prepare for costs. Dr Urbaniak has since refused to sterilise a 20 F in 2019.
Sydney (Randwick) Dr Jason Abbott at Alana Healthcare. http://www.alanahealthcare.com.au/. With a minimal amount of consultations to isolate the problem he agreed to perform a Hysterectomy on my 33Yr old wife to get rid of her chronic pain. He did first do a laproscopic endometrial ablation, but when that didn't fix the problem he asked us once clearly if we were sure about no children, then said no more about it and agreed to the procedure. His exact words were "If two is the right number for your family, then it's not my place to try and convince you otherwise". Couldn't be happier with the whole experience.
Sydney (Kirrawee) Dr Gemma Urch She is a GP & was happy to refer me to a gynaecologist at either a public or private hospital. She empathised & expressed frustration at how difficult it can be for people to get this procedure. I paid $50 for the appointment total after the Medicare rebate. About Me: I was 30yo & married when she referred me, and I’m CF
Sydney (Enmore), Dr Geoff Cashion Sydney Vasectomy Centre @ Enmore Medical Practice 134-146 Enmore Rd NSW 2042 Enmore NSW 2042. He was really good! If you're under 30 you need to do 1 counselling session I believe. I was 30 so didn't need to. He asked if I had kids I said I didn't and he said "I guess you want to keep it that way haha". Felt very comfortable. Total cost was $100 deposit and $650 at the clinic. Medicare refunded about $220 so roughly $550 out of pocket. Took about 30-40 mins from walking in front door to talking out.
Central Coast NSW: https://www.drfarag.com.au/ - Dr Farag performed a bilateral salpingectomy for my 38 year old wife (2019). She had two specialist visits with him, one to get her questions answered as she wasn't completely sure if she wanted to go ahead and the second to confirm the procedure and book the operation. He confirmed that she was sure and also suggested if she ever changed her mind she could come back as he does IVF as well! He did not charge any gap above what private health insurance charged, she had no hospital fees and only had to pay the gap for the Anaesthesiologist. He is based in Gosford currently and works out of Gosford Private Hospital. Being a specialist, a referral is needed from your GP first.
North Gosford - Dr. Kelly Hankins, MD, FACOG, FRANZCOG Suite 6, 12 Jarrett Street North Gosford, NSW, 2250, 02 4321 0500. 2022. Bisalp on 27-year-old CF redditor. Discussion around my reasons, understanding of permanency and what procedure entails, then agreed it seemed like a good choice for me, and prepared hospital paperwork. Wanted support from a second Dr before proceeding - this was easy. Dr Hankins is very compassionate, skilled, and my recovery was very smooth. I have to note that the way she handled everything from the moment I asked about sterilisation was so validating and this meant so much.
Wollongong - Dr Joe McCosker http://www.drmccosker.com.au/gynaecology
Wollongong (Shellharbour) - Dr Brian Stewart. Best doctor I've had overall in my life and also gave me (24M) my referral with no resistance once I mentioned I wanted to focus on my career and that my partner didn't want to rear children. Referral was to a Wollongong Urologist who hopefully takes medicare and will be equally accepting 31/8/19.
Wollongong (Dr David Greening)[https://www.davidgreening.com.au/] In Wollongong NSW Australia He did my bilateral salpingectomy, I was just shy of my 31st birthday It took a week to get in to see him for a consult, and he said yes at that initial consult (I have however seen him for various things before since about 10 years ago) and the surgery was booked for literally a week later at the local private hospital. He was super open to the idea, and to doing a salpingectomy over a ligation totally getting my reasons, when I said I wanted it and that yes I knew it was permanent and I definitely don't want children ever he said yes that's 100% your choice you are an adult, and even in the unlikely event you did change your mind you could just do ivf no problem, which I really appreciated the respect for my bodily autonomy while also allowing for informed consent by telling me about the options in case I really did have regrets instead of trying to scare me with it being permanent and what if I regret it oooh sooo scary and sad. It was not cheap, I had to pay up front for the doctors fees and receive a Medicare and private insurance rebate after the fact, Dr greenings fee was $2250 and I got about 500 back from Medicare and about 250 back from insurance, the anesthesiologist was 350 out of pocket, the assistant surgeon was 450 and I got like 150 back from Medicare and 50 back from insurance, private insurance paid the hospital fees in full with no excess, but yeah it was around 2k out of pocket
Maitland - Dr. Peter Soaki OB/GYN UNIT 2/14 Elgin Street, Maitland, NSW, Australia (02) 4933 3299 He doesn't have his own website, but this site shows what hospitals he works at or is affiliated with. Mid-20's. I got Bilateral Salpingectomy and (Novasure) Endometrial Ablation. You must have a referral from a GP to see him, as he is a specialist, and it helps to have a written letter so that someone else has kind of 'assessed you' before turning up. He and my GP said they would normally never refer or perform these surgeries on someone who had no children and was in their mid-twenties, but because I had done my research and could answer everything quite confidently and easily, they could tell it was what I truly wanted. So even if he performed the surgeries on me, if he looks someone over and thinks they aren't in the right headspace or doesn't think they know what they want enough, he MAY not do it. And with good reason, I guess. That said, he mentioned he does not send people away for psychiatric evaluation. Others do, he said he does not.
