Albemarle
Dr. Brandner Atrium Women’s Health Stanley, 105 Yadkin St #102, Albemarle, North Carolina 28001. (980) 323-5330. 31 years old, never had children and do not want them. Not married but in a relationship. No medical reason to have one either but when two iuds failed and needs removed and I said I wanted my tubes tied he didn’t hesitate. Reviewed options, pros and cons and got me scheduled all within a month.
Asheville
Dr. Michael B. Burris Comfortable with sterilizing a young person (23 yo) but will remind you that it is permanent birth control. Consultation for vasectomy lasted about 15 minutes, accepted the reasons of "just never wanted them", did a quick checkup, and then scheduled me. Understood that I had done my research and have made my decision. Does three separate measures to make sure it never reattaches, very thorough.
Dr. James Brien - Vasectomy and cauterization, no clamps. 34 years old, never married, no children. Doctor did a consultation and asked if I had any kids, then explained the process. Procedures are done every other Friday and Tuesday. Did not bingo me at any point or try to convince me not to do it. We chatted during the procedure and he told me he had refused the procedure to someone, it was an 18-year-old freshly married, but we didn't discuss the cutoff specifically. Very good with local anesthesia, didn't feel anything after the initial prick. His report afterwards said he removed at least 1 cm of vas on each side, but when I saw it, it looked like a solid inch.
Dr. Franklin with Asheville Urological Associates at 1 Hospital Drive, Asheville, North Carolina. Early 30's single child-free male. Bilateral vasectomy. An initial ~15-30 minute consultation to go over the procedure and an examination to make sure everything felt normal. No attempts to influence my decision, simply asked if I had any children (I don't) and made sure I was aware it is considered permanent even though it is reversible. The procedure was 3 weeks later and took about 20 minutes. Cigna insurance covered the procedure completely except for the sperm test ($60), but was informed that without insurance it would have been $643
Dr. Courtney Cohen. Biltmore OBGYN (24 Medical Park Dr Asheville NC 28803). Bilateral salpingectomy and endometrial ablation. No bingos (made sure I know it's permanent and that I know about other options, but didn't argue with me what-so-ever). Very respectful and kind. I'm 34 and unmarried.
+1 Dr Cohen: I’m 25f, married and wanted to update/let you know that Courtney Cohen on the Asheville NC list approved me for bilateral salpingectomy with very little arguing. Understanding the differences between they types of surgery and using “buzz words” (such as “I do not want biological children, it is not in my or husbands long term goal, we value our financial freedom” etc) let her just run you through the standard risks and typical questions that she quote “had to ask so that I can check off that you are certain”. All of that office (Biltmore OBGYN) knows how/does that specific surgery often and we’re very kind and calming. They walk you through the process, but I will be having a pre-op appointment with her and having the operation in July.
+1 Dr. Courtney Cohen from Asheville NC. She agreed for a bilateral salpingectomy on a 24 year old, unmarried with no kids. She stated she doesn't have an "age limit" to when she will do the procedure. The default for this practice is a bilateral salpingectomy as opposed to other sterilization techniques.
Dr Susan West, she works for Laruel OBGYN in Asheville. I recently went to ask for sterilization. I am 26 woman with no children. I had the best doctor's experience I've ever had there. She asked me thoughtful questions without being judgmental and with no pressure. She supported my decision for a tubal ligation while answering all of my specific questions about the surgery. She also gave me a great suggestion to get genetic testing to advocate for a salpingectomy instead of a tubal ligation (There is quite a few individuals in my family with breast cancer).
Dr. Lindsay Veazey at Laurel OBGYN and spoke about getting a tubal ligation. I’m unmarried, 29 year old with no children. She was instantly supportive. I asked about ectopic pregnancies and she said she’s actually removing the whole Fallopian tube now so it would be a salpingectomy instead. The only thing she wanted me to do first was speak to my neurosurgeon about coordinating recovery times between the salpingectomy and another potential surgery. She said that she is willing to do this surgery on young women without children and thinks anyone at her office would be.
Dr. Laura Carlton at Biltmore OBGYN Asheville NC. Bilateral salpingectomy, 26, not married but have a bf of almost 3 years, CF. No bingo at all, she was amazingly supportive! I went through 3 drs before her. Just out of curiosity and AFTER she had approved my surgery, she asked what the previous drs reasoning was to refuse me. She did check that I knew birth control options beforehand but once I verified I knew my options and wanted this, she was behind me all the way. She also performed the surgery vaginally instead of through my abdomen. I'm a little over 1 week post op and recovery has been amazing!
+1 Dr. Laura Carlton Practice: Biltmore Ob/Gyn in Asheville, NC Practice Phone Number: 828-277-7727.I met with her in August 2022 and discussed having a bisalp at age 28. I was married and brought my partner with me, but she mostly talked with me and didn’t ask his opinion at all which me me feel safe and in control. I had never had children and this was no issue for her, she didn’t even ask. I was never bingoed. She educated me in the procedure, made sure I understood it was permanent, and gave me time to think on my decision and me feel safe to choose either way. I left the appointment and she told me to call her office if/when I wanted to schedule. She performed the procedure two months later (the wait was due to scheduling conflicts, there was no mandatory waiting period) and it went super well. She did the procedure vaginally so I had no external stitches and I was fully healed in about 2 weeks. I have recommended other friends to Dr. Carlton and they all love her. She is very sex positive, kind, and very well educated.
Dr. Franklin with Asheville Urological Associates at 1 Hospital Drive, Asheville, North Carolina. Early 30's single child-free male. Bilateral vasectomy. An initial ~15-30 minute consultation to go over the procedure and an examination to make sure everything felt normal. No attempts to influence my decision, simply asked if I had any children (I don't) and made sure I was aware it is considered permanent even though it is reversible. The procedure was 3 weeks later and took about 20 minutes. Cigna insurance covered the procedure completely except for the sperm test ($60), but was informed that without insurance it would have been $643
Dr. Catherine Kurtz. Laparoscopic Bilateral Salpingectomy. I am 27, in a relationship, not married, and have no kids. I first spoke with Dr. Catherine Kurtz, my gynecologist, about sterilization. At the time, I didn’t know she did these surgeries. She seemed to fully support my decision to go permanent. She performed the surgery at Mission Hospital in Asheville, NC. Everything seemed to go well!
+1 Dr. Kurtz. Jan. 2024. Bisalp on 26-year-old redditor. The nurses and my doctor were fabulous. Doing well now, just a little sore :)
+1 Dr. Kurtz, Nov 2024. Bilateral salpingectomy on 30-year-old CF redditor. Dr. Kurtz and all of the nurses did an incredible job and I’m super happy with the result.
Boiling Springs
Dr. Charles Lampley, MD 335 W. College Ave., Suite A, Boiling Springs, NC 28017, 980-487-2800. Oct 2024. Also in Shelby. Respectful of neurologically-divergent people. Hysterectomy on 25-year-old redditor with bipolar and pelvic pain. Dr. Lampley was a bit iffy at first and sent me to a physical therapist for “pelvic pain.” I had the physical therapist write a note that physical therapy wasn’t going to benefit my issues, after which he agreed to give me a hysterectomy. He did understand and agree birth control would mess my hormones up further. He said “it does sound like you’re confident in not having kids, I just want to be able to have it on more than one document that you’re certain about it.” He never tried to pursue me to not get it. He never pulled the “what if” card. He just explained the different procedures he could do for me, the benefits and drawbacks of each, and let me make my own decision on the one I wanted. It was two fifteen minute appointments plus a phone call after the physical therapy.
Cary
Christopher Hays, D.O. 25, bilateral salpingectomy. He's located at Triangle Women's Center in Cary, North Carolina. He didn't question my decision at all, just gave me information about the procedure and associated risks. He's enthusiastic about his work and I had a great experience!
Chapel Hill
Dr. Sonya Williams. Bilateral salpingectomy. She performed my bisalp in 2020, when I was 23. She asked me my reasoning for wanting sterilization, didn't argue with me or try to talk me out of it, and even agreed with me that bisalps are superior to tubal ligation and fought with my insurance to get them to cover the bisalp after they claimed they'd only cover a tubal. It took ~2 months between my initial appointment and the date of my surgery. I'm also agender and she was very respectful of my identity.
+1 Dr. Sonya Williams. Practices as an OBGYN at Chapel Hill Obstetrics and Gynecology (there is a location both in Chapel Hill and Durham North Carolina). She performed a laparoscopic bisalp for me. I am an unmarried (but in a long-term relationship) 21 yo woman, who has been childfree for as long as I can remember. I first interacted with Dr. Williams as a brand new patient for sterilization consultation. I brought up wanting a bisalp, and she discussed all birth control options without pushing against permanent sterilization. She was very understanding and accepting of my decision, while still providing alternative options/resources IF I wanted to pursue those. Never experienced bingos or push-back. Scheduled surgery soon after initial appt and it occurred 4 months later (potentially could have occurred earlier but the timing worked better for me).
Dr. R. Matthew Coward Urology, Pronounced "Cow-er," Vasectomy for 21 year old. Had a few questions for me during consultation, but after answering with well-thought out responses (did a lot of research on here) he seemed satisfied. Never tried to talk me out of it or change my mind.
Dr. Michael Evers OBGYN, Laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy, 23, not married (polyamorous including a long term committed relationship with a male partner). At an in person consultation, I explained my reasoning, and Dr. Evers genuinely listened and explained the typical ACOG spiel, but clarified that that's basically part of the gig, and agreed to do the bisalp. He understood my reasoning and was thorough but never condescending. Even the day of the surgery (about a month later), he said "I know what your answer will be, but I'm required to ask: are you sure you want to do this?" My insurance covered it 100% because I'm in the UNC system, and everyone who worked with me was very kind.
Dr. Joshua Hardison OBGYN. Tubal ligation but lots of questions and he said he thought I would change my mind.
+1 Dr Hardison My experience with Dr. Hardison was great, but I also came in very informed and confident in my decision. He did not try to dissuade me or tell me I would regret it. We reviewed the various options and risks and decided to tie the tubes. He paid special attention to my health and history to help me make the most informed decision.
Amy Bryant, MD, MSCR UNC OBGYN Family Planning Bilateral salpingectomy for 25 y/o, 28y/o, 24y/o, 27y/o, 21y/o, 25y/o and 21y/o, hysterectomy for 25y/o NB. Current wait times for surgery are 5mo+ (after consultation).
Dr. Anne Martinelli, Chapel Hill OBGYN (surgery performed at the North Carolina Specialty Hospital). Bilateral Salpingectomy via Laparotomy. 27yo childfree. Dr. Martinelli is incredibly nice and has a great sense of humor. No bingos, she made the process very smooth and I did not have to convince her to do it at all. She highly respects her patients’ bodily autonomy.
-1 Dr. Martinelli. If bisalp is physically impossible to perform, due to, for example, endo scar tissue, her backup method is Filshie clips. These cause problems, including that they can migrate and embed in other organs. So if you use this doctor, make sure your consent forms include that you refuse the use of Filshie clips.
Dr. Carolyn Miller at Chapel Hill OBGYN in Chapel Hill/Durham NC. 29, single, no kids and she was happy to get me scheduled after our original consult (when I was still 28).
Charlotte
Dr. Stephanie Welsh, MD Novant Health Queen City OB/GYN, 2100 S Tryon St Ste 201, Charlotte, NC 28203, 704-316-3000. LBGTQ+ friendly. Doctor has contacted us to advise: I Perform sterilization via bilateral tubal interruption or bilateral salpingectomy as preferred by the patient. Also perform gender affirming hysterectomy. We accept any insurance including Medicaid as well as self pay patients. No marital status limitation. Required age limitation for Medicaid is 21+.
Dr. Kevin Stepp, MD, FACOG 10650 Park Road Suite 120, Charlotte, NC, 704-667-5770. Aug 2024. Bisalp on CF redditor. They were all very wonderful and I got very good vibes from their practice.
Dr. Ebony Parson Novant Health Bradford Clinic OB/GYN – Ballantyne, 12611 North Community House Road, Suite 200, Charlotte, NC 28277. Body-positive doctor. Bisalp on 30-year-old redditor who was very pleased with her care. "I had my bisalp with her (30, no kids/husband/partner, considered obese at time of surgery)."
Dr. Jheel Shah in Charlotte, NC practices with Novant health. Performed bisalp on unmarried woman in mid 20s, with no kids or prior pregnancies. No bingos, no push back. Very respectful, caring, and understanding. Required a pre-op appt prior to surgery date set.
Rachel Tanis, she's a FNP but I went to see her as an OB/GYN. She was super sweet and gentle with my exam and when I told her I wanted my tubes tied, she didn't say that I'd regret it or question my decision at all. She told me it's completely my choice. She works at Novant Health Harbor Pointe OB/GYN in Denver, NC. 22yo F CF.
Sarah Pollock, MD Emily Hutcheson, MD Daphne Capek, MD Jada Fambrough, MD. We are at Eastover Ob/Gyn at Atrium Health in Charlotte, NC. We are at the CMC main campus. I would like to be added to the list of surgeons that help child free patients obtain sterilization. My partners I have also operated with and would like to be on the list as well. 21+
+1 Dr. Fambrough. Sept. 2023. Sterilization for 29-year-old redditor. I went in fully expecting a little bit of pushback, but as soon as I stated I was interested in sterilization she immediately agreed and we booked an OR. Day of my surgery, everything was quick and easy.
+1 Dr. Fambrough in Charlotte, July 2024. Had my bisalp yesterday and she was phenomenal. 10/10 recommend.
Joshua Counihan at Atrium Eastover. I had to wait about 2 months for an initial appointment, I went in prepared to make my case however he didn't bingo or press for me to convince him that I was sure. Asked me why I wanted the procedure, accepted my answer, and then later on in the appointment repeated that for legal reasons he has to make sure I understand that this is permanent, irreversible, and it means I will never get pregnant unless it is through IVF. Answering yes he then proceeded to pre-op and scheduling stuff, which took another 3 months. The actual surgery went perfectly, I felt great after about a week and just had my 2 week follow-up where he cleared me from any post op restrictions. Overall awesome experience. He's sharp, thorough, but kind and calm. 100% recommend!!
Dr. Daniel L. Watson, Urologist. Approved and performed a vasectomy on a 30-year-old. Was supportive, informative, and unbiased. He did ask how many children we had, but was unfazed when we said none. He did mention that the success rate for reversing vasectomies isn't great, so don't go into it unless we were sure. As soon as we confirmed that we wanted to move forward, he said, "great, let's get you on the schedule." He made us feel very comfortable. He was also hilarious and great to work with.
Dr. Lisa Wilson Tubal. Super supportive, very professional and generally just great to work with. Edit 2020-01-07: Currently not taking new patients. But please call to verify yourself as this status may change yet again, this is just a cautionary notice.
Dr. Kara Mia Stratton at Novant Mint Hill OB GYN in Charlotte, North Carolina performed my laparoscpic bilateral sapligectomy. I am 24, not married and no children. Dr. Stratton said she had no issues performimg sterilization on anyone over 21 who has been properly counselled. During the councelling session she just explained to me that the procedure (bisalp) is permanent, cant be reversed and that the only way I could have my own kids after would be to go through IVF. I signed a consent form and that was it.
Dr Savannah Pena Novant Health 10905 Providence Rd W Ste 260, Charlotte, NC 28277, (704) 542-0744. Plus-size friendly. Bisalp. I went to the Midtown office, zero bingoes throughout the whole experience. Just confirmed I didn't want kids and kept rolling. It was my first time visiting her when I was approved.
+1 Dr Pena, I didn't even realize she was on the list of doctors. I saw her for the first time in Sept after my other doctor retired. We were discussing my periods and I mentioned how bad they are and I've tried everything without any luck. She asked me if I have kids or want them and I told her no. She told me I could have a hysterectomy, if I'm interested in going that route. I never had to ask or beg. She listens when her patients express their concerns about their health and she explains everything in great detail so you don't leave confused or unsure of what's going on. I HIGHLY recommend her.
+1 Dr. Pena. Feb 2023. Bisalp on 30-year-old redditor. I wasn't hit with any bingoes, and the only questions they had were just to confirm that I didn't ever want to become pregnant and that I understood the bisalp is permanent. At no point did I feel judged or invalidated. Dr. Pena laid out my options, and thoroughly answered my questions and concerns about the procedure. I was approved without fuss and had my bisalp about a month after the initial appointment.
+1 Dr. Pena. April 2024. Bisalp on 34-year-old redditor. I’m 34, plus sized, 323 lbs. All she asked me to do was go see a gp to make sure my blood pressure was safe for surgery. I brought up not being married or having any kids and she shushed me and said none of that matters. She’s a gem and I love her. I mentioned having heavy periods and she offered a hysterectomy which I declined.
Dr. Ingrid Bullard in Charlotte, North Carolina has done bisalps for sterilization. She agreed to do my Bisalp for sterilization with no push back whatsoever. She’s wonderful and she really cares about women’s right to choose.
Dr. Samuel Ivan. I got my vasectomy when I was 24M, have no kids, have been single for seven years, and they gave almost no push back when going in. This was in Charlotte, NC.
Dr. Ganem at Urology Specialists of the Carolinas, vasectomy age 28, single, no kids. My experience was great. He didn’t try to talk me out of it, but he did inform me that “hey you know this is permanent, right?” Once I told him that I have never had any desire for children, he didn’t say anything further to dissuade me. The procedure was a breeze, three little “bee stings” of lidocaine and then less than 10 minutes of procedure. Very little pain, and we chatted the whole time. I would certainly recommend him for a vasectomy.
Dr. Astrid Jain OB-GYN and surgeon for salpingectomies and tubal ligations in the Charlotte, NC area. I recently got a bilateral laparoscopic salpingectomy performed as 26F (married, but separated) with no kids.
T. Christopher Morris, MD, FACOG, two doctor submission - my normal gynecologist is Dr. Kelly Jones, however she no longer performs surgery so she referred me to Dr.Morris. I've suffered from severe bleeding and painful periods my entire menstruating life, and after trying all methods of BC, Dr Kelly Jones started the conversation with "I want you to answer this honestly and I'm only going to ask you one time. Do you want children?" once I said no, she said okay then this is our next option. when I met with Dr. Morris, he was kind, direct and answered all questions. they both used inclusive language and didn't question my age, weight, or the fact that I've never been married. I had my surgery 2/29/24 and it went overwhelming well. Would recommend either doctor for care in Charlotte. Laparoscopic radical hysterectomy with bilateral salpingectomy. approved at 31, procedure at 32.
Clemmons
Doctor William Walter Crone in Clemmons North Carolina. Bilateral Salpingectomy. 28 years old, never married but with partner of two years, I have never wanted nor had children. I expressed my need to get this done and gave my reasons, all he asked was if I was sure because this would be permanent, and I assured him I knew and this is what I wanted. He agreed to do it and his team called me the SAME DAY to set up an appointment for surgery. I went in a week ahead of time to sign all paperwork and get my instructions for the day of. Doctor Crone had no hesitation to do this for me when I had been denied by two previous doctors. Total cost of surgery was around $29,000 but my insurance covered $27,000.
Concord
Dr. Steven Paterno, MD Atrium Health Women's Care. Copperfield OB/GYN, 349 Penny Lane NE, Concord, NC 28025, 704-786-7158. Also in Harrisburg. Nov. 2024. Bisalp on 33-year-old redditor. He wanted to be sure I was set in my decision, but I heard nothing like “you’ll change your mind”, “what about your future husband?”, etc. He just asked “are you sure this is what you want?” and he, of course, briefly went other birth control options, but only because he’s required to. He was prepared to get me scheduled with no argument. I was, honestly, caught off-guard by his relaxed attitude.
Dr. Kimberly Newman Allowed a 19 year old to get the Paragard and was excellent during the procedure. Permitted same person, now aged 22, to get a tubal ligation. Very understanding doctor with a great attitude and someone who is genuinely happy to improve her patient's well being! Highly recommended her for anyone looking in Charlotte/Concord area.
-1 Dr Newman - another user looking for sterilization was bingoed and not taken seriously.
+1 Dr Newman - approved sterilization (bisalp or tubal, depending on what insurance will cover) on me yesterday. I am 22, single, and nulliparous. She only asked if I was certain, aware that it was permanent, and that other options exist. She approved me with no further questions or comments after I answered "yes" to all three questions. She told me that most young people who want sterilization almost always know from a young age that they don't want children and that she's never had a patient regret it. She was very understanding of my stance and didn't bingo me once.
+1 Dr. Newman. March 2023. Bisalp on 22-year-old redditor. She and her team were great from start to finish. They made me feel so comfortable throughout the entire process, made sure that I understood everything that was going on, and they didn't bingo me a bit. They even got an IV specialist to place mine so I wouldn't get stuck multiple times.
Dr. Hannah Ehasz, and she has locations in Concord and Davidson, NC. I just turned 25, unmarried with no children, and she's performing a total laparoscopic hysterectomy and bilateral salpingectomy on me tomorrow. She's such an amazing doctor, and gave me absolutely no pushback besides informing me of the other sterilization options. She has said age does not factor in for her decision to approve sterilization options for patients. Best doctor I've ever had.
Durham
Dr. Jason R. Rothman, MD Vasectomy for 26yo; Asked a few questions about life goals but nothing about regrets, changing minds, etc. Scheduled procedure within a week after initial consult appointment. He said he had done procedure for a 21yo, but wants patients to come in to consult appointment fully informed.
Henry N. Pleasant Jr., MD - "Performed bilateral salpingectomy on 25 year old female with autism spectrum disorder after 2 GYN appointments and psychiatrist approval. This doctor was very respectful and I highly recommend him for pursuing any form of childfree friendly GYN care. I was never belittled or bingoed by the doctors or the staff at Duke Health GYN. I highly recommend Duke Benign Gynecology at North Duke Street, Durham, NC for childfree friendly GYN care. Team and psychiatrist at Duke Autism Center, Durham, NC was also childfree friendly care provider."
-1 Dr Pleasant - another member (21, unmarried, childfree) advises that Dr Pleasant "refused to provide any sterilisation procedure" and tried to push an IUD.
Amber Jarvis. 31F/no kids/long term partner. Went for 1st visit (normal annual exam). I brought up that I wanted permanent BC and had for many years, and that I was nervous of being shot down. No bingo, other than general discussion of the process and risks. She proactively mentioned bilateral salpingectomy as the preferred and most effective method. Said she'd have the front office call me to go over insurance and schedule the procedure, and that was that.
Dr. Amy Broach. 33 year old, female, engaged, childfree. She believes in a woman's right to bodily autonomy. The only thing she will do, is give you a run-down of what to expect after surgery and will ask you if you are sure this is what you want to do, and then give you the info to schedule your surgery. I discussed with her the issues that many women experience when it comes to seeking ligation/salpingectomy, and she confirmed that women have the right to do with their body what they want and she will not try to stop someone from getting sterilized. Also, for those looking to getting a procedure done soon, to call and ask for a "surgery consult" so that you can get on her calendar earlier. I highly recommend her.
Dr. Ankita Desai in Durham, NC Performed a bilateral salpingectomy July 2024. 28F, married, childfree. I was strong in my conviction in getting sterilized and doctor did not bingo me. Took three months total between consultation and surgery.
Edenton
Dr. Boehling of Edenton, North Carolina with ECU Health Women's care. I am not 30 yet, child free and single and he performed a tubal ligation. He did not try to talk me out of it at all. He was up front and stated that he was required to talk about different contraceptive but it was more of a formality. He understood my wants and did not question my choice. He talked me through what the procedure was and even drew helpful pictures. He was ready and willing to perform it as quickly as possible for me..
Fayetteville
Dr. Alan "Shay" Davis Performed laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy on 26 year old patient, when I tried to explain my reasons he stopped me to say that I know myself more than he does and he has no problem with it if it's what I want. He's an excellent OBGYN and gave me an IUD years ago as well.
+1 Dr Davis - bisalp on 25F patient with no children. Simple and to the point. No extra questions asked outside of the medically necessary questions. I drove from Durham so he asked me how I found him. I mentioned this lovely list and he seemed indifferent. He is very educated and experienced with what he does.
