United States - New Hampshire to New York

United States - New Hampshire to New York

NEW HAMPSHIRE

Colebrook

Dr Plociennik. He did an endometrial ablation and a bilateral salpingectomy. I am 31 years old, unmarried and 100% childfree. He was kind and treated me like an adult with their own mind. His whole surgical team was wonderful, kind and supportive. I had a fantastic experience there. My insurance paid for the whole thing due to it being marketplace insurance.

Concord

Dr. Nicole Varasteh, Concord Hospital and Dartmouth Hitchcock Clinic. 31F, married, laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy Dr. Varasteh was wonderful from beginning to end! I had all my talking points ready for the consultation but didn't even need them. She listened to what I wanted done, made sure I was at least aware of other options and that the bi-salp is permanent, and when I said I was sure she said alright, let's get you on the schedule! She asked about my life, if i was married, had never wanted kids etc, but she never asked for my husband's opinion or anyone elses, just that I was sure of what I wanted. She gave me some pamphlets to get familiar with the procedure and sent me on my way. Come surgery day she was super personable and easy to talk to, and the whole care team was great. I felt well informed at every step and despite some general nerves, they all created a very soothing experience, and not a single bingo at any time. Can't recommend Dr. Varasteh and her team enough.

Dover

Dr. Michael J. Michaels, MD Very Professional, no-hassle vasectomy. Fun staff from start to finish.

Dr. Anne Kalter Highly recommend. She said she would perform sterilization on anyone of legal age. She prefers bilateral salpingectomy due to effectiveness and reduced risk of cancer, but will also do clips or rings. No questions asked, very kind and supportive. "It's your decision."

+1 Dr Kalter, "Dr. Anne Kalter from Wentworth Health Partners OB/GYN and Infertility in Dover, NH did my bisalp and she was amazing. However, I got a letter from the practice earlier this month that she is retiring on February 1st, 2022."

Lebanon

Dr. Michael Ritondo, MD. I had a bilateral salpingectomy in June 2022, my age at time of surgery, 26, single, no other kids. He came in, introduced himself, asked what I was here for, I told him a salpingectomy, he said “I know how to do that, okay.” And was approved within 15 seconds of him coming into the room and hadn’t even sat down yet. He explained that IF I ever change my mind, I am still able to have children via in vitro. He did my pre-op the same day, himself as I have no other health concerns and do not take any medications. I was scheduled a few weeks later and I would do it again 10x with him! Phenomenal doctor!

Dr. Angela Koenig at Dartmouth Health in Lebanon, NH for the first time to establish care and brought up sterilization. She didn’t question me at all and I was scheduled the next day for the end of the month. F32, cf. Dr. Emily Donelan did the surgery instead of Dr. Koenig because of scheduling issues (I needed it down before September). I was treated with respect and kindness. They didn’t even ask if I had any kids. My husband was with me, but they didn’t ask him anything about my procedure.

Manchester

Dr. Brenna Stapp, DO Manchester Obstetrics & Gynecology Associates, Tubal Ligation/Tube removal. Plus size friendly. Super professional and kind. Very supportive, not judgmental. Friend was 23/no kids and I'm 28/three pregnancies/no kids, and it was no questions asked for both of us. Surgery scheduled for less than a month after consultation. Highly recommend.

+1 Dr Stapp, am very happy to say that I (37F, married, childfree) went through a successful bilateral salpingectomy 3 days ago. My surgeon was Dr. Brenna Stapp of Manchester, NH USA. She and everyone at her office were very supportive from the moment I first walked into her office: surgery happened one month later. 100% recommend

+1 Dr Stapp April 2023. I’m 26F and just got a bilateral salpingectomy done by Dr. Brenna Stapp at Manchester OBGYN in Manchester NH (she’s already on the list and is how I found her) just wanted to add another case, I’m single and she gave me the surgery with basically no questions asked. She’s incredibly respectful and never even prodded when I gave my reasoning for sterilization being that I didn’t want children. I also want to add that she does IUD insertion with a cervical block. She also helped me get a PCOS diagnosis, and is body positive in general. At the time of my surgery, I was about 215 lbs at 5’5”.

Dr. Jillian Dulac. She's an MD at Manchester OBGYN. The address is 150 Tarrytown Rd, Manchester, NH 03103. I'm 23, no kids and not married. Highly recommend! Tubal ligation.

Jason P Akerman, MD from Dartmouth Hitchcock in Manchester NH to the safe doctors list. I got a vasectomy last year, and was asked if I was sure I wanted to go through, and explained that it was meant to be a final decision. I wasn't pushed any farther than that. Was very nice during the surgery and after the surgery.

Peterborough

Morgan Jenkins, MD Peterborough, NH Monadnock Ob/Gyn Associates. "I do laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomies. I firmly believe that patients have the right to choose what happens to their bodies, including whether or not they have children."

Nashua

Dr. Karen Flaherty, APRN Actually, the entire practice is friendly. Women's Care of Nashua. Very supportive in IUD process, no judgement. Cooperative scheduling. LGBTQ+ friendly and body-positive.

+1 Women's Care of Nashua - I’m happy to report that they are just as wonderful with regards to sterilization as they are with IUDs.

Dr. Lydia Garcia New England Gynecology and Surgical Services Nashua NH (603)577-5353

Portsmouth

Harbor Women's Health Dr. Caroline Scoones, MD Everyone I've talked to is so nice and supportive. Dr. Scoones was very understanding and didn't question my decision.

Melissa A. McGann, DO. This doctor has reached out via social media to advise, "For anyone looking for or interested in reliable long acting reversible contraception (IUD, Nexplanon), I’d HIGHLY encourage you to see a gynecolgist soon because they are coming for those next. For anyone interested in sterilization, I am happy to help. To any woman certain you do not want children- I will gladly have a consultation with you for sterilization as long as you’re an adult and are competent to understand the counseling given. I don’t require you to have had any children, get the blessing of a partner, or be any age other than what is required by the state of New Hampshire. You are your own person and can make that choice. Please reach out to me and I will personally get you into my schedule and if I can’t I will help you find you a doctor in time. All confidential, no questions asked, ever.”

Whitefield

Julie Hohmeister She did a physical and agreed to refer me for a bilateral salpingectomy as well as a laparoscopic surgery to look for endo. She was a fantastic listener and a very gentle person. She treated me like an adult and with respect. All she did was make sure I knew it was permanent and even told me I didn't need to explain my reasons to her because I was a grown woman. Cannot recommend her enough.

NEW JERSEY

Bordentown

Dr Stephanie Schwartz-Kravatz, MD is a wonderful Dr located at capital health in Bordentown NJ and Langhorne PA. Upon my first visit, she did not question my choice to be sterilized, she only gave me a quick warning that I might experience regret later on. I thanked her and she made a consultation appointment for the surgery. As well, the pap smear was pain-free and she made the whole experience as comfortable as possible. 10/10.

Robert Goldlust, M.D.. Vasectomy. 25, have a partner, doctor knew I was childfree. Dr. Goldlust was great. When I went in for a consultation, he asked if I had any kids. When I replied that I didn’t have any, he stated that he is usually hesitant to perform a vasectomy on someone so young and without kids. After I assured him that I thought long and hard about my decision, I was able to schedule a surgery date. Just make sure you have your reasons/resolve ready. Was very pleasant on the day of the procedure.

Browns Mills

Dr. Mark D. Kuhn, Bilateral Salpingectomy, 24F, married, no kids. Had absolutely 0 issues with my request, said that he believes in my right to make this choice for myself. Longest wait was for them to call me to set up a surgery date. First appointment was June 14th, sterilized on July 19th. I have Tricare prime and had no issues or pushback with them covering 100% of the cost for any of the appointments and pre-op labs. Also just a great bedside manner which helped with my anxiety before surgery.

Cedar Knolls

Dr. Kjell Youngren, MD 8 Saddle Rd #204, Cedar Knolls, NJ 07927, 973-889-0049. June 2024. Vasectomy on 24-year-old redditor. He mentioned a lot of doctors would not do the surgery since I have no kids and am young, but he believes it’s our choice, and he said most people do not regret their decision anyways. Basically a lot of explaining was done on the first date. The doctor explained that he does a no scalpel surgery, only 1 incision, and the local anesthetic he uses to numb the patient lasts about 12 hours.