Newcastle - Dr Brett Locker huntergyanaecology.com.au . Dr Locker has a room at Suite 6, Level 1 3 Hoptoun Street, Charlestown, NSW, 2290 but I got a referral from another doctor to see him at John Hunter Hospital. Performed a bilateral salpingectomy on me (26F). He consults in Newcastle but performed the procedure at Singleton.
-1 Dr Locker, So I went in to see him when I was 26 years old. I brought my binder and everything, but he laughed at it, and said I'd have a tough time finding someone to sterilise a 26 year old and that I'd have to take him to court over it, because of me being on the autism spectrum too. He happily gave me an IUD though, which I begrudgingly accepted. Am still looking to get a bisalp a couple years later.
South Australia
Adelaide - Vasectomy: I'd like to recommend the redgum clinic but with Dr Scott Marschall who I had my consult with as he was very open minded about performing it, despite me being 18. As of today, the 22nd of June, the procedure was completed and it seems to be completely fine, no major pains
Adelaide - Bilateral Salpingectomy/Tubal ligation: Dr Paul Knight, may need a 2nd gynecologist to sign off on procedure for under 27yo but has provided salpingectomy for childfree women.
Adelaide - Dr Charlotte Paull. She is a gynaecologist who works at Noarlunga Hospital, a public hospital. I was scheduled to have my tubal ligation done there and she was one of the gynaecologists who signed off on it (The hospital requires 2 to sign off before patient can be admitted). She did mention IUD but that seems par for the course when discussing this procedure. I was unable to have the procedure due to moving interstate and dealing with state borders and Covid issues, so she offered to send through a referral to a NSW gynaecologist. The procedure would have cost me nothing as it’s all covered by the public system. About Me: I was 28yo & engaged to my future husband when the surgery was approved, and I’m CF
Adelaide - Dr Charlotte Jones She is the GP who referred me to Noarlunga Hospital to speak to Dr Paull. She was slightly hesitant initially and discussed IUD with me first, but after explaining the adverse effects of the implant & the impact pregnancy would have on my mental health (I have bipolar 2), she then supported me and referred me. The appointment was roughly $30 after Medicare rebate. About Me: I was 28yo & engaged to my future husband when the surgery was approved, and I’m CF
Adelaide - Dr. Polly Large (general prac) at AHA is entirely sweet, progressive, and fully understanding of reproductive choice. I had my consult for a gyne referral through Public Health and I managed to get my referral first consult. Appropriate questions, no gaslighting, no medical misogyny or judgement. I definitely recommend coming out of the gate with your Sterilisation Binder; she praised the fact I had done my research thoroughly and knew everything from surgical risk to the public healthcare system in general. This definitely had an impact on the consult going as well as it did. But in terms of a GP willing to write a gyne referral for bisalp, truly so supportive. - 27 y/o female, no children or previous history of conception, sexually active in a relationship, chronic reproductive conditions (factored in.)
Blackwood - Dr Aziza Mirzaeva, referred for tubal ligation with no pushback.
Whyalla - Tubal Ligation: Dr David MacFarlane (OBGYN) at Whyalla Hospital. Absolutely fantastic guy. I (29F) went to him looking for a tubal ligation, was very supportive and said he'd be more than happy to do it for me, and would have done it even if I was 20. Only reason he eventually decided to not do mine was because I have complex medical issues and a history of an abdominal wall infection which prevents the laprascopic surgery from being done safely, but was happy to give me a Mirena instead, and seemed sympathetic to my plight of not being able to have the tubal. He would probably do a tubal on a healthy young woman. I'm pretty sure he only practices through the public hospital.
