Alexandria
Dr. Amanda Paternostro, Physicians & Midwives ObGyn located in Northern Virginia (several offices). Laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy. I’m 26f, married (26m partner), childfree and no previous pregnancies. Covered by insurance (private, BCBS), outpatient procedure, extremely validating experience throughout - Dr. P also treated endometriosis I didn’t know I had at the same time.
+1 for Dr. Amanda Paternostro. I am 23F. First appt with another doctor (Dr. Anne Kisthardt - also fantastic!) where she wanted to let me know my options for my needs and told me Dr. Paternostro herself would have to meet with me because she does all the surgeries. In one meeting with Dr. Paternostro, I word-vomited every talking point I could think of to convince her I needed a total hysterectomy. Once I was done, she said she agrees with the decision based on what I’m looking for. She only asked if I have a partner and that was it. Said they have to inform everyone there is sometimes regret with young women, but they only see it in those that decide to have a hysterectomy after having children - no bingo at all.
+1 for Dr. Amanda Paternostro. She listened to my whole medical history and gave me the pros/cons conversation of a hysterectomy that I wanted (the path to get one, the recovery, etc). She said she supported my choice for a hysterectomy, but that with my history, she was going to send me to a specialist to do the actual surgery (I have endometriosis). She was brilliant, of course, and helping me more than I knew at the time. She gave me a referral for the endo specialist surgeon and set me up for all of the hurdles she knew I’d need to take care of.
+1 Amanda Paternostro, bilateral salpingectomy. I had a very positive experience with her and recommend her highly for her surgical skill, professionalism, and responsiveness to my questions/concerns!
Dr. Danielo Acosta Diaz The moment my OBGYN (Dr from this list) referred me to Dr. Acosta, his team called me to schedule the next available appointent they had. They knew it took about a month to get in to see him and wanted to get me on the schedule asap. From the moment I arrived at the office, I felt heard and understood. Dr. Acosta’s whole team (Ali, Brooke) is so kind and caring, with the sweetest bedside manner. Dr. Acosta is very kind, understanding, and knowledgeable. Due to my history he ordered an ultrasound and mri to in case of deep endometriosis, but assured me he would perform the hysterectomy regardless of the findings (he explained the imaging is just to develop a “roadmap” for surgery ..and approvals for insurance). From the referral to the surgery was about 3.5 months. I paid $1120 for my endo excision + full hysterectomy outpatient with blue cross blue shield.
Drs. Kathleen Bell and Kristin Wexler from Physicians and Midwives Collaborative Practice in Alexandria Virginia. Procedure bilateral salpingectomy Age 40, married, childfree The practice is a group of providers and you can look around until you find one that works with you. No bingos for listed providers. Procedure was at INOVA hospital down the street. Wait time as of Fall 2022 is 6 months. Hospital calculates insurance prior; mine was 10k without, paid 1.4k after insurance.
+1 Dr. Kristin Wexler, Physicians and Midwives in Alexandria, VA. She performed my bilateral salpingectomy in January 2023. In 2021 I was 26 and she was more than happy to do it, and she of course understood why I had to put it off until things calmed down at work. I am single and never had the desire to marry or have children, and she was super respectful of that which was a relief considering the horror stories I see online of women being denied sterilization. Her office staff as well as the surgical coordinator communicated with me alot and were more than happy to answer any questions I had about the process. As for my insurance, I had/currently still use the Federal Employee Plan with Blue Cross Blue Shield. I think I paid around $160 to the doctors office itself for the procedure, then another $150 to the hospital itself. Overall it was a smooth experience, and I am so happy that I got the procedure done. I have absolutely no regrets at all and I would absolutely recommend this doctor to anyone in the Alexandria, VA area.
Dr. Amanda Rohn, 24yo, supportive and worked with multiple health conditions that added extra steps to surgery. Entire care team from nurses to anesthesia all excellent. Cannot recommend enough.
Dr. Brittany Jackson of Capital Women’s Care. I had a LAPAROSCOPIC, HYSTERECTOMY, TOTAL, BILATERAL SALPINGECTOMY AND CYSTOSCOPY. 40 year old demifemale, married, no desire for children. My nearly 2 year old IUD had an adverse effect and made my system go haywire with frequent (every 2.5 weeks) long periods (8-9 days) and constant spotting. As I had zero interest in having children, I pursued alternative options with Dr. Jackson. She had zero issue with me choosing a permanent option and was instantly supportive of my decision. I had a physical consult a few weeks after our initial virtual discussion and only waited a couple months for surgery due to work plans that I needed to be able to do physical labor for.
Dr. Natalie Moore in Northern Virginia, bilateral salpingectomy for 28yo in 2024, doctor is plus sized friendly. OP does mention being a regular patient of this doctor and as such we are unsure if this doctor will sterilise new patients as yet.
Annandale
Dr. Margaret Strickland, MD Inova Medical Group OBGYN - Annandale, 3299 Woodburn Rd Suite 350, Annandale, VA 22003, 703-260-1179. Nov. 2024. Bisalp on 28-year-old redditor.
Arlington
Dr. Sali Jordan, MD, MS 700 S. Washington St., Suite 300, Alexandria, VA 22314, 703.940.3364. Body-positive doctor did bisalp on fat 23-year-old redditor. She was very kind and compassionate. She did ask me several times whether I was sure about this (mostly because I’m only 23) but she was willing to do the surgery. Because of my weight, she had another surgeon assisting (Dr. Elizabeth Brunn) who I met the day of surgery. All the doctors and nurses were mindful about my weight and mentioned that the surgery was higher risk because of my BMI, but still overall low risk, and there was never the suggestion that I should lose weight first.
Dr. Colleen Borelli Northern Virginia Physicians to Women This practice has several doctors, but I only worked with Dr. Borelli. Had been a patient for several years at this point, so when she asked the questions she already knew the answers (I never wanted kids) so the approval process was fairly smooth. Procedure went very well. (27/f/bilateral salpingectomy/no pregnancies no kids)
+1 Dr Borelli - I (27F, no kids and unmarried) had a bilateral salpingectomy it's Dr. Borelli this past week. I spoke to her for the first time 2 weeks before surgery at an annual check up and she approved me on the spot. All she said was that she was obligated to inform me the procedure is permanent and irreversible. I had some issues with my insurance but was able to get those sorted with the office. There was no waiting period except to find an open surgery spot. Her office and staff were all very helpful in providing billing codes to ensure my procedure was covered in addition to sending information on cost if I was unable to get it covered by insurance.
+1 Dr Borelli - Yesterday, she did my bisalp. I went in to see her and explained why I did not want kids. She listened, asked me once if my partner knew, then approved me. She isn't the most outgoing doctor but did do the procedure on me with almost no question my motives or decision. I'm 28 with no children.
+1 Dr Borelli, bilateral salpingectomy (32F, single, no pregnancies/kids). She approved the procedure with very minimal questions asked (other than asking if I understand that it's permanent - standard stuff, no bingos). Billing staff was extremely responsive and helpful in helping me sort out codes for my insurance (Cigna - bisalp itself was 100% covered but I'm paying around $300 out of pocket for hospital fees/auxillary costs). Procedure itself went very smoothly - Dr. Borelli and the staff at Virginia Hospital Center were wonderful.
Dr. Amanda Rohn and she is an OBGYN at the Arlington Women’s Center practice at Virginia Hospital Center.
Dr. Jessica Sommer with the Virginia Hospital Center Physician Group. Dr. Sommer performed a laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy on me (28F, unmarried, no children) a little more than a day ago. She was wonderful throughout the entire process.
Dr. Alexis Light. Laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy. 26F, unmarried but partnered, childfree. Went into my first gyn appointment with Dr. Light with the intention of requesting sterilization. I was never dissuaded from the start; in fact, she gave me the option of scheduling the surgery for a month later - that was a little soon for me so I chose two months out instead. Wait time the day of was short, and the procedure went swimmingly. I highly suggest Dr. Light for other northern Virginia residents. VHC takes my insurance so my estimate is about 2k, but still I'm awaiting the charges.
Blacksburg
Dr Campbell - 540-605-7566 - Performs abortions ( I believe) and tubal ligations via salpingectomy - sterilized a 22 yo f with few questions. NB will NOT do bilateral salpingectomy, only clamps, and will bingo you.
Drs. Hilary Neves and John Colby (both work for same practice). I originally called to see Dr. Colby but he had a huge influx of patients after Roe v Wade was overturned and wasn't accepting new patients, so I saw Dr. Neves instead. She sterilized me (28F at the time, childfree) with a bisalp and was very supportive of my decision.
Chantilly
Dr. Laura Kiszkiel, Capital Women's Care Practice locations in: Chantilly, VA; Fairfax, VA; Springfield, VA. bilateral salpingectomy completed (32/Partnered/childfree). This doctor explicitly conveys she is of the thought camp that allows patient choice over bodily autonomy - very welcoming and trusting of patient's decision. Informed me that my insurance (Cigna Open Access) fully covers it under the ACA.
Charlottesville
Jennifer Doorey, M.D.. Dr Doorey is moving to Baltimore MD in Feb 2023. Bilateral Salpingectomy. 20F, single, never married, no kids. Dr. Doorey was honestly a really cool doctor, she wanted me to understand the risks of such a procedure in a medical sense rather than an 'are you sure' sense. I should mention I also came prepared with an 18-page sterilization binder, which gave her the impression I was not going to waver. A few of the nurses gave me side glances, but Dr. Doorey herself was really understanding. She made sure to mention that as a doctor one of her jobs is empowering her patients (especially women) to make the best decisions for themselves.
Dr. Carrie Sopata. OBGYN, I’m 25F with no children, never been pregnant, and never married. She was super friendly and never bingoed me, I prepared a sterilization binder but never needed to show it to her. I do have a not-so-fun genetic condition that would make any non-IVF offspring at high risk of getting it, and have a long history of trying different birth controls for dysmenorrhea, both of which could have made her more likely to grant me the sterilization, but she was more focused on ensuring that I knew the medical risks of the procedure, and also put in an IUD for my periods. Had a great surgery team and experience overall!
+1 Dr Sopata Oct 2022. Doctor is LGBTQ+ friendly and specializes in trans health. Bisalp on 25-year-old.
+1 Dr. Carrie Sopata, salpingectomy, 33/f, married, childfree. Had a brief consultation with Dr. Sopata, where she only asked what led me to my decision to be sterilized. She didn't question anything, didn't require any lengthy discussions, and said she was happy to offer the procedure. Highly recommend.
Dr. Patricia Scrivani, MD University Physicians for Women, Northridge, 3rd Floor , 2955 Ivy Rd. (250 West), Charlottesville, VA 22903, 434-d999-8903. Neurodivergent respectful. Bisalp on 23 year old CF redditor. Doctor was willing to work with patient despite patient heart-health issues.
+1 Patricia Scrivani. I am 31 years old, never married, and never had children. I had a great experience, no one trying to BINGO me, wait time was about a month out from the initial appointment. I do not have any information about cost, as I only had the appointment today, but I have anthem BCBS.
+1 Dr. Scrivani. Sept 2024. Bisalp on 20-year-old redditor. No bingos, she didn't even question why I wanted to surgery, and she made sure to check the procedure would be covered by my insurance before scheduling it. She was amazingly kind and supportive!
Danielle Johnson, for my initial/pre op/scheduling appoitment in Charlottesville, Va and the performing doctor was Patricia Scrivani. I am 31 years old, never married, and never had children. I had a great experience, no one trying to BINGO me, wait time was about a month out from the initial appointment. I do not have any information about cost, as I only had the appointment today, but I have anthem BCBS.
Chesapeake
Dr. Lindner at Total Care for Women This practice has several doctors, Dr. Lindner was mine. He offered Essure and tubal with cauterization. He asked me once if I was sure and that was it before signing me up for the mandatory 30 day waiting period (thanks Virginia). He is really friendly and I had a great team for the surgery and recovery was a breeze. 28/f/no kids/no pregnancies.
+1 Dr. Lindner: Bisalp on 32-year-old CF redditor. " Dr. Paul Lindner in Chesapeake VA and his staff are a dream to work with. He barely asked me any questions. I came with all the points and counterpoints I've heard over and over and he didn't need to hear a damn thing. Oct 2022.
+1 Total Care for Women - I'd like to add Dr. Candace Geary from the same practice. I was 36/f/married/no kids/no pregnancies when I started seeing her for endometriosis. It took a couple years for me to bring up a hysterectomy after having been bingoed by my last gyno, but she was great about it. I asked her about it, she asked me if I was sure I didn't want kids and wouldn't ever want them, I told her I was sure, and she agreed to do it. The office staff is fantastic, too. I hit a roadblock when my insurance initially denied my surgery for not having previously had "uterine-saving procedures," but they took care of that quickly and were willing to put up whatever fight was necessary for me to get my surgery. Dr. Geary really listens to her patients and respects their ability to decide what's right for them. Her focus is gynecology, not obstetrics, and I think that makes a big difference.
Dr Rebecca Khan, OBGYN. 3802 Poplar Hill Rd, Chesapeake, VA 23321. 30/F/Bilateral Salpingectomy : She agreed to do the procedure for me after a roughly 30 minute consultation. I had never been to her practice prior to this appointment. I was informed that there were several long term, but not permanent, forms of birth control that she would be willing to discuss with me if I so choose but did not elaborate since I did not express interest. The state of Virginia requires you to sign a consent form and go through a 30 day waiting period prior to the procedure. A second appointment was set up some time during that 30 day waiting period to do lab work and preadmissions for surgery. Day of surgery went off without any major complications.
Dr. Craig Ruetzel; (757)-410-7390; Located near Chesapeake City Park. Patient is 20/F. Performs bilateral tubal ligation via bipolar cauterization in multiple parts of the fallopian tube. Truly a wonderful doctor who does not want his patients to suffer. He agreed to my surgery with the mindset of "the decision is yours, a doctor's job is only to give you information to make an informed decision", but I came prepared and firm in my decision. He even agreed to look further into my other gynecological issues, so chances are I will keep him as my normal doctor if the surgery goes smoothly. You might, too!