+1 Kjell Youngren, 8 Saddle Rd #204, Cedar Knolls, NJ 07927, 973-889-0049. (https://www.advancedurologynj.com/). September 2024. 25M, had vasectomy performed within two weeks of initial meeting. He asked if I had been to other doctors in the area before meeting with him, since he knew that others were likely to deny me for being younger. He actually only asked me whether I already had kids AFTER doing the procedure. Awesome guy

Cherry Hill

Dr. Luisa Galdi, but everyone I have encountered at that location was very accommodating and friendly. I had no issues getting a hysterectomy scheduled and done, despite only being 27. I don't know if this is a caveat, but my reasons were partially due to gender dysphoria, so I do not know if cis women may have more trouble, but I doubt it. Additionally, Virtua Health accepts state Medicaid plans (Horizon NJ Health I know, others I am unsure of) so depending on your income you may be able to get surgery at little to no cost!

Dr. Philip Dorsey, Urology, June 2024 vasectomy. The overall experience was pleasant. He was attentive about any discomfort I felt during the procedure. I had mild discomfort on the initial incisions but the procedure took about 20 minutes. Kind and outspoken man who respected my views and engaged with me in conversation during the procedure!

Clifton

Dr. Mubashir Shabil Billah, Clifton, New Jersey Urology. Addr: 6 Brighton Road, Suite 108, Clifton NJ 07012 Tel: 973 873 7000 Operating rooms are at Hackensack NJ 30, single Their questions/comments, why?, any kids?, ok cool, see my scheduler. Scheduled within 3 weeks after consultation.

Clinton

Dr Randy Klein, MD Offers in-office vasectomies. Requires a prior consult appointment. Asks minimal questions (Why don't you want kids? What would you do.... basically, don't sound like an idiot. Have good answers ready) Dr has performed vasectomy on as young as 23 with openly no children and single.

Denville

Doctor Zimmerman - Morris Urology. Denville and Mine Hill. Professional and respectful discussion about getting a vasectomy. No pressing on reasons, just a complete explanation of the procedure and making sure I was certain it was what I wanted.

Dr. Michael Ingber, Vasectomy, 29yo, February 2023. He used the burning method to cauterize the vas deferens. The surgery was done in a surgical center with optional anesthesia. My husband opted to be knocked out. No bingos, he was just asked if he was sure at the appointment and on the day of surgery. Semen testing is included with the surgery if you use a hospital facility in Atlantic health for the test. He had to wait 3 months to be tested and at that testing he had 0 swimmers.

East Brunswick

Dr. Uzoma Owunna, MD, FACOG Axia Women's Health, 1636 Stelton Rd Suite 303, Piscataway, NJ 08854. 732-943-9160. Bisalp on 29-year-old redditor. When I inquired about the procedure, her agreement was so rapid that I was at a loss for words, fully ready to argue my case and still receive a no. She told me the medical industry has an unfortunate history of being patriarchal, but she insisted it was not her or any other doctor's right to decide for their patients, and that she was "happy to do this for me." A month after our first meeting I was fixed.

+1 Dr. Owunna, Dec. 2023. Bisalp on 29-year-old redditor. As a WOC myself, it was very important for me to find a Black gynecologist - which i did! - and let me say, she is one of the kindest and most supportive doctors I've ever had. she truly is an advocate for women's healthcare, and never once tried to convince or dissuade me from seeking permanent contraception. i feel so supported in my choice, and I'm glad to have this wonderful woman as a provider of my healthcare.

Freehold

Andrew Blechman, MD-Meridian Health System, 3499 U.S. 9 North, #2b, Freehold, NJ 07728, tubal ligation 24yo, 22yo, 27yo (with ablation), 22yo. Bilateral salpingectomy 26yo. Hysterectomy 26yo. Most recent success story 11/18/2024.

Hackensack

Dr. David Shin, MD. I [24 M] consulted about a vasectomy. Dr. Shin and his staff not only were very respectful but actually commended me about my reasoning for wanting to get the procedure done. Everyone was very friendly, the procedure was done in office and I didn't feel a thing. I have bipolar disorder so the only minor setback was I had to get assurance from my psychiatrist in a written letter declaring that I was of sound mind to make this decision which made sense. I definitely recommend him if you can get an appointment.

Hackettstown

Dr Christopher Simons, Hackettstown, NJ and Newton, NJ (multiple offices). Hysterectomy (for medical reasons, however was fully willing to give a bi salp if I wanted to go that route). 33, married, no children. Dr. Simons provided top notch care throughout the entire process. During my first visit, he offered me a number of sterilization options and procedures with no hesitation, gave me information on each procedure he could do, and explained in detail what each procedure entailed. The only question was “so you don’t want kids?”, I said “nope, really not for me”, and he dove straight into my options. While the wait time to see him can be a little long, it’s definitely worth it.

Hammondtown

Ali Strochak, Bilateral Salpingectomy, just informed me that it's permanent and there are other options which could be just as effective.

Lebanon

Dr. Dierdre Masterton, MD Advanced OBGYN, 1390 US Highway 22, Ste 104, Lebanon, NJ 08833, 908-806-0080. Plus-size friendly. Bisalp on 29-year-old redditor. I was about 260 lbs when I got sterilized by Dr. Dierdre Masterton. NB: This doctor was not supportive of a 21yo seeking sterilisation and does not want to be "hotspot for sterilization for women in their 20s"

-1 Dr. Masterton. Nov 2024. I saw Dr Deirdre Masterton in Lebanon NJ. She said she would consider sterilizing me as a 25yo at the time, but only after going to therapy first and said I had to come back in 4 months. So maybe not fully denying patients but definitely not gonna do it no questions asked.

Jersey City

Dr. John Hosay, 2555 JFK Blvd, Jersey City, NJ 07304. 201-433-9666. No hassle vasectomy approval

Millburn

Eric Seaman 225 Millburn Ave #304, Millburn, NJ 07041. Hassle free no scalpel vasectomy

Moorestown

Dr. Bowers. (856) 325-4200. Complete robotic laparoscopic minimally invasive hysterectomy. 31F, single, completely CF. Dr. Bowers was absolutely incredible, I cannot recommend him highly enough. He was completely open to my request for sterilization from the first appointment. We discussed other options I had considered, and he stated that my personal autonomy and control of my own body was entirely up to me. The surgery was done outpatient on]August 22 at Virtua Voorhees. Everything was laparoscopic and robotic. He removed my uterus, Fallopian tubes, and cervix. Ovaries were left to control hormone regulation and bone/heart health. Recovery was a breeze all things considered, the only scarring I have is a small 1 inch incision above my belly button. 10/10 experience overall! Has also provided bilateral salpingectomy for 37F.

Perth Amboy

Dr. Aftab Husain MD - Urologist (office 1, performed vasectomy here) 663 Brace Ave, Perth Amboy, NJ 08861 (office 2) 1656 Oak Tree Rd Ste 3, Edison NJ, 08820 Phone: (732) 826-0059. Use this doctor with CAUTION as OP, who is childfree, has existing health concerns and is over 40 which factored into the doctor's decision.

Princeton

Dr. Sumra Tayebaly Bilateral salpingectomy 26F, married, childfree She was totally respectful and didn't bingo me, just listened and agreed to do the surgery. She said that she typically suggests bisalps over tubals for her patients. She also said she wouldn't perform an ablation on someone my age because the risk of failure is higher if you're younger.

Dr. Booher, Women's Healthcare of Princeton (NJ). 31F, bilateral salpingectomy. Not a single person in the entire office challenged my decision or reasoning, starting with the tech, the nurse practitioner, scheduling assistant, or surgeon. They simply ensured my understanding that this is permanent and it's not my only option, but it's a valid choice to make if I want to proceed. Dr. Sophocles from this office also does ligation and salpingectomy.

+1 Dr. Sophocles, Women's Healthcare of Princeton. Bisalp on 30-year-old redditor. 5 weeks from initial appt to surgery. I know my experience was a lot of luck and living in a blue state, however not once was I bingoed and everyone from first consult to in the hospital was so amazingly nice and supportive.