Lakshmi Gordon, 2053 Valleygate Drive Suite 201, Fayetteville, North Carolina 28304. I had an endometrial ablation, D&C with IUD removal, and tubal ligation done where they cauterized and transected both my left and right tube. 29 years old childfree. Prior to surgery, my expenses ranged up to $250 under my mother's insurance, covering everything from primary care to a pre-surgery endometrial sample. Once I switched to state insurance, the cost per visit dropped to about $4, and the surgery was free. The process from initial request to operation spanned three months. The only hiccup occurred when an ultrasound clinic hesitated to give me a transvaginal scan due to my sexual inactivity. My gynecologist questioned my choice for a tubal once, but proceeded after I expressed it was a precaution for any future changes in my sexual activity. There were no other bingos.
Franklin
Dr. Suzanne Dixon did my bilateral salpingectomy August 2024. She is an OB GYN with MAHEC (Mountain Area Health Education Center), and my surgery was done in Franklin, NC. I decided on a Bisalp because I was so tired of the side effects from Nexplanon, and didn't see the point in trying BC method after BC method (because of possible other side effects) when I know I never want kids. So why not just get the end all method? She didn't give me any push back, just asked to make sure I didn't want to try something else. Within a month I had my surgery! I am 43, by the way. NB younger members need to be aware that OP is over 40 and this doctor may not be open to sterilising younger people.
Fort Bragg
Dr. Rachael Guame at Womack Army Medical Center performed a bilateral salpingectomy on an early 30 year old married childfree patient. The patient was a dependent of the active duty service member with no prior requests for sterilization. The patient did not meet Dr. Gaume until the day of surgery, instead the patient met with other doctors (residents) for approval and pre-op. The patients spouse was deployed the time of all appointments/surgery and his consent was not requested though they asked if he felt about it and if he had considered a vasectomy instead. However, this Doctor works at a military hospital and can only treat individuals with TriCare Prime Insurance and who have been referred by thier PCP. This Doctor is currently located at Fort Bragg, NC.
Greensboro
Dr. Michelle L. Grewal OBGYN; Gave lots of options towards BC with current information and support. Approved 24F with no children for Tubal Ligation.
-1 Dr Grewal, nurse made remarks about how I will not be getting my tubes tied. I ended up doing an IUD instead. The pain was terrible.
Dr. Kelly Fogleman OBGYN; Gave lots of BC options. Was hesitant to approve bilateral salp for childfree woman under 26 (patient was 25 at time of request) but ultimately approved surgery. Said she didn't want to stand in the way of bodily autonomy. | (Different Redditor) Approved childfree, unmarried 24F for bilateral salpingectomy. Was not hesitant, and went through all of the options and risks.
Dr Melissa Davies, Eagle Obstetrics, Greensboro, North Carolina, Bilateral Salpingectomy, Childfree female, 33. Approved and scheduled Bilateral Salpingectomy on the first consultation (November 2022). Only question over decision was “are you sure you want to forever stay child free?” Went over temporary and permanent BC methods. Stated Bisalp is preferred over tubal ligation. Surgery performed March 2023. Blue Cross Blue Shield of NC covers preventative procedures at 100%.
+1 Dr. Melissa Davies, Eagle OBGYN in Greensboro, NC, Laparoscopic Bilateral Salpingectomy, 26F, married, no kids or previous pregnancies. I called Dr. Davies office in August 2023 and scheduled an appointment for a new patient visit in January 2024. Was approved for bisalp at first visit and scheduled for April 2024. Covered 100% as preventative by Blue Cross Blue Shield 80/20 PPO plan for state employees. Dr. Davies covered other bc options including IUD, Nexplanon, and vasectomy for my husband, but did not push back when I stated bisalp was my preferred method out of all options. I did not experience any bingos with Dr. Davies or any of her staff.
Greenville
Dr. Scott Avery. Performed laparoscopic hysterectomy (uterus and cervix removed--ovaries left intact). Requirements: 21 or older, approval for a psychologist--got approval in one session.
Dr. Kelley Haven laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy on 28 year old female. Dr. Haven was AMAZING. I went in prepared with printed research and a written acknowledgement of my understanding of the procedure, and she was impressed. She expressed frustration over the lack of access to this procedure for women who want it and stated she believed in women's autonomy of their bodies in all forms. She said the only thing that's important to her is that I'm fully informed of the procedure medically and I'm making this decision of my own free will. She asked why I wanted it and I said I have never wanted kids, had been firm in my decision for over 10 years, and she said that's great. She knows I'm under 30, unmarried with no kids and stated that those factors had no relevance for her. No counseling requirement or waiting period. She fit me in for the procedure within a week so I could have it done while I was on leave from work. Super child-free friendly and amazing bedside manner.
Dr. Jonathon M Firnhaber. Vasectomy. 21, in a relationship (not married), childfree. Was super friendly and good at the job, made me feel very comfortable and safe. Medical school so he did have some residents at the procedure as well so I don't think it was weird. Took my insurance (Tricare). No bingos, but did ask why I wanted the procedure at the consultation (likely because of my age). Little wait time, consultation to the appointment was about a month.
Alexandra McClanahan, MD Primary care provided at ECU Health family medicine center, Greenville, North Carolina Also practices in the local hospital, ECU health medical center, Greenville, North Carolina https://locations.ecuhealth.org/Providers/details/2333. Provided referral for 25yo for bilateral salpingectomy.
Dr. Mary-Gray Southern at Brody Outpatient Center, Greenville, North Carolina. I believe she was the attending. Super supportive!! She was so kind and even answered my concerns as a fat woman having surgery as I was concerned about the healing of my abdominal incisions/bellybutton incision.
Dr Annie Knight at ECU Health Medical Center. Greenville, North Carolina. Surgeon who performed the surgery. https://obgyn.ecu.edu/annie-knight/ Dr. Knight was absolutely amazing. I was nervous and she reassured me in my pre-op, I think she might even be childfree herself given her response "girl, me too" when I confirmed that I absolutely did not want children. Also incredibly supportive.
Goldsboro
Dr. Lori Spisak at the Wayne women's clinic in goldsboro, nc. Went in, asked for a bisalp and was scheduled less than 30 days later.
Harrisburg
Dr. Steven Paterno, MD Atrium Health Women's Care Copperfield OB/GYN, 4315 Physicians Blvd., Suite 201, Harrisburg, NC 28075, 704-786-7158. Also in Concord. Nov. 2024. Bisalp on 33-year-old redditor. He wanted to be sure I was set in my decision, but I heard nothing like “you’ll change your mind”, “what about your future husband?”, etc. He just asked “are you sure this is what you want?” and he, of course, briefly went other birth control options, but only because he’s required to. He was prepared to get me scheduled with no argument. I was, honestly, caught off-guard by his relaxed attitude.
Hickory
Claire Harraghy, MD. I’m a 24 year old single child free woman and Dr. Harraghy completed a bisalp on me! i had one appointment with her and she approved the surgery in the same appointment. there were no bingos. i waited less than a month for the surgery.
Dr Jessica Gibney, 915 Tate Blvd SE, Hickory, North Carolina, 28602. Bilateral Salpingectomy 24yo. Jessica was so understanding and didn’t push me onto a different method of birth control. She held my hand before I went into the OR and was amazing afterwards. I’ve healed wonderfully from the surgery.
High Point
Dr. Kalpen Patel. Bilateral salpingectomy. 34, not married, no children. No hassle at all, asked only the required questions then scheduled me for surgery. Wait time for initial consultation was a month and a half, but had surgery 2 weeks after initial appt.
Huntersville
Jheel Shah, MD Novant Health Harbor Pointe OB/GYN-Huntersville 14330 Oakhill Park Lane, Suite 200 Huntersville, North Carolina 28078 (704) 316-4830. Dr. Shah, MD provided (myself) 34 year old child free and single female with a Laparoscopic Bilateral Salpingectomy.
+1 Dr Shah, She was incredibly accommodating to my girlfriend: f/28/no kids. No extra questions and treated seriously, very smooth process.
Jacksonville
Dr. Roderick Doss Performed bilateral salpingectomy. Minimal questions asked.
Dr. Brianna Whittemore MD Women’s Healthcare Associates, 245 Memorial Drive, Jacksonville, NC 28546, (910) 353-4333. Body-positive doctor: Bisalp on 350 lb 26-year-old patient without pushback, May 2023. She's very big on supporting women's bodily autonomy. She hates the patriarchal view of women needing a man (doctor or boyfriend/husband/etc) choosing for her if she is able to get pregnant or not. I asked her during my pre-op appointment if my belly would increase the risks of the surgery, and she said yes, but she wouldn't have approved me if she wasn't comfortable doing it. She has anesthesia separately approve me because of my weight and having to breathe for me, and they approved me very quickly as well, pretty much just had me open my mouth to she them my throat lol She also said she always does a full bisalp and removes the tubes.
Mebane
Bethany Beasley, MD, Office number: 336-538-2367. Kernodle Clinic, NC. This gynecologist has reached out directly to advise, "happy to support anyone at any time wanting to be sterile".
Mooresville
Dr. Nicole Wellbaum Lake Norman Ob-Gyn (704-663-1282) Performed a salpingectomy on a 21F in December, 2018. I originally asked about tubal ligation for sterilization, but Dr. Wellbaum recommended a salpingectomy for its additional benefits once she knew I wanted to be permanently sterilized. I was never once asked if I had a partner, let alone what they thought about it. Dr Wellbaum's only concern is that I was of legal age (21 in the US). I was only asked once if I was sure, the morning of the procedure. When I responded yes, she smiled back at me. Dr. Wellbaum has also agreed to perform a total hysterectomy on me at a later time--the later date is due to my personal schedule, not any concerns on my age. Possibly important: I have been seeing Dr. Wellbaum since I was a teenager, and she's know for many years I've never wanted children. Highly recommended for Charlotte/Concord/Mooresville/Troutman area! She is absolutely worth the drive for wonderful medical care.
+1 Dr Wellbaum - I scheduled the consultation in November, went in December, and she approved me that day. I didn’t even need a binder. She brought up regret among young people because she’s required to but also she could tell that I’ve done a lot of research. She didn’t question my decision one bit. The surgery was originally scheduled for January but then she got sick with COVID the day before. She personally called me to let me know and thankfully she recovered quickly and had a mild case. Then it got rescheduled for today. Just a heads up for getting sterilized in covid times: if you get sick, then your chances of dying during surgery go way up so you have to wait 4-6 weeks at this office. If you’re vaccinated then bring your vaccine card. This morning she was amazing and super nice, as well as the rest of her team. Again, she was very excited to see me and expressed how sad she was that she couldn’t do the surgery last month. 10/10 recommend her.
+1 Dr Wellbaum performed bisalp on 23-year-old woman without bingoes and without difficulty.
+1 Dr. Wellbaum performed partial hysterectomy on approx. 32-year-old woman with severe period cramps and endometriosis, who had been turned down by a number of other doctors.
Morehead City
Dr. Nicole D'Andrea. She isn't childfree but agreed to my bilateral salpingectomy with minimal questioning. Very kind and informative too. This was in 2017 and I was 26. I am a 21 F and she first gave me a pamphlet for an IUD BC and had me come back in a month. I had to tell her all the reasons why this BC and BC in general was not right for me, as well as to tell her why I did not want children. Dr D'Andrea has since sterilised this patient.
Dr. Olivia McCallum at Carteret OB-Gyn associates in Morehead, North Carolina. Preformed a laparoscopic tubal ligation on a single 20 year old childfree person. She generally prefers her patients to be 21 to be sterlized, but commonly makes exceptions. There were no bingos at all. Dr. McCallum is also very lgbt+ friendly and her most common exceptions on the 21+ preference are for FtM trans men.
-1 Dr McCallum who refused bilateral salpingectomy for a 22F citing her "maternal instincts not letting her", offering a tubal ligation instead.
Dr. Shelli Garret-Albaugh Bilateral Salpingectomy, 22F, engaged. As soon as Dr. Garret sat with me in the office she asked if I felt the same way as I had the week prior, and once I said yes she went into the details and got me the card for the scheduler to get a hold of me to schedule the Bilateral Salpingectomy. No bingos, no judging, just quick and professional.
Raleigh/Durham
Dr. Corey Bolac Duke Health Brier Creek and Southpoint. Bi-salp approval for 25 year old woman. No bingos, very professional. Has performed hysterectomy on redditor with debilitating periods as well as bisalps.
+1 Dr Bolac, She performed a bisalp for a 33/f, married, child free. No bingos, just asked if I'd explored other birth control options then explained the procedure. Both Dr Bolac and her team were professional and respectful throughout the experience and surgery.
+1 Dr. Bolac. June 2023. Hysterectomy on 29/f. My period was debilitating for around 3 weeks per month where it greatly impacts my quality of life. She approved my laparoscopic hysterectomy without an issue and she was very supportive when I told her I didn’t want kids. I had a few appointments with her as we set up a plan for surgery. She tried pain medication first to show my insurance that we have tried medication to help (it didn’t) leading up to surgery, and she gave me a uterine biopsy (super painful and quite frankly barbaric) but by doing that she found abnormal tissue growth.
Raleigh
Dr A. Jenna Beckham, MD, MSPH, FACOG Board certified obstetrician gynecologist, complex family planning sub specialist 505 Oberlin Road Suite 230 Raleigh , NC 27605 9192356514. "I am very pro child free sterilizations and have performed many!" All insurances accepted, LGBTQ+ friendly.
Dr. Caledonia Buckheit MD Kamm KcKenzie OBGYN, 3805 Computer Dr, Raleigh, NC 27609, near North Hills Mall. 919-781-6200. Doctor has contacted us to advise: I am comfortable providing permanent sterilization and/or gender affirming gynecological surgery to patients, regardless of their childbearing status. For sterilization, I feel most comfortable when patients are over 25 years of age. That being said, in a well counseled and well informed patient, I would consider surgery for any patient who comes to me desiring a procedure they feel meets their reproductive and gender affirming goals. I work as part of a group practice, I cannot speak for the other surgeons in my group.
Kirsten Beeson, MD at Associates in Women’s Healthcare, a private practice in Raleigh, NC. No age or marital status limitations, will perform tubal ligation/bilateral salpingectomy without hesitation as long as patient expresses understanding of all their options and permanence of the sterilization procedure.
Joanna Evans, MD OBGYN WakeMed North Raleigh & Brier Creek locations - see WakeMed website for insurance info LGBT+ friendly.
+1 Dr. Evans. Dec 2022 Bisalp on 28-year-old redditor. The doctor was very respectful.
Dr. Brian Brimmage of Raleigh OBGYN Center in Raleigh, NC. Specializes in minimally-invasive procedures. Performed bilateral salpingectomy for 28yo CF. I was seeing another provider for birth control but I wanted to be sterilized. She wasn't an MD so I called the main office line and asked for a referral. Receptionist recommended Dr. Brimmage so I scheduled a consultation. When I met with him, he asked me one time if I was absolutely sure I didn't want "more kids" (more, lol). He never asked if I had children already. He never asked if I was married or any questions about having a partner at all. I confirmed I wanted a bi-salp, after researching my permanent sterilization options and risks. He booked me for the procedure, performed it with zero issues, and that was that.
Dr. Lee Ann Roberts 5816 Creedmore Road, suite 209, Raleigh NC 27612. (919) 881-7766.Tubal ligation for 28 year old woman, with no bingoes. NB Dr Roberts will be retiring at the end of 2021.
Dr. John Marks GYN (not an OB), very supportive of long-term contraceptives and sterilization - He no longer does surgery he will however get some colleagues to do a tubal
Dr. Charles Monteith (Minimally invasive vasectomy). 100% recommend Dr. Monteith. Vasectomy on a 26-year-old male with no kids. The procedure took 15 minutes maximum. Dr. Monteith explained every step (making jokes throughout to make the procedure less stressful), AND didn't even require a consultation visit prior to the vasectomy. He offers a consult+vasectomy at the same appointment as an option if you are sure you want the vasectomy. No bingos. He asked "So, you have no kids and don't want any?" We said "Nope, none for us". He said "Well, this is a great decision for you to make then! Do you have any questions about the procedure?" Also, he does scalpel-free vasectomy and everything heals super quickly. Minimal soreness. Didn't even need to take ibuprofen after. Highly recommend.
+1 Dr Charles Monteith, vasectomy done on a 21M unmarried with no kids. Only questions asked was if I was sure this was what I wanted. The consultation and procedure were completed in one visit totaling less than 1 hour. The procedure was minimally invasive essentially painless. Procedure done on a Friday and was able to return to normal activities by Monday. Total cost of $1250. He accepts no insurance, but many insurances (including mine) offer reimbursement. Also provides plentiful resources for aftercare and healing.
+1 Dr. Charles Monteith. Nov 2024. Vasectomy on 43-year-old CF-redditor. He does not accept insurance and it costs $1250 out of pocket for a vasectomy.
Dr. Rosemarie Newman Requirements: 21+, approval from a mental health professional. NB this doctor will be retiring within the next two years - while this shouldn't deter our members from seeking care with this doctor, it is worth taking into consideration for those people looking for a doctor to offer them healthcare in the long term.
Associated Urologists of North Carolina Vasectomies
Dr Claire Sellers, Bi-salp, 32, married, no children. Super supportive, no bingos or issues at all. Said "I believe women should do what they want with their bodies so let's get you scheduled".
+1 Dr Sellers, Am 26F, no kids, not married. Zero bingos, super friendly and supportive of a woman's right to choose what to do with her body. Had initial consult as a new patient, pre-op, and surgery all completed within one month's time.
+1 Dr Sellers, I'm 25F, unmarried and childfree. She never bingoed me, heard me out and although mentioned alternative non-permanent birth control methods and the possibility of regret was also quick to approve and schedule me. She did an amazing job, got most of the gas out and has my upmost respect. Received a laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy.
+1 Dr Sellers, 32yo. She was so calm and reassuring the whole time and had no issues operating on a younger woman. She also said any of her colleagues at the practice would perform the procedure.
+1 Dr. Claire Sellers in Cary/Raleigh, North Carolina. I (26F) scheduled my first appointment with her right after I moved to NC; during that first visit I mentioned my desire to get a bisalp. She informed me of the risks (as well as the benefits) and never bingo’d me, and I walked out that day with my surgery scheduled for not even a month later. She performed my bilateral salpingectomy and it was a breeze. She is very knowledgable and considerate, and I was very impressed with the turnaround time. All of the medical staff at the clinic as well as the hospital were also incredibly kind and reassuring which greatly helped with my pre-op anxiety. I highly recommend Dr. Sellers.
Dr Richardson at the same practice as Dr Sellers above, 32, single (non married and not dating/no partner), no kids & never been pregnant. I contacted Capital Area OBGYN to request Dr. Claire Sellers, she was out on maternity leave at that time lol. At my consult with Dr. Richardson, we talked through all other contraception methods, she explained that there are inherent risks with any surgery and that it was permanent. She said it was clear I had my mind made up/was sure and "didn't want anyone to be forced to have kids if they don't want to" (re: NC's recent 12 week abortion ban). She reiterated that it was a good time to get the procedure as it is covered in full under ACA, "and we don't know if that will change in the future". Scheduled for 2 months out but could’ve done 3 weeks out, pre op appt and surgery itself went great.
Prashanti Aryal - She performed my bisalp yesterday. I'm 35. I had been talking about it with her since October '22. In December she scheduled me for the 1/30/23 surgery. She and the team did a fantastic job. My incisions are small, I'm feeling great (so far).
Dr. Jodi Bailey at Triangle Premier Women’s Health (https://trianglepwh.com) just outside of Raleigh, NC for doing Bilateral Salpingectomy. I’m a single 27F who has been adamantly childfree from a young age, went in to Dr. Bailey’s office and said that I’ve never wanted kids and that I wanted a tubal ligation. She said immediately that it was no problem and warned that she ONLY does bilateral salpingectomy, she does not do tubal ligations by any other method or procedure. I told her I was fine with that. She said she had no issues doing it for me because I’ve been an adult for a decade and if at 27, I didn’t want kids, that it was fine to do a bisalp. HOWEVER, and I stress this, she said “it would be a different story if you were like 21” so it seems like she will most likely turn down anyone who is between 18-21, and is probably more likely to do this for people who are maybe 25+
Dr. Alison W. Shew, MD Blue Ridge OB-GYN at Durant Road, 11001 Durant Rd, Raleigh, NC 27614-8390, 919-781-2500. April 2023. Bisalp on 26-year-old redditor. I only did the one appt to go over risk. She said she “had to tell me there’s a chance of regret” but that it was my choice entirely. I scheduled it and got it done!
Salisbury
Dr. Erin Grey, DO Tubal ligation for 31yo
Mark Amalfitano Tubal ligation for 24yo
James Murphy at Rowan Regional in Salisbury North Carolina I got a bilateral salpingectomy June 2023 (I’m 25 and CF) and he’s been phenomenal the whole way, just asked general questions to make sure this is what I wanted and to make sure I knew of other birth control options, didn’t even question it when I told him I wasn’t interested in other options.
Salem
Joseph Barker - Novant Womancare, Bilateral Salpingectomy 29F
Shelby
Dr. Charles Lampley, MD Atrium Health Women's Care Shelby OB/GYN, 110 W. Grover St., Shelby, NC 28150, 980-487-2800. Oct 2024. Also in Boiling Springs. Respectful of neurologically-divergent people. Hysterectomy on 25-year-old redditor with bipolar and pelvic pain. Dr. Lampley was a bit iffy at first and sent me to a physical therapist for “pelvic pain.” I had the physical therapist write a note that physical therapy wasn’t going to benefit my issues, after which he agreed to give me a hysterectomy. He did understand and agree birth control would mess my hormones up further. He said “it does sound like you’re confident in not having kids, I just want to be able to have it on more than one document that you’re certain about it.” He never tried to pursue me to not get it. He never pulled the “what if” card. He just explained the different procedures he could do for me, the benefits and drawbacks of each, and let me make my own decision on the one I wanted. It was two fifteen minute appointments plus a phone call after the physical therapy. Southern Pines
Dr. Lee Lowery Southern Pines, North Carolina, Laparoscopic Bilateral Salpingectomy, 22 Trans man, engaged, no kids. Dr. Lowery was AMAZING. He never bingoed me at all and made me feel like I was truly being listened to. My consultation felt very short and simply boiled down to "you know this is permanent?" After I assured him that was the point, and that I have been sure I don't want kids for years, he gave me the go ahead to schedule. (He also respected my pronouns 100%, even using he/him in my chart)
Dr. Pamela Kantorowski FirstHealth Southern Pines Womens Health Clinic 145 Applecross Road Southern Pines, NC 28387 (910) 692-7928. May 2024 I had my consultation with Dr. Kantorowski at Southern Pines Women’s Clinic. The consultation was only 10 minutes. Dr. Kantorowski was very kind, respectful, and professional. She never questioned me and only provided education about different birth control options. I explained that I used IUD for several years and interested in something more permanent. September 2024 - Bilateral salpingectomy. I arrived for surgery at 6:00 AM and was home by 9:45. Everything went perfectly and I feel really good physically and emotionally.
Whiteville
Dr. Martin Woleben Tubal ligation on 24-year-old
Wilmington
Dr. Joshua Vogel. Tubal ligation w/ cauterization, 25F, unmarried with no children. Extremely friendly to the operation from the get go, particularly when I brought up the impending risk of Roe v. Wade being overturned and my fear of pregnancy, saying "I don't blame you, pregnancy is scary." Initial discussion was a phone consultation during which we went over non-permanent alternatives and he emphasized that this is a permanent procedure with a risk of regret. This was prefaced however that these were facets of the surgery he simply needed to cover and that he was not intending to be paternalistic, as this was ultimately my body. Dr. Vogel worked with me to ensure that my insurance would cover it. I was also able to keep in my hormonal IUD for the purposes of preventing menstruation. I was scheduled for both my pre-op appointment and surgery before the end of the month. Overall a wonderful experience from both him and his staff, and one nurse even positively commented on how much more common this was becoming. Can't recommend highly enough.
+1 Dr. Vogel. June 2023. Bisalp on 21-year-old redditor. He did an excellent job.