Australian Capital Territory
Canberra - Dr Stephen Robson - Calvary John James Hospital - (02) 6282 3033 - https://www.steverobson.org/. Dr Robson is respected obstetrician-gynecologist who lectures at ANU, and when you google him, everything that comes up is fertility treatments because that's what he's renowned for. He's a hidden gem in that he is also very progressive on female sterilisation! I was 26. My initial appointment with him was short because he readily believed me. He did get me to have a quick Zoom call with a fertility counsellor to sign off that I was ready, but that was also dramaless (no bingos). Within two months I was booked in for the surgery. He operates out of National Capital Private Hospital and I highly recommend having private health insurance, otherwise it would have cost me over $4000, including the anesthesiologist. Other bonuses: the surgery is keyhole so my scars are tiny, and my recovery was only 1.5 days before I felt fit to leave the house. He also removed my endometriosis during the 40 minute surgery which I didn't even know I had (no extra cost too!). I highly recommend him.
Dr Sarah Broderick, bilateral salpingectomy 34yo
Tasmania
Launceston - Dr Toly Pavlov - Launceston Health Hub - (03) 6388 8115. Toly is an amazing gynae, he didn't even ask me if I was sure, because he could tell by my referrals and other letters that I was absolutely sure. He said instead that I fully support you! He practices at the LGH for sterilisations and therefore his waiting list is very long, around two or three years. However I do believe medicare will cover you for surgery in the LGH. He was more than happy to do my (20) Bisalp and had no problem with my age. He said his youngest sterilisation was 18, and that he would do someone who is 18 again.
Launceston - Dr Ben Dhanaraj - Ashton Gate House - (03) 6343 0999 https://tamarobgyn.com.au/dr-ben-dhanaraj Ben is a very nice doctor, however he takes a little bit of convincing and likes a letter from a psychologist. After the initial bit of hesitiation he is pretty open to sterilisation. He wanted me (20) to get a second opinion from another gynae in the area, that turned out to be a bit hard as many are quite booked up. He also recommended Dr Toly Pavlov for a second opinion. His waiting list is also quite large as he also operates at the LGH for sterilisation.
Hobart - Dr Sajid Patel - Fertility Tasmania 03 6169 1111 https://fertilitytasmania.com.au/about/team/ Don't be scared off because he practices in an IVF clinic!!! The reception team are amazing and Sajid is the best gynae I have ever seen. I was referred to him by Dr Toly Pavlov because Toly's wait list was too long and Toly didn't want me to wait. He practices at the Hobart Private Hospital and I only had to wait 14 days between the initial consultation with him and the Bisalp. He asked if I was really sure and I said I was, he then (jokingly) said if I change my mind he can help me with IVF. We talked through options like clips or complete removal, and which he can reverse ect. Give him a shout out that you found him on reddit for extra bonus points ;)
+1 Dr Saj Patel (wasnt the surgeon, but did give approval). I think it's worth putting under his information that it's useless to go through the RHH to get any sterilization done, you have to pay to see him privately $205AUD. He can then transfer you across to the RHH to get the procedure free, but you can not see him directly through the RHH no matter how hard you push for it. I got a Bi-salp and attempted Ablation (failed) within 3 months of approval, second Ablation (successful) literally 7 days after I finally got another appointment 3 months later (was a battle to get seen). All up 12 month battle to get approval and then 6 months to get everything done.
Hobart - Dr Tania Hingston - Eternal Womens Health - (03) 6220 1350 https://www.eternalwomenshealth.com.au/
Hobart - Dr. Brett Daniels 1 Warneford Street, South Hobart, Tasmania, 7004, 03 6223 2067. Oct. 2023. Hysterectomy on 30-year-old redditor with endometriosis. In 2022, he actually listened to me and confirmed a diagnosis of endometriosis via laparoscopy within 6 months after after 12 years of suffering and neglect by other doctors. During the diagnosis/treatment over the last 2 years, we had discussed a bisalp as I wanted to be off hormonal BC by 31. He ultimately offered the hysterectomy route mid this year as it would provide the best outcome for all of my health goals. There was maybe 4 months between raising the hysterectomy as an option and having the surgery.
He is an OB-GYN, but he is fiercely pro-choice and has NEVER bingoed me. He also has a background in psychiatry, provides gender affirming care, and can perform reconstructive surgery etc. Just an all around excellent human as well as GYN.
Across the whole country - Snip. Very quick and easy, only needed to send an email stating understanding of the consequences, price is $425 NZD with a 10% refund if you review them on Google. "Our general policy is that anyone under 30 years of age with no children would not be considered for a vasectomy procedure".
Invercargill - Danielle Jones, MD - Obs & Gynae in New Zealand. This gynecologist has contacted us directlyto advise, "happy to provide desired sterilization regardless of any of those factors. I am public only, so can be difficult to get in with our current shortages and I unfortunately don't have a lot of control. They are welcome to ask their GP to email me directly and I will always do my best to help. I will have to ask around if others feel the same as I do."