Secaucus

Paul Mackoul, performed a partial Salpingectomy on me [single 24F]. had a phone consultation and most of the pre-op paperwork was online. No hassle or pushback at all.

Sewell

Doctor Kathleen Schaeffer in Sewell & Camden NJ. 23/(M)ftm. Received a complete robotic laparoscopic hysterectomy about a month after I asked for it, no questions about wanting children, no hassle over my age. She was just concerned about me receiving the best care possible and being comfortable after my procedure.

Somerville

Dr. Keith Harmon MD, FACS Somerset Urological Associates, 72 West End Avenue, Somerville, NJ 08876, (908) 927-0300. Sept 2022. Vasectomy on redditor in his early 30s. "He didn’t hassle me at all. He treated me very well, I felt respected, he had a sense of humor, and I felt quite comfortable with him. He knew I was in my early 30s, and he didn’t try to make me think I don’t know what I’m talking about."

Sparta

Dr. Matthew Hall - Sparta health and wellness, skylands urology. (https://www.skylandsurology.com/matthew-hall.html) No hassle or bingos. went in, told to mull it over for 2 months. 2 months later i was snipped! At 25! No issues at all, extremely professional.

Dr Anandhi Nadarajah - removed my tubes 2 weeks ago and today at our follow-up appointment expressed interest in being added to your list. She's willing to sterilize young women should they ask.

Dr. Defalco. She was great. Met over zoom to talk about the procedure, whether or not I was sure, etc. Since I was almost 30 she felt more comfortable doing it, and said she’s had a lot of young women coming in lately. Had my annual appointment, bloodwork, and pre op appointment where we chatted one last time before scheduling my surgery. Laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy was the procedure. Everything went great. It’s done at the surgical center next door and everyone was lovely. Highly recommend and very grateful. 29 year old female, no children.

Summit

Audrey A. Romero, MD. Bilateral salpingectomy. 26F, single, no children, CF. I recommend Dr. Romero; she’s my gynecologist and during my annual, I asked for permanent sterilization options. She was hesitant as I was single and 25 at the time, and asked me if I was completely sure, and if I wanted to try other birth control methods. After I confirmed I was positive, I had to wait about 6 months until I had the procedure. Insurance covered everything, including the post-op appointment. She even showed me the photos of the procedure per my request.

Tinton Falls

Dr. Dana Jacoby, 41 N Gilbert St, Tinton Falls. Gave me a tubal at 22. It took a lot of convincing, he wasn't comfortable doing it on someone so young but eventually he agreed. You'd have an easier time if you're late 20s or older but may be worth a shot if you're younger.

Vineland

Dr. Christopher Lee, MD, 2950 College Dr # 2E, Vineland, New Jersey 08360. 18 at the time, Long Term Partner (Unmarried), Both completely Child Free. Very smooth experience, Doctor voiced his concerns, I gave my responses, he agreed, within a few months I had the procedure done. Took Horizon BCBS insurance with $10 copay. Some "bingos" but only stated as he is a parent of a young adult, understood my viewpoints (Seemed to just be covering his bases).

NEW MEXICO

Alamogordo

Dr. Scott Shin at Gerald Champion Regional Medical Center. I'm CF and was sent to him when I was going through an ectopic pregnancy. After taking care of the issue he asked if I wanted another IUD and I asked about sterilization. When I told him that we have no kids and don't want any he said "I respect your decision." He gave me my bi-salp in Jan 2019 and still works here.

Santa Fe

Dr Sheila Cepeda, Christus St. Vincent Women's Care Specialists, Santa Fe, NM 505.984.0303. NB this doctor has since moved to Farmington.

Las Cruces

Dr. Rebecca Coalson, 2930 Hillrise Dr #2, Las Cruces, NM 88011. (575) 521-1889 She is willing to do Essure for me as long as I'm 100% certain. She didn't ask me why I don't want kids, and said she has performed Essure for CF women before. Very nice and considerate.

Albuquerque

Jennifer Gil MD - (505) 823-8787. She's under the Presbyterian Health Network in Albuquerque, NM. I'm a 27 yo unmarried person with no previous pregnancies and no other condnditions that might make me a candidate for sterilization. I had one video appointment with my PCP who referred me to her and I had one in person appointment with Dr. Gil before being approved for a bilateral salpingectomy. She did not try to persuade me otherwise, only explained the procedure and asked for my reasoning behind choosing sterilization over other methods of birth control which was primarily for health insurance reasons. I have Presbyterian Health insurance and they covered 100% of costs associated with the surgery.

Dr. Lucille Martinez at the Presbyterian hospital in Albuquerque, NM. 30yo. She didn't push back at all at the consult and got me in earlier than her initial estimate. Very kind, helpful, and surgery went great

Dr. Alana Williams, Women's Pelvic Specialty Care Clinic at Lovelace Women's Hospital. Performed laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy.

+1 Dr Williams - Performed bilateral salpingectomy on a second redditor, aged 22, and told her she has done them on patients as young as 21. She told this woman that she was an adult and could make decisions for herself, and did not have to be persuaded, or give bingos or pushback.

+1 Dr Williams approved a 27 year for a bisalp. No pushback or bingos and very supportive of bodily autonomy.

+1 Dr Williams approved me for my bilateral salpingectomy at 21.

+1 Dr Williams bilateral salpingectomy 27F, she listened to my choice and understands the choice to be sterilized without judgment or "Bingos". She feels that adult women have the right to choose what they do with their bodies.

+1 Dr Williams. Total hysterectomy (removal of uterus and fallopian tubes). After nearly 12 years of searching for a doctor would take me seriously I took a chance and booked an appointment with her back in 2021. Upon meeting Dr. Williams she was extremely kind, caring and supportive. I had originally mentioned being interested in uterine ablation but we both decided a hysterectomy would be better due to having extremely painful periods (uterine ablation could make that worse) She never once made me feel uncomfortable, incompetent, or selfish for not wanting children. The appointment took all of 30ish minutes.

Dr. Katherine Schwartz, Women's Specialists of New Mexico. Approved 27-year-old for bisalp with no bingos.

+1 Dr. Katherine Schwarz, Women's Specialists of New Mexico. Approved a 21YO with no children for a bisalp with no bingos at the first meeting and performed the bisalp at the first available surgery timeslot in Aug '22. Declined to perform an endo ablation or a partial hysterectomy due to my own major medical risk factors.

Dr. Jamie Krashin, I am 23F, single and had my consultation and bi-salp performed by Dr. Krashin. My consultation involved her confirming I was sure I didn’t want biological children and to tell her a bit about it, explaining my options to me, and booking my surgery date. She was so calm and respectful. She never asked about my family or whether I had a partner, only about me and what I wanted and was comfortable with. She thoroughly explained and even drew out what each option would entail. Anything she told me was informational and not opinion.

+1 Dr Karshin, Dr. Jamie Karshin did my pre-op (bi-salp). I am a 28 year old. I have a partner but we aren't married. No bingo, just the standard question they have to ask before they can the procedure. She said they have an age limit of 21, and she said she would do one for anyone over that, as long as they are positive. Dr Karshin did have to refer OP to another practitioner as they are booked out but the other practitioner was also supportive.

+1 Jamie Krashin. I'm 29 years old, and had my consult and my surgery (bisalp) done by Dr. Krashin. She was super respectful of my choices and my reasoning behind them, and never mentioned my partner. She gave a lot of information on various types of sterilization and non-sterilization birth control, but never tried to lead me one way or another, just wanted to give me as much information as possible. She also agreed to let me keep my IUD for period management. As a side note, all the staff at the UNM Center for Reproductive Health with Dr. Krashin were were respectful and positive about people making their own choices.

Dr. Jessie Simmon at Lovelace Medical Group in Albuquerque, New Mexico. I am a transgender man who does not want biological children, or any children as of now. When I explained my reasons for wanting to have my reproductive organs removed, Dr. Simmon was very understanding and explained things very well. I do not know if I would call this a bingo but she only stated once: "You're positive you don't want to have kids, and you know this isn't reversible, yes? Still want to do it?" When I responded that I was sure, she did not ask again and we continued on with getting me set up for the procedure.