+1 Dr. Joshua Vogel. Bisalp on 24F unmarried/no kids. At the consult, he discussed long term BC options, and discussed bisalp vs tubal ligation but ultimately said that I was an adult and he would be happy to go with whatever I decided.
Dr. Gregory Woodfill - I had a bisalp (full tubal removal!). Only had to ask once and it was scheduled. Age 36. No medical issues or chronic illness. Only issue was the office and pre op nurse did not quite fully prepare me for the length of recovery. Overall he is a kind, understanding, highly professional doctor, highly recommend l!
Dr. David Kraebber Vasectomy - 29 yo, single
Dr. Lee Ann Garner Bilateral Salpingectomy - 28yo, single. Best Dr I've ever had! No bingos, did offer IUD option, but was open to my conviction that bisalp was best for me. Very supportive, went to bat for me when another Dr. was being difficult. One consult, and surgery was scheduled for 3 weeks out, but was rescheduled due to COVID-19. Her office was straightforward and extremely flexible and supportive given the scheduling complications. Super considerate, reassuring, and kind, great bedside manner, excellent surgeon. She even re-used a previous scar so I wouldn't have more scars on my tummy! A model for other physicians to follow.
Dr. Joshua Vogel. Bisalp @ 33. No bingos, no BS. First discussion he gave me literature for an IUD just so I knew my options, but didn't express any reservations about the procedure. Last pre-op discussion, he touched briefly on regret in an "I'm just doing my job" manner. One of the nurses commented (in a non-condescending way) I was their second childfree sterilization of the day, and it seemed to be becoming more common. Another just went "their body, their choice". So great people all around.
Jennifer b. Calfee - Glen Mead ObGyn - During my consult 2 months ago. She Listened to my concerns over abortion becoming less accessible, and did not bingo me, I was emotional and cried and she respected my emotions and did not use them against me. She showed concern for my family medical history around endometrium cancer, and wanted to wait until she had my records to proceed so she could make sure to have all i needed done. I was approved last week for a Bilateral salpingectomy with no push back. And she noted that as long as I'm sure she respects all reasoning. I am 22years old. With no children
** Winston Salem**
Dr. Stacee Goodrich was very professional and did not bingo me regarding my tubal ligation. She just asked that I was 1000% sure I didn't want kids. I said yes and we went right to it. Very kind. She followed up with me about after-care when I came to from the anesthesia. She does work both with Lyndhurst and Forsyth Medical Center.
Dr Joseph Barker, M, MD OB/GYN. Novant Health. Bilateral Salpingectomy, 29yo. I didn’t have a referral, made my own appointment to talk about sterilization options. Went in and he didn’t make me defend my reasons or prove why I needed or wanted it. Just made sure I knew it was permanent, went through the salpingectomy options, and when I said bisalp he said that’s the one he recommended too, said “your body, your choice. I’ll call the surgery center and get you scheduled for surgery.” The surgery was in a month and went really well & at the post op appointment he was extremely helpful and listened to me and showed me the pictures from the surgery and walked me through everything they did. I felt extremely comfortable and informed every step of the way and know I’m super lucky to have stumbled upon such a fantastic doctor who didn’t make me justify my reasons or try other things or wait awhile.
Dr Kendra Kesty in North Carolina, Winston Salem. 31F, no kids, bilateral salpingectomy. Lyndhurst Gynecologic Associates – Winston-Salem 111 Hanestown Court, Suite 151 and they operate under Novant. The whole process was a journey and I appreciate the staff and location so much. I was calling so much that I asked for emails of certain people who were helping and they assisted me to the best of their abilities.
Bismarck
Dr. Kristen Gray, OBGYN, Sanford Health, 414 N. 7th St. Bismarck, North Dakota 58501, 701-323-5870. Performed hysterectomy on 20-year-old CF woman. “I have been dealing with debilitating periods ever since they started.I had to write a letter of understanding, that I understood the permanence and what it would look like for me to have kids if I changed my mind. I provided her with research I had done on my own. I also had to wait 6 months for her and the hospital staff to feel comfortable with doing this for a 20 year old.” Also in Minot.
Dr. Christie Iverson Tubal ligation. Asked me if I understood it was permanent and that it'd be easier for my partner to have a vasectomy. Didn't give any pushback, just took medical history and brief explanation of procedure before making appointment (30/f).
Dr. Michelle Tincher IUD. Discussed potential risks and benefits and helped find the best option for me. Helped me talk to my insurance company. Very pleasant and understanding.
Dr. Kimber Boyko Vasectomy at age 25. Very nice and friendly. Nursing staff was very nice as well.
Dr. Karim Chourtemanche Vasectomy at age 33. Staff was very friendly. Dr. Courtemanche asked some routine questions to make sure I understood that this was permanent and that I was of sound mind. Never got push back from him. The procedure was quick.
Dr. Rachel Peterson MD Bilateral salpingectomy on 28F. I needed a referral from Primary Dr. But after that smooth sailing; about a month wait from referral to surgery.
+1 Dr. Peterson. Nov. 2022. Bisalp on 29-yo redditor. I live in a pretty conservative state so I didn't expect my doctor to offer to remove my tubes. I went in originally thinking I would ask for the longest lasting IUD since I didn't want kids and my doctor was so quick to say she can remove my tubes if I truly don't want kids. No referral needed.
+1 Dr Peterson, will do sterilization and hysterectomies. When discussing options for my fibroids I said I didn’t want kids and she said she trusts people to make that decision for themselves and believes them. She also said she thinks too many people get denied hysterectomies for too long.
+1 Dr. Rachel Peterson helped me get a total hysterectomy (kept ovaries) about 20 months ago, I was 33yo at the time and am F. We were discussing my AUB (abnormal uterine bleeding) and LARCs and she actually brought it up. I was shocked, I said I wasn't going to try to ask because I thought I'd get denied! We decided on it right there and then as the best option for me since I'm very firm on no kids, never been married & had no partner at the time. Pre-op consult was in December 2022, had the surgery in February 2023.
Dickinson
Dr. Erica Hofland - Tubal ligation at 33, not married. Asked if my partner was willing to have a vasectomy and then scheduled surgery.
Fargo
Dr. Joyoti Saha, working in the Fargo/Moorhead metropolitan area of North Dakota and Minnesota, USA, performed a bilateral salpingectomy for me with very little BINGOs, the consult took maybe half an hour. She said multiple times that she was simply making sure I understood the permanence of the procedure, and that she was willing to do it even though I'm only 24 and have no children. The procedure was performed this past Thursday for me.
Dr. Todd Gray (Vasectomy)
Dr. Jordan Coauette (Essure, Laparoscopic Hysterectomy) Performed at Broadway Hospital on 21F. Willing to do on sound of mind and body patients. No hoops to jump through, however North Dakota requires multiple signed documents stating they did offer different options.
Dr. Stuart Topley, MD(Vasectomy) Had the Vasectomy at the West Acres Essentia clinic. During the consult he only asked If I had kids, and If I did not want kids. No bingos at all which surprised me, Single and 28. During the consult I asked him the youngest age he would do one and he said his youngest was 22, but usually he would do them 25+ with no concerns. Procedure was very easy, no complications.
Dr. Jason Myrmoe Vasectomy at age 26. He and his nurse just made sure I understood the risks/rewards and were very friendly and funny!
Jennifer Janke APRN, CNM(Contraception/Referral for Sterilization) Might seem odd, since she specializes in Midwifery, but she was the first available when I made an appt to get on BC (at 24 IIRC). I had decided on Depo, she recommended an IUD if I was thinking long term, and we eventually went that route. When my Mirena was nearing it's end, I mentioned I'd like a salpingectomy, and she immediately referred me to an OBGYN (Dr. Strang) who could perform the surgery. The exam rooms are rather baby-centric, and have plenty of infant photos, so if that's a problem she's not your pick, but she was very accepting of my desire to not have children, and very open about the pros and cons of various forms of contraception, and IMO very easy to talk to.
Dr. Angela Strang, MD(Salpingectomy) I was able to book a consultation regarding my salpingectomy within a week of getting my referral, and we merely confirmed that I was healthy enough for the procedure, that I was sure about my choice, and she gave me a brief overview of how it would go. FTR I was 30 at the time, so I don't know if age was a factor. She was willing to book me for the surgery at her next available opening (2 weeks out) but I opted for a later date. Day of surgery had to sign a few forms and such, but the surgical team was awesome and even sent me a thank you card afterwards. BCBSND covered the surgery 100%, I only paid a small amount <$100 for pre-surgery pregnancy test, kind of annoying but if I had to pee in a cup to get sterilized so be it.
+1 Dr Strang. Robotic Laproscopic Hysterectomy with Bilateral Salpingectomy (Took the cervix, uterus, and both fallopian tubes, but left both ovaries). 29 at request, 30 at procedure, less than 2 months apart. Married for 5 and we've both been CF for over 15 years. Dr. Strang is a gem. Great bedside manner, and she actively listens to what you're saying. She only asked 2 questions "How long have you felt this way" and "Is your partner in agreement". I asked for sterilization 10/7/2021 and had my surgery 11/29/2021. I have BCBSMN, and they approved my pre-auth after an ultrasound and an endometrial biopsy to screen for cancer. But I don't know what the final charges will be as I had already hit my deductible, but not quite my OOPM and it was just today.
Dr. Jedidiah Perkerewicz, MD did a bisalp on me (24F). Had one office consultation, no bingos, hardly needed to touch my binder. We had a chat about the alternatives (which I think might be legally required here?) but when I expressed that I was confident and had been since I was 8, questions ceased and he was getting me scheduled for surgery. I did have to book out a few months in advance. It was so much easier than I was expecting it to be, and Dr. Jed (he calls himself that) was a wonderful experience.
Dr. Michaela Heller of Essentia Health in Fargo, North Dakota. Perfromed a Bilateral Salpingectomy I was referred to her by my GP when I mentioned that I was ready to seek sterilizaiton. I am AFAB-Non-binary, 28, unmarried and childless. She did not even look at my binder during my consult for the bisalp. She simply warned me that it was irreversible and I would never be able to naturally get pregnant. But, she also added that in the end it would be my decision to make, not hers and that she would do the procedure if that was what I really wanted. She removed my IUD and treated me for endometriosis (that I didn't know I had!) while I was under during my bisalp surgery. She and the surgial team treated me with the utmost respect throughout the process and I recieved no bingoes. Overall it was a great experience.
Mary Nybakken, Bilateral Salp, 27. Went in arguments ready including boyfriend also didn't want children and would be willing to tell her, she replied his opinion didn't matter as it was my body. We did discuss BC options but she listened to my reasons why I didn't want them. Had to take sterilization pamphlet, wait few months to "consider the permanence" per hospital policy so she could check the box we "disccused it and I had thought it through." I called a few months later and made the appointment for my presurgery check, no fuss. Insurance covered, BCBSND with deductible met for year though.
Grand Fork
Dr. Andrea Eickenbrock of Grand Fork, North Dakota.. Performed a salpingectomy on me as a 23 year old. Only one consult was needed and I had to sign some papers required by the state. She did inform me of risks such as regret but never tried to talk me out of it and was wonderful! Highly recommend.
Dr. Pierre Barbot in Grand Forks, ND. He was very accepting of my choice and actually offered me a hysterectomy instead of a bisalp! He didn’t bingo me at all through the entire process; I definitely recommend him.
Dr. Joshua Saylor, Hysterectomy, Bilateral Salpingectomy 28F
Dr. Deborah LaChance at Altru Hospital in Grand Forks, North Dakota (1200 South Columbia Road 58201) bilateral salpingectomy, 25F. I had a total of three appointments with her, including the pre-op. Four if we count the surgery. I was asked to sign a form to confirm I understand the permanence (the entire appeal). I am engaged, she didn’t know that until surgery day when I said my fiancé would be taking me home after the procedure.
Minot
Dr.Jessie Fauntleroy MD 831 South Broadway, Minot, ND, 58701, 701-857-5703. Nov 2022. Bisalp on CF redditor. She was excellent in every way.
+1 Dr. Fauntleroy. May 2023. Bisalp on CF redditor. She was fantastic.
Dr. Kristen Gray, OBGYN, Sanford Health Highway 2 Clinic, 801 21st Ave SE, Minot, ND, 58701, 701-838-3033. Performed hysterectomy on 20-year-old CF woman. “I have been dealing with debilitating periods ever since they started.I had to write a letter of understanding, that I understood the permanence and what it would look like for me to have kids if I changed my mind. I provided her with research I had done on my own. I also had to wait 6 months for her and the hospital staff to feel comfortable with doing this for a 20 year old.” Also in Bismarck.
Dr. Michael Van Bibber (Vasectomy at age 19)
Dr. Jennifer Johnson at Trinity Hospital performed bilateral salpingectomy for 33yo CF. "I'm military so I had it paid for by Tricare."
Dr. Diane Bigham Vasectomy for a 31 year old with no kids and in a long-term relationship. She made sure it was understood the procedure is permanent and replied, "smart!" when told we had "no kids and want to keep it that way." Provided a prescription for 1 anti-anxiety pill to take prior to procedure. For the procedure, one small incision was made, large portions of both of the vas deferens were removed, and the ends were cauterized. A few stitches were put in and they fell out on their own after a few days. Semen sample was checked 3 months after procedure and the all-clear was given!
Wahpeton
Dr. James Halvorson - (Vasectomy). Very friendly - only question he asked was what happens if the hottest celebrity wants to have kids with me. Light-hearted and genuinely cares. Highly recommended.
Ward County
Dr. David A. Billings, MD. Obstetrician-gynecologist in Ward County, North Dakota. David A. Billings, MD, FACOG, is a board certified Ob/Gyn and a Fellow of the American College of Obstetricians & Gynecologists. Performed my bisalp at the age of 27 with no children: he was very kind and understanding, and he spoke TO ME, not AT me like most doctors do. He made sure I was very well informed, and gave me absolutely NO pushback on wanting to get sterilized other than only asking ONCE if I was sure I wanted to do it, which i am pretty sure he legally has to do that anyway. He is also the first doctor to ever hear me out and look into the heavy, painful, and miserable periods I was having, and finally got me diagnosed with Endometriosis after over 10 years worth of doctors that had brushed me off or didn't take me seriously.
Watford City
McKenzie Health Center 301 12th St SE, Watford City, ND 58854, 701-444-2235. Bisalp on 39-year-old CF redditor. Arranged for me to get a bisalp with Dr Andrea Dimichele-Manes. I first saw her in July for birth control options but we did not schedule the consult until August 22nd. My first appt was meant to be in mid October but I had to reschedule due to a work conflict. Fortunately it was a quick turnaround. No pushback from her or insurance.
West Fargo
Dr. Jon Dangerfield (Tubal ligation, I was 23)
Akron
Dr. Benjamin Kitko, DO Akron General Obstetrics and Gynecology, Green, 1622 E. Turkeyfoot Lake Rd. Ste. 301, Akron, OH 44312, 330-344-8565. Also in Stow and at Akron General Cleveland Clinic Hospital. LGBTQ+ friendly. Nov 2024. Full hysterectomy without oophorectomy on 24-year-old redditor. Absolutely no judgement and even scheduled an extra appointment just to answer the questions I have, instead of doing it through MyChart. He's not familiar with trans folks or how HRT effects the body, but doesn't judge nor hold it against you. Instead, he will actively seek to work with your doctor and encourage you to ask them questions as well throughout your prep and post-op. Dr. Kitko and his entire team were truly incredible and some of the sweetest folks I've had the honor of being a patient to.
Dr. Justin Wexler MD SPI Paragon Akron, 51 Park West Boulevard, Suite 200, Akron, OH 44320, 330-869-9777. Nov. 2022. He was amazing. Listened to what I had to say. And went over the 3 different procedures of sterilization and the risks. He pretty much said I’m an adult.
+1 Dr Wexler, He was amazing. Listened to what I had to say. And went over the 3 different procedures of sterilization and the risks. After he finished and asked if I had any more questions I thanked him for listening to me and told him I’ve been bingoed (did not use that word) at my last gyno and that was why I left. And I’m paraphrasing but he pretty much said I’m an adult lol. 51 Park West Blvd Suite 200 Akron, Ohio
Dr. Marissa Levine, DO Cleveland Clinic, 1 Akron General Avenue, Akron, OH 44307, 330-344-8565. Bisalp on 24-year-old redditor, Oct. 2022. Dr. is body-positive and gender-friendly. She did not question, shame, doubt, or impede my decision in any way. And she even accommodated my request for an all female surgical team because of my anxiety as a sexual assault survivor. She listened. She absolutely made everything as easy, smooth, and comfortable both emotionally and physically as humanly possible. And most of all she provided support. She continuously reminded me when I tried to explain why I wanted it the surgery that she didn't I didn't have to nor did she need me to justify my decision beyond I don't want kids. I had the birth control implant in and she made sure to mention that we did not have to remove it and that I did not have to stop taking hormonal birth control if I didn't want to.
Summa Women's Health Center All of the doctors I've had (psychiatric,bariatric and gynecological) have all been accepting and helpful. I've interacted with Dr. Mark Pozgay (Bariatric surgery), Dr. Jennifer Duncan (Bariatric office psychologist), and resident Dr. Megan Cesta (OB/GYN). . There was no judgement for never having had a pap at 30 or pursuing sterilization. Answered all my questions as well. Excellent hospital system.
+1 Summa - Dr Clemons (Summa Women's Health Centre). I (single 24F) had my bisalp with Dr. Clemons. I asked for the procedure in early May and had it done by mid June. She told me, “I can’t tell you what you want from your own life.” I’ve had zero bingos from any staff during my appointments. Amazing experience!
+1 Summa - Dr Clemons Asked about sterilization on my first visit with her, and she gave me consent paperwork to sign within 15 minutes. Due to covid, surgery got delayed, but she gave me consent paperwork at age 24, ended up being performed a year later at 25.
+1 Summa - Dr Clemons. She is at Summa Akron, Medina and Barberton. I met her as a new patient (old gyno gave me lots of bingos and I couldn’t take it anymore) in the Medina location and had surgery in the Barberton location. 32 married F, approved me for sterilization. Called end of June and got in end of July and she approved me for bilateral salpingectomy and changing out my IUD so I could continue to have periods. She listened to my concerns about how our state is vying to make birth control not an option. Did discuss hysterectomy but I did not have enough menstrual issues to be a good candidate for that so we did bisalp with IUD. Gave me paperwork within 10 minutes. Had procedure done 8/30/22 and as requested entire Fallopian tubes gone. She even provided me with scope photos to prove. Summa staff were by far the friendliest when I called around to get in for this consult. No judgement for my age or what I was requesting. All Summa staff at Barberton hospital were respectful and no bingos for pre admit testing or the actual procedure. Highly recommend.
+1 Summa - Dr Clemons was absolutely wonderful. I (23F, not married) was a new patient and had no bingos. Told her I was looking to have a bisalp and she briefly explained other contraceptive methods, thoroughly described what to expect for the bisalp, and verified I was sure about my decision. The same day at my first appointment we started scheduling the procedure (earliest available appointment was about one month out from the initial consultation). No bingos from any other staff members at the Summa Barberton Hospital.
+1 Summa - Dr. Mendise, not a single question about why I wanted the surgery; other people I talked with were also happy with him. Procedure was great and no bingos from a single person, from my regular gyno to preop testing to anyone I saw the day of surgery. Very, very satisfied.
+1 Summa - Dr Mendise, approved a 21yo for sterilisation. "Dr Mendise didn’t even think twice about approving me and said that it is the patient’s decision and that he would not stand in the way of that"
+1 Summa - Dr Mendise, my friend (23F, never married, always has been childfree) got a bisalp yesterday from Dr. Thomas Mendise of the Summa Women's Health Center, Ohio. She said she wanted a bisalp. He touched briefly on the types of sterilization methods that exist and alternatives to sterilization. She said she wanted a bisalp in particular and he said that he will schedule the surgery. He gave her no resistance about her desire for sterilization. The doctor and all the nurses at both the Summa Health center and hospital were kind and empathetic, and she was never faced with a single bingo.
+1 Summa - Dr Mendise was amazing! He actually approved me for the bilat at 20 years old (which is the youngest ive seen so far in the list) and simply scheduled me to actually get it just after my 21st birthday in order for insurance to cover it. Absolutely no bingos, made it very clear it was my choice and no one elses. On the day of surgery, everyone in the operating room was very nice and comforting! Surgery only lasted 35 minutes and I was already home in a few hours!
Dr Neel Parekh Vasectomy, 25yo, made sure we knew it was permanent.
Dr Brian Canterbury, I had a vasectomy done. Age 24. Married. No children. Wait time: About a month from first appointment to the surgery. With insurance, it costed about $1000 but my deductible was met with half of that payment. He was very understanding. He made sure I wanted the surgery and understood that it is hard to undo the procedure, but did not give me a hard time at all.
Dr. David Biats, M.D., OB/Gyn - Tubal ligation. (330) 344-8565
Dr. Naveen Arora, M.D., Urology - (No-scalpel vasectomy). 330-374-1255. Did my vasectomy at 21, made sure I understood it was permanent and that I didn't want kids, did not bingo me. Very polite and professional, procedure was performed well and I recovered with no complications or side effects.
Dr Cecila Ellis, ObGyn Associates of Akron. Bilateral Salpingectomy - 26 yo (25 at time of approval), single, childfree. My referring PA from ObGyn Associates of Akron set me up with a consultation appointment when I asked about a bisalp during my annual exam. The office staff gave me all the codes to run through insurance prior to the consultation. During my consultation, I did not feel like I got bingos, although Dr Ellis did run some "considerations" past me and asked me twice if I'd be willing to try an IUD first. However she answered all of my questions and concerns and was very confident in her abilities
Dr. Heather Mihalik, 1 Akron General Avenue Akron, OH 44307, 330.344.8565. Bilateral Salpingectomy. A/S: 22 [AFAB] (21 at time of procedure) - Nonbinary. Extremely kind and understanding person! No bingos, but went through the legal spiel of understanding that it is permanent, risks, and option for IUD. Quick in and out initial consultation and scheduled for surgery a few months out due to scheduling. Surgery went INSANELY smooth, and healed quickly.
Athens
Dr. Kathleen M. Bertuna DO 26 E Park Dr Ste 105C Athens, OH 45701 P: (740) 331-6912. Dr. Bertuna provided an outstanding surgical experience for tubal ligation to a 28-year-old woman, with no argument or pushback.
+1 Dr Bertuna, bisalp 27yo. My experience was excellent; no questions about my decision to not have kids, just a fantastic practitioner who does her best to make sure that her patients have all relevant information. It's worth mentioning that she does prefer that childfree sterilization candidates be at least 25 years old. Martial status never even entered the conversation. I signed the consent form and got scheduled the same day I asked. The procedure was as smooth as can be; I've had a really easy time recovering.
Dr. Timothy Kermode DO 75 Hospital Dr Ste 260 Athens, OH 45701 (740) 594-8819 (also in Logan). April 2023. Hysterectomy on 23-year-old CF redditor. AMAZING experience. No bingos, and we only had to jump through a few hoops for my insurance to cover the procedure. I did get the procedure for other reasons as well, but when I first visited Dr. Kermode he was more than willing to discuss other sterilization procedures even with no underlying issues. He actually had a one on one with the insurance company when they started giving me a hard time to push through payment for the procedure. Often used phrases such as “It’s your body and your choice, I am just here to support you.“
Beavercreek
Steven Crawford, MD. Dr. Crawford did a partial hysterectomy (all but ovaries) for me (f/28/single) in February of 2022. He ensured I was certain I did not want children on two separate occasions and had me sign sterilization acknowledgment forms after the pre-op visit. He is a fantastic and responsive doctor, and I could not speak more highly. As a healthcare provider myself, I am confident to send others to him and know he will offer high quality care.