+1 Dr. Ruetzel. March 2023. Bisalp on 26-year-old redditor. At my appointment, he came in the room he just said, “So, you want to get sterilized. Do you have any questions for me?” And I just said “Well first off, are you willing to do it?” And he immediately said “Oh yeah, I don’t see any reason not to.“ I instinctively started stating reasons I want to be sterilized and he just said "You don't need to explain yourself to me."
+1 Dr Ruetzel, married 33y/o female child free Initial appointment was Feb 2023. Bilateral salpingectomy and uterine ablation, May 2023. The doctor is aware of his presence on the child free Reddit via his daughters. Doctor Rutezel is absolutely amazing and patient (me) will be returning to him as my primary obgyn until he retires which will hopefully be many years from now.
+1 Dr. Craig Ruetzel in Chesapeake Virginia (24F, single, no kids). Had my original consultation/pap smear in late May 2024. There was no push back from doctor and as a previous redditor mentioned, he had just reiterated that this was my choice and if it was something I came to regret then it was on me.
Doctors Jeanne Busch and Linda Long at Gynecology Specialists in Chesapeake, Va. Dr. Long is my usual gynecologist, but she no longer performs surgeries, so referred me to Dr. Busch. A bisalpingectomy performed laproscopically. I am 30yo, married, and child-free. Dr. Long has known (and supported) my child-free status for years, and at each appt would ask me if I still was, and if I wanted to proceed with surgery. As soon as I said I was ready, she did her due diligence of suggesting other birth control methods/asking if my husband would get a vasectomy. She then scheduled me an appt with her colleague Dr. Busch. Dr. Busch also did her due diligence, including asking why I wanted the surgery. She did not bingo me, just confirmed that I knew my options and the risks. I was placed on the 30-day waiting period and had my surgery date a month later due to the surgical wait list. She also asked and got the hospital to agree to let me take home my tubes so I can keep them in a jar!
Dr. Grimes at Jordan & Associates I am 26/F/married/no kids bilateral salpingectomy. Asked if I was sure because it is non reversible. I was referred by Veterans Affairs (I was given an option of only 3 offices I could go to using veterans affairs insurance). He is very friendly and professional.
Christiansburg
Dr. Christopher Reynolds, Carilion Clinic Urology - Vasectomy for 22M, approved on first try. He was very gracious and understanding.
Culpeper
Dr. Matthew Kucia, MD Novant Health UVA Health System, Medical Center, 501 Sunset Ln, Culpeper, VA 22701 Phone: (540) 321-3002 33/F/Married/No Kids/Bilateral Salpingectomy. We had a 30 minute consult (first meeting) where I was asked why I wanted sterilization. We discussed other BC options and vasectomy (due to shorter recovery time) but I stated I wanted piece of mind and no hormones. He stated that he only removes tubes, does not tie or clip. He then asked when I would like it done since my IUD had 1 year left. I said ASAP and he scheduled the appointment for 10 days later. Surgery happened with no issues and I did have to sign a consent form that I understood it was a permanent procedure that would make it impossible to have children. At the 6 week post-surgery checkup, he showed me before and after interior pictures from surgery. He was very friendly and seems extremely passionate about his job/work.
NB "Dr Kucia refused hysterectomy citing lack of medical need, despite my desire to never have periods again and be sterilized, as well as having approval from my primary doctor. Said insurance would not cover and he could not think of an appropriate billing. Perfectly willing to do IUD and bisalp."
Dr Iris Amarante - mentioned that she'd potentially be willing to provide a bisalp on women as young as 21 who were sure about being childfree.
+1 Iris Amarante, Tubal Ligation, 30F childless unmarried.
Dr. Kevin D. Stocker, bilateral salpingectomy March, 2024. 29 years old. Dr. Stocker respected my choice for sterilization and never questioned me once. Overall, he was positive, respectful, and completely on board with my procedure. The surgery was done at UVA health system in Culpeper, Virginia. Every single nurse, anesthesiologist, and doctor I dealt with was wonderful and I was NEVER questioned for my decision. It was a complete and total breeze. If you are obtaining sterilization in the Culpeper Virginia area, this practice: UVA Obstetrics and Gynecology, address: 633 Sunset Lane, Culpeper, Virginia, WILL perform it with no questions asked as long as you have insurance in network and you are over 21 years of age. That is the only prerequisite required.
Fairfax
Dr. Natalie S. Moore, MD 3554 Chain Bridge Road, Suite 302, Fairfax, VA 22030. Also Alexandria, Herndon. (703) 971-7633. Plus-size friendly. Sept 2024. Bisalp on 28-year-old redditor. Dr. Moore is my regular gynecologist, and when I brought up sterilization, simply told me to call her surgical scheduling staff. She never gave off any judgmental vibe at all, nor did any of the staff. All the staff who came in during pre-op, from the nurses to the anesthesiologist, were incredibly kind and informative, and they made me feel very safe and comfortable.
Dr Paulina Wilson 8081 Innovation Park Dr #500, Fairfax, Virginia, 22031, (571)472-7040. My vasectomy consult was about ten minutes, she asked me if I had thought long about my decision and was sure. I said yes and I was. She agreed to the procedure and scheduled it asap. She was very thorough explaining the procedure and aftercare. At the time I was twenty years old and engaged. Currently twenty-one, single, and fully childfree.
Dr. Matthew Moynihan INOVA Fairfax hospital, 8081 Innovation Park Dr 500, Fairfax, VA 22031, 571-472-7040. Vasectomy on 26-year-old redditor. Doctor gave me nothing but non-judgmental support. Couldn't have been a better experience.
Dr. Margaret Strickland at INOVA Fairfax hospital in Fairfax, Virginia. I am 24 years old cis female, currently single and not currently sexually active, and have never been married or pregnant. I am childfree and will never want children of any kind in any way. I had an excellent experience with Dr. Strickland. In brief, she did not question my decision at all and even said something to the effect that she believes in bodily autonomy and that having/raising children is not for everyone. Dr. Strickland was incredibly supportive and respectful of my decision to be sterilized. She made me feel very comfortable and was incredibly helpful throughout the entire process.
+1 Dr. Strickland June 2024. Bisalp on 22-year-old redditor.
Dr Jessica Lee of MAGOPSA, I was recommended to see Dr Lee to discuss an option of getting a hysterectomy instead of just a bisalp due to my genetic mutations (lynch syndrome and PTEN). I'm 26 and married, no children. No bingos, besides from the surgeon but I think she just wanted to be 100% sure this was what I wanted. After I confirmed multiple times it was and had no interest in babies, she was very professional and cordial. She even asked me minutes before my surgery if I was sure and I said yes. Insurance approved pre-authorization within a week or two. estimated cost from insurance (UHC) ~$3300 in total.
Falls Church
Dr. Michael Lempel at Invoa (Falls Church VA) has agreed to do my bislap with no pushback. I'm 28F, and heard about him from a friend who got a Bislap at age 26. Still waiting to hear from his scheduler, but Dr. Lempel has a great bedside manner, I didn't need a binder, and he was very thorough. All I had to do was mention that I'd been interested in sterilization since I was 21, and he literally said 'This is the point where we're supposed to go over other options, but I don't feel the need to do that, do you?'
Fishersville
Dr. Justin Deaton, Bilateral Salpingectomy 29yo. No bingos or pushback due to my age. Would definitely recommend for patients in their late 20s and older, but likely not a good option for those in their mid-20s or younger.
Ft Eustis
Dr. Boston - McDonald Army Health Center, GYN(tubal ligation at 21- have to be confident in your decision and come prepared)
Fredericksburg
Mary Washington OBGYN 1300 Hospital Drive, Suite 300, Fredericksburg, VA 22401, 540-656-2830. Nov 2024. This practice has reached out to us to advise: This practice in Fredericksburg VA has multiple providers who will sterilize anyone who requests it regardless of prior children, age (within the state law which requires age of 21) etc. Specific doctors that will do it without question are Dr. Kuhn, Dr. Letham, Dr. Hammett.
Dr. Kara Dalke, M.D., MPH, (540) 368-9472. She herself is childfree and she openly talks about it. Very friendly and body-positive. She also works out of their Stafford office.
Dr. Frank Moffitt M.D. Tubal ligation, 30yo.
Urology Associates of Fredericksburg, 540-374-3131. (Vasectomy consult took <10 minutes, scheduling took even less time. Very friendly and informative.)
Gainesville
Ayatllah Khafagy - Stone Springs OBGYN. Bilateral Salpingectomy (also performs tubal ligation). 33/Married/CF. Brought up sterilization up at my recent annual exam with my NP, and that day she scheduled a consult with Dr. Khafagy for the following week. Both providers were extremely supportive, no questions asked, both offered the IUD as an option too but I declined with zero pushback. The procedure was scheduled and performed for about a month after my consultation. Fully covered by my insurance (CareFirst Blue Choice) and everything went extremely smoothly! All of the nurse and staff at Stone Springs Hospital were extremely kind and helped sooth all my anxieties.
Hampton/Newport News
Dr. O. Jafri - Virginia OBGYN ASSOC OF HAMPTON, 29/Childfree Had a consultation. Never asked marital status. Went over different sterilization options and birth control, pros and cons of tubal ligation. We decided to completely remove the tubes. Only thing he made me do was see a Psychiatrist to make him feel better about doing it for me. He was great and really acknowledged my concerns.
Harrisonburg
Dr. Jennifer Visger at Shenandoah Women's Healthcare (swhc-office.com). Bilateral Salpingectomy, 24 y/o, unmarried/no partner, no kids. Of note: Very kind and supportive. I was admittedly an already established patient and I have hypermobility/eds which could possibly have factored into how few questions she had about how sure I was about getting sterilized.
Dr. Justin Deaton, bilateral salpingectomy, 31F married with no children. No bingos or pushback due to my age. Started the conversation at age 29 and he said it was my choice. Delay between initial conversation and procedure due to my own decision to wait due to other life circumstances. Would recommend him for patients in their late 20s and older, but likely not a good option for those in their mid-20s or younger.
Leesburg
Dr. Nadim Hawa Performed a total hysterectomy + bilateral salpingectomy. I requested this after two ultrasounds showing potential fibroids/adenomyosis, rather than going through with more invasive screening, because I'd wanted one forever. He was very supportive. For context, I was 29, living with my partner (not married), and never wanted kids. I'll say I had very good insurance at the time (BCBS) and ended up paying $40 out of pocket (copays for surgeon + anesthesiologist). Surgery was laparoscopic and the whole procedure was very easy and comfortable. Quick recovery (was feeling pretty good after about 3 weeks, normal after about 4 weeks). No bingos! NB: members who wish to consult with Dr Hawa need to specifically book in with him as his partner, Dr. Tyan, will require psychological clearance before considering sterilisation.
+1 Dr Hawa, I am 24, childfree, and married. The consult appointment was quick and easy. I asked for a bilateral salpingectomy with endometrial ablation because I was worried that I'd be denied asking for anything more. He said he'd be willing to do that, but recommended a partial hysterectomy instead since I likely have endometriosis and want that addressed as well. They're calling to set up an appointment for their first available opening. "Dr. Hawa and his clinic is centered around treating women with respect and encouraging their rights. After getting bingo-d by six doctors, I wrote an essay and got five references to prove I understood the consequences of surgery. When I gave them to him he was appalled and said that I never should have had to go through that, then apologized for the doctors who failed me. Asked for bisalp and ablation, he suggested partial hysterectomy instead. "If I can make my own reproductive choices as a man, you should have those same rights as a woman" Covered under Anthem/BCBS.
+1 Dr. Hawa. Nov. 2024. Bisalp on 46-year-old CF redditor. His consult was quick and easy. He is very efficient, factual about the procedure itself, and does not appear to hold any biases. When I told him my history, he listened with an open mind and did not make me feel uncomfortable in any way about not wanting to use birth control anymore. In other words, Dr. Hawa sticks to the medical procedure you're seeking, and bases his decision on both your choices and medical history. He also mentioned the value of bisalp in preventing ovarian cancer in older women as a reason to have the procedure. He was very attentive, with a caring demeanor the day of, and after the surgery. I would definitely recommend him!
Dr. Jacob and Dr. Brown at Capital Women's Care, I am 36 (35 at the time of the procedure), single, childfree now sterilized. I had a myomectomy (fibroid removal), endometrial ablation, and a tubal ligation. Dr. Jacob is my main gynecologist and never bingoed me when I first brought up sterilization and my desire to never have children. She understood and said having children isn't for everyone. I was referred to Dr. Brown since she's the surgeon and she also never questioned my request for the tubal in addition to the ablation. They take most insurances (I have Cigna) and operate out of the Inova hospital system. Inova actually just dismissed the $1500 I owed after insurance from the surgery.
Lynchburg
Dr. Matthew Tompkins, Lynchburg Gynecology - 26, unmarried, childfree, bilateral salpingectomy. I had been a patient of Dr. Tompkins for 1.5 years and on birth control. I decided I wanted to come off of birth control and asked Dr. Tompkins about sterilization. He asked if I was sure I didn’t want children, and when I said yes, he said okay here are the options and explained a tubal ligation or bilateral salpingectomy. I am on Medicaid, so I had to sign a form for insurance, wait 30 days, and come back and confirm I still wanted the procedure. I signed the forms, confirmed in 30 days, and had my surgery. My surgery was also 100% covered under Medicaid in Virginia.
+1 Dr. Tompkins of Lynchburg Gynecology, Virginia, 26/female/never married/never pregnant: I found Dr. Tompkins through this subreddit, but was unsure of approval because I was a new patient from over 1.5 hours away. Upon arrival, he was very respectful, gracious, and understanding. Told me that "If I'm old enough to have a child, I'm old enough to choose not to." I had a surgery date about a month after my first consult: successful bisalp that took under two hours from knockout to recovery. Approx. $1,700 after all costs with Blue Anthem/Blue Shield insurance. A sweet, soft-spoken, and wonderful doctor who I'd recommend to anyone needing a quick and easy sterilisation in the VA area. 10/10.