Dr Kelly Drescher. 201 Cedar Street Southeast, Albuquerque, New Mexico 87106. Her phone number is (505)563-6000. She is with the New Mexico Surgery Center Multi-Specialty and partnered with Presbyterian Medical Group. She performed a full laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy on me. My age is 25F. I currently have no children and my martial status is single. My experience with Dr Drescher was nothing but positive. I had my consultation with her in December of 2023 and she gave me no pushback. I explained to her the procedure I wanted and my reasoning. She only asked if I was sure and outlined the procedure for me. I said okay and the surgery was scheduled 2 months later for February 2024. She was very informative and understanding. The surgery was an outpatient procedure and took about 45 minutes.

Farmington

Dr. Mark Fisher, Southwest Obstetrics & Gynecology. Very kind and considerate. Approved laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy without any bingos and without questioning my decision not to have kids. 100% supportive with the best bedside manner of any doctor I've ever encountered.

Rio Rancho

Dr Claire Herrick. My surgery was performed here: 2400 Unser Blvd SE Presbyterian Rust Medical Center Suite 28400 Rio Rancho, New Mexico USA 87124. Total hysterectomy (she took my uterus, fallopian tubes, and cervix, I kept my ovaries) completed on 3/3/2022. 25 F, single, completely child free, now and forever! Dr. Herrick is an incredible woman. She was the first gyno I talked to about having a hysterectomy, and was completely supportive of it from the start. She understood that this is something I've wanted for years, but she wanted to be completely sure I wasn't going to change my mind, so she asked me to wait 6 months and check in with her every 2 months, just to confirm. I respect the hell out of her for this. I'm lucky I was able to find a doctor who values my sanity over saving my uterus which was causing my insane amounts of pain. She's an absolute sweetheart, and 100% cares about her patients and wants to do whatever she can to help. (Even called my insurance when there was a mess up to set things straight so we could get the procedure done before my 26th birthday since I'll be off my mom's insurance).

+1 Dr. Herrick - Bisalp on 28 year old woman who says: I loved that she was careful to make sure this was what I wanted but never tried to contest anything I said or wanted. While she admitted she would have been a bit more hesitant if I was coming purely from a place of fear, she was perfectly happy to go through with the procedure once I listed out what I want from life, my set of mental health challenges that I don't want to to pass on, and the fact that I have been seeing a therapist who respects my decision and would have been happy to talk to her. Age never came up in the conversation.

Socorro

Harold Frederick Baskin, MD. Bilateral salpingectomy (minilaparotomy, not laparoscopic). Dr. Baskin agreed to sterilize me after several other doctors at the practice refused. He was open to performing a bilateral salpingectomy, but was not comfortable using a laparoscope, so the procedure involved minilaparotomy and salpingectomy (a ~2.5 inch incision and the manual removal of ~3/4 of each fallopian tube, with care taken to remove the fimbriae entirely). This resulted in a longer recovery time and more post-operative pain than a laparoscopic procedure would have, but the surgery was done with great care and without complications. All costs were covered by Medicaid.

NEW YORK

Albany

Dr. Christopher Bloss - Said he believes more in autonomy than his personal ethical views. Was willing to schedule and perform sterilization.

Dr. Peter Cole at Obstetrics and Gynecology at Albany Medical Center. Has been my doctor for my entire adult life and is just all around wonderful. When I requested to be sterilized, he said he believed in body autonomy and didn't question my decision. Amazing bedside manner!

Dr. Robert Welliver - Albany Med Urology - 23 Hackett Blvd, MC 208, Albany, NY 12208. Appears to have requirement that patient be at least 25. Was super chill when we went in to talk about my fiancé getting a vasectomy. No bingos, no belittling, simply asked if we were cool remaining childless and moved on to discuss scheduling. Provides his vasectomy patients with script for Valium for nerves. Doc had a very pleasant, relaxing bedside manner and allowed me to sit in on the procedure as well. Had a resident assisting, so procedure was very quick and easy.

-1 Dr. Welliver. Dec 2023. Denied vasectomy for 22-year-old redditor. Just waited 3 months for a vasectomy consultation, only to be told to come back when Im 25 and try again. Thoroughly frustrated and upset.

+1 Dr Welliver, vasectomy, 34M.

Dr. Mark White, Vasectomy. https://www.reddit.com/r/childfree/comments/pnisu3/recommendation_for_dr_mark_white_for_vasectomy_in/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

Dr Alexandra Burke in Latham. Bilateral Salpingectomy. 33, unmarried but have a partner, childfree. A great experience from original conversation with my gyno (a NP midwife in the practice, Julie Washington, who I also recommend; she urged me to get my tubes out if I was feeling ready for it!) to the consult for the surgery. Dr Burke was nonchalant in the best way about my sterilization and treated it as commonplace as getting dental work! My desire to do this was never questioned by her or her team. I did get some concern raised by my anesthesiologist ("All this for that? You didn't try birth control?!") but I'm overall really happy with the support I got. She also checked for endometriosis at the same time and ended up removing a cyst.

Dr. Corrinne McCleod 391 Myrtle Ave Suite 2, Albany, NY 12208. I had a 2 page list of all my reasons for wanting sterilization and I never had to give her any of them! She agreed immediately and only asked me questions that were relevant to my medical history and the surgery. I'm 33, unmarried, child free, obese, and have some chronic health issues. I don't think she would turn down younger patients either because I told her I've been asking gynecologists since I was 19 years old for this (but they all said I'd change my mind and was too young) and she agreed that was wrong it should've been my choice.

Dr. Sylvia Sossner has been my OBGYN for the last 6 years. I brought up the idea of sterilization at my first visit with her, at the age of 26, and there were no bingos, just well worded questions to make sure I understood what I was asking for, knew the alternative birth control options, and that I was asking of my own free will. For financial, time, and career reasons, I wasn’t ready for the procedure right away, but she followed up with me every year to see where my head was at. And each time I said I still wanted to be sterilized once my career was in a place where I had good health benefits and sick leave allowance. That all finally came together at the age of 33. The most complicated part was securing a surgery date due to upcoming travel I had and the scheduler taking some PTO. I am confident I would have had the procedure within weeks of consultation otherwise.

Dr. Humera Syeda. Laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy. 35, single, childfree. Initially brought it up when I was ~30 and she would have done it then, but I was not ready to have elective surgery when I already had an IUD; chose sterilization after the Roe vs. Wade stuff. I believe she would be willing to perform it on any age, but I did not ask until I was 30+. Casually asked me a couple questions to make sure I was sure ("What if you meet someone who wants kids?" "Then we aren't compatible" "Okay good"). Said she has more young women getting the procedure now.

Dr. Michael Cohen. Was referred to him to remove an ovarian tumor at 33, he asked once if I wanted kids and when I said no asked if I wanted to do Salpingectomy and Hysterectomy while I was in for surgery. Never felt judgment and did not have to answer further questions I’ve faced from other doctors.

Dr Thomas Cacciola MD, FACOG, Albany, New York, United States, Bilateral Salpingectomy and Hysterectomy for 26yo November 2024. He was extremely kind, welcoming, nonjudgmental- I came in prepared to defend myself and my case and he said that I don’t have to explain myself to him, if I want it, he’ll help me get it

Bronx

Dr. Susan Pesci, MD Montefiore Medical Park at Eastchester, 1695 Eastchester Road, Bronx, NY 10461-2374, 718-405-8200. LBGTQ+ friendly. Bisalp on CF redditor Dec. 2022.

Buffalo

Samantha Deans, MD, MPH, Located in downtown Buffalo, NY. Address: 1001 Main St, 4th Floor, Buffalo NY 14203 Phone: (716) 636-8284. Provide laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy for sterilization, along with all other types of contraception, gender-affirming care, abortion, and treatment of any gynecologic issue. No age limits, “requirements”, or mandatory waiting periods outside of the 30-day required waiting period for Medicaid. Accept all major insurance carriers, including Medicaid and Medicaid managed care plans.