Beechwood
Ashley Brant, DO, "I'm an OBGYN and family planning subspecialists and I'm happy to provide childfree people with permanent contraception. My bio is here https://my.clevelandclinic.org/staff/23254-ashley-brant I see patients in Cleveland and Beachwood in a medical office building and operate at the hospital or an ambulatory surgical center. I can also do virtual consultations to discuss the options. Patients can schedule by calling 216-445-2360"
Bellefontaine
Dr. Kristina Caine, MD, 937-599-3538. Bilateral Salpingectomy I'm 21, single, no kids, just graduated college. I came in for the consultation ready to argue my way to this surgery but was happily met with "I trust you, your mind, and your heart" and "I'm not in the way to your life choices." The only warnings she gave me was the risks of the surgery and anesthesia. She made sure I knew my options were discussed prior but didn't try to convince me of any. Dr. Caine was even aware enough to ask if this procedure needed to be hidden from anyone (ex, parents, etc) and if I had a partner if they knew. She shared the statistic of regret, but even joked "Call me in 15 years regretting and I'll fax you this consent form and the cost of IVF." It was an amazing experience with her and I was surprised to find someone so willing in my part of Ohio.
Bryan
Dr. Bazzi. The address for the practice is 434 W High St, Bryan Ohio. Phone number is 419-633-0755. I got my tubes tied. I'm 25 years old and I'm married. But I think they would've done the procedure whether I was married or not. They asked me once or twice if I was sure about the procedure but I didn't feel like they were giving me a guilt trip. Overall, good experience and would recommend to any woman looking to get her tubes tied.
Centerville
Dr. Jennifer Mittlestead at Far Hills obgyn in Centerville, Ohio. Performed a vaginal hysterectomy and bilateral salpingectomy on me, age 25. I’m married to a woman and do not have any children. I was a previously established patient and I had the surgery done about 6 weeks after I first discussed it with my doctor. The office did a great job working with my insurance. I didn’t receive any bingo type comments from anyone in the office.
Dr. Caroline Peterson, DO Progressive Women's Healthcare Centerville, Ohio. I went in today and asked about doing a tubal. Dr. Peterson asked me two questions: "Have you had kids before?" and "You're 120% sure you don't want kids?" but mostly in a I have to ask these questions just to make sure kind of way. She then told me stories of other women who had come in ready to fight and she was like "it's your body, your life. who I am to say no?" I told her my only concern was my periods being really bad again and she said "well let's do an ablation too then." We talked about what it would be like and got me scheduled for a surgery in June. Only thing that wasn't awesome is that she's the only doctor at the practice (there are two NPs) so if she has to go deliver a baby (like she did this morning), you have to wait. I waited maybe 45 minutes in a room before she came by. It really wasn't that bad though. Note re Dr Peterson (Nov 2024), "she did agree to sterilize me, but she was by no means friendly or compassionate"
Chillicothe
Dr. Reynolds Risseeuw, Adena Regional Medical Center OBGYN Blackwater Office Address: 610 Blackwater Rd, Chillicothe, OH 45601. Phone: (740) 642-4400 "I am a southern Ohio OBGYN that does bilateral tubal ligation procedures, mostly bilateral salpingectomies, long acting reversable contraceptives, management of chronic pelvic pain, etc. I am a male. We have a LGBTQ+ friendly office but we do not provide gender affirming HORMONAL care, although we can perform gender affirming hysterectomies for that reason (vaginal hysterectomies, total laparoscopic hysterectomies, total abdominal hysterectomies). I am not sure about gender affirming mastectomies by our general surgeons and breast surgeons. Nobody at our hospital performs phalloplasty. These are not ideological things we exclude, we just don't have the surgical practice/training for it or transitional hormone therapy - although we partner very closely with Ohio State University which has more options. I do not restrict surgical sterilization based on age or number of children or marriage status. We accept most forms of insurance including the various state insurances. It is worth noting, that in Ohio, state insurances will not PAY for tubal ligation if the person is less than 21 years old, payment from private insurance based on age may vary, but I will perform the surgery as long as the patient can pay for it with or without insurance. We have excellent social workers who can help with insurance questions.
My partner Dr. Richard Villarreal is excellent and wonderful and does BTLS regardless of child status but takes into account age to much more of a degree. Dr. Pareja will do it, I don’t know her age requirement Dr. Villarreal is less likely to do it for age <30 and child free"
+1 Dr. Villareal from Chillicothe, OH. He was so understanding and only supportive of me, process was super easy and I understood everything! I am 26 so it would be harder for other providers to agree.
Cincinnati
For Women practice - The doctor referring the procedure was Sara Rinala and the Dr who did the procedure was Heather Barhorst. Both are located in the For Women practice (https://www.trihealth.com/hospitals-and-practices/for-women) I had a bilateral salpingectomy performed. I'm 29F, child free in a long term relationship, not married. Both doctors were incredibly supportive. When discussing the procedure they never guilted me about not having children. When discussing cons/ complications, all were relevant medical concerns and not feelings. Scheduling was pretty easy, I had an annual exam with Dr Rinala, who referred me to Dr Barhorst. I met with her for a pre op to discuss the surgery and recovery and then scheduled my surgery about one month out. Dr Barhorst answered all my questions and made sure I had appropriate pain control and medications for my recovery.
Laura Van Wyck, DO (The Christ Hospital, Cincinnati, OH), permanent contraception 21+
Dr. Samantha K. Sinclair, MD The Christ Hospital Physicians - Obstetrics & Gynecology, 8989 Winton Rd., Suite 400, Cincinnati OH, 45231, 513-985-9966. July 2023. Plus-size friendly doctor. Bisalp on 39-year-old redditor. I’m 39, weight 220 lb at 5’6”, US size 18-20, waist > 40” around. I asked specifically about belly fat and healing before surgery, was assured it would be fine. And it was! No complications, healing was comfortable.
Dr. David B. Schwartz - while we haven't had a testimonial based recommendation for this gynecologist, this article suggests he is childfree friendly: https://foxbaltimore.com/news/nation-world/doctor-sees-10-fold-increase-in-women-wanting-to-remove-fallopian-tubes-roe-v-wade-supreme-court-abortion-rights.
Samantha Sinclair, MD, FACOG Christ Hospital Obstetrics & Gynecology 513-985-9966 1955 Dixie Hwy suite C Ft Wright Kentucky 41011. 8989 Winton road Cincinnati Ohio 45231. This gynecologist has reached out directly to advise, "I am an ob gyn in the Cincinnati/Northern KY area. I am personally childfree but also believe in bodily autonomy. I would love to be added to the list as I routinely hear from patients their difficulty obtaining contraception and even permanent sterilization in our area. I perform bilateral salpingectomy, cautery and Filshie clip tubal ligations, in addition to all topical Gynecologic surgeries (D&C, dx scope, hysterectomy). My practice accepts most instances including Medicaid" 21+
Dr Jane Morris, University of Cincinnati, this gynecologist has reached out directly to advise, "I’m an Ob/Gyn in Cincinnati, OH who’s happy to do sterilizations on AFAB people who are CF!" 21+ only. Takes Medicaid.
Nima R. Patel, MD - this doctor is unconfirmed, use with caution and send a modmail if successful with achieving sterilisation.
Dr. Betsy LeRoy. I'm 25, absolutely childfree forever now (whoo!), and unmarried. I've been on the birth control since I was 16 & have always been satisfied with it. I actually brought up sterilization as a joke in December 2021 because my yearly checkup was right after Dobbs v. Jackson, and I knew it was only a matter of time until Roe v. Wade was overturned. I made a joke about wanting to be sterilized, but would settle for an IUD (instead of my current BC) because it was the next best thing, & soon I wasn't going to have a backup plan. Dr. LeRoy turned around, looked me dead in the face, & said she would schedule with me that day for a sterilization if that is what I wanted. Well I did, & here I am sterilized! She could have gotten me in much sooner, like in Feb 2020, 2 months after the request, but MY schedule was too full. Dr. LeRoy knows I am in a long-term, committed relationship with a man and did not ask me once what my partners thoughts were. She asked if I was sure at our pre-op appointment & when I said yes did not ask again.
+1 Dr Leroy in Cincinnati, Ohio. Bisalp, performed in November 2022. 25, in a polyamorous marriage, 100% childfree. Dr. Leroy is incredible. The very first time I saw her she asked me to tell her a little about myself, and I felt totally comfortable immediately, even telling her I'm polyamorous, and she didn't even bat an eye. No bingos, and when I told her about a horrible experience with another doctor she apologized. Bisalps are her go-to sterilization procedure. She told me the wait times were a bit longer because of demand following the Dobbs decision. My wait was 9 weeks from appointment one to surgery, with a required pre-op about 2 weeks before surgery.
+1 Dr. Elizabeth LeRoy Ohio, Bilateral salpingectomy + paraguard IUD removal -26F, not married + long term partner both childfree. Dr LeRoy was awesome and extremely helpful throughout the whole process, was very sympathetic with the notion of not wanting birth control for my whole life and respected I did not want kids nor have I ever. She even gave me the specific billing codes she uses for the procedure so I could give it to my insurance to get an estimate of what I would pay. The surgery itself went great! Pain was extremely manageable, the incisions are barely noticeable as 2 are below waistline, and 1 in the belly button which just looks like an extra wrinkle in the belly button is all. She even provided pictures she took of my insides and also of the removed tubes. Best decision I ever made and LeRoy was so helpful and empowering throughout as well.
Dr. Elizabeth Ruchhoft, MD, OBGYN The Christ Hospital Physicians, 513-936-5294. Sterilized 28yo CF without questions. 11140 Montgomery Rd. Suite 2400, Cincinnati, OH, 45249, 513-936-5294. Also in Fort Wright, KY.
Dr. Israel Washington, M.D. - Performed tubal ligation for me at 27, unmarried with no children. Spoke about how he used to turn down women for surgery who weren't married or didn't have children yet, but that he changed his views after realizing a woman should be free to make her own bodily choices, which was a nice thought. He did preach a bit about how I should remember that "as long as I have a uterus I can have a baby someday if I want" but otherwise went ahead with no pushback. No one in his practice judged or bingoed me and I was treated with respect. I signed a consent form, had to wait 30 days, and then I scheduled the surgery which was paid for in full with my Kentucky insurance.
Elizabeth Venard, M.D. (513) 481-4777 Performed bilateral salpingectomy for a 25 year old female, unmarried with no kids. Overall, pleasent experince, and she listened to my rationals. One thing noted however, at the PeriOp appointment, Dr. Venard did make a comment how she "Cringed at performing this operation on someone so young". On my surgery day, I was informed by the Stand Alone OR's registration, (Trihealth Surgery Center West) that by October 1st, 2020 billing would go through Good Samaeritan Hospital. Due to this, they would be unable to bill for sterilization anymore since they would not be considered a stand alone anymore and Good Sam does not perform sterilization due to religious objections. Dr. Venard is still open to performing the operation though.
Dr. Anita Weisberger, M.D. Scheduled my Bilateral Salpingectomy, stated that her job is to care for patients, not try to control their lives. Answered every question I had and showed no signs of judgement! Commended me on the thought and research I’ve given to the choice. In addition, she is also an amazing Gyno that I’ve used for the last 6 years. Cons are that she is booked out pretty solidly, but she’s worth it.
Dr. Brian Miller, M.D. (Tubal Ligation) Dr. Brian Miller himself is not the most childfree, however the NP within his practice, Cynthia Dehlinger, most certainly is!
Dr. Michael B. Rousseau, M.D. - (Vasectomy) He was very friendly and while he recommended taking time to consider if it's what you truly want, he has no problem with performing vasectomies on childfree people.
Nanci J. Billock, MD, 375 Dixmyth Ave, Cincinnati, OH 45220 - performed tubal ligation on 24 year old. Email: nanci_billock@trihealth.com
Dr. Eric O. Haaff, M.D. (Vasectomy) Very nice guy who went out of his way to make you feel comfortable and relaxed. He's done the procedure over 4000 times and recommends young men who want sterilization to stop by The Urology Group.
Dr. Lisa Gennari, M.D (IUD's, Essure, Tubal) I've been at here since I was 15 and love all of them. Went to her about Essure and no questions were asked (28 yrs old). Explained the procedure, let me know about a tubal and only asked why I picked one over the other, she gave me a date of the procdure and said they would let me know a time based on what was open that day.
+1 Dr. Gennari - (bilateral salpingectomy). I (26) was also approved without question on my first visit to her. About half an hour before the surgery (after I was suited up with IV and monitors) to say hello, ask if I had preference on pain medicine, and to tell me that they might have a way to do the surgery with only one incision (they did). After the surgery, on a Saturday evening, she was happy to talk to me about medicine advice, which shows that she is dedicated to her patients.
+1 Dr. Gennari - Dr. Gennari is my queen. I (24f, childfree, unmarried) have been a patient at her office for 8+ years and have seen her specifically for about 4. During my annual gyno appointment I told her I wanted a bisalp. As I rattled off a list of reasons why I wanted the surgery, she practically stopped me midsentence to say "you don't have to convince me of anything, this is your own personal decision." I was booked a week later for my surgery (which went exceptionally well) and am currently 4 days in recovery. Dr. Gennari is passionate about advocating against shady health insurances who are finding loopholes to not cover bisalps. She openly stated that if my insurance were to only cover specific types of tubal lugation, she would find a way to make sure my bisalp was honored during surgery. Thankfully Aetna covered bisalps (I only have to pay my $500 deductible) and I had no trouble with that aspect. I felt well informed, cared for, respected, and heard throughout my entire sterilization journey with Dr. Gennari.
Dr. Amberly L. Davidson, through the Bethesda North Minimally Invasive Surgery Center, performed a laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy on me today, at 29 years old, unmarried, without children. I can’t recommend her, her staff, and the affiliated hospital and their staff enough. It’s a majority female team, not a single bingo came from everyone, my doctor took absolutely no convincing (she said my age was a factor there though), and everyone was professional and empathetic.
+1 Dr. Davidson Feb. 2023. Bisalp on 34-year-old CF redditor. Dr. Davidson and her team were amazing, helped me explore all the options available to me in my desire for birth control and permanent sterilization. I never felt pressured in a particular direction, and she reminded me that she was there to help provide information and the best medical care for me, not judge or influence my decision. We settled on a bisalp with no fuss. Her team did an amazing job addressing my concerns and helping me feel comfortable the day of surgery. I am currently about one week post-op and would highly recommend her!
Dr. Priya Gursahaney, MD / UC Health Network - bilateral salpingectomy. I (26, unmarried & no children) was given the green light almost immediately. She was very supportive of doing what I wanted to do with my body and she was extremely friendly and informative through the whole process. Will follow up after the surgery! +1 Approved 23 year old for bisalp.
+1 Dr Priya Gursahaney, UC Health, Cincinnati, Ohio. 38F, married, performed bisalp July 2022. Dr. Priya gave absolutely no pushback on my request for a bisalp. I had the binder with me and she said it was completely unnecessary. Didn’t ask marital status until after she booked my surgery date asking if I had someone to stay with me after surgery. Replaced my IUD during surgery as well to eliminate periods and save me the pain of removal/placement.
Dr. Caroline Palmer, MD - tubal ligation. Use caution if under 40, as this doctor has advised she would be "reluctant" to sterilise anyone under 40.
Dr Benjamin River Vasectomy - 25 M Single with Girlfriend No Kids.
Dr. Eric Kuhn, MD. Vasectomy 27M, single, no children. The consultation and procedure both went very smoothly. Didn't even bat an eye at my age/childfree status.
Maureen E. Downing, DO out of UC health. She did my hysterectomy without batting an eye after years of abnormal bleeding. Even though I had already had my tubes tied, others doctors would try to convince me to avoid it "just in case." She was empathetic, kind, and professional. I asked if I could share her name since I know many people who are don't want any (or more than one) child, and want a ligation or have suffered from horrendous bleeding or period symptoms since they were kids. She told me she agreed that there's no reason for adults to suffer for the sake of a "fertility" they aren't interested in having. She will have to ask and/or make you fill out forms though because of practice/state law BS in Ohio.
Cleveland
Dr Marc Snelson. He works in University Hospital network from 3 different locations near Cleveland, OH. He was very kind, respectful, and even funny. I’m 30, single, and no kids and he didn’t give me any push back or question my reasoning for wanting the procedure. I HIGHLY recommend him.
Christopher S. Reese, M.D Urology Partners LLC. Met with Doctor Reese once when I was 27. He asked me if I wanted kids. I said no and we scheduled my Vasectomy for a couple months later. Procedure went well. Overall a great experience from start to finish.
Dr. Donald Bodner, M.D. - University Hospitals - Vasectomy when I was 32. He asked me how many kids I had (zero), if I understood the procedure was permanent, and scheduled surgery for 1 month later. Very understanding, no bingos.
Strongsville Family Health Center (Vasectomy) I was 31 with no kids, Dr. Rabets and the nurse were very respectful of my choices. No bingos.
+1 Dr Rabets - A 20 year old user got a vasectomy consultation in October 2017. EDIT: I have since been informed that Dr. Rabets no longer works for this location, but I would still give them a chance.
Shirley Bennett, OB/GYN at Southwest General tubal ligation.
Sybil S. Sailofsky, MD - She approved my bilateral salpingectomy at age 26. She understood my concerns about Roe vs. Wade and didn't give me any pushback except telling me she was required to tell me that regret was one of the risks of the procedure. MetroHealth system has a very generous charity care program. Check their financial assistance website. Your procedure might be free, insurance or no if you live in/near CLE. I was insured but not working at the time and it was totally free.
+1 Dr Sybil Sailofsky at Metro Health in Cleveland OH. I found her on the childfree friendly list, and found her very lovely, pleasant and professional. I was 30 at consult time and had tried different methods of birth control prior, so she was very comfortable taking my request seriously.
+1 Dr. Sailofsky, I am 28, AFAB, unmarried and childless and Dr. Sailofsky made me feel totally comfortable and respected during my consult and my eventual surgery. She recommended a bilateral salpingectomy which is what I ended up getting. I had a very positive experience with her and I actually found out while scheduling my post-op that Dr. Sailofsky was pregnant during both my consult and my surgery and she never mentioned it. She was totally respectful and understood my concerns about abortion becoming a tricky procedure to access legally speaking.
Dr Linda-Dalal Shiber out of Metrohealth in Cleveland, OH. I (28F, unmarried no previous pregnancies) asked about sterilization at my first appointment with her and she was immediately receptive. She was required to explain all contraceptive options and the rate of regret among those under 30 (hospital policy) but did not give me any actual bingos or hint of judgement. It was more of a “I have to tell you this” convo. Did not ask about or need to speak with my partner at all, other than just letting me know that vasectomy is easier to recover from. She was willing to schedule surgery in the next 3 weeks from my first appointment AND even suggested bi-salp as her preferred method before I had to bring it up.
Dr. Abigail Tucker M.D. Lake Obstetrics and Gynecology 9500 Mentor Ave. #220, Mentor, OH 44060 440-357-7100 She is accepting new patients. This is Cleveland, Ohio area.
Dr. Robert Abouassaly, Vasectomy performed at Fairview Hospital, Cleveland, Ohio. 28, single, no children. Absolutely no bingos. I asked for a consultation from the urology department and was randomly assigned this doctor. All he asked was if I was sure I didn't want children. Said I am absolutely sure and he scheduled me for surgery about 2 months out. My insurance (Medical Mutual) covered the cost of the procedure. Great experience all around!
Andrew Altman MD - Cleveland Clinic https://my.clevelandclinic.org/staff/4014-andrew-altman Vasectomy 37M, 2024, engaged, completely childfree "Experience was great. We had a video conference call a month prior to the operation. He asked if I had kids. I said no. He said "Alright! Well here's how it's going to go!" no questions, no bingos, just very professional and day of we talked about my job and podcasts we listened to during the procedure. Staff was helpful and attentive and the procedure took about 8-10min. The whole visit was about an hour between checking in and leaving the office.
Dr. Anna Chichura. I’m a 24 year old AFAB — not married, no partner, no children. Got a bisalp Dec 2024. I’ve never wanted kids for as early as I can remember; I’ve been thinking about sterilization for a while, and the recent political climate was kind of the straw that broke the camel’s back. Decided to schedule an appointment with Dr. Chichura on a whim (she was earliest available), and she was so kind, understanding, and immediately willing to perform the surgery. No bingos. There was the obligatory “here are some other options instead of sterilization” and “potential regret” talk, but when I said I still wanted a bisalp, she had no further questions and agreed to perform the surgery. She said, and I quote, “As your doctor, I don’t think it would be fair to gatekeep a procedure from you that would make you happy. If you’re confident in what you want, I’ll do it.” Surgery went super well — she asked if I wanted any music to drift off to sleep to, and the last thing I remember was mouthing the words to Charli XCX’s “360” lmao. I’ve had no pain, just a bit of soreness as if I did an ab workout. Haven’t needed any pain meds (OTC or prescribed), Gas-X, etc.
Columbus
Errol O. Singh M.D., F.A.C.S. 4885 Olentangy River Rd., Columbus, OH 43214, 614-784-8765. Vasectomy on 22-year-old redditor. I asked one of his assistants if I was likely to be denied based on my age before my consultation. He told me he has never seen the Dr deny someone on the basis of age.
Vidhya Krishnan, MD. OBGYN, Ohio State University Wexner Medical Center, 543 Taylor Ave. Suite 3044 Columbus, OH 43203, 614-293-3069. Bisalp on 23-year-old redditor. Dr. Krishnan agreed to do a bisalp after just the consult, no hoops to jump through at all. "She was wonderful, really! I went in with my list of talking points, and she literally stopped me and said "You don't have to convince me to do this for you. You want it done, and I can do it, so I'm going to do it for you." Doctor provides gender-affirming care according to website, and is very LGBTQ+ friendly.
Dr. Valerie Busick Avina Womens Care Columbus OH. Had a patient in for a bisalp consult and she questioned why my name isn’t on the Reddit list. I didn’t know it existed but have done several surgeries for child free patients without question or judgement. I do discuss birth control alternatives and risk of regret in surgical consent process but ultimately believe it’s the patient’s right to choose what is right for their body.
Dr Michelle Crawford in Columbus OH performed my bisalp yesterday without giving me the slightest fight over it. When I had my consultation I was all prepared for having to argue my case and she just asked “ok so you know this is permanent and if you want to get pregnant after you’ll need IVF right?” And I said yes and she immediately got me scheduled. Even managed to coordinate it with another necessary surgery I was having so I could have them both done simultaneously. 34F
Dr Erika Boothman, MD 921-B Jasonway Ave Ste B, Columbus, OH 43214, 614-268-8800 LBGTQ+ friendly. This gynecologist has reached out directly to advise, "I’d love to be added to the list of people who will do sterilizations, no matter if/how many kids/previous pregnancies someone has."
+1 Dr Boothman, I'm a 23f with no children and was sterilized Sept 2022. Said yes immediately when I told her I wanted my tubes removed. She even took before and after pictures and sent them home with me so I wouldn't be paranoid about them still being in my body. I had a minor complication post surgery that she handled quickly (popped stitch that my body was mad at but no infection or anything). She even supported my Anti-Baby Shower even though she couldn't go. I wasn't bingoed once and she even mentioned a vasectomy to my partner when he was there to help me handle my blood draw.
+1 Dr. Erika Boothman. She did my bisalp last year. I'm in my early 30's and childfree and go to one of the nurse practitioners at Professionals for Women's Health for my yearly who referred me (also very supportive of my decision). Dr. Boothman was great and my procedure and recovery was so easy. She did talk to me prior but it wasn't an interrogation, she gave me facts about the procedure and some info about iuds, vasectomy, and IVF. It was more of an education so that you understand all of your options and can make the right decision. I'm super happy and would recommend Dr. Boothman 100%.
+1 Dr. Boothman. July 2024. Bisalp on 26-year-old.She was amazing, especially as a nonbinary individual. She used correct pronouns, insisted on my chosen name being used whenever possible (legally I still have my deadname, so it was used but only when needed). She did not question me, bingo me, or try to talk me out of it. When I told her I found her on the list she clapped her hands and said 'ugh... I love being on that list.' She was incredibly supportive, funny, and an absolute JOY to work with from start to finish.
-1 Dr. Boothman. Nov 2024. I saw her for several things and contemplated filing malpractice against her. The final straw was when she did my IUD insertion and left me screaming and crying in pain on the table. Ignored me when I told her to stop the procedure bc I was in so much pain. I also found out later that she inserted the wrong type of IUD into me from what I had selected.