North Island - Dr Mairi Wallace at the Cardinal Points Specialist Centre. 8 Percy Street, Kensington, Whangarei 0112 , North Island, New Zealand Phone number +64 9 437 4091. Dr Mairi is a most amazing human being, they listened and did not judge. I cried with happiness after meeting with them for first time.
Wellington - Dr Andrew Murray http://hospitals.southerncross.co.nz/our-hospitals/wellington/medical-specialists.aspx?Surgeonid=76 Fairly quick and easy after a recommendation from Family Planning doctor (can't remember her name, but was a lovely Indian woman who wrote a good letter of recommendation for me).
Wellington - Dr Shane Dunphy "Shane questioned me a bit at the start, but was happy to perform the procedure once he saw that I was steadfast in my decision to get a vasectomy. He had no issues with my age (21M). The procedure was quick, simple and painless, with minimal discomfort afterwards. Highly recommended to all."
Wellington - Dr. Simon McDowell 21F, CF, unmarried. He performed my much-needed hysterectomy last year. He can be seen through three different clinics, I saw him at Wellington hospital's gyno clinic via the NZ public system. I think that Dr. McDowell only sees patients with either severe menstrual problems or fertility issues, but that makes him an absolute life-saver for anyone suffering gyno problems that can't be solved without sterilization. He was the first doctor to ever prioritize my quality of life over my fertility, and he never bingoed me. Dr. McDowell did have me talk to his colleague Dr. Searle in order to insure that I was giving informed consent for my hysto, but I didn't get any bingoing from him either! The surgery was also covered by public healthcare.
+1 for Simon McDowell in Wellington, New Zealand. He just did my hysterectomy and he's been great, very casual, very approachable. I'm now 27 and married, was 26 when I was approved by him though. Went through Southern Cross insurance on the Ultra Care plan and it got completely covered which I'm very grateful for. He did ask that if I decided to get a hysterectomy instead of a bisalp, that I see a colleague of his just so he can basically cover his arse and so I couldn't later claim I wasn't properly informed of the risks and sue (not really a thing here, think he might have just been ill informed on that front, but I was happy to do so anyway, anything to get rid of my uterus haha).
Christchurch - Dr Ruth MacAskill at the Campus Health Centre at the University of Canterbury. https://www.canterbury.ac.nz/healthcentre/ After seeing my lack of success on birth controls, was happy to write me a letter of recommendation once I chose my surgeon. My age (26F) might have helped, but she only offered the option of referral for Mirena, she didn't push it. I ended up choosing a Bilateral Salpingectomy. If you are a poor student you may be eligible for referral to the Charity Hospital for both options too.
Christchurch - Dr Colin Conaghan (surgeon) http://www.coga.org.nz/ Initial consultation was $255 (Sept. 2018), but he was very open and didn't press about reasons or my age (26F), accepting that my doctor had made a sound judgement. Showed me the difference between the clips and bilateral salpingectomy. Let me choose. Simply said "if I wasn't sure I wouldn't be here, can I please get the Salpingectomy." Asked when I wanted to be booked in, appointment 7 days later. Option to be paid through either medical insurance, or full-pay ($8,000-$10,000).
Christchurch - Dr Simon Jones (surgeon) at Oxford Women's Health https://www.oxfordwomenshealth.co.nz/about-us/our-team/womens-health/team-member-4.html Very quick consultation, didn't question me for my age (24F) or bingo me, and trusted my GP's counsel and referral. I got my consult through the Canterbury Charity Hospital (unfortunately I don't think you can request specific surgeons) but if you aren't eligible Simon is a specialist at Oxford Women's health
Christchurch - Dr John Short at Oxford Women's Health. 28, never pregnant and no children, in a relationship. I had an elective total laparoscopic hysterectomy. I self referred, told him I had terrible periods and did not want children and he accepted that with no bingos. He offered an IUD but didn't push it and was happy to proceed with a bisalp. I pushed for a hysterectomy and he wanted to discuss with his colleagues first, asked me to see a psychologist, and once I had their letter that I was of sound mind he was happy to book in. I had no prior ultrasounds, biopsies, diagnoses etc but he suspected endo based on symptoms. I was booked for 3 months later, am now 4 days post op. The surgical team and ward nurses were fantastic, and my surgery (and consults) are fully covered by the southern cross ultracare plan after 1 year of continuous cover, but cost estimate was about $32k NZD. NB a psychologist report is required for this doctor to move forward with treatment.