Dr. Graham Nelsen Procedure - BiSalp, laparoscopy Info- 27, married, never pregnant & childfree Experience - No bingos, but suggested my husband get sterilized instead for obvious reasons. Simple/reasonable questions, and approved me with just a few of my main concerns having been listed. Quickly scheduled procedure with the surgery center. Morning of, all the staff were kind. Time passed super quick honestly, and next thing I know Dr. Nelsen is walking in and doing the final “This is permanent, no going back.” I just said, “That’s the plan!”. Post-op I was taken back to my room where I had a quick discharge as I felt no pain other than some tenderness at the bellybutton incision site. I was wheeled out to the car and on my way home! Dr. Nelsen is friendly and I do recommend him for anyone who is capable of gestation and seeking sterilization. He seems committed to supporting autonomy.
Manassas
Dr Victor Khayat. He completed a bilateral Salpingectomy for me and was willing to set it up at my very first appt. I’m a 24 year old unmarried woman with no children. I did not receive any bingos at the regular office where he practices or from Dr Khayat himself. He did counsel on risk of regret as required. However there was a few confused glances from hospital staff the day of the procedure. He was booked out about a month when I scheduled my procedure.
Dr. Elizabeth Lavery, Lake Manassas OBGYN Bilateral tubal salpingectomy 20 y/o cis female, unwed, no children Got approved the first time I asked with no judgment. Had the state-required conversations and she OKed the surgery immediately. Have to wait 30 days in VA to get call from surgical scheduler. $2000 w/ Aetna insurance. No bingos whatsoever; completely understanding and welcoming.
+1 Dr Lavery, accepted my [23F, unwed, childless] request for sterilization and completed a bisalp with care ~2 mo. after initial consult. The cost with Blue Cross Blue Shield was $2,544. No judgement from her at all!
McLean
Obsidian Men's Health (Vasectomy)
Dr. Tabarrah at INOVA OB/GYN Mclean.
-1 Dr Tabarrah, 26F
+1 Dr Tabarrah, (hysterectomy), who again, only asked appropriate questions and accepted my answers without difficulty. The surgery itself (hysterectomy) was a breeze.
Nazaneen Homaifar, INOVA OB/GYN McLean VA. I'm a 34 year old cis woman, unmarried, no children. Asked Dr. Homaifar about sterilization at our first visit. She asked a few questions and said yes immediately. I was really shocked- I've been told no many times before. The surgery was easy to schedule. I got no pushback from her or her team. I had my bilateral salpingectomy yesterday and all went well.
Dr. Tretiak at Kaiser Permanente Tyson's Corner, I was put in touch with him a few months ago by my pcp. He didn't need much convincing, considering I'm almost 30 and told him I have never wanted children. The surgery was easy, and he didn't try to convince me at any point between our first meeting and the surgery, nor did any of the nurses at the Tysons Corner center. The only training or education I received was on the laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy procedure itself.
Mechanicsville
Dr. Giulia Dulá 7515 Right Flank Road, Mechanicsville, Virginia 23116 (804) 288-4084. Laparoscopic Bilateral Salpingectomy, 31, married, no children. Could have had the surgery in July after the consult in May - chose to have it in August. I have seen Dr. Dula as my gyno for years. Still, I was prepared with my list of reasons. She stopped me and said “you’re a grown women who can make her own decisions. I will sterilize anyone who wants that.” I told her in passing that my husband is on board, too. She told me it wouldn’t have mattered if he wasn’t. “Your body, your choice.” I have 100% trust in Dr. Dula.
Midlothian
Dr. Kristen Lewis at Virginia Physicians for Women in Midlothian, VA, she also sees patients at the Prince George location. Performed a bilateral salpingectomy on single 24F with no kids. Went over the risks of surgery, alternative birth control methods, and required discussion of regret rates, and then approved me with no issues whatsoever. The entire experience was great too, no bingos from any of the other staff and the surgery was quick. Awesome experience, she was very kind and understanding!
+1 Dr. Kristen Lawson from Midlothian, VA (formerly Dr. Kristen Lewis). Procedure: Bilateral salpingectomy My age/sex: 21F Marital Status: Single. Dr. Lawson was very kind and did not bingo me at all. I asked her if she could sterilize me, and she readily agreed. The whole surgery team was very nice and no one ever questioned my decision.
Norfolk
Dr. Mehdi Parva, MD The Group for Women, Brambleton Medical Center, 250 W. Brambleton Avenue, Suite 202, Norfolk, VA 23510, 757-466-6350. Also in Chesapeake. May 2024. Hysterectomy with endometriosis removal on 32-year-old redditor. I initially went to Dr. Parva as a referral for an endometriosis laparoscopy and pelvic pain on my left side. I had an endometrioma that was just shown by cat scan to be 8 cm by 7 cm by 6 cm and I had a feeling my left ovary was going to be too damaged to keep. I was hoping a hysterectomy would be up for discussion but I was willing to settle on a bisalp since I’ve been childfree for 10 years and nobody so far would hear of any sterilization. When I asked to be sterilized while having my endometrioma/left ovary removal, he didn’t even blink and said “of course, it’s your decision!” Dr. Parva was the one to suggest a hysterectomy and removing both my fallopian tubes after hearing my story of years of constant pain and no desire for parenthood. I was nearly in tears from the kindness of feeling so heard and he shook my hand and promised he would take care of me. I just knew he would and I’m so thankful for his help. A month after signing the insurance paperwork, he did the procedure and it went incredibly well. He took everything out except my right ovary so I could avoid menopause symptoms. Surgery went well and he had a very lovely bedside manner throughout the process.
Alissa Thieke and the doctor who sent me to her was Thomas Kimble. They’re both with Eastern Virginia Medical School (EVMS) in Norfolk, Virginia. They were both wonderful and very supportive. Dr. Kimble went over all the other options available to prevent pregnancy (IUD, etc) but in a “just so you know all your options” way, not a bingo way. As soon as I said I wanted a bisalp he said “great, let’s make it happen!” Dr. Thieke was also supportive, no bingos or signs of reluctance to do the procedure on her end.
Dr. Angela Parson Obstetrician-gynecologist, I recently had a bisalp about two weeks ago. I just got back from a checkup with my gyno. She was also the one who performed my surgery and approved it. I've been seeing her for years and she's been nothing but amazing and understanding. I asked her if she was comfortable being added to the list we have on this subreddit and she had no issues with it. Womancare Centers, PLC 100 Kingsley Ln #200, Norfolk, VA 23505
Norfolk/Virginia Beach
Elite Women's Care: Dr. Sample, OBGYN; located in the Halifax building of Kempsville Circle directly across from Sentara Leigh Hospital. The office is centrally located near the Norfolk/Virginia Beach line with quick access to I-64 and I-264. She does bilateral tubal ligations and Essure (I got the former). SUPER sweet- you may even want keep her as your regular doctor! Just make sure to have a good answer when she throws the "1/3 regret it" statistic. I'm 27/F; 2 abortions with no live births (although I know she would have done it without the abortion history). PS- She did a phenomenal job with the actual surgery.
-1 Dr. Malena Sample. Dr. agreed to do a bisalp on 26-year-old redditor, then cancelled 1 week before the scheduled surgery date because she didn't "feel comfortable" because redditor is not sexually active. When redditor brought up the possibility of rape, something that RAINN says happens to 1 in every 6 American women, the doctor was completely dismissive, saying "that’s not likely to happen”.
+1 Dr Sample. Jan 2023. Bisalp on 29-year-old redditor without pushback.
+1 Dr Sample. Sept. 2023. Bisalp on CF 34-year-old redditor.
Dr. Elizabeth Baker Golpira. She did a bilateral salpingectomy for me. 29f. No kids. I only had to wait 30 days from my initial appointment to scheduling the surgery.
-1 Dr Golpira refused sterilisation for a 33 year old who was "forced to wait three months on hormonal birth control before she would then see me again and reconsider my procedure in case I 'changed my mind'".
Naval Medical Center Portsmouth Performed a vasectomy on my 28-year-old husband with little to no bingo-ing. I know it's typically difficult for military folks to get 'fixed' because of the culture. My husband went in there prepared. they asked him the usual questions to make sure he knew the ramifications and required him (and all vasectomy patients) to attend a 1 hour class that explains the procedure. Once he did that, he was approved with no hassle or pushback.
Dr. Rustin C. Walters, Urologist, NMCP. He did my vasectomy when I was age 28, married with no children. Asked the basic questions and gave me a surgery date during my initial consultation. Returned a month later and got it done with no issues.
Urology of Virginia: Dr. John S. Liu, Urologist; Went in for a vasectomy as a 25-year-old single man. Had absolutely no issues. He did bring up my age, lack of children, and marital status, but also said he trusted that I had already considered the implications. He only asked for my reason why out of curiosity. Very polite. Very professional. Did a group consultation followed by a one-on-one consultation. He has a ton of experience doing the procedure and offers all options including no-scalp, cauterization, etc. Answered all of our questions thoroughly and offered a ton of helpful info regarding the procedure and the recovery process. Their office has many other urologists who can preform this type of procedure. I can't speak for the others' willingness, but I'm sure at least some wouldn't have a problem with it. I went to the location at 225 Clearfield Ave in VA Beach. They have multiple locations in VA Beach, Suffolk, Hampton, Williamsburg, and South Boston. Have to wait at least 30 days for the actual procedure because of weird Virginia law. Appointment scheduled for October. Will update with more info about the procedure itself once I go through with it.
Reston
The Urology Group of Virginia I met only with Dr. Walter O’Brien but, it sounds like the rest of the practice is similar. Vasectomy at 26, no kids. He required a 10 minute consult that was 90% just going over the legal requirements, basically zero push back. The day of my procedure, there was another sub-30 with no kids getting one done by him as well.
I met with Dr. Chuck Pruna at the same practice and he performed my vasectomy. I'm 24 not married and have no kids. I had a 10 minute consult and then scheduled the surgery for a month later. The surgery took about 3 hours in total, and TIVA (Total Intravenous Anesthesia) was administered.
Reston Women's Center I was 29, and unmarried with no kids (still am). I interacted mostly with the staff and the NP who I had talked to about my IUD, and they were all lovely (the NP especially, though I can't remember her name). I had come prepared with a partial medical history (from my PCP) detailing how other birth control methods hadn't worked for me, and didn't end up needing it. Virginia requires a 2-week waiting period after you make your appointment, and the practice does surgeries every other Friday in the nearby Reston Surgical Center. Dr. Hashemi is their surgeon, if I recall correctly, and was my only speed bump in the entire process (she recoded my procedure as elective instead of preventative immediately before my surgery, and it ended up being a whole ordeal with my insurance), but I got no pushback from anyone there.
+1 Reston Women's Centre, Dr. Diana Shusterovich. Dr. Shusterovich is literally the best OBGYN and Doctor I’ve ever had. My experience with her could not have been better. She is 200000% supportive of women and whatever fertility option the patient wants for themselves. The surgery was super easy and I healed up great - I was walking around just fine that night. Incisions just felt like rug burns and only took combo of ibuprofen and acetaminophen for 2 days after. Dr. S followed up by phone the week after and followed up in person three weeks after where we basically commiserated about the state of the US lol. They took my insurance (UMR United Health) and the office was great about doing their best to figure out your est out of pocket prior to surgery. So far, I’m looking at $1,200 out of pocket but of course I won’t know for sure until I get the bill.
Richmond
Dr. Courtney Legum-Wenk, DO She services the Richmond area through Virginia Women's Center. I'm booked for a bisalp in this month, she gave me no issue booking the procedure after my first visit with her earlier this summer before Roe being overturned. She's been great to work with, no BS with her or my BCBS insurance who cover it 100% (31/partner/CF).
+1 Dr Legum-Wenk. Bisalp 26-year-old redditor. When I asked for a bisalp, she immediately said yes. When checking into the hospital the clerk told me young women, younger than me come from all over the state and even from out of state because she is so helpful and will do a bisalp on anyone who wants it. I have a huge, intricate stomach tattoo and she hid the incisions in the tattoo to the point I can barely see them.
Dr. Leigh Lewis. She works out of Virginia Women's Center and performed the procedure in Henrico Doctors Hospital. I'm 33, no children, single, got a bisalp. My request was accepted the first visit even though I'd never seen her before. She gave a very short "permanent, other options" spiel prefixed by "I'm sure you already know this." It felt like a rote requirement, not serious. We discussed ablation, but she advised against it for insurance reasons unless she found signs of endo inside. She indicated she is willing to perform it if my periods get worse off HBC. Surgery was about a month later, post-op a month after. No problems, very happy.
+1 Dr. Leigh Lewis. Bilateral Salpingectomy on a 29 year old. I had never seen Dr. Lewis previously. It took about a month to get an appointment with her. Not one bingo. Just made sure I understood it was permanent and went over what goes on during the procedure and what to expect for recovery. After the consultation, the surgery was scheduled for only 10 days later. Surgery was fast and easy, no complications.
+1 for Dr. Leigh Lewis in Richmond, VA. I'm (32F) a few days post-op for a Bisalp. The process was easy, zero bingos. She walked me through all my options during a virtual consultation. I was able to go ahead and schedule surgery after the virtual meeting and met with her and the hospital team in-person about a week before the surgery. The team at Henrico Doctor's Hospital was nice and respectful of my decision. Feeling good a few days out! October 2024.
Dr Lindsey Pflunger, MD, OBGYN VCU Medical Center 3400 Haydenpark Lane, Henrico, VA 23233, (804) 828-4409. Bilateral salpingectomy on 24 year old single woman. Appointment was made in May 2022, and had to wait for June for the consultation. I explained all my reasons for not wanting children. She asked if I was absolutely sure and I told her yes. We went over the procedure, risks, recovery time, and wait time. No bingos, pushbacks, or any judgement. She listened to me the whole time. A week later, her surgery scheduler scheduled the surgery 30 days in advanced so insurance would cover the procedure. Extremely kind and understanding doctor, and surgeon. Her whole team was amazing.