Dr Elizabeth Orwick, from Avina womens center in Columbus Ohio. I'd been seeing her for some time for standard women's care, but after the leak about overturning Roe v Wade, I decided to ask her for a tubal + ablation. She told me that all she wanted to hear was that I never want children and we were set to get everything scheduled. She gave me the option to leave the tubes, just cauterized, or to remove them completely. I opted to have them totally removed. The tubal/ablation was completed and I'm recovering nicely, with no complications.
+1 Dr. Elizabeth Orwick, I'm 36 years old and she will be performing my bisalp Monday. I told her about the pushback I'd gotten when I requested sterilization in my 20s. She declared herself to be very "pro sterilization" and she had zero issues agreeing to the procedure when I said I don't want kids.
Dr Jessica Miller in Columbus, Ohio performed a bilateral salpingectomy on me. I’m 25, not married, no kids, etc. I mentioned a family history of breast cancer and mental illness during the initial appointment. She agreed to take them out during the first appointment and I had them removed a month later.
John Teteris I got a bisalp as a 22 year old single childfree woman. It took about 5 weeks between the consultation and the actual sterilization. When I got in the office with Dr. Teteris, I told him I wanted to get sterilized and he gave me a short talk about how it is my decision and he won’t try to sway me from it in some paternalistic way and he wanted to make sure it wasn’t a decision I regretted. He then just asked me if I had any questions about the procedure and approved me for the bisalp with no hesitation.
Dr. Steven Balaloski. Procedure completed: bilateral salpingectomy 31F, Married, CF, both myself and 32M partner are now sterilized. Overall, my experience was good. It took a while to get the surgery schedule and I had to follow up with the office a couple of times but once the surgery was scheduled it was just a matter of going to the necessary appointments before the surgery date. No bingos from staff or Dr. Balaloski. He was very upfront and factual and only asked if I understood that what I was doing was permanent, to which I said I can't wait to be sterilized.
Dr. Katherine Rivlin Scheduled for a bilateral salpingectomy as 34F. Despite what you read on the linked site, she doesn't currently practice obstetrics (so a baby-free waiting room!), and her bio says it all: "I specialize in abnormal uterine bleeding, contraceptive care, early pregnancy management, family planning, preventative care and transgender health. I am passionate about partnering with my patients in order to create healthcare plans that are both evidence-based and suited to their unique needs and values." She is exceptionally compassionate and I cannot recommend her highly enough. In fact, she was the one who brought up sterilization once it was clear that I am serious about not procreating.
Dr. Brienne Williford- at age 27 had a salpingectomy. She did have to go through the whole "this is permanent, sometimes people change their minds, there's no going back", but in the end agreed to the procedure.
+1 Dr. Williford granted my wish for bilateral salpingectomy with no pushback. I’m 30F and child free; she simply made sure that I knew it was permanent and gave me no flack. Was never bingoed by any of her staff either. Awesome attitude and wonderful doctor. Columbus, OH.
Dr. Amber Murphy Mack (Bilateral Salpingectomy) - At the age of 33, I was able to get a bi salp without any bingos or pushback. I had an appointment for an annual exam and discussed sterilization options. She was able to schedule my surgery two weeks later. As a new patient, I was also able to schedule an appointment relatively quickly with the office (less than a week after I called). She is very friendly and has great bedside manner. I would recommend her as a doctor. She was especially understanding of my concerns with Ohio’s heartbeat bill.
Dr. Brett L. Worly Bilateral salpingectomy on 24F. He is also willing to do tubal ligation or clips. I asked about permanent sterilization and he agreed to proceed immediately. Explained risks of surgery in a way that was simply stating facts to ensure I was fully educated. No bingos. He’s a little awkward in general, but wonderfully kind. Always makes sure you are comfortable and supports your care in the way you want it done.
+1 Dr. Worly. 2021. Bisalp on 19-year-old woman.
Dr. Britta Buchenroth Offered tubal ligation or bilateral salpingectomy to 26F right when I told her I wanted to be sterilized. She did not ask me my reasons for being CF, imply I would change my mind/regret it, nor ask me about my partner. Explained both procedures she offers and the risks and recovery time for each. Verified my bisalp will be done within a month. Very friendly and charismatic doctor. I highly recommend her.
[Dr Shayne Rheaume](www.eastwindwomenshealth.com), in practice with Dr Buchenroth. This gynecologist has reached out to advise, "both of us are very happy/willing to offer any type of birth control and sterilization based only on what the patients would like. We also take most forms of insurance and Medicaid as well."
Dr. Eric J Springer I was able to schedule a vasectomy with Dr. Springer at the age of 21. I told him that I talked over it alot with my significant other (long term relationship) and thought it would be the best option since we both don't want children and a vasectomy doesn't cause the nasty effects that female birth control such as the pill, or the IUD may cause to women. He told me that he would advise against it since I was so young and had no children, but he also said it was my decision to have it done. He explained the procedure and the risk thoroughly.
Dr. Stephanie Conway At 38 I requested a tubal ligation and they suggested a bilateral salpingectomy instead, because of cancer risks related to tubals. I received no pushback, and my surgery was scheduled 2 weeks later. Actual surgery was done at Riverside Hospital's Same Day Surgery Center by Dr. Conway but all staff there were equally friendly, and I even got a fist bump on the way out from my childfree after care nurse.
+1 Dr. Conway. 2023. Bisalp on 24-year-old CF redditor. Doctor did not doubt my choice at all, and unlike my previous physician, did not think my history of anxiety had anything to do with my ability to make choices for myself.
Dr. Allison Murphy sterilised a 22 year old via bilateral salpingectomy. NB this patient had failed IUDs and a heritable autoimmune disease as justifications however feels that Dr Murphy would have still sterilised her if her only reason was that she didn't want kids.
Dr Adam Weiser traditional vasectomy on unmarried 21 year old. Only critique was that he was a bit "rough with your stuff" but was professional and did not bingo.
Dr. Shivkamini Somasundaram (everyone calls her Dr. Mini), who I traveled out of state to see. Performed hysterectomy with endometriosis excision on 24F. She is very empathetic and trauma-informed which was very helpful for me. She never made me go through a pelvic exam prior to surgery, she told me she would only do so after I was anesthetized and she kept her promise. Very kind and compassionate, believes everyone should have the right to their own bodies. Originally scheduled for a bisalp, but when I arrived the week of surgery I was able to meet with her and got it changed to hyster within 48hrs of the surgery and she was totally willing. Did require a note from my psychiatrist confirming that I've always felt this way, which was easy for me in particular as I'd been seeing the same one since I was 17, but important to keep in mind.
Kayla R. Busuito, DO. April 2023. Approach with care, if at all. Tubal ligation I, 30F with no kids, got approved for sterilization immediately the first time I saw her. She wanted to do a bisalp, but in the end we went with tubal ligation because that was 100% covered with insurance while the bisalp was only covered after my very high deductible. She was incredibly respectful of my choices, very nice and professional, and I had my surgery done within 5 weeks of my first meeting with her. Her surgical scheduler was amazing dealing with my insurance company.
-1 Dr. Busuito. 2023. Doctor saw me 4 times, each time she kept acting as if she would schedule me to get my sterilization done but kept pushing the pre op appointment. Finally she told me because I have a history of anxiety she wouldn't do the surgery on me because she felt I was too high risk for regret despite me telling her I have a therapist I had been seeing for 5 years that fully supported my choice to get sterilized and even wrote a recommendation letter but the doctor still refused. I told her I would continue searching for another doctor and she still said she didn't feel I should get it done. So she wasted hundreds of dollars for appointments I didn't need just to deny me because I have a history of anxiety. I don't feel like she is truly an advocate for a woman having the right to choose what happens to her body. She also repeatedly asked how my partner felt about the surgery and what if I change my mind.. (I found a doctor the following month and got the surgery so +1 for Stephanie Conway for doing it without doubting my choice at all even though I was 24 years old and child free)
+1 Dr. Kayla R. Busuito, I’m 31F (30 at time of surgery), single, childfree. Discussed bisalp at the time of my first appointment with her, went over my medical history of using normal BC for the last 10 years and a past surgical abortion when I was 19, and my history of depression and being on lexapro. First appointment wait time was about 2 months. Then had pre-op appointment with her to over surgery expectations, had the bisalp in November. She only asked a couple of times during the initial and pre-op appointments and day of surgery if I was sure that I don’t ever want kids, but I didn’t feel that it was in a way to try to sway me one way or the other. Surgery was covered almost 100% with Anthem BCBS. Even the surgery team she worked with was wonderful and patient with me.
Dr. Anita Somani. She completed a total hysterectomy(uterus, fallopian tubes, cervix). 22 in a relationship, don’t want children ever. I had a short wait time to see Dr. Somani, but she accepts insurance and through my own everything was free. I came to her to see if she’d be willing to perform a hysterectomy on me despite being young and she said yes and even offered a tubal if insurance didn’t cover the hysterectomy. Only asked why I was making the decision now but did not sway me to wait or turn me down.
Dr. Erin May, Bi-salp. I am 27F and in a long-term relationship. She was so kind and open to the conversation. She talked to me about the differences in ligation versus removal. She kept all conversations medically relevant, except that she did acknowledge Ohio is not a “friendly state” to unwanted pregnancies. May 2024.
+1 Dr Erin May, Women Physicians in Ob/Gyn, 3525 Olentangy River Rd, Unit 6350, Columbus, OH 43214 Bilateral Salpingectomy. 25yo. I was approved and has surgery at the age of 25. There were no bingo’s at all from the Dr or any of the staff. She asked why and made sure I knew this was permanent. But said this was ultimately my decision and if that’s what I want, who was she to say no. (They do have a Dublin office also, that she rotates between. My surgery was at Riverside Hospital same day surgery center)
Dr. Cherie Richey - Columbus Women’s Care - Columbus, Ohio. Bilateral salpingectomy. 32F, Single, no children. Very easy process. I saw Dr. Richey for my annual exam and asked if she was open to discussing sterilization. We then had 2 additional appointments to go over the options/process. Dr. Richey never questioned my choice and told me that she respects the decision I made. Insurance covered the cost (minus the $500 co-pay).
Dr. Rohl did my hysterectomy Monday in Columbus Ohio. I’m 24 with no kids. I have lots of medical issues and allergies. She was very accommodating and made sure all hospital staff knew to be careful with me.
Dr. McGill at the Avina Womens Health clinic in Columbus Ohio (she’s at the Lane ave/Powell locations) for a bilateral salpingectomy, (23f). I cannot emphasize how professional and empathetic she is. She warned me of risks going into the procedure, but accepted that I knew what was best for me and cleared me for a bilateral salpingectomy!
Dr. Brianna Donlon - Columbus, Ohio - Dr. Donlon did a bilateral salpingectomy on me at 30 years old, single, never married, no kids, and never been pregnant. I asked about sterilization in May, surgery was done at the end of July. No bingos, just the info she was required to provide. Surgery was covered in full by private insurance (UMR).
Dr Emily Rogers - I (23f, childfree since I can remember, and in a long term relationship but not yet married) had a laproscopic bilateral salpingectomy performed by Dr. Rogers from Womens Physicians in OBGYN, Dec 2024. Surgery was done at the Same Day Surgery Center at Riverside Methodist. I was never bingo'd, never asked to think twice, and had no trouble setting up appointments. They let my partner stay with me after I was prepped, until I was wheeled into the surgery room. Dr. Rogers and the team were so kind and professional, and I had a wonderful experience with no complications.
Dayton
Dr. Shannon McAfee, 937-435-6222. This gynecologist has reached out directly to advise, "happy to provide sterilization services for women who wish to remain child free! If you need an appointment and have any issues getting scheduled, let me know and I’ll be happy to work you in!" NB a receptionist has advised a member this doctor is only seeing pregnant patients and not currently offering permanent contraception services for childfree people.
Dr. Samantha Houser, DO - Plus-size friendly. I am 30 and got a bilateral saplingectomy with zero questions asked. Dr. Houser is so kind.
+1 Dr. Houser. 2021. Bisalp on 39-year-old redditor. I was quite large at the time of mine - ~350 lbs - and my doctor didn't even mention my size except to say that there are longer laparoscopy instruments they use for larger patients. Surgery and recovery went well and were fast and easy.
+1 Dr. Houser - she's warm, kind, funny, and agreed to bisalp me, no questions asked Consultation consisted of her explaining the surgery and that it's permanent and not reversible, I agreed that that's what I'm going for, the end.
[Dr. Mark Monsour, M.D.] (Vasectomy) Very straight forward and practical. $650 Total. No insurance. 22M. No Problems. One incision. No Kids.
[Dr. Blake Anderson] (vasectomy) 25M. No fuss, just explained the procedure and asked if I was sure. $700 and insurance covered 20/80. No scalpal vasectomy. Good bedside manner. Same location as Mark Monsour and from what I understand, all the doctors in Dayton Physicians are good and won't give much pushback. Did get a bit bingo'd by a nurse but they're not associated with any particular doctor.
[Dr. Susan Emmerling] Friend went in for a tubal (early 20s F) ready to fight for it, Dr. Emmerling surprised her by agreeing immediately. I (37F) went to her as a result when seeking a new doc, and she helped me to decided between a tubal and a hysterectomy (since I have fibroids for days). I mentioned to her why I chose her, and she said, paraphrased "I'm not going to tell someone what to do with their body. If they know what they want it's not my place to argue". Great bedside manner, spent time talking with me and not rushing me out of her office like some docs seem to. She's got offices in Huber Heights, Beavercreek, and Englewood.
+1 Dr Emmerling, I’ve been seeing her for years and she’s amazing, prioritizing the patient’s desires unless they’re medically contraindicated.
-1 Dr Emmerling March 2024. During our discussion she stated that if I’d been younger, she’d have told me no as she didn’t believe someone younger than me can truly make those decisions based on the person they are at that time. Didn’t love that, but I guess for 30+ seeking it, it’s a win.
Dr. Leesa Kaufman. She works in Dayton Ohio, at Miami Valley Hospital in their Lifestages Women’s Center. Her network is Premier Health. My Medicaid also fully covered all of the cost of the surgery. I had a very positive experience, she is very kind and down to earth and good at explaining. She is also very trans friendly (I’m non binary) I have another trans friend who sees her and had a great experience. She was relatively quick to get in with when I scheduled. Bilateral salpingectomy, 26yo, Oct 2024.
Delaware
Dr. Hariklia Louvakis, M.D. (Bilateral Salpingectomy) Dr. Louvakis was incredibly professional and respectful of my decision to be sterilized at the age of 26 and was able to get my surgery scheduled very quickly. I definitely recommend her!
+1 Dr Louvakis, Laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy 25F, no kids or history of pregnancies. Dr. Louvakis said she had to bring up the “regret study” but since I was 25, she considered me capable of making my own decisions and agreed to the surgery. She also pointed out all of the people in the study who did not regret their decision. No other bingos. She said 25 is when she starts performing bisalps (no tubals).
Dover
Dr. Chelliah - male OBGYN. I am 24 going on 25. I have never had children. Been married for 2 months. Together total for 7years. Dr. Chelliah asked why I wanted sterilized if my husband was getting a vasectomy. I said that no matter what I did not want children, with or without him. He did not ask about an IUD or Nexplanon. I have been on BC pills since 17. He made it clear that is was permanent as he only performs Salpingectomies, not Tubal Ligations. You do need a full pelvic exam before approval and be over the age of 21 (I am unsure if this is hospital policy as it is with Union Hospital under Cleveland Clinic). Once you have your 2nd appointment which is a pre-op to sign paperwork you are scheduled for surgery. Dr. Chelliah is also very nice and welcoming. I have only ever been to a female OBGYN before him. He and his staff made it clear they cared more about my decision than me being able to produce. He did inform me of the possibility of regret as he should and also followed it up with "the risk does go down after 30, but has no bearing on whether or not you have had children so I am not worried about that". My husband did attend my appointment and he was welcomed back with no questions. This was my first ever appointment with Dr. Chelliah and for asking to be sterilized.
Dr. Zemis - Male. My husband is 22, no children. We have been together 7 years married 2 months. This was his first appointment asking for a Vasectomy. He was asked a grand total of maybe 4 questions. The first thing he wanted to know is if he was married. He is unsure of this would have bearing on your approval rate but it was the first question he asked. He asked how I (his wife) felt about children, if he wanted children in the future and if he already had children. He got scheduled same day 1 month out. He did come in knowing all side effects of the surgery and the doctor did note in his official notes that my husband was well dressed. This doctor does put you under for the surgery so you will need a full day off work.
Elyria
Dr. Douglas Sherlock. Westshore Women's Health and Midwifery, 125 E Broad St, Elyria, OH 44035, 440-529-2473. Procedure done : hysterectomy with bilateral salpingectomy. I'm 35 and in a long term relationship we are both child free. No bingoes at all. Super chill doctor really listens to your concerns. Called me the day after my surgery to check on how I was doing.
+1 Dr. Sherlock, performed bisalp on 24NB, single, no kids. No bingoes, very informative about options and willing to push for your needs. Everyone I came into contact with was super nice and helpful during the procedure.
+1 Dr. Sherlock. Jan 2023. Hysterectomy and bisalp on 30-year-old redditor. He didn't give me the run-around; I experienced no pushback. He reassured me by saying that this is a decision made between the patient and the doctor and that I should ignore societal pressures when making my decision.
+1 Dr Sherlock, did my consultation Feb 2024 and did my procedure April 2024. I am 26yo afab. he was very kind and there were no bingos, only the necessary short spiel about all other available birth control options. before I was able to specifically request a bisalp, he said that bisalps are the current standard afab sterilization practice and that’s what he recommends. he said that he performs many a year and it’s a quick process. he only had to do one incision in the bellybutton instead of the more common three. he was very nice, helpful, and non-judgmental. I did not have to explain or defend myself or my reasoning at all. also shout out to the hospital team, they were all wonderful at UH Elyria, I felt very safe and taken care of, and I’m not afraid of surgery or procedures anymore. healing has been easy and I feel more myself now. :)
Evendale
Dr Elizabeth Clark at For Women Tri-Health. I'm 26 years old, unmarried, and have no children. Bilateral salpingectomy.
-1 Dr Clark, I just had a consultation with Dr. Elizabeth Clark (Dec 2024) today and she refused me the sterilization, mostly due to my age and the risk that I would change my mind, and the liability of performing a surgical procedure. She gave me every bingo in the book. I’m 27.
Gahana/Grove City
Dr. David Jones, D.O. (Bilateral Salpingectomy, Tubal Ligation, IUD placement, Essure) Dr. Jones was very professional and caring towards all of his patients. While our opinions differed on the topic of sterilization young (25F), his number 1 priority is patient care and he agreed to do it for me if it was 100% what I wanted. He even gave a referral for a doctor to perform a vasectomy on my husband and offered to talk with my husband about any questions he may have about both male and female sterilization.
Granville
Patrick Shayne Rheaume (he goes by Shayne) Website: https://eastwindwomenshealth.com/ Procedure: Bilateral Laparoscopic Bilateral Salpingectomy Age: 25 Marital Status: Single Childfree Status: No children Short Statement: The experience was great. I had a pre-op appointment a week ahead to confirm everything. Insurance covered majority, out of pocket was about $1,300. I was told the day before my time to arrive and when to stop eating. Upon arrival, everyone was friendly and efficient. I had no wait time. From arrival to getting in the car was 3 hours. And you need a designated driver post procedure. I also have a post-op 2 weeks after to make sure everything is healing correctly. I did not experience any bingos outside of the initial dissent from my former PCP. (99 words)
Hamilton
Dr. Beverly Alten is extremely attentive to patient concerns and questions, and she responds with clear, informative responses. During a routine visit in April 2023, I [38/F/Married/No kids] expressed my dissatisfaction with other methods of BC (pill, implant, IUD). I asked about surgeries and we agreed that tubal removal was the best choice for me. No bingos, no pushback- only support. She provided the consent form and I signed it there in the exam room. The surgery [bilateral salpingectomy with IUD removal] took place in July 2023 and I couldn't be happier with the recovery process and outcome. NB use with caution if under 30 as this doctor may not be willing to work with younger patients.
Dr. Frank Wolf DO of Hamilton Ohio. I went through Primary Health Solutions. (513)454-1111. My procedure was completed yesterday morning at Fort Hamilton Hospital in Hamilton, Ohio. He takes Medicaid. It was a laparoscopic tubal ligation bilateral with filsche clips. I am 29, single, and have been childfree since I was 15. The initial consult was very quick and easy. The nurse asked questions about my medical history and if I had any children. I signed insurance papers and had to wait 30 days to have the surgery. Dr. Wolf was quick to answer questions and didn’t question my decision other than to ask once more before surgery if this was what I wanted. The surgical team were all kind and explained everything they were doing while in the OR. I’ve had 4 other surgeries and this was by far my best experience. Fantastic bedside manner and the incisions are very tiny. Slight spotting afterwards and normal pain level the first day.
Holland
Doctors Nancy Arquette and Elizabeth Read in Holland, Ohio. 22 year old female sterilized with a fallope band tubal ligation.
Huber Heights
Dr. Amy Park Gave me a tubal at 27, no argument. First doctor I went to, spoke for maybe 5 minutes before she told me to schedule the surgery with the front desk. Asked if I'd considered IUDs, Essure, etc. Only issue I had was pushing for "cut and burn" vs. the clips - I absolutely didn't want the clips and she made it happen. Great doctor.
Dr. Caroline Petersen, Huber Heights, Ohio, USA, Dr. Peterson is awesome! I came to my consult prepared with a binder of documents to make my case (I have no kids or spouse, and was 34 years old at the time), but she said, "I don't need to see it; you have the right to choose what to do with your own body." My consult was in October 2022, and I had my bisalp in January 2023, though I could have scheduled it just over a month out if I'd wanted to. Main caveat was that it wasn't quite fully covered by my insurance; I ended up paying around $700 (with Trustmark insurance) once all the paperwork had been settled.
Independence
Dr. Erin Higgins MD 5001 Rockside Road, Independence, OH, 44131, 216-986-4000. Doctor requested to be added to the CF-friendly doctors wiki. She performs tubal sterilization procedures.
+1 Dr. Erin Higgins. Nov 2024. Bisalp on 23 year old redditor (approved at 22). I can’t say enough amazing things about this doctor. Went in 2023 as a new patient. Brought up sterilization and she was immediately receptive with zero pushback. She gave billing codes and I was able to get insurance to confirm full coverage beforehand. Right before surgery she came to check on me and answer questions my partner and I had. She shared photos with me at my post-op too. No bingos from anyone during the whole process, I would do it again in a heartbeat. Cleveland Clinic offered financial assistance programs if my insurance didn’t cover.
Lakewood
Jonathan Seibert Cleveland Clinic Women's Center 1450 Belle Ave, Lakewood, OH. Procedure approved: bi-salp Experience: Dr. Seibert was short and curt throughout the visit but did not bingo. He told me it was my body, my choice. He stated twice that it was permanent, went over risks twice, and told me regret is the number one complaint but that he "won't lose sleep over it if I do regret it." Overall a great experience from both him and the other staff! Dr Siebert is leaving the practice at the end of 2023
+1 Dr Seibert, I just saw him today for my bisalp consult, and I think his bedside manner is great. He’s personable, has a good sense of humor, and I felt respected when I spoke to him about why I was there. He’s just matter of fact, but did express how he respects a woman’s choice because all facts are covered in the conversation and all risks are discussed as well as the fact it’s a permanent and irreversible solution.
+1 Dr Siebert, completed bilateral salpingectomy. 22F, unmarried, no children. I was referred to Dr. Seibert by Dr. Patrick Isaac for my procedure as he left the Cleveland Clinic. Also gave names of Dr. Melanie Katz, and Huda Afaneh to see for the procedure but I did not see either of these providers. The latter two doctors are currently unconfirmed.