Dr. Christopher J. Skomra. Scalpel vasectomy with local anesthesia. I am 25M/white, unmarried & no children. It cost me $10 but I have very good health insurance, the practice accepts most insurances. In my consultation with Dr. Skomra he asked me why I was there and if I ever wanted to have children, upon telling him my answers he told me that he performs vasectomies regularly and they should not be treated as reversible (as reversals are not 100% guaranteed to work.) No BINGO, no questions other than what I do for work (for recovery recommendations.) The practice scheduled me for 5 weeks from the consult and it went flawlessly, I had a next day return to office/5 day return to physical labor.

Dr. Suzette LaJeunesse at Buffalo Medical Group - Bilateral Salpingectomy - She does full tube removal as it is the preferred method in the field - No BINGO'ing just nice and simple. Do NOT seek out the services of this doctor if you are under 25. She will refuse you.

+1 Suzette LaJeunesse in Buffalo, NY. F26 had bi-salp performed.

+1 Dr. LaJeunesse. Nov. 2024. Bisalp on 30-year-old redditor. She was very sweet and easy to work with. She even offered to do a pap smear while I'm under since I have pretty bad medical anxiety!

Dr David Lillie - No scalpel vasectomy

Dr. Joseph M. Greco

Dr. Judith Ortman-Nabi - Dr. Nabi did not bingo me at all which is crazy because I am 18, nulliparous, have never used any method of BC and I've never been sexually active. She asked about my history with birth control and if I've ever been sexually active. Dr. Nabi's method of sterilization is bilateral salpingectomy. +1 bilateral salpingectomy for 21F, 26F, 20F. NB Dr Ortman-Nabi is planning to retire in June 2024.

Dr. Magda Osman of the Buffalo Medical Group to the CF friendly doctors list. She completed a bilateral salpingectomy for me (31F, married, no kids) on 10/24/22 in Buffalo, NY. I was not bingo'd, but she tried recommending an IUD as a non-permanent alternative. When I said I wanted surgery, she was very understanding and we were able to schedule the surgery within a month. My insurance covered most of the procedure, I just had a $100 copay.

Dr. Taylor Johnson, I'm f22 and have been trying to get my tubes tied for about three years now so this was huge for me. (She had joined the office in 2021). No BINGO's and I'm going through with scheduling a bisalp for 1-2 months from now. I heard about her through my friend who is looking to get gender affirmation surgery, which she was willing to do as well as understanding of them. She also had recommended treatment for my vaginismus that no other doctor of mine brought up that even existed. She was very open and I felt listened to. OBGYN Associates of Western New York 3050 Orchard Park Road West Seneca, NY 14224

Dr. Robert Powalski & Dr. Rachael Weselak Address: 3834 Delaware Ave, Buffalo, NY 14217. Age: 25 Marital Status: I have a bf not married CF status: Sterile I have been a patient at empire OBGYN for about 3-4 years now. I went into my regular annual check-up fully prepared to ask for sterilization, I was escorted into my usual room where the nurse came in and asked her usual questions of medications, past procedures, current PCP etc etc. She came to the question 'was there anything specifically you wanted to bring to the dr's attention' this is when I asked for bisalp. She seemed a bit taken aback but didn't say anything along BINGO lines. As she took my blood pressure she asked what lead me to this decision. I stated that after getting off the pill and enjoying the way I felt as well as being CF, she seemed pleased with the answers and left to go get Dr. Powalski. He asked me if I was sure this is what I wanted, asked me what if I meet a man that wants kids (I told him that I wouldn't be in a relationship with someone who wants them to begin with and my current bf is CF anyway) and after my answer he seemed hesitant but still agreed to go ahead with the procedure. The day before my surgery he had an emergency and was unable to perform the surgery My surgery was performed at Millard Fillmore Suburban (1540 Maple Rd, Williamsville, NY 14221) The day of my surgery was when I met Dr. Rachel Weselak, the cover for Dr. Powalski. She was amazing. A little late to the procedure but still very easy to talk to, no BINGO whatsoever and made me a lot less anxious for the procedure.

Catskill

Jonas G. Wilson-Leedy, MD. Bilateral salpingectomy; open to removing ovaries, uterus, etc. if sensible due to cancer history or relevant issues. Age 28, single and never sexually active, childfree. It was a genuinely positive meeting and discussion regarding sterilization. He went through the normal list of birth control options and surgery risks and such, but very clearly wasn't pushing them and was simply fully informing me. He noted that I seemed resolved early on, and was 100% bingo-free even though I'm a slightly unusual case (28, virgin, admitted I might never become sexually active but that sterilization was worth the peace of mind). Spent more time discussing what options would or would not help me with periods than anything else, chef's kiss. I was a new patient so a few week's wait for my initial check-up appointment, at which point I asked to discuss sterilization and I got the appointment to meet with the doctor a few weeks later. Scheduled the surgery in the first available slot just over a month away, noting some insurances want the 30-day wait but that he was booked up until then anyway. Delightful experience, highly recommend.

Corning

Dr Elizabeth Gordon - 23, bilateral salpingectomy, needs 2 appts a few months apart as a cooldown.

Guthrie Hospital, NY, 27, hysterectomy with:

• OBGYN: Dr. Emily Wales

• Specialist: Dr. James Scott

• Surgeon: Dr. Sophia Halassy

• Assisting Surgeon: Dr. Elizabeth Gordon

Cortland

Urologist Peter Iannotta did the consultation and set up the appointment. 2 months later Mahmoud Chehab did the procedure. 26, no kids, unmarried. The doctor who did my consultation directly told me if I was under 25 he would have turned me away because I don't have kids already, but 25 being the minimum age for a childfree person is WAY better than the 40s+ I've heard everywhere else I went. The surgeon who did the procedure also asked me some borderline bingos before starting, but accepted my pretty simple answers without arguing and did do the thing.

Dr. Kristin Algoe. My procedure was a Tubal Ligation. I am 31, have never wanted kids for as long as I can remember, and I'm lucky to have a boyfriend who also does not want kids. I was not bingo'd a single time by anyone - Dr. Algoe, nurses, receptionists, no one. A+ I have blue cross blue shield and it covered the procedure in full. I had a consultation and a pre op appointment which I did pay pricey co pays for, but those have been my only costs. The consultation and pre op were 3 months apart at my request, as I didn't want to have to recover from surgery over the november-december holidays. Once I had the pre op appointment, I believe it was a week later I was called and told the surgery would be in 2 weeks.

East Amherst

Dr. Ashley Conway with Trinity Medical OBGYN in East Amherst, NY. I am 23F, unmarried (no boyfriend either), and no kids. Right from the start of my appointment, she fully respected my decision and supported me as soon as I brought it up. She had to ask me some bingo-y questions because they were insurance hoops to jump through, but that was the only reason why. Surgery was scheduled a month & a half after I saw her for the first time, and went incredibly smoothly. Would HIGHLY recommend her to anyone in the Buffalo/WNY area.

East Setauket

Dr. Jennifer Blaber University Associates In Ob/Gyn, 140 Belle Mead Road, Suite E, East Setauket NY 11733, (631)444-4686. Jan 2023. Hysterectomy and bisalp on 31-year-old redditor. I went to Dr. Blaber to ask for an ablation to stop my periods since a hysterectomy is so invasive. She suggested a hysterectomy because I'm young enough that my periods would come back in a few years and the scar tissue would make it harder to detect cancer. There were no bingos and she immediately accepted that I didn't want to stop my period with hormones. She immediately set me up for all of the appointments I needed for testing and pre-op. I first saw her in September and just had the procedure last Monday. She spoke slowly, allowed me all the time I needed for questions, even answered the ones I felt silly asking. I never felt rushed or pressured and she's honestly the best provider I've ever had for anything.

Fishkill

Dr. Rachel Schoenbrun (CareMount Medical in Fishkill/Poughkeepsie). After meeting me once she agreed to provide a bisalp and it was all set within a month. I'm 33, married, no kids and she was onboard even before giving me a new patient exam or anything. Not sure how much detail you need to get her on the list. I had the procedure at Vassar Hospital and everyone was so kind to me. I couldn't be happier.