Dr. Aaron Goldberg, 30yo cis woman, no kids, no spouse, VCU Health Ambulatory Care Center 417 N 11th St, Richmond, VA 23219 (United States). He was really helpful in answering my questions and very sympathetic about how other doctors had treated me.
Dr Anna Baur, Bilateral Salpingectomy 29F
Laura C. Pendlebury, MD - Virginia Women's Center Age - 29, No kids, never pregnant, Not married (doctor never inquired on my marital status, it's in my chart). Inquired on why I preferred this over IUD or other LABC (hormones and traveling mostly). Mostly does banding procedure, but can perform others. Does have a waiting period despite state restrictions being lifted, I will note the surgical schedule was also 6 weeks booked so it didn't matter anyway. Performed in Henrico Doctor's Hospital Outpatient surgical center was in and out in a few hours and quickly recovered with basically no scar. I will note that the doctor group also has offices associated with a catholic hospital. These offices cannot perform surgical sterilizations. Great doc, very professional, no bingos, just wanted to make sure I understood the risks.
Virginia Urology. Vasectomy at 24, married with no kids. I went to the Stony Point location but have no reason to suspect that others would not be cooperative.
Dr. Jordan Hylton VCU Medical Center - Nelson Clinic and Stony Point. Offers tubal ligation (bands) and salpingectomy. Asked me (30 year old with no children) what led me to the decision and that was it. She's a very sweet doctor and I felt very comfortable with her.
Dr. Maria Meussling Schleicher, MD, FACOG Henrico Doctors' Hospital Professional Building 7605 Forest Avenue, Suite 206, Richmond, VA 23229 and West Creek Medical Park - Short Pump, 1630 Wilkes Ridge Parkway, Suite 200, Richmond, VA 23229, 804-897-2100. Bisalp on 20-year old CF woman in 2022.
+1 Dr. Maria Meussling Schleicher, MD, FACOG with Virginia Physician for Women (VPFW) & Henrico Doctors' Hospital. I (early 30s/no kids/partnered) had my bisalp and IUD removal performed in Dec 2024. No bingo, no tricks, no gotchas. At the consultation, pre-op and right before surgery she simply and professionally asked if I was 100% certain as this was permanent. The OR and care teams were also respectful and kind, no unsupportive comments or questions from them. I had my consult in mid Oct 2024 and they were ready to schedule me for the procedure 2 weeks later!
+1 Dr Schleicher, 22/f/unmarried/no kids. Dr. Schleicher was incredible, one consult and we were booking surgery. No bingoing. She just asked that I verify that I understood it was permanent, asked if I had any preference on method of sterilization, helped me to get some genetic testing done for cancer risk, and did her best for me to make sure I had a good experience. Her whole team is wonderful, and the anesthesia team did an excellent job helping me through having anxiety around anesthesia. She never asked if I was married, never treated me like I shouldn't be making this choice, just treated me with the utmost respect. Highly recommend.
+1 Dr. Schleicher in Richmond VA. I had my sterilization surgery yesterday, Sept 2024 and I'm 21, married 0 kids. Laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy.
Roanoke
Dr. Whisnant - Urology Associates Vasectomy at 26, single no kids. Earliest consultation appointment was a month out, talked for maybe five to ten minutes, no pushback in and out of the office under 30 minutes. Traditional scalpel procedure a month later, took 15 minutes, in and out in under 30 again.
Dr. Jessica Sosa Stanley. I had a bilateral salpingectomy with her, I'm 30 and unmarried. I had to wait 6 weeks for my consult appointment, we had a short chat about my child-free lifestyle, she said I was a perfect candidate for the surgery, and booked my surgery for 4 weeks later! She was the surgeon and was incredible. I highly recommend her!
+1 Dr Sosa Stanley, she did my consult in 5 minutes and had me scheduled very quickly. At the moment though, she is on maternity leave, I have no clue when she will come back to her practice. But she is still a very good doctor to keep on this list!
Dr. Isaiah Johnson. Sterilized a friend (18F, childfree) with a bisalp and was one of the providers I was looking into for my own procedure. (NB no first hand review has been provided for this doctor yet)
Stafford
Dr Yetunde Adenle. Bilateral Salpingectomy. I'm 32, married, never had a child, totally childfree. I have Meritain insurance, covered 100%, only paid a co-pay. No bingos, Dr Adenle and the whole practice/hospital staff were totally supportive. About 6 weeks from request to surgery date.
Dr Kurian Thott did my bilateral salpingectomy and uterine ablation without any questions, hesitations, or bingos. I am a married, 34 y/o female, with no children. I did have to wait about a month for a surgical consult, as well as another month for the actual surgery, but that is because he is in high demand. He's a great doc all around (my usual OBGYN) and very delicate with surgery. He practices in both Stafford and Fredericksburg Virginia.
Sterling
Dr. Riley S. Kraus in Sterling, VA. I am 20 year old trans man and I had a bilateral salpingectomy performed Dec 2024. Dr. Kraus listened to all of my concerns and answered all my questions expertly. She was very open to performing a hysterectomy if I wanted. After the consultation, my surgery was scheduled for a month later. Her staff team was extremely friendly. I felt safe and respected throughout the whole procedure. Highly recommend her for LGBTQIA+ folks. My insurance is BCBS.
Suffolk
I saw Dr. Edward Wing at Lifetime Women's Health in Suffolk, Virginia in 2021 and was able to have a tubal litigation. I was 28 at the time and childfree. I was not questioned beyond my medical history and he took all of my concerns seriously.
Tappahannock
Virginia Women Center - 804.288.4084. Accepts Plan First, Virginia’s FREE family planning program for men and women. (Dr. Matthew F. Vogel was my surgeon. He was very kind and nonjudgmental and so was the staff. Preformed Tubal Cauterization on a 30 year old female.)
Virginia Beach
Dr. Jennifer Balderson from Coastal Gynecology 1744 Sir William Osler Dr, Virginia Beach, VA 23454, Laproscopic Bisalp Salpingectomy Dec 2024. 26, single, no children. The doctor that performed my surgery is also my gynecologist. She was immediately on board for my procedure after having an hour to talk with me about the decision. She is the third doctor I went to after being denied twice in a 3 year period. Insurance covered 100%. Dr. Balderson never bingoed me once.
Virginia League for Planned Parenthood - Vasectomy for people over 18. Will ask if you have caused a pregnancy but will perform vasectomy regardless of answer.
Warrenton
Jeffrey Bell. Procedure was bilateral salpingectomy. I'm 32, single, no children Copay was about $300 (I'm on Aetna Medicare). The only questions he asked were "you're aware it's permanent?" and "you're sure you don't want kids?", after I confirmed these two things, he handed me the consent form, and we scheduled it for about two months after that. (no psych screening)
Williamsburg
Dr. Karanvir Virk, (757) 253-5600. Performs salpingectomies --did one for 27 year old female with no children (can perform Tubal Ligations, but suggests salpingectomies as it takes no additional time and removal of fallopian tubes reduces chances of ovarian cancer and basically eliminates the chance of an ectopic pregnancy). Excellent surgeon. Excellent facilities. Have your reasons for being fixed clear and concise.
Winchester
Yekaterina Rabkin, Winchester OB-gyn, 1705 Amherst St, Winchester, VA 22601. I offer sterilization for both parents and people without children. 21 is the youngest I would offer sterilization.
Bellevue
Dr. Mary Welch @ Kaiser. I started going to her for general women's health checkup and IUD. Last year, I mentioned that I want a bilateral salpingectomy and she just said ok, no questions asked. My surgery at Kaiser was a breeze, I even had an all-women surgical team. At my checkup, she even jokingly said I can recommend her to all my childfree friends.
Mary Belniak. I had a bilateral salpingectomy. I was 29 years old and childfree. I discussed this with her and she was very receptive while still making sure I was aware of other options. She did not try to talk me out of it at any point. Her care and followup was excellent. This was done at zero cost to me even with only having Apple Health insurance.
Bellingham
Dr So performed my total laparoscopic hysterectomy with bilateral salpingectomy on October 18th. I’m 35, single, and child free. My appointment with her was in August, she listened to my reasons for wanting a hysterectomy (heavy, painful menses, family history, worried about losing access to birth control) and never tried to persuade me to not get one. In fact she said understood and would normally ask me if I needed more time to consider, but I’m light of recent political events she would schedule me right away. She was very kind and very thorough in explaining and answering any questions I had. I wish I had known her in my early twenties!
Planned Parenthood - Bellingham Health Center, sterilization for men over 18 years old. No female sterilization.
Dr. Dina Levin at PeaceHealth Tubal ligations for women, gave me one at age 22. Dr Levin has also given a 21 year old a hysterectomy.
Dr Chee Tan, MD 4465 Cordata Pkwy # 102, Bellingham, WA 98226, 360-752-5280. Also 1990 Hospital Dr., Suite 100 Sedro-Woolley, WA 98284, 360-856-6490. Bisalp on 25-year-old redditor. Was super nice and fast. Did not give me any trouble for being younger or not having kids beforehand. Was very professional. I found it helped to be super prepared but he let me know that he's performed it on younger people than me without children as well. He was able to get me in on a cancellation and he combined my consultation and pre-op so I only had to have one appointment before the actual surgery. Sept. 2022.
Dr. Lindsay Emerick, MD, OBGYN PeaceHealth 4465 Cordata Pkwy Suite 102, Bellingham, WA 98226, 360-752-5280. Bisalp on 22-year-old redditor. Takes most insurance including Applecare (WA state Medicaid). They also have a generous financial aid program for underinsured people or any costs related to care not covered by insurance. The only question she asked me was how long I had wanted this done. She is very informative every step of the way, and firmly believes in the patient having bodily autonomy.
Lindsay Parker DO, Bilateral Salpingectomy, Single, 21 at the time, childfree. She was awesome. I went in around July of 2022, we talked about surgery. She asked me why I wanted it and if I was the one making the decision. I told her why I wanted it and she said she’d be happy to do it. Surgery was October 25th, 2022. She was very supportive, no bingos. Insurance covered 90% of it
Bonney Lake/ Enumclaw
Gouhar Khan, MD [CHI Franciscan Health] Has office hours in both Enumclaw and Bonney Lake. Gave me (30/f/childfree) tubal ligation no problems. https://www.chifranciscan.org/find-a-doctor/details.physician.1617d58a-6bc1-4cb3-9d17-0969ddc93a97.html
Edmonds
Dr. Randolph Bourne, Swedish OB/GYN Specialists Edmonds - Gave me a tubal ligation without any hassle or disapproval. Friendly and funny, will answer any questions in a way that's easy to understand without talking down to you.
Dr. Kristin Riley - Dr. Riley is a rad lady with a dyed pink streak in her hair. She practices with Virginia Mason and I first saw her at the Edmonds clinic location and then had my laparascopic bilateral salpingectomy in downtown Seattle. She asked me (I'm 31 and married) why I wanted the procedure, I told her, and she said OK all within about 60 seconds. No hassle at all!
Enumclaw
Dr Hannah Valdez-Chenoweth - I am 32 years old, childfree, and unmarried. I received a bilateral salpingectomy from her and it went fabulously. At my consult, she gave me plenty of information and was thorough in making sure I was aware of alternatives, but never suggested that I should choose those alternatives. She was incredibly respectful of my decision to be sterilized, supported my choice, and never questioned it. We got the ball rolling quickly on signing consent forms for the 30 day waiting period and she was very kind in doing whatever she could to squeeze me into her schedule before my insurance is up so that the procedure can be covered.
Everett/Mill Creek
Dr. Laurent Nicolov, The Everett Clinic MD, OB/GYN - Dr. Nicolov is an older fella who gave me no issues when I went in for a consultation to get a Laparoscopic Bilateral Salpingectomy and Endometrial Ablation. Told me (28F) that the choice to be a mother was mine and he was only there to give me info. Appt. was done in 20 minutes and I got my surgery scheduled within a week!
Dr. Quan Dau. I, 27, had a bilateral salpingectomy & partial hysterectomy. He specifically stated that he was not there to convince me to have children. But that he was required for liability reasons to go over alternatives and the facts.
+1 Dr Dau, 34, tubal ligation. He didn't ask me any questions about my reasons for sterilization or about my partner, we did go over the alternatives, but it wasn't in a pushy way. He put all the facts and risks out there without trying to sound intimidating (like my previous doctors did). Great doctor and person, I couldn't recommend him enough!
Dr. Michael Wong from Providence Everett, WA. He was the OBGYN/Surgeon who performed my bilateral salpingectomy. Zero bingos, no judgement, no self-defense, only relevant medical questions and very brief/basic "what made you decide to do this" stuff asked pretty much to just make sure I was completely coherent/not under the influence of anything or being forced to make a major medical decision against my will. Very gentle and easy going personality, a little humorous/funny in a light hearted way sometimes. He had to do the "I'm obligated to tell you about the chance of regret" line, but that is literally all he said before quickly moving on. I am 35, F/AFAB, in a long term hetero relationship but never married, and never been pregnant nor ever will be now.
Federal Way
Dr. Marisa Dahlman MD, OBGYN Virginia Mason, 33501 First Way S., Federal Way, WA 98003, (253) 874-1604. Bilateral Salpingectomy. Dr. was entirely trusting in my decision to be child free and open to allowing me to seek sterilization at 26. Specialist in transgender health. Also in Seattle.
Gig Harbor
Dr. Orestes Molina, MultiCare - Tubal ligation. Asked the very basic "Are you sure?" and "You know this is permanent, right?" questions but without coercion or judgment. Just doing his job.