Liberty Township
Dr. Jenny Demos-Bertrand, DO, OBGYN The Christ Hospital Physicians, 6939 Cox Rd, Suite 350 Liberty Township, OH, 513-585-0140. Doctor’s statement: “I’m an obgyn who practices in Liberty Township, Ohio, in the northern Cincinnati area. I will do salpingectomies (a form of surgical sterilization) on anyone who wants one. It requires an office visit where we discuss the surgery and sign consents. The patient will then get scheduled for surgery. I do not have limits on age or how many children they have, even if it’s zero children. I’m also happy to place Nexplanons or IUDs.” Note: do NOT accept appts with Dr. Teresa Schutte, she is not childfree friendly, and confirm with reception that you are booked in with Dr Demos-Bertrand prior to attending your appointment.
+1 Bisalp on 22-year-old woman, without bingos. "We had one consultation appointment where she just went over what the surgery would be like, then surgery was scheduled for about 2 months later. She didn’t ask why I wanted a bisalp." Staff at hospital were very kind.
Mansfield
Dr. Michael Subit. Procedure: bilateral salpingectomy w/ uterine ablation My info: 29yo, single/never married, no children Mentioned wanting to get sterilized at the annual appointment and didn't receive an ounce of pushback or even an "are you sure?" No bingos, just a great doctor who listens to his patients. I mentioned wanting to eliminate my periods, and received no pushback in regards to getting an ablation either. Ohio has a 30 day waiting period, and had surgery 6 weeks after the initial appointment.
Martin Ferry
Dr Kara O'Karma - Tubal ligation. 24 Female at time of procedure, single (No mention of partner at consult appointment)/. Very professional. Did ask my reasonings for wanting to get sterilized at young age. Only mentioned IUD once, and after explaining previous complications subject was dropped. Very fast turnaround time, went in for consult for Tubal Ligation and walked out with surgery date. No bingo's given. No mention of partner or lack thereof at any appointments. Does accept Ohio medical insurance. All staff at hospital at time of surgery very kind and understanding. Explain everything very clear and kindly as well.
Marysville
Neil Niemi, M.D.. I’m 24, no children, not married. I originally had an appointment with another provider (in the same practice) from this list, but she was scheduled pretty far out. I ended up having a gynecological problem and had to schedule an appointment with a different provider in the practice for an earlier date. On a whim I inquired about sterilization during this appointment, he asked a few questions, but agreed to do it with little to no push back. He was informative, but not pushy.
Mason
Dr. Amy Brenner, M.D.(IUD's, Essure, Tubal Ligation, Bilateral Saplingectomy) I got a tubal at 24 without any argument. Everyone at this clinic is very kind and respectful and they go out of their way to make you feel comfortable.
+1 Dr Brenner. I got essure done at 27 with no argument. Asked my reason for getting the procedure done and then moved onto the next initial consultation question. No push back from the staff at all. Staff was respectful and very nice!
Tina Pearson MSN, CNM at Seven Hills Women's Health Center together with Dr. Aichholz, MD (second doctor required to approve procedure). Approved bi-salp on 21 y.o., performed ca. 6 months later (OP was 22 at that point). No bingos, no hardships. Note: OP was already going to the practice for ~6 years as regular OBGyn, so patient history might play a role.
Maumee
Dr Rachel Haas. I am a 27 year old female with no kids or medical issues, I just don’t want to conceive children naturally. I explained it to her after discussing other birth control options and that I was nervous to bring up a tubal litigation after knowing other doctors reactions. She responded that I am an adult who is capable of knowing what is best for myself and she would do the procedure. Knowing about the subreddit, today was my pre-op appointment and I had asked her questions for other women, she said as long as they are 18 and insurance approves it she would do the procedure. Some insurances require them to be 21 others 18, and explained if anyone did want children down the line IVF is still an option if someone has had a bilateral tubal litigation. So will sterilize as young as 18-21 with no children, health issues, or significant other.
+1 Dr. Rachel Haas. Procedure Completed: laparoscopic salpingectomy 22, married, no children Dr. Haas didn't ask about my marital status or if I already had children. She simply made sure I knew that the procedure could not be reversed and that I was ok with this. I had to have 2 pre-surgery appointments and 1 post surgery appointment. After insurance, the procedure ended up being close to $2,000.00 out of pocket.
+1 Dr Haas, I am 24, not married (have a boyfriend), no kids. Just had a bilateral salpingectomy done this morning by her. I was able to get in to see Dr. Haas within about a month. Absolutely zero bingoes and she did not question my decision or request at all. I told her what I wanted and why and that was it! She is extremely nice, respectful, and laid back. Surgery was being scheduled out a little while so I was able to schedule it for around 2-3 months after my first appointment. She even took photos for me during the surgery per my request!
Dr. Tiffany Slutz in Maumee, OH. I'm a single 25 yr old woman, with no children of course. I mentioned my wish for a bi-salp during a regular checkup and she showed no hesitation in doing so. She asked me once if I was certain this is what I wanted and that was that. The scheduling process and pre-operation appointment was quick and everyone was incredibly friendly during the procedure.
Mayfield Heights
Dr. Oluwatosin Goje, MD (pronounced: Go-gee) - Extremely understanding about pregnancy paranoia, Offered to check on IUD frequently if it would help settle my nerves. Consulted for permanent sterilization with no arguments at 25, submitted it to insurance that day. I decided against it in the end, but on the dr's end it was all clear. Lovely woman and doctor.
Mt. Vernon
Dr. Jed Henry, MD I went in off of a referral for an unrelated issue at the age of 21. Thinking I would kill two birds with one stone, I asked him about exploring my options for a vasectomy at the end of my original appointment. I received little push back. The only push back I got was a few rapid fire questions on why I wouldn't want children. He did have me wait six weeks for my follow up to go into further detail, however he did accept to do it. I was scheduled for a vasectomy a week from my follow up. Very understanding. Very straight forward. Friendly as well. I would recommend him to absolutely anybody. UPDATE: Operation was quick and as painless as you could make it. Amazing Doctor! If anybody sees this and decides to go in off my recommendation, tell him you got it from Reddit! I informed him he was going on this list during my operation. :)
Oregon
Dr. Anita Patibandla in Oregon, Ohio. Bisalp performed March 2024 on me: 30yo female, single with no kids. Dr. Patibandla was very respectful of my decision, during the consult she did her due diligence by confirming that I’m aware of the surgery’s permanence and verifying that is what I want. There were no bingos or pushback. The surgery was scheduled before I left the office, it had to be scheduled a month out because of Medicaid protocol. The whole thing went off without a hitch! Link: https://www.promedica.org/provider/anita-patibandla-md-obstetrics?utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=gmb
Perrysburg
Lauren Kuhlman, DO, "I practice in Perrysburg and Bowling Green, Ohio Accept most insurances No limitations"
Ravenna
Dr. Alan Rosenwasser MD (https://www.uhhospitals.org/doctors/rosenwasser-alan-1407922511#locations), at University Hospitals Portage Medical Center at 6847 North Chestnut Street, Ravenna, Ohio 44266 (330-296-4165). He completed a total bilateral salpingectomy on me, I am a 25 year old female, not married, and have never had any pregnancies/kids. The whole process was fast yet accommodating. I didn't have to wait long to see the doctor for the initial appointment, and he took me on as a patient fairly easily. I only had to discuss with him basic procedure questions to confirm that I understand the surgery completely and that I am certain about never wanting kids. He did not pressure me at all or make me feel wrong for my decision. They scheduled the surgery shortly after, and gave me all of the info that I needed to feel comfortable. They also worked with me to make sure it could be covered by my insurance. The surgery was smooth and easy to heal from, and every single member of the staff was so friendly and knowledgeable. They were also very thorough with follow-up, which made me more confident in getting my surgery done at this facility.
Sidney
Kristi Pedler, MD. I practice out of a group practice in Sidney, Ohio (West Central Ohio). Phone number is (937) 498-5373. Consults are done in private exam rooms within the office, which is in a professional building attached to the hospital I operate at. For new patient appointments, I am booked out about 3 months, surgeries are then scheduled about 1-2 months later. I accept most Ohio Medicaid insurances, I am a Medicare provider. I'm on most major private insurances. I have personally provided both tubal fulgarations as well as salpingectomies for childfree patients. I have done CF patients in their 20s after a consult to go over risks/benefits/alternatives/expectations. I want to know that my patients understand that this is permanent. I do not require letters from psych or other specialties, but I want to ensure that my patients know this is permanent. I nowadays generally do salpingectomies as this reduces the risk of ovarian cancer in the future. I personally am LGBTQ+ friendly but the area I practice in is heavily conservative. I do require it to be covered by insurance, so for the under 21s, I work with them to get it scheduled shortly after that birthday.
South Euclid
Dr. Gretchen Gerace, MD - No bingos when I said my husband and I were not planning on ever having kids and said the IUD was a great choice for us. Cannot speak about provider's attitude toward sterilization as it's not something I'm personally interested in.
Springboro
Rachel Brannon, CNRP (Mirena) Installed Mirena on a 19 year old, no questions asked; not sure about other procedures by her or at this practice.
Strongsville/Cleveland Area
Molly Gumucio, CNP (Paraguard/Mirena) Works at the Cleveland Clinic Strongsville Ob/Gyn Women's Health Institute. Exceptionally polite and understanding. Knowledgeable of the IUDs and their side effects. Not a single "Bingo". Installed Mirena on a 27 year old without any questions.
Sylvania
Melanie Miller OB/GYN, CNM : referring provider is an amazing provider. The entire office is really incredible, and (granted I’m there relatively often) the seem to always remember me. I truly feel my care is individualized for my needs. Referred OP for a tubal at 22, unmarried.
Heather Wahl MD, FACOG, NCMP : performing surgeon, bilateral laparoscopic salpingectomy (ultimately with excision and ablation) for 22yo unmarried CF.
Dr. Alexis Waggoner Noss at Promedica Physicians Sunforest OBGYN in Sylvania, Ohio. I had a bilateral salpingectomy done by this doctor in October of 2021. I am 27f, single, and have never had and do not want any kids, and when I mentioned to this doctor that I wanted sterilized at my first appointment with her, she had me sign the consent form for it, and a week later, the procedure was scheduled, and it was scheduled for about a month later. The only requirements she said she had were being over 21, and understanding that it's a permanent procedure.
Dr Helen OConnell - Promedica Sylvania ObGyn in Sylvania Ohio. I want to make sure people can still find me as I have definitely had a lot of folks needing help who have been refused etc by others in the past.
Tallmadge
Philip J. Smelcer, M.D., F.A.C.O.G. - 121 Northwest Avenue Tallmadge Ohio, 330-633-1350. Tubal ligation, I am 29, married and childfree, my insurance covered the procedure. I had to wait a couple months due to covid. The doctor did not try to talk me out of the procedure. All he did was make sure I understood that it is permanent. I did not have to get my husband's permission or argue my case.
+1 Dr. Phillip Smelcer. I'm 35 years old, Married, and never had children. Dr. Smelcer is very professional. He emphasized how the procedure was permanent, but did not lecture me on anything outside the scope of normal surgery information. I had a bilateral salpingectomy. My insurance covers this procedure. Co-pay is around $1,500 for me.
Toledo
Dr. Dino Santacroche 3020 N. McCord Rd, Suite 100, 3020 N. McCord Rd, Suite 100 Toledo, Ohio 43615, and other locations in Ohio. 419-725-6850. Vasectomy on CF married redditor. I was asked: “Do you want kids? Does your wife want kids?” I answered no and that was it. My wife didn’t have to be involved. Procedure was quick and without pain. A week out I have some tenderness but nothing that really bothers me. Worst part was the initial numbing for the local.
Dr Eric Pizza MD FACS @ Promedica Genito-Urinary Surgeons of Toledo was very helpful and professional in providing a vasectomy to a 32M with no children. Quick and easy consult, quick and easy procedure. His name is pronounced "pie-suh".
Dr Shannon Connole DO - Maumee, agreed to sterilize me. I'm 23 and I would have gotten it done when I was 22 but I had trouble with my insurance.
Dr. Kathryn Rivera-Litt I got referred to her by Amber Rychener CNP who works out of Sunforest Court OBGYN located at 5700 Monroe Street, Apt 303, sylvania, Ohio, 43560. I got some minor push back from Rychener but after constant persistent efforts, got my referral to Dr. Litt. Dr. Litt was incredibly professional, had great bedside manner, and did not project any bias on me for wanting the procedure even with no children. I got approved for surgery on consultation and was able to get in as soon as 2 months post initial appointment. I work for Promedica Toledo Hospital so I have their Paramount insurance plan. Overall cost was ~30k but I only paid ~3.5k out of pocket. Total time from entrance into center to leaving post surgery was about 6 hrs total. 2.5 hours preop, 2 hours OR pre anesthesia up to extubation, and 1.5 hrs PACU to discharge.
Warren
Dr. Natalie Mondary of Warren, OH. She did a bisalp for me this morning. I am 29 and she did not bingo me once or try to push pills or an IUD, just accepted that I wanted sterilized and scheduled me that same day. She will sterilize regardless of marital status or age, is known to be very accepting of LGBT patients, and is body- and sex-positive. She is a hero.
Westerville
Dr. Amol Arora. Total hysterectomy. Currently 29, was 27 at start of process (covid interrupted sterilization scheduling) - long time partner (over 11 years) - no children for either of us/never pregnant either. Bilateral salpingectomy surgery would have happened at start of process, but my periods had gotten extremely worse during covid and asked for ablation on top of surgery. Found out i have a oddly shaped uterus and the ablation would either not work or only half work. Offered full hysterectomy instead to solve both problems. Doctor worked with my insurance and place of employment to make sure i got the leave necessary for recovery and insurance covering as much as possible. paid $1000 upfront for surgery, insurance (cigna) ended up covering the whole thing and reimbursed me my $1000 ($44,000 total bill no cost to me).
Dr. Meenal Misal, MD OSU Wexner Medical Center, 6100 North Hamilton Road, Westerville, OH 43081, 614-814-8100. Oct 2023. Hysterectomy on 26-year-old redditor. (referred by NP Lindsey Daniel, also from OSU Wexner MC).
Dr. Cathy Taliani Bilateral Salpingectomy 29F, engaged, childfree, no kids ever. I hadn’t met Dr. Taliani in Reynoldsburg prior to my appointment. She was friendly and didn't bat an eye when I mentioned wanting to get sterilized. She said, "Your body, your choice," and agreed that a bisalp is a more reliable option than a tubal. She requested estimates right away, and I scheduled in August for November (October as also an option). I have Anthem PPO, and the procedure ended up being covered as preventative with both the CPT and diagnostic codes! (Call and make them check!). The surgery location prepped me well, and everything went smoothly. Staff and doc are awesome. Would 11/10 do again!
West Chester
Dr. Buckreus @ UC Health Women's Center (IUDs, Tubal Ligation, etc) I got approved for a tubal & Novasure at 28. He asked a few questions to make sure I was solid in my decision, knew what I was getting into, and confirm that I absolutely didn't want an IUD or birth control. Staff was extremely friendly and so nice.
Westlake
Michael Baldonieri, MD; OB/GYN - University Hospitals/Case Western Reserve University School of Medicine 2
Locations: - Westlake - 960 Clague Road, Westlake, Ohio 44145 - Cleveland - 5805 Euclid Avenue, Cleveland, Ohio 44103
Both locations are private clinics with individual consult rooms; multiple specialties in both clinic buildings. Ample free parking. Surgical site: University Hospitals Main Campus, 11100 Euclid Avenue, Cleveland, Ohio. All major insurances and Medicaid/Medicare accepted. LGBTQIA+ friendly; offers gender affirming hormone therapy and hysterectomies/oophorectomies. Gender Care clinic 1 Wednesday/month catering specifically to gender diverse patients if desired. Works with resident physicians occasionally who are also affirming. Office staff trained in affirming care. Scheduling for office consults 1-4 weeks out, surgeries typically 4-12 weeks. 1-2 clinic visits prior to surgery depending upon medical complexity and patient-requested counseling. Will work with other sub-specialists for complex surgical cases (eg endometriosis). Must be 21+ for sterilization; provides other contraceptive options starting at puberty.
Willoughby
Dr. Monique Katsuki, MD - Cleveland Clinic (Bilateral Salpingectomy) Didn't even question me and lectured a student who was shadowing her on how women can make their own decisions and don't need a doctor to "approve" their life choices. NB Monique has moved to Florida.
Dr. Rebecca Crockett OB/GYN bilateral salpingectomy, 32 F married. She went through the full list of options available for birth control to me and we talked about why I didn't want each specific thing that wasn't a bisalp. I was adamant about wanting a PERMANENT solution with the lowest possible failure rate. She stated that she typically does not sterilize women under the age of 30. So, if you have a uterus and are over 30, she's definitely a good option.
Dr. Boes is at Women’s Health Specialists in Willoughby, Lake County, Ohio, I had seen 3 doctors prior to her and she listened to my reasoning, no bingos, and I got a total bisalp 30 days after our first appointment (I have state insurance so I had to wait the 30 days) The entire process was positive! I am 4 days post op!
Wooster
Dr. Rebecca Russell, MD Cleveland Clinic Wooster Specialty Center, 721 East Milltown Rd., Wooster, Ohio 44691, 330-287-4500. LGBTQ+ friendly. Jan. 2024. Bisalp on 30-year-old redditor. She is a wonderful surgeon.
Xenia/Yellow Springs
Drs. Scott Bembry and Kevin Edwards out of Xenia/Yellow Springs, Ohio. Bembry requested my bisalp, but was unable to perform the surgery due to having serious surgery himself, so Edwards performed it. It took about a month from consultation at a regular gyno appointment to the surgery date in Feb of 2022. I was 29 at the time. They were professional but not overly polite. Listened to my concerns without a lot of bingoing. They, unfortunately, have to "counsel" people about the procedure before approving/doing it according to state law and that can be intimidating, but stick to your guns and show no doubt and you should be fine. Had a scare because the nurses attending the surgery thought I needed a paper signed a month before to get the surgery. Turns out that only applies to Caresource patients. I have Anthem insurance, which covered most of the procedure. I only paid about $75.
Youngstown
Doctor Vincent Ricchiuti in the Youngstown, Ohio area. Wanted signed approval for the procedure from my wife, but gave absolutely 0 pushback during consultation and vasectomy.
Dr. Constantine G. Economus, Bilateral Salpingectomy, at the beginning of December 2022. I'm 30 and totally single (no long-term partner/fiancee/etc.). There are several Economous' in the Youngstown area, so make sure you're contacting the one on Boardman-Canfield Road. Office wait times seem pretty standard, and I was scheduled as quickly as I wanted (I asked to wait a few months due to work obligations). I have pretty decent insurance which they accepted no problem; had to pay about $1000 out-of-pocket to the facility where the surgery was performed. He basically asked only the required questions to make sure I fully understood the procedure, and was good about answering my questions. He also repeatedly made sure I knew/felt like I was "the boss," and was the one in control when it came to this decision. Overall he's extremely friendly and supportive, high-energy personality, great bedside manner. Really likes his fist-bumps. 10/10 experience all around.
Altus
Dr. Vicente Sanchez, Jackson County Memorial Hospital Women's Health Associates. Tubal Ligation/Endometrial Ablasion, but he offered bilateral salpingectomy. Zero bingoes, but was very thorough in explanations of procedure and made sure to ask several times of I was sure. Very understanding and accommodating, always reassuring the fact that it's my choice, not his.
Cushing
Chris Maxcey, Cushing and Tulsa Hillcrest Medical Center, He is childfree himself by his own admission, and I suspect part of the LGBTQ+ community, although I did not confirm that. His office was very LGBT and childfree friendly! Hysterectomy and bilateral salpingectomy 31yo completed for both gender affirming and permanent contraception reasons.
Duncan
Dr. Juan Cornejo. Procedure at the Duncan, OK hospital in the website, but he also sees patients for consults in Elgin, OK. Salpingectomy in 2023. 30, married (though engaged when I started the consult process), childfree with an IUD 8 years. Went through military's Tricare insurance. Awesome easy experience overall with Dr. Cornejo; hardest/longest part of the process was getting a referral to him from the military doctors at Fort Sill.
Edmond
ANDREA PARTIDA, D.O., FACOOG Edmond, Oklahoma, 23yo bilateral salpingectomy Dec 2024. I have UMR insurance and had to get prior approval from them which took two weeks but they agreed and I was able to have the procedure done the next month.
Dr. Caroline Flint, Integris Edmond Women's Health. Bilateral Salpingectomy. 22, not married, childfree (no pregnancies either). You do have to be 21+ but Dr. Flint completely believes that at that age you have every right to choose to be sterilized. She disagreed with the current atmosphere of female reproductive health (trying to ban abortions and bc) and agrees it will get worse. Very friendly and professional, the appointment was 20 minutes before she said she was comfortable scheduling me for surgery.
Courtney Seacat, M.D.. Bilateral Salpingectomy, 24, not married. Takes Medicaid. NO bingos, believes women should be able to make their own decisions regardless of marriage or children. One 30 min consultation appt and I was scheduled for surgery at same appt. Highly recommend.
Jenks
Kristine Bryant. I am 31, no kids, married. She did a bilateral salpingectomy on me. It was about a 3 month wait to get in for the consult but was quicker to do the procedure for me. She was very much a "your body your choice" kind of doctor. All the other staff was nice as well. She said she is happy to do it, just wants to make sure people know what they are asking for and sure of the decision. She asked very few, basic questions though.
Muskogee
Dr. James Henderson (Urologist, Vasectomy) (Regular scalpel procedure, $650, (43h 21m) Basic questions, very knowledgeable and experienced, Performed on a 25 year old)
Norman
Dr. Lisa Waterman. 28yo 31yo bilateral salpingectomy. This doctor will be relocating to Nothern Arkansas end of 2024.
Dr. Ronni Farris 3928 W. Tecumseh Rd. Norman, Oklahoma 73073, 405-701-6717. Bilateral Salpingectomy and Uterine Ablation I'm 25, no kids, no spouse. She set up my surgery appointment over the phone, never even asked my age or marital status. No bingos. Super nice and supportive, patiently answered all my questions. My nurse even said she had the same procedure done a few years back so everyone was very pro child free.
+1 Dr. Farris. Nov. 2024. Bisalp on 26-year-old redditor. Dr. Farris’ office is super inviting, as is Dr. Farris herself. The consultation was quickly planned and our conversation was short and sweet. The only thing she really asked was for me to give her “my story” and then she walked me through how she would do the procedure and made it clear that this would be sterilization. No bingos!
Dr. Allison Carter (Bilateral Salpingectomy) Performed on a 26 year old with minimal hesitation and discussion about other birth control options. Very kind, understanding, and respectful.
+1 Dr Carter. I have no children and have never wanted them. I received a total hysterectomy bi-lateral salpingectomy on April 6th, 2022. I was able to keep my ovaries but I told her to use her best judgement on whether they were healthy enough to keep. She was wonderful and very attentive. She listened to my reasoning of wanting the procedure done. She explained what the benefits and risks of the procedure would be with no judgment. She just wanted me to be aware of all things and asked me once more if I was sure that's what I wanted. I said yes and she said okay let's get you on the schedule. I can get you in in about 3 weeks. Got to the hospital and she asked me once more if I wanted this, requirement of the hospital, and that was it. This was an amazing experience and I was quite terrified I'd be denied but it went very well. I definitely recommend her!!!!
+1 Dr. Carter Bisalp on 24-year-old woman. Doctor is very body-positive. "There were a couple things in the discussion that people might call bingos BUT to me she more so just really wanted to make sure I had thoroughly done my research."
Oklahoma City
Alexandra Regens Procedure: Hysterectomy Age: 23 Experience: Dr. Regens and her team were incredibly affirming, did not ask my marital status, and did not try to bingo me. She did let me know there were less invasive procedures if I wished but that it was my decision. I got the procedure for debilitating periods and my desire to be childfree. She made sure I was safe and comfortable throughout my visits and that insurance would cover it.
+1 for Dr. Alexandra Regens - Within 30 minutes of meeting me she agreed to sterilize me via bisalp. I’m 23F, no children, no spouse, no partner. She did not bingo me AT ALL. She simply asked me what brought me to this decision (no desire for children, health issues, and fear that within the next few months/years this decision may be taken from me due to politics) and said that was all she needed to know. She did tell me about other options, but more because she had to because she knew that I had considered it. Dec 2024.