+1 Dr. Rachel Schoenbrun in Fishkill, NY. I’m 22, no kids, went in for an appointment and told her I’d like to be sterilized. She was immediately on board and got me scheduled for a bisalp for a couple months out at Vassar Hospital. Not one bingo from anyone involved in the surgery. Couldn’t be happier!!

Geneva

Jennifer Lavanga, MD 200 North St Ste 101, Geneva, NY 14456. Simply asked for sterilization on the first meeting with her. Said no problem, no bingos, no hassles. "Your body, your decision."

-1 Dr Lavanga, pushes IUD based on "new data," and is "moving away" from surgery based on it. Currently in their office and just got denied not even 5 minutes after she came into the room.

Glens Falls

Dr Diana Sustar Bilateral Salpingectomy, 26, Married, never had any children. She’s a wonderful doctor, who actually listens to you. I had seen her since I was 21, however I had only brought up wanting sterilization this past June (2021), and she did it a little over a month later. No waiting, no bingos. She just asked simple questions to make sure that’s what I wanted, and told me that it’s my body and it’s her job to help me out with whatever I decide.

Hudson

Dr. Edward Marici DO. 71 Prospect Ave, Medical Office Building, Suite 240, Hudson, NY 12534, 518-697-5467. April 2023. Bisalp on 34-year-old CF redditor. My meeting with him went great, he could tell I had done research on the procedure and after explaining the required stuff about how it's permanent etc, he agreed to do the surgery. I had been prepared to argue my case, but really didn't have to. He seems to be very good about explaining all the options and letting you decide what you want. Surgery was scheduled for little more than a month out.

+1 Dr. Marici.2023. Dr. Edward Marici is FANTASTIC. He's all about quality of life and is great at answering any questions you have and making sure you feel comfortable and informed. I got a hysterectomy at 30 with him and would highly recommend him to anyone.

Hudson Valley

Dr. Christine Beer I went in to discuss sterilization with her and told her I was sure at 29 that I do not want children. She suggested bilateral salpingectomy as it is her preferred method and said she does not perform Essure placement any longer. The initial visit and surgery could not have gone better.

+1 Dr. Beer. Bisalp on 25-year-old redditor.Dr. Christine Beer did my salpingectomy at 25, with a required second opinion from one of her colleagues who just asked, "So, any questions?"

Huntington

Dr Gianni Rodriguez-Ayala in Huntington, NY (Long Island). I am childfree and had my bilateral salpingectomy performed in January 2021 at 32 years old. Dr Rodriguez asked if I wanted to try an IUD, and I said no, I was over it and wanted to be sterilized, and that was that! No pushback. Please add her to the list!

Dr. Theodore Goldman. Bilateral Salpingectomy 23F.

Ithaca

Dr. Phaelon Silva - ObGyn Associates of Ithaca

Dr. Dvorah Milner, via consultation with her NP, Marie Harkins - a midwife focused on gynecology, not babies - CMA Women's Health Went in to learn more about the potential procedures, discussed everything thoroughly and went into technical detail when I wanted it. Approved for tubal ligation or bilateral salpingectomy (my choice) at 32 years old, no pregnancies ever. Harkins was very supportive and holistic, making sure to account for my overall health without questioning my choice. She was sympathetic to the judgment women who don't want children face. The local Planned Parenthood said this entire practice is very woman-focused and supportive, and I believe it. Strangely, a highly enjoyable consultation and cervical screening. 2019.

Jamestown

Dr. Andrea Walsh. She said yes to my tubal, no questions asked!

Johnson City

Dr. Michael Castello, DO practices with Upstate Urology of UHS, 30 Harrison Street S460, Wilson Square 13790. Agreed to preform vasectomy on 23 male, procedure was on at 24 due to delays with covid. Didnt get any bingos as he said i was an adult cableable of making my own decisions.

Krystal Thompson, MD Obstetrics & Gynecology, Women's Health, UHS Perinatal Center 33-57 Harrison Street Johnson City, NY 13790 607-763-6101. LBGTQ+ friendly. Performed a bilateral salpingectomy with cauterization. Single, female, 26 y/o, no children. I do have to warn that the office where she practices is a perinatal office. I am someone with tokophobia and it was hard to wait in a office with heavily pregnant women. The hallways are lined with photos of pregnant women, children/families. But, Dr. Thompson is an incredibly profesional and intelligent woman. There were no bingos, she believes in bodily autonomy. She only made sure that I was informed about the procedure, and the outcome. It was a 15 minute visit and she scheduled me for my pre-op at that visit. She is an lgbtq+ ally and POC.

Kingston

Dr. Elise Hagen, MD 6734 Route 9, Rhinebeck, NY, 12572, 845-202-6633. Nov 2024. Bisalp on 24-year-old redditor. The appointment took a total of 25min. She is a board-certified surgeon and did the procedure. All in all... took me 2 weeks to get this done! ZERO bingos, she said "I do surgeries every Friday i can get you booked as soon as you'd like"

Latham

Doctor Danielle Rooney of Community Care OBGYN. Procedure performed: bilateral salpengectomy personal info: 23 year old woman, unmarried and no children short statement: I never once felt judged or experienced any bingos from anyone I interacted with at this office. Dr. Rooney herself was supportive of it being my choice, only asking once if I was positive of this decision, understood it would result in permanent sterilization, and that nobody was forcing me into it. The procedure itself was performed at Bellevue Women's Center, which I add because the only bingo I experienced during this process was from the (male) anesthesiologist there who came in prior to the procedure for consent (he was not the actual anesthesiologist for the procedure).

Long Island

Dr. Amy Lasky - OBGYN Suffolk County, NY Stony Brook. Will perform tubal ligations for suitable women over 21.

+1 Dr Amy Lasky. She is located in East Setauket, New York on Long Island. Her online listing is at https://doctors.stonybrookmedicine.edu/provider/Amy%20Lasky/2250514. She completed a bilateral salpingectomy on me. I am 32, single, and staunchly childfree. Dr. Lasky will sterilize anyone over 21 who knows they want to be child free for the remainder of their life. I experienced exactly zero pushback or bingos in asking for the bisalp, and she even, completely unprompted, offered me a hysterectomy due to extremely painful periods, endometriosis and adenomyosis. I waited about a week for my appointment (I was a patient at her office prior to seeing her about this so I don’t know how long wait times are for new patients).

+1 Dr Lasky, July 2024. When I brought up sterilization to her, she asked if I had found her on that list and I said yes. She asked me what I knew about bisalps and confirmed that I knew this was permanent. I got a pelvic exam then got a phonecall later to schedule. (3 months later only because she was going on vacation). I had a pre-surg appt to get my blood taken and bp and go over day before and after. Then the day before i got a call with where to go and the time to show up. Come the time, i went in 1 hour after arrival and not a single staff member questioned my decision for the procedure, even after finding out I had no kids. It took 90 min and I got buttered toast and hot tea and out I went.

+1 Gianni Rodriguez-Ayala (a.k.a. Gianni Rodriguez) Performed my bilateral salpingectomy. Great doctor in general and an endometriosis specialist as an additional benefit for patients who have that. Have an answer for why you don't want an IUD as she asks every patient requesting sterilization if they would like one instead, but other than that, she made the process incredibly streamlined and easy. She has access to a special method for bilateral salpingectomy which requires only one incision rather than three (traditional), and did a tremendous job reconstructing my belly button, so it honestly does not look like I had surgery.

Dr. Theodore Goldman, Huntington. Bilateral Salpingectomy 23F.

Beth Schmidt Wonderful pro-choice activist and contraception expert. I couldn't love her more. She herself does some sterilizations, but I interfaced with her as the "screening" process for Dr. Rodriguez-Ayala. She valued my autonomy above all else, as many doctors should but few do when it comes to sterilization. Not difficult to get an appointment with, which is incredible considering how good she is. She wrote a thorough recommendation to my main ob/gyn that detailed my many reasons for getting sterilized, and I was promptly scheduled.