Dr Moritz Bartels at Multicare in Gig Harbor Washington. Bi-salp - Dr recommended. 30, in long term relationship - no kids. Very pleased, he was very kind, caring & supportive! No bingos, no judgement. Had me scheduled quickly after consult, made me feel comfortable before/during/after procedure. Minimal scarring/fading very well! (Fun fact- he also did my moms after sister was born, she was THRILLED I chose him)
Issaquah
Issaquah Obstetrics &amp; Gynecology had no problem performing a laparoscopy on me, a 25 year old woman. She does all surgery in-house, so there are no hospital fees.
Dr. Helen E Erikson, D.O, Swedish OB/GYN Specialists - Issaquah Had no problem with performing a laparoscopic total hysterectomy on me, a 26 year old woman! Told me she would have agreed to do it when I was 19 if I had come into her office then. They even have the Da Vinci robot!
+1 Dr Erikson, she was exactly as amazing as the wiki promised. No bingoes whatsoever and no reference to my partner. She did go over all the non-permanent options before talking about surgery, but did so in a slightly apologetic and "I have to give you the shpiel" manner - not at all patronizing. And after I confirmed just once that I knew I wanted a hysterectomy, she accepted that immediately and started talking about scheduling, surgery prep, what to know, and so forth.
+1 Dr Erikson, Swedish Hospital, Issaquah, Washington. I asked for a laparoscopic total hysterectomy and bisalp. She did have me try an IUD first for insurance purposes so I could get the surgery covered. She scheduled me for the surgery 3 months out from the date she put the IUD in. She was very adamant about "my body my choice" and did not try to change my mind. Just made sure I was informed. I'm 27. Female. Child free. Married.
+1 Dr Erikson. Feb 2023. My surgeon was a lovely person that gaveme no hassle (though she did list other options for legal reasons). My consult was in October, got the surgery in Feb 2023.
Dr. Holly Sato, MD, FACOG Practices out of the Swedish OB/GYN Specialists. Wonderfully warm and fun personality. She approved me for sterilization with absolutely no resistance (32F, no children), very supportive of each woman's right to make her own reproductive decisions. She and the entire First Hill Surgery Center medical team assigned to my procedure were an absolute pleasure to work with. Received a bilateral salpingectomy with IUD removal. Dr Sato will commence working at this location in September.
John Abano, MD Had my vasectomy completed January 2022 CF 24m in a relationship. No consultation was required for me, quick and easy set up for an appointment. Insurance in Washington is required to fully cover vasectomies. I had out of state insurance and I still only paid $30 for the procedure. John was a very nice and pleasant doctor. No bingos except the offer to freeze sperm (which I naturally refused). However, one thing to note is right before surgery I did receive a packet/waiver because I was under 30 with no kids that outlined some points that borderlined bingos. It was odd but didn't really take away due to no pressure or anything from the doctor, office aids and assistants to seriously read or discuss, felt like just a general intake form. Total time was 30min for procedure with 10 min of waiting. Overall I highly recommend this doctor for kindness and the affordability towards out of state insurance.
Kirkland
Mary Berret, OB-GYN. I am a 34yo F who underwent bisalp yesterday! Dr. Barret was professional, empathetic, and efficient. She took me seriously and didn’t question my decision beyond informing me that it is permanent. She didn’t even ask if I had a partner! She scheduled me for surgery within a month of my consult, and was very helpful in making sure my insurance covered the surgery. I felt respected in every step of the process. Highly recommend Dr. Barret!
Dr Bonnie Gong Unified Center for Women's Health in Kirkland, WA. Procedure: Bilateral salpingectomy. She is currently my gynaecologist and performed my bisalp a few months ago. She approved my sterilization during our first consultation and did not bingo me once. I am married and childfree, and was 31 when I had the procedure done. My insurance covered everything.
+1 Dr. Gong. Nov 2022 Bisalp on 29-year-old redditor.
Dr. Jonathan Cook - Jonathan Cook will be moving to Oregon, waiting on confirmation which practice he will be joining.
Dr. Stephen Hyde Asked a lot of questions of course but when I asked if he even wanted to speak to my husband he said I was an adult and could make my own decisions. Does Essure, Tubal Ligation and others that I don't remember.
Dr. Pilar Baquero Asked no questions about why I was choosing to have a bilateral salpingectomy other than if I was a: sure and b: knew of other options. Was sensitive in her language to gender and sexual identity ("are you in a stable, long-term relationship?" instead of "are you married", etc.). Very clear and straightforward with information. Specializes in minimally invasive procedures like laparoscopy, menstrual disorders, and gynecological surgeries.
Dr. Chao-Ching Wu Primary care physician. Very informative, clear, straightforward. Very compassionate. Gave an excellent reference to an OBGYN who could perform sterilization surgery, didn't ask any questions beyond the basics, was very understanding of why someone would choose this path.
Kennewick/Pasco/Richland
Dr. Kyle Curtis. 509-585-5910. Practices at Mid Columbia Women's Health Center/Trios Hospital. Very kind, respectful, and super efficient. No lectures, no bingos, no judgement. Willing to do IUDs, tubals, hysterectomies, endometrial ablations. Super rad dude.
Dr. Neil Ponder, FACOOG. Practices at Desert Sky Women's Health and Trios Hospital. Is also a practicing surgeon. Does the full range of office and OR procedures. The only hesitancy with sterilization expressed has to do with insurance (some of them have extra hoops to jump through). Otherwise, believes an adult woman knows their body and situation best. Stays up to date with latest research.
[Dr Daniel Bahnmiller] Practices at Columbia Shores. Did a total Hysterectomy on me at 21 when I came in with medical cause.
Kitsap
Dr. Katherine J. Hebard, MD Kitsap OBGYN - bilatersal salpingectomy 24yo CF. Dr. Hebard was the second doctor that I had a consult with through Kitsap OBGYN. She was a breath of fresh air after all the push back I had received so far. She was very informative about the entire process and took some time to make sure I understood the permanent nature of the procedure. After that, she was very supportive of me being able to make my own informed decision. On the day of the procedure, I was one of 3 women getting a bisalp from Dr Hebard. Everything went well, and she even diagnosed and removed some endometriosis from my abdominal wall.
Dr. Jennifer Quimby, MD 20700 Bond Road NE, North Kitsap Medical Center Poulsbo, WA 98370, 360-697-2199. Performed tubal ligation on redditor, and supported all of my decisions without showing any judgement.
Dr. Glen Christen, MD. Performed my bilateral salpingectomy Jan 2020 at age 21 with no bingos and also let me have my tubes returned to me.
+1 Dr. Glen Christen. He performed my tubal ligation December 2019. I was 32. Very friendly and never gave me any push back. Just wanted to make sure I understood what the surgery entailed, being a plus size person the surgery can be a little bit more difficult but it went smoothly.
+1 Dr Glen Christen, sterilisation for 29F.
Dr. Lydia Weyenberg in Kitsap County, Washington State. I'm 23, no children. She was hesitant because I was so young and did ask me to take a referral with one of her colleagues (only if I wanted too). She was always professional and made sure I knew it was always my choice. She made me feel comfortable and never belittled me. I got a tubal ligation done on May 24th, 2022.
Longview
Dr. Saeyeal K. Lee MD 1660 Delaware St Longview, 98632, 360-414-2800. Plus-size friendly. May 2024. Bisalp on 26-year-old redditor. I am plus size, and LGBTQ (although that didn't come up during our appointments) and Dr. Saeyeal K Lee was incredible. Outside of the basic "hey these are the risks of this surgery", he gave zero pushback and was 100% supportive of my decision.
Mill Creek
Sydney Megill in Mill Creek, WA, she approved my referral to the surgeon. The discussion was quick and easy, she didn't ask if I had a partner, didn't care that I'm 29 and don't have kids. I felt very heard. Jennifer M Chin in Seattle, WA. She made sure I knew what the surgery is and gave me the go ahead and got it scheduled. Surgery went very smoothly and everybody on her team took great care of me.
Moscow
Dr. Ric Minudri. Bilateral salpingectomy on unmarried, childless 21F. Practices in both Moscow, Idaho and Pullman, Washington. He was incredibly willing to do the procedure. He said it was his job to help me live the life I want to live. He explained everything in an easy-to-understand way and wanted to get me the procedure as early as I wanted it done!
Mount Lake Terrace
Dr. James R Downey, MD. No bingos during the consultation. Asked me how many kids I had and approved it when I said zero. I didn't have to talk him into doing it at all.
Mount Vernon
Dr. Melissa Chinn, DO at Chinn GYN Dr. Chinn is very open about her displeasure with doctors who discourage childfree people. She's non-judgemental and when I said I (23F) do not want kids she replied with "good!" She's very personable and a breath of fresh air. She does laparoscopic salpingectomies (no Essure) and will do referrals for males to get vasectomies and will work on a plan for back up birth control while his sterility is being confirmed. She will also assist with abortions. Her office is private practice and does not contract with insurance, but will help with reimbursement and will bill insurance for tests and what not. She operates out of an ambulatory surgical center that I assume will bill insurance.
Olympia
Dr. Michael Klotz. Practices at Group Health Olympia. Was willing to provide me the hysterectomy I wanted, and also was willing to provide a tubal ligation or ablation if I had been interested.
Multiple doctors at South Sound Women's Health Center, Essure and Tubal Ligation - A user reports that Dr. Baker at this Health Center will not sterilize individuals under 30. However, there are other doctors who are willing.
Olympia Obstetrics & Gynecology, and even more specifically Dr. Laurie Sorenson, will do BTLs and hysterectomies for childfree people. Dr. Darrell Bell will also do both of these, but is much harder to schedule with. Patients need to be able to assert that this isn't a fluke decision but the doctors don't have age restrictions beyond legal requirements for consent.
Dr. Kym Walker at South Sound Women's Center in Olympia, WA performed a laporoscopic bilateral salpingectomy for me. She did not make me jump through hoops or ask my husband's "permission" (he didn't come with me to the consultation). 25F with no children. NB another member consulted with Dr. Kym Walker, and she requires a second opinion from the University of Washington for hysterectomies for people under the age of 30.
Dr. Tim Zola - southsoundvasectomy@gmail.com
Port Orchard
Dr. Melissa Lo Asked me once what my reasonings for being CF, said I was old enough to make my own decisions without needing permission from anyone else. Performed a laprascopic bilateral salpingectomy with no issues; 27f at time of surgery.
St. Francis Urology Associates. These providers have offices all over the state but Port Orchard is where I scheduled my appointment. They offer a discount if you pay with cash (no insurance) and are relatively cheap compared to other places. As long as you're 18 years of age they won't give you a hard time!
Poulsbo
Dr Chris Adrig Dr Adrig does family medicine and isn’t an obgyn but he wrote me (single 31 female no kids) a referral for a tubal ligation with practically no questions asked.
Puyallup
Diana Badkoobeh (MD) at Multi-Care Women's Health Center in Puyallup, Washington, USA. I really cannot stress enough how amazing my experience with her was. For context, I am a 21 year-old woman, unmarried, and do not have any children of my own, nor do I want any as I am staunchly childfree. My first appointment with her was for a well-women exam, not a sterilization consultation, but I decided to mention wanting a bilateral salpingectomy anyway. I didn't expect her to be so supportive of it, but she said, "You've clearly given this a lot of thought and I trust you know what's best for yourself. After the exam I'll go print out the consent form and let's see if we can get you scheduled." No bingos, no judgment. I had my salpingectomy on the 24th! She's the best and I just know she will help so many others get their surgeries.
Redmond
Dr. John Steele Mullen James Surgical Specialists (inside Swedish). performed a vasectomy on my 26-year-old husband with little more than a cursory "so you don't want kids? Cool." Dr. Mullen talked us through the procedure and made sure we had instructions for care afterwards. Friendly, straightforward, and no bingos.
Renton
Dr. Eric Schmit DO Valley Medical Center, 400 S 43rd St, Renton, WA, 98055, 435-690-1000. Jan 2024. Bisalp on 27-year-old redditor. Dr. Schmit was very professional and open to doing my bisalp. He says he operates on quite a few women in the region of my age group. The surgery went smoothly, taking no longer than 30 minutes. He recently started a great podcast called New School ObGyn. It pertains mostly to pregnancy but even those episodes contain some very cool insight into the female reproductive system for curious childfree scientists. There is an episode from August 2023 about female sterilization!
Richland
Kris F. Kobalter, M.D. Kadlec Clinic Associated Physicians for Women, 945 Goethals Drive, Suite 200, Richland, Washington 99352. I received a bilateral salpingectomy in 2021. I am F[28], married, never had children. The procedure was fully covered by insurance since it was considered preventative care. He asked me if I was certain about going through with the procedure once during the consultation, and never questioned or instilled doubt after that. It was overall a great experience.
Richmond
Naeem T. Chavla, M.D. Richland WA, 99354, Vasectomy. 27m, engaged, childfree. Consultation on Friday, completed vasectomy the following Friday. Probably just lucky on the scheduling but no forced wait time. About two minutes of "are you sure?" before moving onto how it works.
Seattle
Dr. Shannon Padgett, MD Swedish OB/GYN Specialists, 1101 Madison St, Suite 700, Seattle WA, 98104, 206-215-6300. Dr. has reached out to us to say: I do bilateral salpingectomies for any biological woman who desires it, regardless of age.
Dr. Brooke Winner, " I'm a childfree friendly gynecologist in Seattle, Washington. Happy to perform tubal sterilization or hysterectomy on childfree patients. I'm also a fellowship-trained high-volume Minimally Invasive Gynecologic Surgeon."
Dr Jessie Marrs, Swedish Minimally Invasive Gynecology Specialists, Seattle WA. "I provide tubal ligation and bilateral salpingectomy". Accepting all insurance and providing gender affirming care for transgender and gender queer patients including laparoscopic hysterectomy. No age or marital status limitations beyond needing to be 18 to consent for the procedure.
Dr. Elisabeth Anton-McIntyre, Overlake Clinics Ob/Gyn - Bellegrove 1200 112th Avenue Northeast, Building C, Bellevue, WA 98004. Note Nov. 2024. Dr. Anton-McIntyre no longer takes new patients and will be retiring soon.