Auckland - Dr Phill McChesney, FRANZCOG 7 Ellerslie Racecourse Dr., Remuera, Auckland, 1051, New Zealand 09-520-9520, 0800 10 28 28, faa@fa.co.nz. Private pay only. Accepts Southern Cross Health Insurance. Following a referral from my GP and a consult with another gynaecologist, he accepted me (24F, nulligravida) for a bilateral tubal ligation with filshie clips. He noted if I hadn't have seen another gyno previously, he would have asked me to go to one session with their on site counsellors to be sure, however was still very willing. I did want a salpingectomy, however tubal ligation was offered instead due to my age. Despite this, Phill has an amazing bedside manner, happy to answer any questions and didn't bingo me at all. Completely agreed that if I'm old enough to have kids, I'm old enough to choose not to have them too so booked me in for surgery a month after the consult.
Note re Dr McChesney: 28F - Requested Bilateral Salpingectomy (BiSalp) specifically for sterilisation purposes. Dr Phill said his preferred method is using clips as there is a small chance of reversing the procedure vs no chance with BiSalp. But BiSalp also has many other advantages over the clips in terms of effectiveness and reduction in chance of cancer. He was willing to do the BiSalp for me as I strongly preferred it over clips due to effectiveness. He also mentioned IVF is possible after BiSalp as another reason he was willing to do a BiSalp for me. He did ask why not other options, and was understanding of my reasons and took me seriously. He did say he would not deny me fertility treatment based on my age so therefore did not think it right deny me sterilisation based on my age. I found him to be willing to listen and respectful. He did do an internal ultrasound at the consult just to check everything looked ok as I had not had one before. I had my BiSalp 6 weeks later - usually wait time is about 4 weeks. This procedure was fully covered by Southern Cross Ultracare plan after being on the plan for one year.
Auckland - Dr. Sunil Pillay, MRCOG, FRANZCOG 7 Ellerslie Racecourse Dr., Remuera, Auckland, 1051, New Zealand 09-520-9520, 0800 10 28 28, faa@fa.co.nz. Sterilised 28 year old CF nonbinary AFAB. Private pay only, paid for by Southern Cross Health Insurance. You have to be on the UltraCare Plan which is around $130NZD ($81USD) per month). They will also cover all appointments that are to do with this procedure so I have paid $0.00. After 12 months I booked in with a surgeon for a consult and this was covered by the insurance, which is otherwise in excess of $NZ200. I had to get a letter of approval from my GP that I had discussed other methods of birth control, approval from a second gynecologist and a letter from my therapist that I was sure and of 'sound mind' blah blah. He has really looked after me and I really feel respected and that my wants are valid. Physician also correctly diagnosed endometriosis that patient had not realized she had. That was also treated as part of the sterilization.
Auckland - Dr. Jonathan Masters The Vasman, Auckland, New Zealand. I had a good experience getting a vasectomy from Dr. Jonathan Masters (The Vasman). I was 25, married and childfree. All it took was one phone call to schedule an appointment, and an hour in the office for paperwork and the vasectomy. He had no hesitations or bingos. Cost ~NZD500.
Nelson - Andy Malcom. Performed vasectomy. 33/m married. Referred to following an unsuccessful procedure with a general practitioner, due to other medical reasons.(Graham Loveridge - http://www.harleymedical.co.nz/about-us/our-doctors/dr-graham-loveridge/ who was also willing to do the vasectomy, but unable to complete it). Very supportive of cf status. He asked how many kids I had, after agreeing to the procedure, I said none and his exact words were "none and done! Good way to go!" Nz$600, which is a bit more expensive than most in NZ. Very quick and easy. Will probably need a referral from a General Practitioner to see him.
-Caja Costarricense del Seguro Social in the Coronado clinic. March 2024. Bisalp on 32-year-old redditor. So I went to the Clínica de Coronado of the CCSS which is public health care here. Step 1. I got an appointment with a general doctor and asked for a reference for a "salpingectomia". If they refuse you should ask for that in writing because they are not allowed to refuse the reference. Step 2. You get called to go to a birth control and pre and post op care. There's an interview with a nurse or a social worker and they just ask you a few questions. Step 3. You see another general doctor and they check you. Step 4. They call you like a week before your surgery and they tell you when to come in for some blood test and give you pre- and post- op care instructions one more time. Step 5. Take a blood test after fasting for like 12h. Step 6. Show up for your surgery appointment after fasting again for like 12h. It was free but I bought laxatives and pain killers on the side to help after the surgery. The waiting time was 8 months between step 1 and 6.