Julie Lian, MD. Long Island, NY. Stony Brook Hospital. Laparoscopic partial hysterectomy (removal of uterus and cervix, ovaries left). I am 30, was 28 at surgery. Married with husband. Childfree personally and researcher. I went in requesting hysterectomy as I wanted to remove risk of pregnancy and menstruation. Dr. Lian said she would do it, though reluctantly. I brought my husband as I knew that would improve my chances, but she only asked if we discussed it and he was okay once. She emphasized the surgical risk and suggested an IUD, which we left to consider, but I returned still requesting the hysterectomy. She approved and by the end of the summer I had the surgery. There were appointments and checkups before the surgery, but no more consults about the decision.

Dr. Brian McKenna 3001 Expressway Drive North Suite 116 Islandia, New York, 11749 (631) 292-6747. I (31) had a bilateral salpingectomy on December 14, 2015 with no issues. He was all for it. I answered minimal questions and booked my surgery.

+1 Dr. MeKenna. April 2023. Bisalp on 32-year-old redditor. Referred from a friend who had the procedure done July 2022 after finding this list. Received the procedure April 2023, just two months after my initial appointment. Experienced no judgement and was further informed that tying/cauterizing can lead to regrowth AND that 40% of ovarian cancer starts in the fallopian tube so, (as far as I know) he solely does complete removal. A whole team including a certified anesthesiologist was present, and the staff were so sweet. Doctor called me the same evening to check in. Went above and beyond, letting me know how my uterus/ovaries/appendix looked. The medical center is located in Riverhead, but it was worth the trek. Cannot recommend him highly enough.

-1 Dr. Brian McKenna, Wading River, New York - for a bi-salp consult. Although he was very nice, never gave me an attitude and agreed to do the procedure, I was questioned and made to feel like I would regret it. He tried to imply that I’m doing it for my current relationship and brought up a scenario where if I met someone else and fell head over heels in love, what if they want kids? This amongst other scenarios where I would regret it. I understand they have to make sure you’re serious since it is a permanent procedure, but I felt blindsided by how much further it went than just a simple “this is not reversible, are you positive you’re ok with this?” Which is what I was expecting/hoping for based on the two testimonials.

Dr. Jaspreet Joneja I [30M] had an initial appointment and answered some basic questions. I explained I do not want children and I do not have children. I scheduled the follow up and the vasectomy went very smoothly, less than 1 hour total. I would highly recommend this doctor!

Dr.Teresita Santiago, Nassau County. 25, unmarried, no kids. I brought my mom as an advocate in the event I experienced patronizing behavior or bingos, along with a binder. The binder actually seemed to annoy her because she felt like I was trying to educate her, so don’t bring a binder. I didn’t have to make a case, she simply wanted to stress that I need to give informed consent and that there is the possibility of regret.

Dr. Seth Plancher Garden City OBGYN, 877 Stewart Ave #30, Garden City, NY 11530, (516) 222-1033 - Although I haven't actually had a tubal, when I inquired about sterilization during one of my yearly visits, he said sure. I even asked him, "Really? Even though I'm under 35 and have no kids?", and his response was basically, "Yeah, of course." Total non-issue. This doctor also has wonderful bedside manner. I'm moving to Brooklyn this year, but as long as he's still in practice, I won't bother looking for a more conveniently located gyno. Doctors like him are a rare find, so I'll deal with the trip to Long Island.

Northwell Health OB/GYN - A division of North Shore University Hospital. 865 Northern Boulevard, Suite 202. (516) 622-5202. Bilateral Salpingectomy. An outside doctor referred me to a doctor there who referred me to the clinic. Did a consult with the clinic. (If I remember correctly, surgery consults are only done on Thurs evenings.) Later, I got an appt for pre-surgery clearance and the surgery. I found out who I was assigned during the clearance appt. Everyone, day of surgery, had such great bedside manner.

Dr. Stephanie McNally, Northwell Health Physician Partners, Obstetrics and Gynecology. The procedure completed: Bilateral Salpingectomy, 29F, married. Doctor agreed to a bisalp after asking at two separate annual visits. She will definitely be more lenient now. Covered 100% under insurance (EBCBS), with the exception of a $250 anesthesia fee. Surgery took 15-20 minutes, minimal recovery pain, has been smooth sailing since. Highly recommend.

Dr. Dana Almeida. She is from the same medical group as Dr. McNally. I originally tried to make an appointment with Dr. McNally since she’s on the list but she had a very long wait list so I took a chance with someone else in the practice. Dr. Almeida was great! She asked a few questions to confirm my decision and went through the list of other options but she was quick to agree to the bisalp and even offered me options for additional pain management for my periods without trying to talk me out of my decision. I would definitely recommend her

Middletown

Michael Wilson, DO, GARNET HEALTH DOCTORS UROLOGY MIDDLETOWN 707 East Main Street Middletown, New York 10940. Phone: 845-333-7575. Summary: Took one visit to get approval. Asked me why I was sure, explained it was permanent, examined the "goods" and explained he would like to do it under sedation. Easy, but it was not a no-scalpel.

Dr. Christian Roman-Rodriguez, who works in Middletown and Monroe, NY, USA. He works at Crystal Run Healthcare. I'm 28F unmarried/no kids, and when I told him I was interested in sterilization and started to explain why, he told me I didn't have to explain myself and gave me all the information about the procedure, made sure I understood it was permanent and irreversible, answered my questions and set up the surgery appointment. He was extremely kind, respectful and supportive, and said more than once how sorry he is about the state of reproductive health in America but that he would do whatever he could to make me feel comfortable and safe. Wonderful doctor.

+1 Dr Christian Roman-Rodriguez the whole experience has been wonderful (31F).

Dr. Ilan Zedek in Middletown, NY at Crystal Run Healthcare, I am 38 years old, married, and 100% childfree. Dr. Zedek gave me a bilateral salpingectomy Dec 2024. He absolutely believes in a womans right to choose what is best for her body and for her life. Dr. Zedek is incredibly down-to-earth, easy going, and personable. I brought up sterilization with him a couple of years ago before finally pulling the trigger this year; he told me to just let him know when I was ready. Scheduling to surgery date was only two weeks, which is incredibly fast.

Emily Tetelman DO 95 Crystal Run Rd, Middletown, NY 10941 +1 845-703-6999. 33F no kids, married Didn't ask about my reasoning. Her top priority was making sure I understood the procedure and that it was permanent. November 2024.

Valerie E. Curro DO, Middletown - 95 Crystal Run Rd. NY 10941, P: 845.703.6999. I am a 26yo afab with no children and I got a laparoscopic full hysterectomy + bisalp done by Dr Valarie Curro in Dec 2024. She works out of crystal run health care in Monroe new york and garnet health medical center in Middletown new york. I had a great experience! One consult appointment where she listened to my opinions and concerns fully then we got it on the schedule. The surgery itself went perfectly and the hospital is really nice with good food. I'm currently 6 days post op, healing well with no complications. I traveled an hour to do it with her and I would reccomend any one else do the same.

New York City

Dr. Tamila Selitsky DO 660 92nd Street, 1st Floor, Brooklyn, NY 11228, 718-680-4800. Nov 2024. Doctor's office has reached out to advise: Dr. Tamila Selitsky provides tubal ligation and tubal removal (Bilateral Salpingectomy) for patients aged 30 and older. These procedures are generally performed for individuals who have made a long-term decision regarding family planning. For patients under 30, sterilization procedures are considered only if there is a clear medical necessity. Dr. Selitsky does not perform hysterectomies solely for sterilization.

Dr. Steven Sheng, 170 William St. Manhattan, NY. Can't recommend Dr. Sheng more! Not one bingo on a 30 year old childfree unmarried woman. He was also very supportive when telling him about my tokophobia. I got my bisalp recently and the procedure went well. Dr. Sheng was supportive and compassionate throughout the process.

Dr. Alexandra Fleary 18 East 41st Street, First Floor, New York, NY 10017, 646-290-9560. April 2023. Bisalp on 30-year-old redditor. Doctor may not be supportive of younger redditors. Doctor was amazing, made it super easy, very supportive, didn't question my decisions at all. Seemed eager and happy to help when other docs would not have been so supportive. Did mention she may have questioned someone a lot younger, like 21, and encouraged them to wait a little bit to be sure.