Dr. Kyung Kim, DO Capitol Hill Medical Center, 201 16th Ave. E Seattle WA 98122, (206) 326-3000. April 2023. Bisalp on 20-year-old CF redditor.
Dr. Nicky Ingrisano MD Swedish OB/GYN Specialists - First Hill, 1101 Madison Street, Suite 700, Seattle, WA 98104, (206) 215-6300. Feb 2023. Total hysterectomy with bilateral salpingo-oophorectomy on 39-year-old CF redditor with endometriosis. Dr Ingrisano is the first OBGYN I've met who understands & supports my childfree choice, validated my experience, took me seriously & advocated for me with my insurance to cover the entire procedure. About a 1 month wait for surgery scheduling & currently 2 weeks post-op with no complications. A friend had the same procedure through the same clinic with a different doctor with an equally positive experience last year. I would 100% recommend Dr Ingrisano & the Gynecology dept at Swedish Hospital in Seattle to anyone seeking elective sterilization.
Rebecca Dunsmoor-Su Swedish Women’s Wellness, GYN specialities 600 Broadway, Suite 400 Seattle 98104 206-215-9071. "I am a gynecologist in Seattle. I will do bilateral salpingectomy over 21. No restrictions or waiting periods (other than waiting for open OR time)." We take most insurance (including Medicaid).
Dr. Marisa Dahlman MD, OBGYN Virginia Mason, 1100 Ninth Avenue, Seattle, WA 98101, (206) 223-6191, Bilateral Salpingectomy. Dr. was entirely trusting in my decision to be child free and open to allowing me to seek sterilization at 26. Specialist in transgender health. Also in Federal Way. Has said that she will sterilize a 19-year-old.
+1 Dr. Dahlman. Oct 2023. Hysterectomy on 30+ redditor. She never once questioned me or put the brakes on. She told me the very first meeting that she’d put the surgery on the books after that appointment if that’s what I wanted.
Dr. Christina Jahncke Meridian Women's Health at Northwest Outpatient Medical Center, 10330 Meridian Ave. N, Seattle, WA 98133, 206-668-6644. Doctor’s statement: “I’m a generalist OB/GYN in Seattle. I’m employed by the University of Washington and operate at the UWMC Northwest campus. I’m LGBT+ friendly. I don’t have any age or relationship status limitations although I do like to discuss the range of options since progesterone IUDs have non-contraceptive benefits!"
Dr Licia L. Raymond at the UW Women's clinic. The Women's Clinic in general was highly recommended by my lgbtq friendly doctor and I asked specifically about a bilateral salpingectomy. I was really nervous about getting bingoed or questioned but since they were recommended I had high hopes. I went in to see Dr Raymond and filled out the forms as saying that I had tokophobia. Not only did she have an excellent bedside manner but she stunned me by suggesting we could do an all in one via a laparoscopic procedure, check for endometriosis, remove my appendix, and do the bilateral salpingectomy I wasn't questioned, bingoed, or anything, and she focused on things like the risk reduction of ovarian cancer and assured me that it was the salpingectomy over a tubal ligation and that tubals are not the standard anymore. OP is in their late 30's and younger patients may not have as good a result.
Dr. Mallory Kremer, OB/GYN, UW Medicine. Plus-size friendly. Approved a laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy at 28 without hesitation after going through my reasoning and explaining the risks. She is the sweetest doctor, very understanding, and helpful. Initially saw her at the UW Shoreline Clinic and had the surgery at the UWMC. +1 Dr Kremer, 22F, 30F, 22F. Note May 2024: I recently tried to book a routine exam with her and was told she no longer takes new patients. From what I was told over the phone she may be trying to get less clients seeking surgery, but that is just me reading between the lines of what I was told. She is accepting new patients for pregnancy.
Dr. Maahum A. Haider, Urology, UW Medicine Roosevelt - Vasectomy. She is very professional, ensures that her patients know the gist of the vasectomy process, that it's permanent, and the risks involved. I got a green light very easily and she listened to my reasoning for requesting the procedure and took it seriously. In short, she's fantastic. (Update 13 July 2021 - another member reports Dr Haider no longer performs vasectomies).
Dr. Katherine A. McLean, Obstetrics and Gynecology, UW Medicine Ballard Clinic - Bilateral Salpingectomy. She believes that once you are 21 you should get to choose what you do with your body. Discussed many birth control options first since she wants everyone to have the correct info. Was super nice and didn't question me wanting the Bi Salp at all. She was even open to doing a hysterectomy because of my family history with fibroids. I was 25 when she did the procedure for me. I would definitely recommend her.
Dr. Emma Swingle, Qliance Seattle - My GP, whom I can't recommend highly enough. Lovely woman - very pleasant and personable, non-judgmental, a great educator, and genuinely interested in you and your health. She had absolutely no problems referring me for a tubal ligation, and she has never once made me feel weird for being childfree. Bonus: she's also body/size positive!
The Vasectomy Clinic Gave my husband his vasectomy a week before his 23rd birthday. Also offers free fertility testing for life. NB this practice does not take Cigna.
+1 "Dr. Snip" The Vasectomy Clinic is a private practice founded in Seattle in 1987 by Charles L. Wilson, M.D. to focus on comfort and convenience for vasectomy patients.
Dr. Joseph Marquez Performed my no-needle/no-scalpel vasectomy. All he asked was whether I was sure I never wanted kids. [2018 Feb 21 | Addendum from another user : he is willing to do both open ended and close ended vasectomies? He was the only urologist or doctor specializing in vasectomies in the entire city I could find that was willing to do an open ended vasectomy and I want to make sure others are aware for when they are looking to avoid wasting time like I did if they want an open ended vasectomy. I'm 28]
Dr. Emily Norland. Practices at The Polyclinic. Willing to provide hysterectomy, ablation, etc. 206-860-4541
Dr. Ellen Wilber. Practices at the Polyclinic (206-860-4541, https://polyclinic.com/obgyn). Very knowledgable, kind and thorough. Performs tubals, salpingectomies, and I believe inserts IUD's. Will fix women over 30 without hesitation. For those under 30, only if they're absolutely sure. - (1/8/18 - Refused me as I'm under 30 [29 and 8 months old], has scheduled 2 more appointments for testing and to establish a history.)
Dr. Ali Lewis. Meridian Women's Health. Will perform tubal ligations on younger patients, even if they are without children. Doesn't require persuading, just surety that you want it.
+1 Dr Lewis, bilateral salpingectomy. Oct 2024.
Kaiser Permanente Capitol Hill Women's Health. My GP referred me to Dr. Andrew Warner for a consultation, who was honest, open-minded and very nice, and Dr. Errett Story did my actual procedure. The entire process with everyone I talked to from KP was the best I could hope for.
+1 Dr. Warner Feb 2023. I am 32/f/childfree and just got my bisalp done yesterday. Dr. Warner has the best bedside manner of any gynecologist I’ve been to and it was so easy to get on the books for my procedure - he asked the usual questions just because he had to, but was supportive and incredibly thorough. I can’t recommend him enough.
Dr. Sarah E Salemy, Kaiser in Capitol Hill, Seattle. I'm a 23 year old trans man and have Kaiser SoundChoice (PEBB) through my government employer. I didn't pay a cent for my bilateral salpingectomy. I am childless and partnered. To get this surgery booked, I did have a screening call with a random Kaiser employee who gave me different options but didn't push me once I made it clear that my mind was made up. Dr. Salemy was fantastic, she has a dry bedside manner but fully believes that if you're an adult, you can make decisions for yourself. She's not patronizing. I'm 3 days post-op and this has been the easiest recovery I've ever had! The nurses & Salemy had confidence that I'd feel fine when I woke up, and I really did.
Dr. Sue Moreni at UW Medicine. Very understanding and willing to perform permanent sterilization procedures on women without children in their early 20s. There is a 30-day waiting period between signing the forms and the actual operation.
+1 Dr Moreni, at UW Medicine, Bilateral Salpingectomy I'm 30 and married, no prior kids and have known I'm CF since age 15. Initial appointment was in May and I had the procedure in September, and could have done it even quicker but I needed extra time for some planned travel. Absolutely everyone I interacted with at UW Medicine was great and professional. No bingos at all, completely validated my choice and performed the procedure with no issues, and made me feel very taken care of. Insurance was processed quickly and I did not pay a dime at any part of the process, except my copay for the initial visit. Would highly recommend!!
Dr. Elizabeth Micks and Dr. Karin Hayashida, formerly at UW Medicine Roosevelt are now practicing in Eureka CA and Honolulu HI respectively.
Dr. Philip Welch Operates out of Swedish on Broadway and is a real nice dude. Believes everyone has a right to make their own life/body decisions and fully (without question) agreed to my choice to have a tubal ligation at age 23. Answers any and all questions thoroughly and has his office phone forwarded to his cell after hours so you can call with any concerns pre/post procedure.
-1 Dr Welch Agreed to my choice to have a tubal ligation at 20 years old, but refused to perform a bilateral salpingectomy due to low reversibility (he was cautious due to my age) and a slightly more intensive surgery. Compromised by agreeing to a tubal ligation, but with two methods: falope ring, which he specializes in, as well as cautery on either side of the ring. Very nice and will even rant about how frustrated he is that other doctors will not agree to sterilize women due to their age.
Dr. Megan Loring - Dr. Loring is highly competent, supportive, and professional. She performed my hysterectomy when I was 31 (after I was already sterilized) with no hesitation and never once questioned my childfree position. She was so patient and helpful in answering all my questions without judgment and making me feel fully comfortable with the process.
Dr. Steven Han: (https://schedule.swedish.org/doctors/urology/wa/issaquah/steven-han-1013033190). Vasectomy done at 20yo.
Dr. Anna Walton, Dr. Judith Kimelman - Seattle OB/GYN. I requested to see a provider at Seattle OB/GYN who was willing to do nulliparous female sterilization. Got scheduled with Dr. Walton, I had an educational binder with my request letter and associated academic research ready for discussion, she was receptive and educated me on the risks and benefits, I got approved on the spot. I have some complex health issues for surgery, but she was willing to take on my higher risk case and conducted the surgery with the assistance of her mentor Dr. Kimelman. I had my surgery done at Swedish First Hill, had lots of pre-op tests, had the surgery and went home same day. Dr. Walton is very smart and funny, she has great bedside manner too.
Dr. Katherine Schwab The Polyclinic Madison in Seattle, WA. She performed a bilateral salpingectomy on me, a 35 year old woman with no kids, without question. Very funny and kind, absolutely no bingo (in fact, she was happy for me to make that choice). Excellent bedside manner, too. This doctor advised our member that she has sterilised a 21yo also. +1 Dr Schwab, bilateral salpingectomy for 22yo, 22yo, 22yo, 23yo.
Dr. Vivienne Meljen SeaMar Vancouver Women's Health Clinic - Bilateral tubal sterilization. SeaMar takes care of patients with any insurance and uninsured. Surgeon fluent in English and Spanish. No judgement and full respect of patient autonomy and wishes. Surgery is done at Legacy Salmon Creek. Also providers hysterectomy services if needed and gender affirming hysterectomy if desired.
Dr. Joanna Zhou, not only listened to me but went straight to suggesting a bisalp without questioning me about why I wanted sterilization. She didn't ask a single question about my relationship or what my partner thought about my choice, she only cared about what I wanted and didn't question me for one second. I'm 31F, my experience was awesome with her. In fact, she's cf herself and we agreed on not understanding why anyone would want to have kids in this day and age. Really great doctor and got the process started for my sterilization!
+1 Dr Joanna Zhou and Dr Christina Jahncke, I first met with Dr. Zhou in September '22 but due to when I wanted my procedure done I got shifted to Dr Jahncke. Both of them listened to me (32F) and I expected even a little bit of pushback but didn't receive any. It was recorded in my history that I had asked about sterilization back in 2017 at a different facility so they knew I'd been thinking about it for a long time. My procedure was on the 28th of December and everyone was great.
+1 Dr. Zhou. Feb 2023, Bisalp on 18 year old redditor with Ehler-Danlos syndrome. EIGHTEEN YEAR OLD! Dr. Zhou was entirely respectful, helpful and gave no pushback, in part because redditor came in well prepared, with a carefully constructed sterilization binder. Redditor's story is here:https://www.reddit.com/r/childfree/comments/11c70fb/my_journey_getting_sterilized_18f_wa_state/.
Rebecca Kulgren MD in Seattle Washington. She performed my (27F) biscalp. She had 0 bingos and was willing to approve me immediately. She is a huge advocate for personal choice and has said she has done sterilization on female patients as young as 18. I live an hour and a half away from her office and she was very considerate of my time. It was a very seamless process with an incredible provider.
Dr Regina Lagalbo, Seattle, WA, USA. Bilateral salpingectomy. 32F Single (she did not ask about my marital status) CF status: Have never been pregnant and never wanted to be. Dr Lagalbo was super understanding and empathetic every step of the way when it came to my bilateral salpingectomy! She didn't even come close to Bingo-ing me; she simply told me she was required to share that the procedure was permanent and irreversible. I told her I understood, and that was it.
[Dr. Joelle Thomas](practice:https://www.seaobgyn.com/), I (27F) completed a bisalp. I am currently engaged and childfree. Dr. Thomas listened to my saying I didn't want children and didn't require a dissertation as to why I didn't want them. She took her time, answered all my questions, and made me feel comfortable. We had to sign a prior authorization and wait 30 days to perform the procedure per Washington's state's medicaid guidelines.
Miranda Marie Eiseman, Salpingectomy, 23, single and do not have any children. It was very quick and easy to get in to talk to Dr Eiseman, I had a video visit and all she asked was my thoughts and after I explained my reasons for wanting the surgery, she explained the process and was more than willing to do it, it was barely a 15 minute visit, she didn't push for anything. She referred me to a place closer to me for surgery and got me to talk to someone the same day, she does preform this surgery and is more than willing to do it for anyone, childfree or not!