Marie Stopes Clinics - Many Doctors - Phone +52 5543-0000 - http://www.mariestopes.org.mx
Atlixco Condesa: Calle Atlixco #12, Condesa, 06140 CDMX, five blocks from Metro Chapultepec. This clinic does everything from prescribing the pill, to surgical methods, implants, vasectomies, and legal abortion. I was seen by a Dr. Jasso, who performed a very calm and well executed 30 minute vasectomy, no questions asked. Super respectful and quick.
There are other clinics in the Stopes network in CDMX. You will be assigned to one after calling at 5543-0000 for an appointment. They email complete information and are very respectful of discretion.
Jaime Cevallos at Hospital Angeles Acoxpa, México city - agreed to do a bilateral salpingectomy for a childfree person, who ultimately didn't go ahead with the procedure for personal reasons.
Ginecólogo Dr. Maximiliano Ponce M., Guadalajara, Mexico. +52 33 1075 1134. https://g.co/kgs/Q5xG2b6. The procedure performed was a bilateral tubal ligation on a childfree married woman. I traveled from the US to see him.
Dr. Miguel Ángel Castellvi - at the Consultorios Externos of the Clínica Modelo de Morón (Pasaje Bertagnolio 684, Morón, Provincia de Buenos Aires). Tubal ligation via cauterization on July 2024. 25F, single, no kids. Got recommend to him by my usual OBGYN, from the same hospital, who doesn't perform tubal ligations. Took aprox 3 weeks to get the appointment. Very chill, straightforward doctor. Didn't asked any questions, no bingoes. Explained every detail of the procedure and answered every question I had. I did the pre-op studies (externally) and was scheduled for surgery a month later. Excellent treatment pre and post-op by not only him, but everyone at the hospital.
Dr. Juan José Sardi at the Hospital Británico in 74 Perdriel Street, Buenos Aires, Argentina. Bilateral salpingectomy. 27F, single, childfree, the only BC I used was pills, and they did not force me to try another before getting the procedure done. EXCELLENT experience, no bingoes whatsoever, every single nurse and doctor was fantastic, and so far my recovery has been smooth. The first appointment did take a little bit of time (asked for it in February, got it for mid-April) but since then, it was less than a month and a half for me to get the procedure done (June 10th). Insurance covered everything, but it's protected by two laws in Argentina.
Dra Andrea Fabiana Velazco - Hospital Italiano de Buenos Aires I'm 31F and single. At first I had a consultation with Dr. Adrián Saavedra Sánchez who read my medical records and noted that I previously had asked for bilateral salpingectomy (this was a telephone consultation during the pandemic). I explained that I was ok with a tubal because abortion is legal now in Argentina. Then he printed the consent for the surgery and refered me to Dra. Andrea Velazco with whom I had another consultation. No bingoes whatsoever.
Buenos Aires, CABA
Buenos Aires, Jorgelina Martin. She's in the City of Buenos Aires, Argentina. You can find all the information contact on her instagram : @drajorgelinamartin or www.linktr.ee/drajorgelinamartin All the surgery was covered by my insurance (OSDE 210), as well as the preops and the medicines for the postop.SHe will schedule you right away, but you may need 1-3 weeks to get the appointments for the preops. IN my case, it took three weeks since the first visit to her Office until the surgery. I'm 30 years old, childfree and I had a bi-lateral salpingectomy yesterday.
+1 Dr Jorgelina Martín from Buenos Aires, Argentina. 24F, unmarried, had my bisalp with Dr Jorgelina Martín in August 2023. I contacted her via Instagram and explained my situation and my reasoning for wanting to get sterilised. She was very understanding and agreed upfront, absolutely no questions asked. I was travelling from Brazil and I met her in person for my first appointment a week before the surgery. She asked if I had any questions or worries about the procedures and went above and beyond to facilitate the payment (1200 USD). Her whole team is amazing, we were laughing and joking at the OR until I was put under. No questions from anyone, no judgement at all. My recovery was very fast and smooth.
Dra. María Elisa Moltoni and works at Hospital Británico in Buenos Aires Argentina. She works for "Tocoginecología" department and she is the one who did surgery (bisalp) on me. She was very understanding from the beginning but she did mention this was mostly because of how informed I was prior to the consultation, even though its not required by the law she mentioned they sometimes suggest a psychology evaluation of the patient to further help make the decision and that this is mostly required by the head of the department. Other than that she never mentioned or said anything against my decision, she never doubted me or made any nasty comments, and she was lovely through all the follow up appointments.