Dr. Susan Chambers, MD 11200 N. Portland, 2nd floor, Oklahoma City 73120 800.235.4443. Accepts Medicaid and Indian Health as well as many other insurance carriers. Performed Laparoscopic Bilateral Salpingo-oophorectomy for 25 year old. No bingoes, just mention of possible IVF if needed. No children, but family history of cancers and genetic testing shown same gene defect. Did not need husband sign off.
+1 Dr. Chambers. Feb 2023. Bisalp on 24-year-old CF redditor. She was kind and only asked important questions like if I'd tried reversible forms of birth control before. She let me explain why I'd didn't want kids and then promptly agreed to the surgery (bilateral salpingectomy). The nurses also made me feel comfortable and validated my decision. Overall, I highly recommend Dr. Chambers.
Dr. Lisa Cheek at Midtown Woman's Clinic in Oklahoma City performed a Salpingectomy on me after 2 years w/ an IUD. I am 28, married, and childfree.
+1 Dr Cheek, Midtown Woman's Clinic, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. Accepts Medicaid Info: 23F (22 when consult appointment was made), single, no children, laparoscopic bi-salp. Quick conversation, no bingos. Said it is a woman's choice. Went above and beyond. I was the only pending tubal patient and she booked the operating theater for a single patient (me).
Kate Arnold, MD. Procedure Completed: Bilateral Salpingectomy Age: 29 Status: Single; Never had children nor have been pregnant. Additional Info: Dr. Arnold never questioned my decision. She was very respectful and highly values patient autonomy.
Dr. Amanda Hamilton in Oklahoma City, she agreed to a bisalp with zero bingos and has always been really supportive. I actually ended up needing a hysterectomy and she was fantastic!
Dr. Alexandra Regens 825 NE 10th, 3C, Oklahoma City, OK 73104, (405) 271-5239. April 2023. Hysterectomy on 23-year-old redditor due to debilitating periods and desire to be childfree. Dr. Regens and her team were incredibly affirming, did not ask my marital status, and did not try to bingo me. She did let me know there were less invasive procedures if I wished but that it was my decision. She made sure I was safe and comfortable throughout my visits and that insurance would cover it.
Dr. Shawnaree Beeson Tubal (cauterization) performed on 28 year-old after referral from another doctor and a 10 minute consult. Very respectful and knowledgable.
Dr. Linzi Stewart. Tubal (bands) performed on 25yo after one visit about birth control and a few bingos.
+1 Dr Stewart I was mid 20s but she said she uses the Medicare/medicaid guidelines of over 21. Also asked me some bingo-esque questions but it took less than 20 minutes tops before she was good to schedule
+1 Dr Stewart, Oklahoma City, OK. Dr. Stewart and her nurse are amazing. I found her from this list. My very first visit as a brand new patient, I shared with the nurse that I am child free. She asked me what I did for birth control and SHE offered the option of sterilization before I ever spoke a word about it. I told her my partner was looking into getting a vasectomy and her response was “well there’s an issue about your autonomy, are you interested in sterilization?” I’m 28 and not a single person in the office (nurse, billing, reception, etc.) tried to change my mind. They gave me the required disclaimers about permanence and that was it. She performed the procedure and her staff was incredibly supportive, minded their business, and did their job.
Dr. Breeanna Gibson, MD, FACOG Lakeside Women's Hospital, 11200 N. Portland Ave, 2nd Floor, Oklahoma City, OK 73120 405-936-1000. LGBTQ+ friendly. Plus-size friendly. No bingoes or judgment on a 27 year old who had previously had Essure, which has been decertified by the FDA and may no longer be done in the US. Very friendly and respectful, gave information on options if I wanted to have a reversal due to the recall, indicated she'd be supportive of any woman's childfree decision.
+1 Dr. Gibson. March 2023. Bisalp on 32-year-old redditor. She’s a joy, and I can’t recommend her enough. She made sure my insurance covered the entire tubal! I only had to cover hospital fees and anesthesia.
+1 Dr. Gibson. April 2023. Dr Gibson immediately agreed to sterilization, and even suggested a bilateral salpingectomy as it is more effective and reduces chances of developing ovarian or fallopian cancer. She was able to code it so insurance covered my procedure, barring hospital & anesthesia fees. When it was surgery day, the nurses were so kind and helped ease my needle phobia. They sent me home with extra pain meds so I could manage my symptoms as needed. It was quick and easy—only 30 minutes! Highly recommend Dr Gibson.
+1 Dr. Gibson. Bisalp on CF redditor. Got mine done at my heaviest: XL/ 210lbs. I was trying to take more walks the time, and the procedure did put a damper on that. No complications. It certainly made it more difficult to stay active, but I would do it again in a heartbeat.
+1 Dr. Gibson. March 2024. Bisalp on 27-year-old redditor. She is safe to see for this and won’t judge or condescend to you. She has been nothing but wonderful to me as a patient. Her waitlist is kind of long but it may save you the trouble of being turned away by other doctors.
Dr. Wesley Vaughn Salpingectomy (removal of fallopian tubes) performed on 36 year-old after referral from regular OB/GYN and short consult. No bingoes, just a courtesy confirmation when the conversation started. Very friendly, respectful & knowledgeable. Although I'm a bit older and have a few other factors that which could contribute to a doctor's decision to sterilize, he did say that he feels anyone over 21 is able to make that decision.
+1 Dr.Vaughn suggested a bilateral salpingectomy when I asked about my options in regards to tubal ligations. I agreed to go for the salpingectomy. He answered any questions I had, he was also very respectful, no bingos, no comments regarding my age. He legally had to tell me the “risks”, I then signed my consent form and booked my appointment the same day. Highly recommended for anyone in Oklahoma.
+1 Dr Vaughn, I am 30 years old so he was happy to chedule the procedure no questions asked! He even mentioned that he's done them for someone as young as 22, but I didn't get the details as to if there were health complications that would have made pregnancy unsafe for the patient, so im unsure if anyone younger than 30 will have an easier time than I did. But the fact that I didn't have kids or that I was married was not brought up. Overall experience was really great. He was happy to answer my questions. I did have to wait longer than I planned but that was due to me having to reschedule a few times. once because he had prior engagements at another hospital, and then I had to reschedule due to payment issues. OCOM surgery center 5925 NW 139th St, Oklahoma City, OK 73142 would be a better place to schedule the procedure vs integris as I was expected to have to pay a large facility fee and when I couldn't they cancelled. But OCOM was able to work out a payment plan with me. Staff was also very friendly and supportive and went out of their way to make sure I was comfortable.
[Dr. Monica Reid] (bilateral total salpingectomy, laparoscopic, 31 years old) no bingoes, did ask more than once that i still wanted the surgery but not in a judgy or offputting way. Very positive, explained benefits of procedure and didn't focus on risks or try to talk me out of it
Dr. Anthony Jackson, MD Provided a bilateral salpingectomy for a 27-year-old. No bingoes. He was very supportive of my decision because I came in having considered my reasons carefully and having done my research. I did not have children previously, and my husband did not need to sign off.
Dr. Anthony Shanbour - Surgery Center of Oklahoma - Bilateral salpingectomy Age 22, single, no children. Surgery was in 2018. After years of "no" from other doctors, I was shocked that Dr. Shanbour made my surgery so easy. He scheduled the surgery during my first ever appointment with him. I listed reasons I wanted a tubal and my history of bad reactions to normal BC, and he agreed and did a routine exam. Asked one bingo the entire time - after asking if I was married (no), he asked, "If you got married, and your husband wanted a baby, what would you do?". I responded "I wouldn't marry anyone who wanted a baby" and he said "Correct answer" and then immediately went into scheduling the surgery.
Dr. Laura Gainey OP advises this doctor has said she is sterilization friendly! All doctors at her clinic were trained in New York and said they are very liberal/progressive and work with sterilizations. She seemed very kind and also understands trauma (spoke on it at the panel) so she is a trauma informed environment as well. I’m sure she’d be open to being contacted to confirm.
Dr. Erin Alward I have not expressly asked if she is sterilization friendly for cis-females. But i am trans masculine and she has offered/reiterated at every appointment that if i ever want a hysterectomy to let her know and we’d start the process immediately. She has an amazing bedside manner and is very kind. I’m almost positive she would be open to it! I know she be open to being contacted to confirm as well.
Dr. Lacy Parker Lakeside Women’s Hospital, Oklahoma City, OK. Performed laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy for me. I am 26F, no children, unmarried but have a partner of 8 years. Agreed to do the procedure at my first appointment. Immediately offered to do my pap smear and pelvic exam under anesthesia since I had 3 previous painful and traumatic attempts and 1 painful and traumatic IUD attempt. I also said I didn’t want to be on birth control anymore and have known I don’t want kids for a long time. She offered to do sterilization while I was already going to be under anyway and we were able to get it all done in one go. Made sure I was aware it was a permanent and irreversible procedure. No pushback or quizzing me at all on her part, just complete support for my decision.
Owasso/Tulsa
Dr. Clark Tingleaf (Vasectomy) Scalpel-free, $450, (30h 0m) no hesitation performing on 25-year old, (Bonus: no-cost semen tests for life if he did your vasectomy, good sense of humor), also performed on 23-year old with no hesitation.
Tahlequah
Dr. Monique Modest-McKoy MDm OBGYN Same practice: Dr. Calvin Monroe, OBGYN. I requested to be sterilized while I was to be opened up for a women’s procedure. She agreed without any hesitation! Day of the surgery, she performed it without any prodding questions whatsoever. I asked her if she would be willing to have her name added to this list, and she enthusiastically said yes.
Tulsa
Dr. David Cameron, MD 1120 S. Utica Ave., Suite G100, Tulsa, OK 74104, 918-392-0175. LBGTQ+ friendly. I do lots of sterilization procedures with no questions asked (as long as the patient is of legal age). I also am LGBT+ friendly and do gender affirming procedures. I don't have any limitations on who can get procedures as long as they are a legal adult and tell me they are certain in their decision. I work at Utica Park Clinic in Tulsa, Oklahoma, which is located in Hillcrest Medical Center. I also work at Hillcrest in Henryetta Oklahoma once a week. I accept almost all insurance plans, except Community Care, since that is a Catholic based plan.
+1 Dr Cameron, He performed a bisalp on me (22, single) with no bingos, "are you sure"? questions, etc. I just talked about why I want it done for a couple minutes and he agreed & said he'll do sterilizations for adults, as long as they understand what they're doing. He's a great doctor and was very supportive.
+1 Dr. David Cameron did a bilateral salpingectomy on me. I am 21, unmarried, and have no children. (In Oklahoma you have to be 21 to be sterilized). There were absolutely no bingos. He was so kind. He was very good about explaining my options and the pros and cons of each ones. I was able to get my surgery scheduled so easily and quick.
+1 Dr. Cameron. Oct 2024. Bisalp and ablation on 22-year-old redditor. He was so kind and made the process so easy. He went over every single option with me to find the right fit for me. NO bingos. A simple and stressfree process from start to finish. Very respectful and was the first doctor to ever take my child free status seriously. Billed through insurance so no cost up front other than the copay for the initial consultation. Very friendly office staff as well.
Dr. Kathleen Heffron (Tubal) Performed on 25 year old though she was hesitant. Cauterization method. (Tubal) Performed on 24 year old. Salpingectomy. Some questions to make sure you've researched. Said she would not sterilize a 21 year-old.
Kevin Gancarczyk M.D. Urologic Specialists 10901 East 48th Street South Tulsa, OK 918-749-8765 / 18008765645
Dr. Melissa Dietz UTICA WOMEN'S SPECIALISTS 918-749-1413; tubal ligation for 40 yr old - didn't question decision but did cover all other BC options (which I think is probably standard)
+1 Dr Dietz, bilateral salpingectomy, 26F, unmarried, no children and childfree, diagnosed with endometriosis. Dr. was very straightforward with little resistance when I asked for a bisalp for both sterilization and cancer prevention purposes. Stated she did not consider it a total sterilization because it left patients with the option of pursuing IVF if desired at a later time. On my first visit with her she scheduled my bisalp immediately and got it done a month later. She did briefly visit me in the hospital prior to surgery to confirm my choice, and did reiterate that I still have the option of IVF in the future. Her office was extremely communicative and always returned calls within the day.
Dr. Jennifer Donnelly. She performed a bilateral salpingectomy. I am 25 F and have been childfree for at least 5 years.
Dr. Paul Whitham at Utica Park Clinic in Tulsa, Oklahoma completed my (30F) bisalp today. I’m child free and received zero pushback from Dr. Whitham and his team about wanting this surgery. The only thing required was a 30-day waiting period mandatory for Medicaid to approve the procedure.
Dr. Stacy Noland from The Women's Health Group in Tulsa, Oklahoma (https://twhg.com/twhg_providers/stacy-noland/). I'm a 28 year old female, married with no children, and she completed my bilateral salpingectomy October 2024. It only took 2 months from my initial consult with her for me to have the procedure. She didn't bingo me once, didn't offer any resistance. She just clarified my reasonings to make sure I wasn't being pressured into it. She accepted my insurance (Aetna) and had no problem getting the procedure approved. She made me incredibly comfortable throughout the whole thing, and did a fantastic job.
Albany
Dr. Daniel Dowswell at Samaritan OBGYN in Albany, OR. I am 24, married, no kids, and childfree. He did my bilateral salpingectomy and the only question he asked was "Are you 100% sure?" and then he let me sign the consent form the same day. He and his staff were all very friendly and I would highly recommend.
Leonel Trujillo at Samaritan OBGYN in Albany, Oregon. The address is 705 SW Elm St, Albany, Oregon 97321. He didn’t question my request for the bisalp, just clarified that i didn’t want any kiids. when i said yes, he went into the process of the surgery and what to expect. all of the staff that i interacted with were wonderful as well. I am a 25 year old woman, unmarried with no children. i had not seen Dr. trujillo previous to my request for the surgery but i do plan to continue seeing him as my OBGYN! he is so kind and validating and treated me as the expert of my own body without question.
Astoria
Doctor Kelly Edwards in Astoria, Oregon. After getting a referral from my primary doctor and meeting with her, she seemed very open to doing a full hysterectomy despite only being 21 and not having kids. There was no bingo, not even a question about possible regrets or making me doubt myself. I told her I've been doing a lot of research and was prepared for it, and that was good enough for her. When I mentioned my concerns about insurance, she said she did procedures like that all the time and spoke with people's insurance often. In less than two months, I had my procedure. Until the procedure, she gave me medicine to halt my periods and give me a sense of comfort. She was with me the entire process, not just being the surgeon, but she visit me beforehand to check how I was feeling, while in the bed waiting to be wheeled in, and then again while I was in recovery, where she brought me something to eat. All in all, I felt very safe with Doctor Kelly Edwards and despite my stress and nerves, I felt comfortable putting my surgery in her hands.
Doctor Andrew Chin in Astoria Oregon, USA. I went in requesting a hysterectomy and Doctor Chin was very willing to send a referral to a clinic without even questioning my reason for wanting one, then saying he would continue to send referrals to clinics until one was willing to do it with insurance covering it. Within two weeks of my visit, I didn't just have an appointment with a clinic, but had an appointment with the surgeon and began the process of obtaining one. I'd very much like Andrew Chin added to the childfree-friendly doctors list. In a small town like Astoria and the nearest city being hours away, childfree doctors are wonderful to find.
Bend
Dr. Andrew Neeb, MD - Urology Specialists of Oregon (Vasectomy)
Dr. Miriam Champer, MD, FACOG East Cascade Women’s Group, 2400 NE Neff Rd., Bend, OR 97701, 541-389-3300. LGBT+ friendly. I am a board certified OB-GYN in Bend, Oregon and perform sterilization surgeries for appropriate candidates without discrimination based on age, child free status, marital status, etc. I perform gender-affirming hysterectomies as well. I am a partner in a private practice (East Cascade Women’s Group) and we take all insurance. The consultation/pre-op would be in our private office and surgeries are performed at the nearby hospital or the nearby surgery center.
Clackamas
Julia Head at Mt Talbert (Kaiser) in Clackamas Oregon, bilateral salpingectomy. Every staff member was absolutely amazing. I had disclosed my fear of needles and IVs in my pre op appointment, so the nurse gave me a shot of lidocaine to help numb the spot. I cracked a joke about how my mom was going to be disappointed my pregnancy test came back negative, and we talked about how grandkids are nice, but my mom wouldn’t be the one to raise them. I also mentioned I run a child care program, and the nurse agreed that it would be exhausting working with kids and then coming home to do it all over again. Not a single bingo from anyone at the hospital. I was really impressed with how compassionate and caring every person on my care team was. I can’t recommend Julia Head/Mt Talbert (Kaiser) enough for folks in the Portland, OR area.
Corvallis
Dr. Andrea Prabhu with the Corvallis Clinic in Corvallis, Oregon. Short summary for my recommendation: She is my regular gyno as well & was very proactive in getting me this procedure as soon as I asked about it, because I’d told her it was something I wanted years earlier & I have already tried the long-term contraception options. She is so warm & kind & a very strong patient advocate. I felt very safe with her, which is saying a lot because every other time I’ve had gyno appointments, they end up triggering some past trauma. She is a wonderful doctor & made this whole process very easy & straightforward.
Dr Nicole Kruppa, MD at The Corvallis Clinic Laparoscopic Salpingectomy- No bingos and very supportive.
Andrea J McCann, MD FACOG. Samaritan Ob Gyn - 541-768-5300. This gynecologist has reached out directly to advise, "I’m an Ob Gyn in Corvallis Oregon with Samaritan Health and joined this group as a resource to support folks choosing sterilization. I am happy to answer any questions about tubal sterilization. And I will add my name to the list of docs."
+1 Doctor McCann has been my gyno for a few years now so I was comfortable asking my primary care doctor for a referral to her office for sterilization. She only told me this was my choice alone even if I regretted it in the future. One of my worries was because I’m about to turn 26 I was about to lose my parents health insurance. Thankfully Dr. McCann reassured me that she would get me in before my insurance expired even though I had to wait 30 days before I could have the surgery to make sure this is what I wanted. April 2022.
Zoryana Thompson at Samaritan Gynecology and Surgical Associates. I brought my whole binder full of research and she hardly even looked at it. No bingo questions either. She just feels strongly about everyone's bodily autonomy. It's my choice. It's better to regret not having kids than to regret the kid you have.
Dr. Erin Massey, Corvallis, Oregon.. Dr. Massey performed a bilateral salpingectomy on me. I am 24 years old, unmarried, and in a relationship. I have no children and intend to remain childfree. Dr. Massey was very professional and never made me feel intimidated or patronized in any way. Insurance required that I wait 30 days between the consultation and the surgery in case I change my mind which Dr. Massey expressed disapproval of. She informed me of all of the risks of surgery and told me there is a small risk of regret but reassured me that people in my category (people who have never had children) were the least likely to experience regret and in fact have a near zero likelihood of experiencing regret. She asked me to briefly let her know why I wanted the procedure if I felt comfortable, but it was evident that she was just doing her job and not probing me or looking for holes in my logic. She was very adamant that this was my decision and my decision alone. Overall a very positive experience and I would feel safe recommending Dr. Massey to others who wish to remain childfree.
Eugene
Dr. Naomi Light, MD. I (29F, unmarried, CF) had an excellent experience with Dr. Light for my laparoscopic tubal ligation. She was friendly and completely supportive with zero pushback during my consult, a great listener, and highly knowledgeable. I had a short wait for my consult and under 6 weeks for procedure. The new patient consult cost was a bit steep with Cigna but my surgery OOP was very reasonable. The surgery itself was brief and uncomplicated with quick recovery. Light's staff was impeccable, so personable and centered on patient experience. I really can't recommend her enough.
Dr Kimberly Edwards, Bilateral Salpingectomy, She stated to me that she is a big supporter of humans who want to take the step if they seem very sure, regardless of age. I mentioned I had read a lot of stories about women being denied etc but she put all those worries at ease. I am putting her forth as a wonderful woman who supports the right to choose. And I was hoping maybe getting her on the list could help some other folks. The Pacific Women's Center was really friendly and my experience was shockingly smooth and quick (short waiting period of my healthcare).
Dr. Sara Gerhards, (541) 896-1443. This gynecologist has reached out directly to advise, "I would be happy to assist anyone in the desire to not reproduce for whatever reason. Your gender identity, number of previous pregnancies, and age are not relevant; as long as you can legally give consent. And yes, appropriate counseling is needed. This “counseling” means you and I have one conversation so I can document that you are the one making this decision, you are not be coerced, and you understand the details, risks, implications, and benefits of the procedure. Counseling does not mean you need to see a therapist. The counseling is for insurance and legal- it is NOT you convincing me you are able to make a decision for your body! Let me know if I can help!
+1 Dr. Gerhards. I'm 21, 20 when I first saw her for a surgery consult. Single and childfree. Dr. Gerhards was very passionate about her desire to help anyoneseek sterilization. She immediately approved me at my consult with no bingos. Took my United Healthcare insurance. Dr. Gerhards is a surgeon who works with pregnant patients as well and I did have to reschedule a few appointments because my surgery wasn't as immediately necessary as women having birthing complications which was unfortunate. I'd recommend her if you're younger because she gave me zero pushback and was very happy to help me get the surgery I wanted.
Dr Melanie Konradi, Eugene. She's with Oregon Medical Group/Peacehealth. She performed a bilateral salpingectomy for me in 2020. My experience with her was wonderful! I don't have any kids so I was expecting pushback, but there was none. Once I brought it up, it was like any other elective procedure: we chatted about what it would entail, she answered my questions, and we got it scheduled. She's amazing.
Dr Katria Mertz. She bi salped me 2 years ago no questions asked.
Dr. Brant Cooper, Eugene, Oregon, Bilateral salpingectomy, and he also was willing to do a tubal. 26. Single. Don’t currently have children, have never wanted children, and will never want children. He asked a few of the standard “are you sure” questions, but he took my answers at face value, he believed me, he and didn’t try to debate me. No bingos at all. He was willing schedule the surgery right away, but it took about a month for my insurance to approve it. I was able to schedule the surgery just a few weeks after that. Everyone was friendly, nonjudgmental, and non-argumentative. His office accepts Medicaid!
Dr. Sohee Williams. Bilateral salpingectomy, 2022 (30F, unmarried, childfree). Dr. Williams is an incredible clinician and surgeon. Super high quality care, explained things thoroughly and answered my many many questions. Made it clear during consult that patient choice was her top priority. Appointments can be hard to get/rescheduled but worth the wait - 6mo. After a referral from my PCP, all my appointments, prescriptions, and procedure were 100% covered by Medicaid. I had a minor complication (not her fault) and she went above and beyond to make sure I was safe and got the care I needed.
Dr. Elizabeth Fronek, 35, married, childfree since childhood. Bilateral salpingectomy. July 2024. I then got my surgery scheduled for the end of August, barely 30 days after inquiring. Dr. Fronek and her team were friendly and very attentive, zero judgment or concern at all about my decision. The procedure/visit lasted a little over 3 hours (9:30 am check-in time, on my way home by 12:45 pm). Recovery was relatively smooth, and exactly 2 weeks later, I had my post-op appointment and was cleared to resume all normal activities. The original cost quoted to me was $17k, or $9k after insurance. I fought this successfully, and the procedure was ultimately covered 100% with no cost sharing by Regence Blue Cross. Huge thank you to everyone on this sub for arming me with the information to fight my insurance provider, or I would have paid that stupid bill.
Eugene/Springfield
Dr. David S. DiMarco, Oregon Urology Institute (Vasectomy)
Dr. David Hermann, Women's Care Obstetrics and Gynecology (IUD, Tubal, Hysterectomy)
Cynthia Lewsi-Berry, MA LMFT, Counselor that is encouraging of the childfree lifestyle
Dr. Brooke Kyle. Bilateral salpingectomy, 30 years old, single, childfree. Got the procedure in November 2023. Zero pushback at all. I made known I wanted the procedure and she said ok and we got it scheduled. She even reassured me it was my choice and she wasn't going to be a barrier to me choosing what was best for me. She made me feel very respected and understood. She did my sisters (35 married childfree) sterilization too. Great experiences for both of us. My recovery was painless and quick. I would do it again in a heartbeat.