+1 Miranda Eiseman - Seattle Washington, Laproscopic Bilateral Salpingectomy. 28F
Dr Jessica Crowe at UW Medicine (South Lake Union and Roosevelt locations; operations at UW Hospital). I'm 39, never married, no kids. The first thing she said to me at my initial consult was "Congratulations!" - no bingos. I was interested in bilateral sapingectomy and endometrial ablation; she informed me about the risk of PATSS (cyclic pelvic pain) if I had both procedures but left the choice fully up to me - after some research I decided to forgo the ablation and instead she did a hysteroscopy during my bisalp to find and remove endometrial polyps which likely caused my irregular/heavy/painful periods prior to being on the pill. OP advises that this doctor is likely to be open to sterilising younger people.
Dr. Zachary Pollack It was a great experience. During the consult he counseling me on other birth control options, talked me through the procedure, and confirmed I understood it was permanent. He did not ask if I was sure, if I had children, or about my spouse. He mentioned being on a Reddit/TikTok childfree provider list after I asked him if he had seen an increase in sterilizations over the last few years. Bilateral Salpingectomy - I got it done today, June 2024. My surgery was about six weeks after my initial consult. 30F, Married, Childfree
Sedro Woolley
Dr Chee Tan, MD 4465 Cordata Pkwy # 102, Bellingham, WA 98226, 360-752-5280. Also 1990 Hospital Dr., Suite 100 Sedro-Woolley, WA 98284, 360-856-6490. Bisalp on 25-year-old redditor. Was super nice and fast. Did not give me any trouble for being younger or not having kids beforehand. Was very professional. I found it helped to be super prepared but he let me know that he's performed it on younger people than me without children as well. He was able to get me in on a cancellation and he combined my consultation and pre-op so I only had to have one appointment before the actual surgery. Sept. 2022.
Spokane
Dawn Kopp, MD, MPH Primary Practice Location: Northwest Ob/Gyn, Spokane, WA. This gynecologist has reached out directly to advise, "This is a private practice. My practice takes most insurances: private and public. I'm an Ob/Gyn physician in Spokane, WA that does bilateral salpingectomy sterilization for childfree people over 21 years old. I'd like to be added to a list of physicians available for people who want surgery to be childfree."
Dr Christina Mora Valley Ob/Gyn,1415 N Houk Rd Ste A, Spokane Valley, WA 99216. 509-924-1990. Doctor's statement: "I have performed sterilization procedure on women in that past that didn’t desire fertility after shared decision making."
Dr. John McKenna at North Spokane Women's Health. I called the office and asked if they perform tubal ligation on women under 30, right off the bat she said yes and scheduled me a consult. Dr. McKenna was very professional and never spoke down to me or questioned my ability to know what I wanted. 30 day wait period from initial consult to surgery, but I had my surgery scheduled within 2 wks from my consult. [MOD NOTE 2018/08/16 : from a subscriber : "no longer does tubals or any permanent surgeries. He agreed to do mine then a week later had his nurse call me and tell me he no longer did them"]
Dr. Levi Deters - Spokane Urology - (Vasectomy at 26, unmarried with no kids)
Dr. Eric Tyler He performed a laparoscopic hysterectomy on me (23F, single, no kids)
Dr. Jody Hechtman - OB/GYN Associates of Spokane. Amazing doctor! You have full autonomy of your body with her. Provides sterilization without any judgement. I recommend her to all my friends. NB Dr Hechtman has joined a hospital that does not allow her to perform sterilisation procedures except for in very rare circumstances.
+1 Dr Hechtman, She is supportive of women's rights to bodily autonomy and is one of the few doctors in the more conservative area of Spokane, WA that will do it. She also later performed my hysterectomy. She treated me with dignity and is a great surgeon and OB.
Elizabeth Newell, MD FACOG. This gynecologist has reached out to us directly to advise, "Currently employed at Northwest OB/Gyn in Spokane WA office phone 5094555050 is preferred. Not everyone in my practice is similar on this so wouldn’t refer to all of my partners right now. I may be changing jobs later this year will update you when that happens. No prior obligations, just needs to be legal (age restriction is 21 yo I believe) and of mental capacity to make their own decisions (no psych appt needed, as a surgeon I can make this decision and determine capability of consent with my patient). Also preferred method is a bilateral salpingectomy to reduce risk of pregnancy/conception unplanned and prevent ovarian cancer risk"
+1 Elizabeth Newell, Bilateral Salpingectomy, excision of endometriosis. 25/F. Married, no children. Dr. Newell was absolutely wonderful. She was very thorough and took the time to answer any questions I had, and did not give me any pushback or judgement whatsoever. I had a Bilateral Salpingectomy with diagnosis and removal of several endometriosis growths. My surgery went about 2 hours longer than expected due to her thorough attention to removing the endo. My incisions were small and healed very well. HIGHLY recommend this doctor to anyone, and especially anyone the North Idaho area seeking sterilization.
Dr. Ramsay Larson MD OBGYN MultiCare Rockwood Clinic - OB/GYN & Midwifery Center, 910 W 5th Ave, Suite 300, Spokane, WA 99204 509-755-5205. Bisalp. She didn’t push back on my decision at all and stated that it is the women who have never had children who are the least likely to regret being sterilized. She was very supportive of my decision.
Dr. Jason Reuter. Bilateral Salpingectomy, 32F, single, child free. Dr. Reuter suggested sticking with my IUD, but it felt more because it was least invasive rather than a bingo. Once I told him I was sure, he gave me no push back. I got on the wait list and due to someone dropping off the schedule, I had the procedure 1-2 months later. Use with caution - seems to be more hesitant.
Tacoma
Dr. Aisha Nnoli, MD 1628 South Mildred St, Suite 104, Tacoma, WA, 98465, 253-792-6610. Plus-size friendly. Nov 2024. Bisalp on 32-year-old redditor. I'm Black and plus size (around 240 lbs). Dr. Nnoli is a fellow Black woman which made my experience even more comfortable, and she was very respectful in all our interactions.. Consult was September, call to schedule was October, anesthesia call was October, bloodwork was early November, and surgery was November 14th. Note that you should discuss insurance issues with the billing department, as the doctor does not have that information, and take lots of notes.
Dr. Jacqueline Potts, MD, FACOG MultiCare Women's Center - Northshore, 4215 49th Ave NE, Tacoma, WA 98422, 253-459-7699. Plus-size friendly. LBGTQ+ friendly. Nov 2024. Bisalp on 38-year-old redditor. She was very easy to work with and supportive.
Dr Azari of the MultiCare Women's Health - Tacoma, WA clinic. He's doing a tubal for me no real questions asked. I'm 33F and married, and he agreed even before I mentioned my hubbs had a (failed) vasectomy. The entire clinic is superb - they really let the individual woman decide her own health care. Didn't bingo me once and didn't push hormonal BC or an IUD. Only brought up the chance of regret once, and more in passing.
Denali Kerr, MD at the Tacoma, Washington Kaiser Permanente. I'm 23f with no kids and she just sterilized me yesterday. It took 3 months total from my first consultation with my primary care provider to actually get sterilized. She informed me of alternative birth control options and of the risks but did not make me jump through any hoops or try to talk me out of it. She was very friendly but straight to the point. I had a very good experience with her as my surgeon. The rest of the team was also lovely.
MultiCare Urology of Tacoma. For those who are at least 21 years of age.
Dr. Ory Holtzman preformed my bilateral salpingectomy at 28, married with no children. Very kind, never questioned my decision, just made sure I knew it was irreversible.
Dr. Stephen Maynard agreed to perform my bisalp at age 22 without judgment or any "bingos". He was very respectful and explained everything thoroughly. His office is located in Tacoma, WA.
+1 Dr Maynard, 27 yo, no children, no history of any medical issues related to reproductive organs. Previously tried BC pills, IUD. Dr. Maynard was amazing, as was the surgical team at Tacoma General. He was extremely kind, easy going and made the entire process comfortable and straight forward. Our conversations were based off of being well informed, no bingoes, doubt, or judgement. He wanted to make sure I knew the procedure was permanent and that I had all of my questions answered. He went into detail about the process and I was scheduled quickly. Super cool guy. He does the procedure laparoscopically so it's minimally invasive and the recovery has been super easy for me (I'm on Day 2).
Dr. Anne Wheeler at Kaiser Permanente Tacoma Medical Center (209 Martin Luther King Jr. Way, Tacoma Washington). 253-695-3300. Bilateral Salpingectomy. 29F, single, no children. Dr. Wheeler was amazing! At the consult she didn't even ask why I wanted to be sterilized, just made sure I knew it was irreversible. Procedure was scheduled just over a month after the consult. The day of my procedure the entire team was patient & kind.
Vancouver
Gregory Mallek, MD. OBGYN Sea Mar Salmon Creek Women's Clinic, Vancouver, WA, 360-892-0208. We are a FQHC (Federally Qualified Health Center). We take all insurances including Medicare/Medicaid. Can work out no insurance (hospital charges for surgery are the biggest $$). LGBTQ+ Friendly. Limitations: Age 21+ for sterilization. No marital status or child limitations. Anatomy limitations: Fallopian tubes (I am not trained in vasectomies)
+1 Dr. Gregory Mallek at Vancouver Women's Health Clinic - Bilateral salpingectomy. 35, single, zero children. Performed 2 months after consultation. Dr. Mallek was very respectful and did not question my decision at all. I asked for his permission and he is happy to be added to this list. Open to sterilising 21+ if the patient is absolutely sure they don't ever want children.
Dr. Andrea Chiavarini, Vancouver Clinic (tubal)
Dr. Adrienne Heckler, Vancouver Clinic (vasectomy). For the consultation, she just wanted to make sure that I was well-informed (i.e., this is a permanent solution, freezing sperm can't guarantee IVF, reversal is costly and does not restore full fertility, and young people are those most likely to change their minds). I accepted this, she gave absolutely no lectures or bingoes, and she did the procedure in just a few minutes at a second appointment. She's a respectful and cheerful doctor to work with.
Michael S. Farber, PeaceHealth (Bilateral Salpingectomy, 30yo). He wanted to be sure I was aware of all my options, and informed. When I made it clear I've wanted sterilization for a long time and this was the only option for me he had no pushback and scheduled it gladly. Very kind and respectful doctor who made it clear it was my choice. Bilateral Salpingectomy, 30yo.
Dr. Allison Higgins, PeaceHealth (bilateral salpingectomy)
Dr. Michael Klotz PeaceHealth (bilateral salpingectomy) He was so kind and respectful. No bingoes, no unnecessary questions. I can't recommend him enough.
Dr. Miriam Ruth The Vancouver Clinic, Columbia Tech Center Location Did not try to lecture me or change my mind at all, was very understanding and informative. There was no push back, or comments that made me feel degraded.
Kaitlyn Masarie, MD, Vancouver Clinic 700 NE 87TH AVENUE Suite 150 VANCOUVER Washington 98664 360-882-2778 Laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy 34 y/o, long term monogamous cis relationship, no kids, child free. The first time I saw her was to consult about this procedure, and she never bingo'd me. She asked if I was sure, my reasoning for wanting this surgery over an IUD or something, then went directly into logistics and facts about the procedure. The wait time for my insurance is 30 days so I did have to wait, but not because of the doctor. She was kind and funny, and had a really comforting presence. The day of the procedure she asked one more time "Are we sure about this surgery?" I said yes, and we moved along.
Walla Walla
Andrew Fluckiger. I had a bilateral salpingectomy, at 25 years old, not married with no partner, and 100% childfree. I was expecting to be referred out, but instead there were no bingos and he just asked if this is what I wanted. He stated many times "that the more we listen to women, the better doctors we will be." There was a minimum wait time of 30 days, but that was due to insurance. Expecting 100% insurance coverage for the surgery. Costs are expected to be only co-pays for the consult appt, pre-op appt, and post-op check up. No bingos and very open minded. Surgery was simple and recovery was quick, staff were caring and listened.
Wenatchee
Bridget Kamen, MD at Confluence Obstetrics and Gynecology in Wenatchee Washington 933 RED APPLE ROAD WENATCHEE WA 98801 509-433-3203. The only questions she asked were due diligence. Just my reasons..I said I am child free... don't want kids. Asked if hubby and I were on same page, said yup. . Asked about the possibility of implant, said nope want to avoid hormones, just one question and no rebuttal..ok, how about IUD? I Actually did try - cervix said no thanks. Noted, again one question, acceptance. Hubby getting snipped. Told her it's an act of Congress for him to go to a doctor. Said ah, one of those guys. Ok sounds like you know what you want. , if you want you can sign the consent form now and call to schedule. NB OP is 40+ therefore younger prospective patients may encounter more resistance. Be very ready with anti-bingoes and responses to why temporary birth control isn't suitable for you. The doctor has advised she is open to sterilising younger people but this is as yet unverified.
+1 Bridget Kamen of Wenatchee, WA on the approved doctor list. I was 33 when I got a tubal ligation. She asked the necessary questions for insurance approval of the procedure. I was married and did have my husband with me, but she never addressed any questions to him or made me feel like she was seeking his approval. The consult was quick, got me in for the tubal in less than a week, and I felt no judgement from her about my choice. I will say I have a severe chronic illness and a long history of medication that I’m not supposed to get pregnant while taking which could have contributed in her easy agreement.
Yakima
Dr Noah Qualls, I am an OBGYN who is happy to provide sterilization and family planning care. In addition, I also strongly emphasize trauma informed care and LGBTQ+ friendly care.
Dr. Carly Ingalls, M.D.. I had my bi-lateral salpingectomy October 3rd, 2022. Single, 37, childfree. The first time I met Dr. Ingalls was for my consultation for my LEEP and I asked her about sterilization and she was on board right away, no bingos, nothing. At my pre-surgery appointment she explained the surgery very thoroughly, answered all of my questions. Highly recommend her. This doctor has advised she won't sterilise below 18.