Gaston Esteban Jurio - bi-salp
Dr. Sebastián Savignano - Vasectomy He is an urologist and surgeon, and performed my non-scalpel vasectomy this thursday. I'm a 33 old male without kids, he didn't object to my request, just warned me about all the consequences of my choices. After the first visit, I've entered the surgery room after completing all the pre-surgery studies in only 2 weeks.
Cordoba, Capital - Dr Mariana Pfeiffer, Sanatorio Frances - Bi-salp
Campinas/SP, Brasil, Débora Novaes Coutinho Ozon. I, 26F, single and no kids, had a bisalp done via medical insurance. The doctor is adamant about performing the surgery for anyone who wants it within legal age (21yo as of 2024). The insurance requires the standard procedure of psychologist + 60 days wait.
Goiânia/GO, Brazil - Dr. Hélio Finotti. I've been through a vasectomy with him at 33 years old without kids. He was very direct and polite, didnt try to convince me not to make the surgery, which shocked me at first, because I tried 2 doctors before him and was treated like I was about to commit a crime. Since the insurance plan had to be approved by an external team, I decide to pay for myself (was about 1.100BRL).
São Paulo/SP, Brazil - Dr. Diego Reis Delgado - http://drdiegodelgado.com.br/
São Paulo/SP, Brazil - Dr. Fábio Frazão - https://drfabiofrazao.com.br/ - vasectomy with psychologist consult and 60 day wait period due to local laws
São Paulo / Aracaju - Sergip, - Bruno Garcia Dias. I made my appointment through a site called vidia. This is a site to do private surgeries, without the need of an insurance plan. I didn't have to wait 60 days or to consult an psychologist, he did warn me about regret since I'm 26, but did the surgery anyways saying that in the end was my choice, and that him as a doctor should just explain to me that he is not responsible for regrets. The total price through Vidia is 1900BRL, but he said that directly with him would be something like 1800BRL.
Porto Alegre or Lajeado/RS Dr. Alessandro Rossol Vasectomy at 25 years without kids. Really friendly, with no objections.
Brasilia/DF - Dr. Joseph Monteiro de Carvalho - http://www.catalogo.med.br/doutor/joseph+monteiro+de+carvalho+1738612.htm (He talked a little about regret and the procedure, but did it with no hassles. Vasectomy with 25)
Brasilia - Dr. Ricardo Alexandre Fernandes Ferro - https://www.doctoralia.com.br/ricardo-alexandre-fernandes-ferro/oncologista-urologista/brasilia. Sterilised a 27 year old childless man, "...he is a great doctor. He didn't talk about regret and said that sterilization is a personal issue."
Curitiba/PR, Brazil - Dr. André Matos de Oliveira - http://www.institutomariodeabreu.com.br/corpo-clinico/dr-andre-matos-de-oliveira (Just explain your situation, no hassles at all)
It's hard to navigate the website, most of the pages are just informational articles. My friend did a lot of the appointments and phone calls.
Tubal ligation of 18-year-old US national. At my consultation, I was asked a few questions about if I take birth control, if I've been pregnant before, etc. I was not coerced or interrogated. Just, "You never want to have kids?" And I said, "Never." My surgery was booked for the next morning. It cost $550,000 Colombian pesos, which is like, $110 USD roughly. The plane ticket, the surgery itself, the food and expense, was all way less than the minimum payment for the surgery itself in The United States. For Colombian citizens, it's completely free. The doctors are completely qualified, it is in a hospital, and it's just as safe as it would be in the US. You might just need to practice your Spanish! So I'm 18, I have my tubes tied, and I have so much peace of mind.
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BOSQUE:
Calle 134 No 7B-83 Consultorio 214
(601) 4434000-300 912 4560
WhatsApp - Asistente Virtual Emilia para agendamiento de citas 3185310121
Lun.- Vier. 7:00 am. - 5:00 pm. Sáb. 7:00 am - 5:00p.m. Colombia is +57
También puedes llamarnos en toda Colombia al:
300 912 4560
Bogotá: (601) 443 4000
Cali: (602) 386 0001
Medellín: (604) 283 6688
Barranquilla (605) 319 7928
Linea de información gratuita: 018000 110 900
Email: info@profamilia.org.co
All of these cities have various locations of Profamilia. The appointments open up every month. You can only make an appointment for the same month for a consultation. I've been planning this since February, and I was only able to actually make the appointment when August came. The online portal had an opening for August 5th, but my friend called and they had an appointment open for the 1st, it was just a little bit further. My consultation was at: Avenida 1º de Mayo N° 38-41 Sur, Kennedy, Bogotá, Kennedy, Colombia
The hospital where the procedure was done was at: CI 34 #14-52, Teusaquillo, Bogotá, Colombia
I do not know the name of the doctor who did my surgery. They were doing a whole lot at once. I was in a recovery room with 3 other women who all got it done at the same time that I did. I got a referral from the consultation, which the hospital took.