La Grande
Dr Dawn Knight. She works at the Grande Ronde Hospital’s Women’s health clinic in La Grande, Oregon. She performed my bilateral laparoscopic tubal ligation yesterday after being referred to her by my primary care provider. She’s a big deal for all of the women in Eastern Oregon who may be looking for something similar, we’re few and far between for good drs here. For reference, i’m a 29y/o female, no children
Dr. Whitaker and Dr. Romer at the Grande Ronde Women’s clinic are also reported to perform permanent contraception procedures for childfree young women.
Lake Oswego
Dr. Megan Zaander in Lake Oswego, OR. I live in Portland and she’s not too far, so anyone in the area can see her. She was AMAZING- told me right off the bat she supports my decision and even mentioned how it’s great my partner doesn’t want kids either, but it’s not his choice. I felt so at ease with her and even the anesthesiologist was great. Dr. Zaander was wonderful from start to finish and I would love for others to know she’s available! I have Blue Cross Blue Shield Federal and they covered everything but $200 because I also got my Nexplanon removed during the procedure
+1 Dr. Megan Zaander at Lake Oswego GYN (https://lakeoswegogyn.com/our-practice/dr-megan-zaander/) in Lake Oswego, Oregon. I'm 21F, unmarried, and have a partner but he was not considered in the approval for me getting sterilized. She was very supportive of my decision from the get-go and did not bingo me once, just walked through all the details about the procedure and the legal jargon that goes along with getting sterilized. I signed the consent forms in August and had the surgery itself in October, so it was about a two month wait. My bisalp was fully covered through Oregon Medicaid, but I also had backup insurance with Blue Cross Blue Shield in case something didn’t go through so she’s flexible with insurance providers. Overall I had a wonderful experience with her! October 2024
Lincoln City
Dr Meredith Mann Samaritan Women’s Health center 3100 NE 28th St Suite C Lincoln City, Oregon 97367 541-994-4440. 41 female. Laparoscopic Salpingectomy (Bilateral) Dec 2024.
Medford
Dr. Conklin at Providence OBGYN 20, AFAB, long term relationship but not married, CF. I wrote a couple pages on my bad experiences with different birth control methods and my thought process behind my choice and she was on board immediately. No bingos, absolutely no BS, she made sure I was fully aware it was permanent and supported me through the entire process. Forever grateful :)
+1 Dr Conklin - Dr. Kendra Bloomfield (formerly Conklin)Providence OBGYN. F27, long term partner, child free. Bisalp & IUD replacement for period control. Best doctor experience Ive ever had! Absolutely NO BINGOS from anyone at the office. Called and said I wanted a consultation for sterilization surgery, had an appointment for the next month. Surgery was scheduled for 2 weeks after initial consultation. She offered several surgical options including hysterectomy, bisalp, and ablation. They did have to ask if my partner had a vasectomy for insurance to approve. Insurance covered 100% of surgery, so far I’ve paid $7 for lab work
Portland
OHSU Center for Women’s Health (CWH) in Portland. I (23, childfree, single) just received my bilateral salpingectomy. The medical team sees themselves as one giant team rather than individual, independent surgeons giving the OK to sterilize a patient or not. This was told to me by the surgery scheduler. Dr. Alison Edelman was the one who ended up doing my surgery. I never met her or spoke with her until meeting her in the pre-op room day-of.
Dr. Clea Caldwell, DO, FACOG The Oregon Clinic Obstetrics and Gynecology East, 5050 NE Hoyt St, Suite 362, Portland, OR 97213, 503-239-6800. July, 2024. Bisalp on 22-year-old redditor. The hospital where my surgery was at definitely has some ties to the Catholic religion (ie. crosses in just about every room) but I raised concerns over some religious trauma during my upbringing and my nurse was nice enough to remove it. Dr Caldwell was very kind and professional and was very attentive to my worries.
Dr. Jessica Reid MD 808 S.W. Campus Drive, Portland, OR 97239, 503-418-4500. March 2023. Bisalp on 26-year-old. After referral by PCP, I initially met with Sara Fahey, a CNM at OHSU. She did the initial appointment with consents, etc. and then sent me off to get scheduled for my bisalp. I did not meet with Dr. Reid prior to the day of my procedure, but she and all of the residents I met were fantastic and supportive of my decision.
Lisa K. Johnson at Women's Healthcare Associates in Portland Oregon. Performed a laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy on 24 y/o AFAB NB patient with no children, just over 3 months from consultation to surgery. No bingos, just told her I had a deep fear of pregnancy and didn't want kids, and she immediately started going over my options in terms of recovery time, insurance coverage, and my wants/needs. Great experience!
Dr. Edna Kung Portland, Oregon. She did my bisalp at 28, no kids, no questions asked. Amazing and supportive.
+1 Dr Kung, Bilateral Salpingectomy in Nov 2020. 31F Single, no children. Surprisingly, Dr Kung was already my GYN when I began pursuing sterilization. She had previously discussed alternate/non-hormonal birth control options with me due to my PCOS, and did not offer or present sterilization as an option. She also advised against copper IUD because if you have bad periods like I do, it can worsen symptoms. I appreciated the transparency with that option. When I learned she was a doctor on the childfree list, I pursued this option with her and received very little if any pushback. We had previously discussed that I did not want children, so her response was very much "I already know you don't want children, and if you were to change your mind, IVF would still be an option." She answered any and all questions and was very supportive during aftercare as well when my belly button incision didn't hold the liquid stitch. I would say between my consultation and surgery was about 3 weeks. I had United Healthcare at the time. The ACA stipulates that a form of all birth control must be covered 100%, including sterilization. I called UHC multiple times prior the procedure to confirm it would be covered 100%, and received multiple confirmations of such. After the procedure I was billed around $1200 and was given the runaround between insurance, the hospital billing department, and billing dept at Cascade Women's Health (Dr. Kung's office). The office was very nice and truly did attempt to help me in any way they could, but no one could explain why I was being charged or where it was coming from, and eventually I gave up and began making small monthly payments.
Dr Richard Rosenfield, Pearl Women's Center in Portland. In my consult he said something to the effect of he doesn't turn uterus owners away at 18+ for wanting sterilization. It was incredibly refreshing, and it seems like him and all the folks in their office work really hard to make the patient comfortable (big ask from my doc averse ass, but he made it happen). The place he works has a surgical center on site so you don't have to deal with a hospital. Doc even removed endometriosis no other docs believed I could have had (because "the period pain you experience can't be that bad") and I didn't even need any painkillers for post OP care! He even speaks Spanish. Clinic is LGBTQ+ friendly and offers gender-affirming care.
+1 Dr. Rosenfield. Oct. 2023. Bisalp on 21-year-old CF redditor. I went in for a gyno appointment before discussing that I wanted a bisalp. Everyone in the office was so kind and is so supportive over the decision to be child free. I got absolutely no bingos. Everyone at my appointment was like “oh we will have him come in before the end of your pap to schedule your bisalp”. His whole team knew he would be perfectly fine with it-and he was when he talked to me. I had the surgery last week and I’m doing well.They offer online consults after your first visit.
+1 Dr. Richard Rosenfield in Portland. I am a 20y/o F, in a long term, commited relationship, and have no kids/don’t ever want kids. Dr. Rosenfield was super supportive and was also flexible with my pre-op exam as I have severe anxiety. We did my pelvic exam and ultrasound under sedation right before surgery (I just had to agree with the terms that if there was something anatomically abnormal preventing me from a safe surgery, they would have to discontinue and wake me up). We were able to go through with surgery, and he also found and removed endometriosis. Great experience!
+1 Dr. Rosenfield. Oct. 2024. Hysterectomy on 25-year-old redditor. His NP, Brittany Allen, was also extremely helpful in providing amazing care and communicating my desires to him. I originally discussed a bisalp with her, but when I had additional medical issues arise (even though simpler treatments exist), I met with Dr. Rosenfield who suggested without me even having to ask that a hysterectomy would address several of my needs at once. I have wanted a hysterectomy since I was under 18 and have never imagined that a doctor would prioritize me in this way. All providers at this office who I've interacted with have been extremely affirming and validating of my desires and have explicitly said that they trust me to make my own choices. I first visited the clinic at the end of July, and had a surgery date scheduled by the first week of August.
Dr. Gene De Haan, MD Kaiser Permanente. Location: Portland, Oregon. Procedure Completed: Laparoscopic Bilateral Salpingectomy, 28 years old, unmarried, Now and Always Childfree. Dr. Gene De Haan provided a compassionate, well-explained, and straightforward experience for my sterilization. The time from when I initially called up Kaiser to ask about sterilization to my sterilization appointment was 1 month. My insurance covered everything except a handful of $10 copays for the various (remote) appointments leading up to sterilization, but this will depend on your insurance with Kaiser. I felt very safe, respected, and well-informed with Dr. De Haan as my surgeon.
Dr Dafna Lohr, MD Women's Healthcare Associates, LLC, 1130 NW 22nd Avenue, Suite 520, Portland, OR 97210, 503 274-4800. (Salpingectomy) Approved for procedure at 22. Also approved one for me (different person) at age 20.
+1 Dr. Lohr. Bisalp on 34-year-old redditor, Dec 2022.
-1 Dr. Lohr. April 2023. Dafna Lohr lectured me about women changing their minds about sterilization. She was ultimately willing to perform the surgery, but I could not move forward because I had a complication when she removed my IUD in-office (complicated procedure where it broke and pieces were missing). That caused a chain of extremely negative experiences with this doctor where she invalidated my concerns, did not communicate about what had happened, and attempted to hide key information re a piece of the IUD that remains embedded in my cervix. I would not recommend anyone go to her. She is not trauma-informed.
Dr. Gregory Cost, MD - The Oregon Clinic Urology Time between visit and referral from primary doc to consult and no-scalpel Vasectomy (same day) was two weeks. No pushback.
+1 Dr. Cost. Nov 2022 Vasectomy on CF redditor. I had to wait about two months for an appointment, but was able to have the consult and vasectomy on the same day. The "consult" was super quick - just him making sure either we were done having kids or didn't want them, and that we knew it was permanent. No bingos at all.
Dr. Stephanie Coronado, MD - Obstetrics & Gynecology, Kaiser Permanente and Providence Portland Medical Center, Kaiser Mount Talbert Medical Center, 10180 SE Sunnyside Rd in Clackamas, OR 97015 (503) 652-2880. Also practices in Clackamas.
Erika Copperman, DO. Practice: The Oregon Clinic, 541 NE 20th Ave, Portland, OR 97232. Insurance Info: https://www.oregonclinic.com/insurance-information/. Salpingectomy & endometriosis removal. Late 20's, un-married, childfree. She took my concerns about pain seriously and scheduled diagnostic testing. Told me the required things about regret rates and alternatives about tubal removal, but said she trusted my decisions about my own body and had me sign the relevant paperwork at the same appointment we spoke about it. Made it clear that she would support and fight for me to be able to get a hysterectomy or have additional endo tissue removal in a few years if needed.
Dr. Hui-Ning Fung, MD - Portland Clinic - East Primary care physician who gave a referral for Dr. Teressa S. Jung
Dr. Teressa S. Jung, MD - Portland Clinic Gynecology - Downtown Tubal ligation with Falope Rings.
Dr. Roger D. Garvin, MD - OHSU - Gabriel Park (Vasectomy)
Dr. Gregory B. McCoy, MD - The Urology Clinic (Vasectomy)
Dr. Liberato V. Mukul, MD - Women's Healthcare Associates (Essure)
Dr. Sarah Skog, MD - OHSU - Gabriel Park (Vasectomy)
Dr. Piszczek, MD. Tubal for 24/F/single. Zero bingos, surgery was scheduled almost immediately.
+1 Dr. Piszczek, MD, 26/F at the time, bisalp performed Dec 2020, totally child free, married. Dr. Piszczek was extremely understanding about my child free decision and scheduled the bisalp surgery the same day as my consult. I did not have to pay for the surgery, as it was covered under ACA. I had some pre-cancerous cells that needed to be biopsied and then removed. She was the only OBGYN out of the four I had seen that gave me local anesthetic for the biopsies. She did the required LEEP during my bisalp procedure. She was not willing to do an ablation unless my periods were abnormal.
Dr. Daniel Janoff, MD - St. Vencents- Beaverton (Vasectomy, very little questions, just made sure I understood everything, then said "ok, cool lets schedule it")
Alison Edelman, M.D., M.P.H. - Professor, Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology (Salpingectomy)
Dr. Jeffery T. Jensen, M.D, M.P.H. - OHSU (Essure)
Dr. David Sargent, MD - Bridgetown Women's Care (Tubal ligation w/ filshie clips. Accepts OHP.)
Dr. Oscar Polo, MD, FACOG (Laparoscopic Bilateral Tubal Resection - He is extremely kind. He basically asked me if I knew it was permanent, I said yes, and he said ok, let's get you scheduled. I am a 29 year old female with no children. The appointment took a grand total of about 15 minutes, if that. While he practices at the Oregon Clinic, he preforms this surgery at East Portland Surgeons. Definitely recommend.)
-1 Dr Polo, single 26F, and met with Dr. Oscar Polo (Portland Oregon) to inquire about female sterilization/tubal. He told me i should "just use condoms or the nuva ring" (among a lot of other pressures to just remain on a birth control because my periods may be bad ???) And because "a lot of [his] patients come back in 10 years crying over having had the procedure done." Ultimately he said he would preform the surgery but he "doesn't think it's the best option" for me. The felt uncomfortable and definitely don't want a doctor doing the surhery against what they think is appropriate despite not having listened to anything I said.
Dr. Nicholas Fogelson, MD - Pearl Women's Center (Bilateral salpingectomy. Was super nice and professional. 24F, no previous births, never used birth control--made sure I understood that it's permanent, but didn't give me any bingos.)
Dr. Brian S Shaffer, MD - Uruology Consultants (Vasectomy). Also practice in Beaverton.
Dr Edith Legg, MD - Urology, Kaiser Permanente (Vasectomy - excellent care, reasonable questions without being pushy, great follow up care, good rapport.) Also practices in Hillsboro.
Dr. Eva B. Patil performed bilateral salpingectomy.
Michael P. Traynor, Obstetrics and Gynecology - Bilateral Salpingectomy. 24 and engaged at time of approval, no children and never wanted children. Was very receptive of the fact that I was childfree and even wrote in my chart the exact words I used. Immediately offered bilateral salpingectomy without questioning my age or lack of children. Did mention he had patients similar to my age come back in their 30s crying about having made this decision so young but did not pressure me to change my mind. The surgery team called to schedule the operation around 3 weeks after initial appointment, surgery itself was done around 3 months after initial appointment. Did not bingo me once before/during/after the procedure.
Dr. Michelle Quinn, MD, this gynecologist has reached out directly to advise, "I perform sterilization by mini-laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy for childfree people"
+1 Dr Quinn. Laparoscopic Bilateral Salpingectomy, 30 F, unmarried. Treated with utmost respect, zero bingos. I was able to get the surgery scheduled very quickly after initial consultation.
Dr. Emily Rangel, Bridgeview Women’s Health in Portland, Oregon. Bilateral Salpingectomy. Almost two months post op—no complications. She made sure I was sure and gave me other options that are out there, but agreed to do the surgery when I stated in no uncertain terms that I wanted one.
Dr. Angela Kondrat through Women's Healthcare Associates, no hassle bilateral salpingectomy for 24yo CF.
Jonathan C. Cook, MD, FACOG Obstetrician/Gynecologist Physician and Surgeon. Bridgeview Office of Women’s Healthcare Associates 1130 NW 22nd Avenue, STE 520 Portland, Oregon 97210 503.274.4800 (office). Works with Dr Rangel above and has advised one of our members that he is open to sterilisation in childfree people.
Shaalini Ramanadhan, I’m 28/unmarried/no kids/Portland, OR. My tubal ligation surgery was free through Medicaid. I just got my tubal today with Shaalini at OHSU, she’s been my gyne for the last year now and has always supported my decision to be childfree. Not ONCE did she, or anyone on the team the day of surgery, make comments about how I may change my mind/want kids/make a mistake, she gave me all the info without judgement and was excited with me through the whole process :) couldn’t ask for a better experience.
Dr. Michael Gariepy is my partner (22M)'s GP, he told us that Kaiser policy is to approve vasectomies. also found out that with Kaiser you don't even need a referral, we could've just scheduled the surgery through the app!
Roger D. Garvin at Elsie H. Hillman East Portland Planned Parenthood https://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-center/oregon/portland/97236/hillman-east-portland-center-2673-91400 (Portland, OR), Vasectomy, 29, unmarried, no children. I had a lovely experience at this clinic. Everyone on staff that I interacted with was kind and trans affirming to me (a trans girl). I had to wait 30 days after my consult for the procedure because OHP was paying for it, but they fit me in right at the end of the wait period. Nobody questioned my decision. Procedure was no scalpel with clips and cauterization. It went really well; the dr was assisted by a resident at OHSU.
Grants Pass
Dr. Caroline Kelly, M.D Open minded and willing to do surgery!
+1 Dr Caroline Kelley of the Women's Health Center in Southern Oregon was absolutely incredible. She gave me absolutely ZERO bingos, doubt, or questioning. She took my needs/desires exactly as I expressed them and made sure to guarantee that my insurance would cover it.
+1 Dr Caroline Kelley I'm 29yo no kids, she asked questions but genuinely believed my answers and didn't push back on my reasoning. Got the consent forms signed the day of the first appointment. She did the surgery herself and it went smoothly with tons of communication the whole way.
+1 Dr. Caroine Kelly of the Women's Health Center in Grants Pass, OR absolutely listened to me and my concerns I (21F) felt heard and validated, she didn't bingo me, I didn't need to bring in a sterilization binder, and she discussed the bisalp procedure with me, what to expect, and wanted to know the name of the person who told me that I couldn't be sterilized until I had 6 children and was 40 (I was 17 then, getting the implant) because those comments were completely inappropriate. All in all, she listened to me, and didn't tell me I was too young to make this decision. She just wanted to know my reasons to be certain this wasn't impulsive, but she didn't argue or interrupt me and just wanted to hear my reasoning.
Hillsboro
Dr. Sarah Jordan, Grapevine Women's Health and Gynecology, LLC (Essure, mentioned that she is likely to suggest alternatives such as IUD if patient is under 25, due to prefrontal cortex not being completely developed until 25, however no pushback was personally experienced at 27. Great bedside manner and appreciates humor, not judgmental.)
Dr. Katherine Nelson, OBGYN, Tuality Obstetrics and Gynecology, (Bilateral Salpingectomy, 31F, no pushback, no judgements against me, no bingos, just respect for my choices. She said I was obviously well-informed and knew what I wanted. She is very straightforward, sometimes monotone, but an amazing doctor. She also performed my surgery and did a fabulous job and was very caring all through the process. Presently accepts OHP- Tuality Health Alliance which is one type of state insurance. Unsure in regards to other insurance.)
Dr. Sarah Jordan Practice name: Grapevine Women's Health and Gynecology, LLC. Procedure completed: Bilateral salpingectomy My demographics: 25, unmarried, no children
Kevin S. Overbeck, MD. Bilateral Salpingectomy. I am 25 years old. I do not have any children. I am not married, but in a long term relationship. The procedure went very well, and the medical staff were very nice and didn't pressure me for anything at all. My insurance covered most of the cost, and they didn't fight about getting the procedure done at all. I did have to pay about $550 after insurance.
Susie Lim, MD, Bilateral salpingectomy. I'm 21 years old, not married, and I'm childfree with no children or previous pregnancies/abortions. I got a pap smear and discussed how I wanted to get sterilized. She didn't bingo me, just stated how for patients my age with no children, the biggest risk would be regret. She wrote down my reasons and didn't give any pushback. Within 3 days, I was scheduled for next month. It was completely free with my insurance
Claire Learmonth at Kaiser permanente in Hillsboro Oregon, and Dr. Shauna Hicks also in Kaiser in Hillsboro. Bilateral salpingectomy, 28yo.
Klamath Falls
Dr. Martin Meinig, MD, FACOG Heartfelt Obstetrics And Gynecology, 2640 Biehn Street, Klamath Falls, OR 97601, 541-205-6890. Nov. 2024. Bisalp on 30-year-old redditor. He performed my bisalp with no fuss. He asked me literally once right before surgery if I was sure. I said yes and we wheeled on in. He also scooped out some endo that he found in there, and took photos for me so I could keep them for my records.
Rogue Valley / Southern Oregon
Dr. Timothy Driver, Urology Associates of Southern Oregon (No website). 2900 Doctor's Park Drive, Medford OR 97504, 541-772-6600 (Urologist, Vasectomy)
Mary Strizzi, DO, Medford Women's Clinic LLP (http://medfordwomensclinic.com/providers/mary-strizzi-do-2/) Medford Office:3170 State Street, Medford, OR 97504, 541-864-8900 (Will preform any method that you choose after talking with you for a while. Has performed sterilizations on people as young as 21. Essure for me at 29 with no problems. Very Happy)
Medford
Emily Steinbis, Medford Women's Clinic (541)864-8900. (No bingo's, said yes to tubal within 2 minutes to talking with me, 28, F. Very supportive and said "I believe women have the right to choose what they do with their bodies).
Milwaukie
Dr. Dennis Tan - I'm married with zero kids. I was 30 when Dr. Tan preformed my hysterectomy. While the surgery was mainly to treat endometriosis, and high risk cervical dysplasia, I had been discussing sterilization with him prior to my endometriosis diagnosis at the age of 26, and was single at that time.
Roseberg
Dr. Elyssa Emo DO Evergreen Women's Health,, 1937 West Harvard Ave., Roseburg, Oregon 97471, 541-464-6464. Nov. 2024. Bisalp on 30-year-old CF redditor. This doctor only performs surgeries one Friday every month but I was able to get in quickly (within the month). She informed me of risks and benefits and didn't ask any personal questions. She accepted me at my word that I wanted the procedure and all I had to do was sign consent forms.
Salem
Dr. Darcy L. Blanchard, DO - Salem Clinic (Bilateral Salpingectomy) - Agreed to a bilateral salpingectomy after explaining other forms of birth control, however, my age (32) may have worked in my favor.
Dr. Frederick H Frank MD - Salem Clinic (Bilateral Salpingectomy and Endometrial Ablation) - Respectfully counseled on other options and agreed to perform these procedures on me at age 23 with no children.
Dr. Valerie Joyce Heffner in Salem, Oregon. She performed my bilateral salpingectomy & IUD removal just a couple weeks ago and was amazing. Time between first consultation visit and actual procedure was just under 2 months, she was 100% immediately supportive and on board. I am 37F but when I told her that I sought permanent birth control ten years ago at 27 and was rejected and only given an IUD she was genuinely outraged in response and very vocal about respecting women's reproductive choices.
Curtis Hawkinson in Salem, Oregon at the Doctor's Clinic at 5050 Skyline Village Loop S, Salem, OR, 97306. He has been supportive of both myself and my (also childfree) sister when we asked about permanent sterilization, and offered to give us referrals, though he did acknowledge that being a somewhat conservative town it may be hard to find someone to do the surgery. Regardless he is very supportive and generally just a very nice guy I've been seeing for years.
Kaaren Burnett, who works at the same office as Curtis. She was my gynecologist and was incredibly supportive of my decision to be childfree, even considering I was 22 at the time we met. While I didn't ask her for sterilization at the time for financial reasons, I have no doubt she would be an excellent person for people in Salem to talk to about their childfree, birth-control related needs!
Tualatin
Dr. Megan Bird, MD, Legacy Medical Group, LGBTQ+ safe, (Bilateral salpingectomy, 25F, No previous births, married. She is child free herself! Absolutely zero bingos during the entire process including the Anesthesiologist or any nurses at Legacy on the day of my surgery. Dream come true. I highly recommend Dr. Bird! She is my ongoing gyno too which is amazing.)