Downtown
Dr. Katherine Garfield OBGYN. Bisalp, I am 30, married, and childfree. The whole process was easy - Dr. Garfield did not question my desire to not have children and said it was a great reason to get a bisalp done. She was also able to replace my IUD during the surgery (needed for non-bc reasons). My surgery was scheduled 2 months after the pre-op appointment, so wait time was relatively short.
John David Buek, MD, Laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy completed March 2024 27f, single, childfree. Several months wait to get a consultation but was able to schedule the surgery shortly after. Dr. Buek explained the full range of pros and cons to sterilization but believes in female autonomy, so no 'elevator pitch' necessary. Express your decision confidently. Surgical team was professional and easy recovery overall.
American University Park
Dr. Robert Footer - he supported my bilateral salpingectomy as a childfree, unmarried 24F. I was sent to him by my original OB/GYN for a secondary consultation before my surgery. My original doctor was rather patronizing, and while he did approve the surgery, he wanted Dr. Footer to consult with me beforehand. Dr. Footer allowed me to fully explain my situation and reasoning without interruption, and immediately said he finds no reason why any doctor would refuse me since it was clear I had thought this out thoroughly. Absolutely no bingos (unlike my other doctor), no wait time, and was completely covered by my insurance.
-1 Dr Footer, was patronising to another (30yo) member and "he made a note in my file referring to me as an 'emotionally unstable 30 year old' and noted an unstable personality disorder diagnosis that he apparently discussed with me during our appointment. To be clear, he never discussed anything of the sort during our meetings."
Washington Circle
Dr. Frederick Hendricks Asked the usual marriage and kids questions, but says it's your decision just sound firm about getting one. Vasectomy, 19 male, no kids and single.
Foggy Bottom
Dr Dipti Kumar. With Capital Women’s Care in Washington DC. This gynecologist has reached out to advise, "I would like to be on the list willing to do salpingectomies after consultations."
+1 Dr Kumar, "Doctor Dipti Kumar ... was wonderful, explained all of my options thoroughly, and ultimately performed the procedure after we determined it was best for me."
Dr. Katherine Garfield from Capital Women's Care in Washington D.C., originally Dr. Dipti Kumar from Capital Women's Care (already on the list) was scheduled to be my surgeon, but she got sick two days before. Dr. Garfield stepped into to my procedure. Just prior the the procedure she briefly went over other birth control options and regret, but no bingos. I talked to her post-op and she says she is willing to be on the the Childfree Doctor list and do Bisalps for other women.
Dr. Amr Madkour, GWU Medical Faculty Associates OBGYN. Asked the normal why do you want to be sterilized, explained risks, and regrets, but allows it to be your decision. Bilateral Salpingectomy.
Dr. Farnaz Farhi performed a bilateral salpingectomy on me with no hesitation. Awesome bedside manner, and this process couldn't have been made easier. She works out of GW Hospital in Foggy Bottom.
Ying Liu, MD at GW Medical Faculty Associates (https://gwdocs.com/profile/ying-liu), NW Washington, DC (GW MFA OB/GYN has several locations in NW DC) Procedure: Bilateral salpingectomy Age: 30s Experience: Extremely positive. Told her I was a married woman who wanted a bisalp and she never once questioned me. Scheduled for surgery a month later. LGBT-friendly and big on patient autonomy.
Dr. Marie Ann Draoui at Washington MedStar in Washington, DC. Absolutely fabulous and caring surgeon. No concerns about me getting a bilateral salpingectomy during my consultation and very clearly and thoroughly explained the surgery process.
Capitol Hill
Dr. Marsha Solomon, Kaiser Permanente Mid-Atlantic. Asked the usual questions to explain risks, recommended sterilization procedures that would also help reduce risk of ovarian/cervical cancer. Said she just wants to see her patients happy. 29/afab, no kids.
Dr. Neeta Makhija, I’m an 18 year old that just got a bilateral salpingectomy at the Kaiser in Capitol Hill. To add, she put me under anesthesia for a general exam due to my ptsd. So, she also seems to be a good doctor for trauma patients (like me) that need accommodations.
Huntington
Kristin Sinning. I am 27 and no children. It was my first appointment with her. When I told her I wanted a bilateral salpingectomy, she told me "I don't care if you're married, have kids, or never want kids. I believe that choice is my patient's and I will not get in their way" No bingos whatsoever. She did let me know it was permanent but she was very open and answered all my questions. She gave me consent form, we both signed, and scheduled the surgery during the same appointment.
+1 Dr Sinning approved a member for hysterectomy.
+1 Dr. Sinning performed a bisalp on a 20-year-old member without any pushback or bingoes.
Dr. Ellie K. Hood, 1630 13th Ave, Huntington, West Virginia, 25701 (304) 697-2014. Tubal Ligation. At the time I was 30, no kids, had a partner (not married). I was referred to her from my usual OBGYN since he no longer performs the procedure. He had me wait 6 months until I 30. I saw Dr. Hood one time, she asked me once what I wanted so she could document that I verbalized it, and then we made the appointment. My insurance covered it 100%.
Beckley
Dr. Gina Jerez-Harris AccessHealth OBGYN 410 Carriage Drive Beckley, West Virgina 25801 (304) 255-1541 I'm 26F (surgery was done when I was 25) married, no kids. I had a bilateral salpingectomy. Scheduled a consultation, I told her I wanted to be sterilized, she made sure I knew it was permanent and informed me of the risks of surgery. I was never bingoed not even by the staff, which are also amazing. West Virginia Medicaid does require a 30 day waiting period (but will fully cover it), we scheduled 30 days exactly because she knew how bad I wanted to be sterilized and she didn't want to make me wait any longer than what was minimally required.
Dr. Lynnetta Payne - Beckley, WV - https://www.raleighgeneralmedicalgroup.com/our-practices/advanced-urology I'm 28/M. All she asked was 'so you're here to get snipped, you sure?' Then she proceeded to tell me about the procedure and post-surgery. She's super knowledgeable and easy to talk with. Awesome experience.
Dr. Lindley, 410 Carriage Dr, Beckley, WV 25801. 304-255-1541. I had to be 21 in order to officially sign the papers, which was the only stipulation. Bilateral salpingectomy, 22yo. 100% childfree. He just asked if I was sure it was what I wanted and made sure I knew it was permanent, and me understanding that and being sure was all he wanted to know.
Dr. Rae Anne Bailey, approved OP for tubal ligation.
Belle
Dr. Jessica McColley Cabin Creek Health Clinic. Belle, WV
Charleston
Dr. Dara Aliff, DO, FACOG Premier Women's Health, 1003 Oakhurst Dr, Charleston, WV 25314 (304) 720-4455. Bisalp on 32F CF who already had silicone band sterilization surgery, without pushback or bingoes. Arranged for insurance to cover treatment, which it did because of high failure rate of band surgery and because of family history of reproductive cancers. Bisalp was competently performed using most current methods, patient was given truthful information, and post-surgical discomfort was minimal. Doctor and staff were helpful and kind. Surgery was performed at CAMC Women's and Children's which is very efficient and well organized.
Dr. David J. Patton OBGYN 108 Washington St W., Charleston, WV, 25302, 304-345-4525/100 N Heights Dr., Beckley, WV, 25801, 304-253-7550.
Karinna Andrews, DO Charleston WV CAMC/WVU Physicians of Charleston 304-388-1515. This gynecologist has reached out directly to advise, "LGBT+ friendly. No age or marital status requirements."
Dr. Michael Lao Dr. Michael Lao, MD, Health Grades Premier Women's Health, Charleston, WV. I requested a tubal ligation and he didn't even ask questions. Just made sure my insurance would work with the request. I requested it in his office and the surgery was done at CAMC Women's and Children's. I'm a 26 year old single female and I got a tubal ligation with Fallopian rings.
Dr. Stephen Bush, CAMC Women's & Children's Hospital, Charleston ,WV
Randall J. Hill, MD FACOG I'm 21F, no kids. He didn't give me any bingos, I just came with some important points scribbled on a notepad to read and he very quickly said as long as I was well informed it was my body and my decision I could make. He was non-judgemental and was happy to answer all of my questions. Highly recommend!
Teays Valley
Dr. Lisa Burke. Marshall OB/GYN, Teays Valley, WV. 300 Corporate Center Drive, 3rd Floor, Scott Depot, WV 25560. Phone: 304-691-1800.
Yolanda Campbell MD., "Board certified OBGYN happy to help patients in WV seeking permanent sterilization"
Martinsburg
Erin E Miller, DO, this gynecologist has reached out directly to advise, "I perform laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy and vNOTES bilateral salpingectomy for sterilization. Will perform on anyone 21 and older. Most insurances, including Medicaid and Medicare are accepted." NB this doctor has had an extensive history of cancellations with one of our members, please contact us if you are able to complete a consultation with her.
Morgantown
Kristan Hornsby, MD, bilateral salpingectomy. I'm 20, unmarried w/ significant other, and childfree. Dr. Hornsby was great about everything and working to get things done ASAP. No bingos, trans friendly, and very open and straightforward with explaining everything. I'd highly recommend seeing her if you're in the area.
Dr. Sarah Dotson, MD, FACOG WVU Cheat Lake Physicians and J. W. Ruby Memorial Hospital Morgantown, WV, 304-598-4880. LGBTQ+ friendly. Bilateral Salpingectomy on 29 yo female with no children. Easy consultation. Just wanted verbal assurance I was 100% sure. Scheduled surgery at consultation and had availability within a month, but I chose to wait until the following month.
+1 Dr Dotson, I (19f) got a bilateral salpingectomy with Dr. Sarah Dotson in Morgantown, WV. She was amazing, just wanted to know if I for sure wanted the procedure. No bingo, no fighting. She heard me out and, while hesistant because of my age, she told me that it is not her job to tell me I'm too young, it's her job to provide safe surgery. She was lovely the entire time.
+1 Dr. Sarah Dotson WVU Cheat Lake Physicians/J. W. Ruby Memorial Hospital Morgantown, WV Bilateral Salpingectomy on 27 yo female with no children. I was given a thorough description of the risks, pre-op and post op care, and the whole team met with me. Easy consultation and I was able to get into surgery after around 3 months. Everybody was so kind. Her whole team ensured I was safe, that this was my decision, and no coercion was involved. They made sure I had a safe place to return after the surgery and provided trauma informed care. Absolutely incredible experience. I requested the IV in the crook of my arm rather than my hand, and they abliged. They made sure to verify I wanted my partner there after waking up, rather than just having him already there. Though the hospital was cold, I ended up with 5 blankets from 5 different staff members who checked on my comfort. The surgery went smoothly, and I'm so pleased with the experience.
+1 Dr. Dotson. July 2023. Bisalp on 36-year-old redditor. Dr. Dotson was very laidback and straightforward and my post-care was exceptional as well.
+1 Dr. Dotson. Sept. 2023. Bisalp on 25-year-old woman without pushback.
+1 Dr. Dotson. Dec 2023. Bisalp on 25-year-old woman. I was in an appointment and in for surgery in less than a month. No headache, no bingo, no begging.
Dr Ossama Elsaccar. Bilateral Salpingectomy - 28, unmarried, no children. Brief to the point of being brusque, but moves quickly. Consultation was on 2/15/22, held virtually, and took less than ten minutes. Procedure was on 2/28/22. During the consultation, he simply asked why I wanted the procedure (I had prepared a lengthy explanation, but he was satisfied with “I want to move away from hormonal methods and do not ever want to be pregnant”) and verified that I understood it was permanent. Not a doctor who will offer emotional support, but if you have done your own research, know what you want, and want it done fast, highly recommend him.
+1 Dr Elsaccar, Bilateral salpingectomy on 25, unmarried, no children. I was referred to him by WVU Student Clinic, got an appointment in 2 weeks. He’s very direct; he just came in and explained tubal ligation vs salpingectomy, asked me which one I wanted (bisalp), made sure I knew that it was permanent and if I changed my mind IVF is not covered by my insurance. I signed consent forms right then and there and surgery was 2 months after that.
Parkersburg
Dr. Patrick Dugan, Camden Clark Medical Center (Also called WVU Medicine) Urology. (Vasectomy). With a referral from my GP, had no qualms scheduling my surgery as long as I was 'totally sure' at 21 years old.
South Charleston
Dr. Andrea Hill - 304-768-7770. 4607 MacCorkle Ave SW, South Charleston, West Virginia 25309 Suite 201. I had a bisalp. At the time 24F, unmarried, no kids. She approved me during my first appointment and the surgery was performed 28 days later. No bingos; her criteria for approval is basically just be 21, of sound mind, 100% sure, and no one is forcing you to do it. I did have to have a pap and pelvic, but she’s very gentle and quick.
Weirton
Dr. John Luiza - All About Women, a hospital owned practice. This gynecologist has reached out to advise, "I will sterilize anyone over the age of 21 who is willing to accept the hypothetical risk of regret. We take many insurances including Highmark and medicaid from WV, Ohio, and PA. Although the practice name is heteronormative we are LGBTQIA friendly. I have no marital requirements. As of now I do not yet provide transition support."
Dr. Abigail Hoyle at Weirton Medical Center in Weirton, WV. I am 30 y.o., childfree, and married. I had a laparoscopic total bisalp with uterine ablation done last year in Nov 2022. After brief counseling I explained that I didn’t want children and she was very welcoming, accepting, and gave education regarding the procedure. The day of surgery went very smoothly, she did an excellent job on my procedure, and she gave adequate pre- and post-op medications for pain. I have recommended several of my friends to her. She said that as long as a patient was firm in their decision-making and understood that it would be a permanent procedure, she would be glad to help out even younger or unmarried folks.
West Virginia
Dr. Anne Berry, Clendenin Health Center in Clendenin, West Virginia. Asked her for an IUD after my abortion (which she was aware of) and she put it in after helping me learn more about it, without any questions or concerns regarding having children, and was even excited for me since she knew I would feel better with the IUD.