This is to give them your contact information, which I believe is so that you can speak with an agent. https://profamilia.org.co/agendar-cita/
For Colombian citizens who have insurance by default, it is a free procedure, they just might have to wait longer. I got my consultation on my first day here and the surgery the second day because I was paying cash.
Marie Stopes Clinics - No-scalpel Vasectomy. I (27M at time of vasectomy) was given no hassles. I basically "ordered" a vasectomy. I was only questioned once why I wanted a vasectomy, and this was after I had already paid for everything, one the day of the vasectomy, and it was mostly out of the doctor's curiosity. It cost me R2200 (the year 2019). You can read about my experience here
Melissa van der Merwe, a gynaecologist in Johannesburg South Africa. I believe that every adult woman should have autonomy over her body. That includes the right to NOT bear children. I offer tubal ligation/tubal removal on request. A woman’s reproductive rights should be upheld regardless of the opinions of others.
Gqeberha - Dr F Maleka Inc - Obstetrician-Gynecologist (South Africa). I was approved on my first try for tubal ligation at 23 years old, openly childfree with zero children. Wait time between consultation & surgery date was apprpmixately two weeks. I turned 24 during the wait time. My husband was present, but his permission was not required. Smooth sailing, no bingoes or pushing me to try other birth control instead. Some additional info people should know - the South African Sterilisation Act states that no person is prohibited from having sterilisation performed on them as long as they are over 18 years old and capable of consent. I printed this out and took with to Dr's appointments.
Pretoria - Dr. Hannelie Pienaar (Bisalp and endometrial ablation for 31F. At 26 when I first enquired she was not comfortable doing the procedure; but at 31 she actually suggested it to me after having issues with BC, since she knew I wanted to be sterilised. Scheduled for a week later. Met me the morning before the op to confirm I understood I would be sterile after the procedure. No bingos. Very friendly and helpful staff at Die Wilgers Hospital)
Pretoria - Dr Mirriam Mutanda-Musoke (23F) & explained my circumstances & reasoning that I don't want children, she agreed to remove my tubes as well as some cysts I had on my ovaries without any problems, I highly recommend & respect her as a gynecologist, she really listens to her patients & cares about what her patients require, she made sure I fully understood the procedure, she also worked within the bounds of my medical aid plan (I'm on Discovery Keycare Plus), I've been at many gynecologists who refuse me because of my age, but doctor Mirriam was understanding & helped me through the whole process with a smile, it took about a month from when I saw her to when I had the tubal ligation proceedure & I honestly have no complaints whatsoever. She's the best gynecologist I've ever been to, she respects her patients body autonomy without biases. Highly recommend her as a gynecologist.
Cape Town - Dr Shaun Smit. I am 24m, unmarried, with no children. Received a bilateral vasectomy. Process was hassle free, went in for a consultation and was booked for the procedure 2 weeks later. Doctor did list some bingos but was happy once I made it clear I was doing the procedure for myself, and that I had put a lot of thought into it.
Cape Town, South Africa - Dr Thabo Dingiswayo. Bilateral salpingectomy, 30 years old, married with no children. Dr Dingiswayo is an ob/gyn who is a true supporter of women’s reproductive choices, just as he says on his website. He is actually a father of one and was recommended to me by a friend whose baby he delivered, and most of his Google reviews are from women whose babies he delivered, so I was a bit skeptical going in to see him about sterilisation. But he only asked if I was sure, mentioned that women over 30 have a lower likelihood of sterilisation regret, and informed me of the risks of the surgery and let me know that I can still get pregnant via IVF if I want to in the future. All of which I think are fair things to inform a patient of. We scheduled the procedure the same day, and I finally had the surgery yesterday. I’m grateful to have found such a supportive doctor who treated me like a competent and autonomous adult, with no bingos whatsoever. My husband’s approval was neither mentioned nor required.
Somerset West - Dr Ferdi Marais. Vasectomy for 36yo. "Dr was perfectly happy to do the procedure no questions asked with a referral from our GP".
Port Elizabeth - DR STEPHAN JANSEN VAN VUUREN, he didn't give me any pushback when requesting a vasectomy.
Atakent Acıbadem hospital in Istnbul (0212) 404 44 44 laparascopic bilateral salpingectomy - this clinic is unconfirmed.