Dr. Susan Pesci, MD Montefiore Medical Park at Eastchester, 1695 Eastchester Road, Bronx, NY 10461-2374, 718-405-8200. LBGTQ+ friendly. Bisalp on CF redditor Dec. 2022.

Dr. Jill-Ann Swenson, MD, FACOG Maiden Lane Medical 7206 Narrows Avenue Brooklyn, New York 11209, 646-290-9560. Bisalp on 32-year-old CF redditor.

James A. Kashanian, M.D., Vasectomy, 30, Single. No children. The doctor asked my relationship & parenthood status, but did not make any statements as to what I should do with my body. He recommends but does not require a fertility test for a baseline before the procedure in case of a desire for reversal. He was very respectful, the wait time was short (30 days by state law), very communicative, and answered questions readily before, during, and after the procedure. He was also willing to prescribe anti-anxiety medication for the operation.

Dr. Julia Jaffe and Dr. Temitope Awosogba. They are both doctors at Gramercy Gynecology and perform the surgery. I received a bilateral salpingectomy at age 26, single, childfree. The surgery was covered completely under Cigna OAP besides a $100 copayment, and nobody tried to discourage me. They only asked me the questions they are legally required to review with me and were otherwise neutral.

+1 Dr. Julia Jaffe, MD, Bilateral salpingectomy, I’m a 30 year old woman. Divorced, but now in a long term committed relationship with a man. No children. Dec 2024. She asked me why I wanted sterilization, let me know she legally had to tell me about other options like IUD’s, and when I said nope I want the tubes out she immediately had me sign the consent forms. No bingos or judgement. She was great and friendly in my consult and day of surgery. It was completely covered by my UHC Employer Insurance, with a $200 copay for the hospital itself.

Dr. Jin-Hee Kim-kim-md-51-west-51st-street) in New York City. LGBTQIA-friendly. Bilateral salpingectomy for 29yo CF. I had one virtual visit where I presented my desire and reasons to get sterilized. Not only did I want it, but I also had a blocked Fallopian tube & would have had to get that side taken out anyway - so I told her I wanted both. The only thing she asked me was "You know this is permanent?" & I said "Yes, but I also know I can have IVF if I ever changed my mind (unlikely)." She acknowledged that I had done my research, said yes, & went over some potential dates with me right then & there. Surgery went perfectly, & not once in the months leading up to the procedure did she try to bingo me or talk me out of it. 10/10 do recommend Dr. Kim.

+1 Dr. Kim. Dec 2023. Bisalp on 36-year-old redditor. In addition to being a world-class surgeon, Dr. Kim is LGBTQIA-friendly and was not concerned or judgmental that my relationship history was not 100% straight and allosexual. She and her staff were all kind and respectful, and my same-sex (unmarried) partner was able to be my chaperone for the procedure without any issues.

Dr. Alyssa Erb, I do not have any kids and am 24 and have been officially sterilized yesterday by her. She is located in NYC. The insurance I had was Fidelis Care Medicaid managed care and everything was covered. I contacted them multiple times regarding this, as well as contacted my insurance to make sure. I have not been charged since I left the hospital.

+1 Dr Erb, 350 W 58th St – 1A New York, NY 10019 (347) 545-2520. They take a variety of health insurances. Lgbt friendly, and childfree friendly. They have 2 other locations in nyc as well. I had a bisalp, I'm 21, single and totally childfree. I had no bingos whatsoever, I was able to get it within 4 months of signing the paperwork in accordance to NY state laws, and I had no copay whatsoever. She was amazing no objections whatsoever she was very supportive. I would 100% recommend her, she was very thoughtful and thorough. Her bedside manner is wonderful and I felt like I was in good hands. Took into account my allergy to opiods and prescribed painkillers I'm not allergic to. She's lgbt friendly as well. She's been supportive of me getting a bisalp since I was 18 but my insurance denied it.

+1 Dr Erb May 2023. Also Cohen Medical Group in general, whose doctors performed the surgery when Dr. Erb was not "in-network." Bisalp on 21-year-old redditor. Initial consult in Feb 2023.

+1 Dr. Erb June 2023. Bisalp on 29-year-old AFAB redditor. She was completely non-judgmental throughout the whole process. Very energetic, knowledgable, compassionate, and understanding.

+1 Dr. Erb. Nov 2024. Bisalp on 24-year-old redditor.

Dr. Annie Kim at Cohen Medical Practice in New York City. Got my bilateral salpingectomy with her on Aug 2024. No fuss, no bingo, just the legally required paperwork. I recommend her in particular if you're anxious about surgery. She's really wonderful.

Dr. Adjoa Bucknor - The entire team at Cohen is amazing! I felt no push back and didn't even need a binder.

+1 Dr. Bucknor. June 2024. Bisalp on 34-year-old redditor. The doctor was respectful, and answered all questions with patience. My procedure was scheduled within 5 weeks of the initial consultation. Highly recommend her and Cohen Medical Practice as a clinic. NOTE: As of the time of this update, Dr. Bucknor is the only physician in the practice who accepts Medicaid (HealthFirst NY).

Dr. Rochelle Joly - Sterilized me in my 20s. Had one appt with her and she went over health history and okayed me. NY had/has a 30 day waiting period so I had to wait 30 days before the surgery. No kids. Laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy. Very kind doctor.

Dr. Bobby B. Najari He mentioned he's actually childfree himself while we were discussing my no scalpel vasectomy, so you couldn't ask for a more sympathetic visit. During the procedure he was freakishly smooth...they warned that it wouldn't hurt but I might feel tugging, and I didn't even feel that. It was as if nothing was happening at all. Couldn't recommend him more highly. Very personable and understanding, and makes sure to explain what he's doing so all expectations are clear along the way.

Dr. Robert Berg - Dr. Berg approved me for a laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy without batting an eye. In fact, he seemed surprised that I had to consult a few doctors before finding him. Many reviews online say he has bad bedside manner, and handles his patients roughly, which I can agree with in a way. He is very matter-of-fact and during my physical exam he would touch me without much warning. He never crossed a boundary though, I just want to give people a heads up. He is a very pleasant person but I think he forgets to check in with patient's comfort levels. Also another warning, his office staff is pretty rude and impatient. However with all of the unpleasantness, the surgery went flawlessly. I am recovering without any complications and feel so much better off.

+1 Dr. Berg was absolutely delightful and put me at ease very quickly. He's funny and straightforward, won't waste time sugarcoating things. He has no problems sterilizing anyone as long as they know what they want and are of legal age. I had no problems with the rest of the office staff either, though I agree they can be short. I would 100% recommend that office. My surgery went well, and the OR staff assisting him said he's a brilliant surgeon and a great teacher. Well worth the wait!

+1 for Dr. Robert Berg @ NYU! I got a bilateral salpingectomy. 26 / single / no children. He was funny and straightforward (which I liked) and answered all my questions and approved me with no judgment, just the mandatory info! He’s also aware of this sub LOL. The office staff is indeed curt, but they definitely know what they’re doing. I had a smooth surgery experience & an extremely easy recovery, and I’m so happy I went to see Dr. Berg! Also, I’m on UHC and they didn’t cover it at 100% but I applied and got approved for charity care.

Dr. David Weiner, yes a urologist named Dr. Weiner. Super-friendly, extremely informative. At my vasectomy consultation, he asked how many children we have. I considered lying, but told the truth anyway. "Oh. Do you guys travel a lot?" Not as much as we'd like to, I responded. "I just ask because a lot of the couples I do this for travel a lot and want to keep it that way." That was it. No judgment. He said he does vasectomies for non-fathers all the time. Great experience.

Dr. Jenny Reisner Bilateral salpingectomy. 35F, married, have known I didn't want children for as long as I can remember. I can't speak to how it would go for a younger person, Dr. Reisner were both totally non-judgmental and kind. Once they asked some questions to get to know me and make sure I understood my options (hey that's part of their job), they were 100% supportive of my choice of surgical sterilization. My surgery was done at NYU/Tisch and everyone there was terrific, too.

+1 Dr. Reisner. May 2023. Bisalp on 30-year-old redditor.

Dr. Edward Zoltan - Brooklyn. I'm 30, unmarried and with no kids. He wasn't particularly a fan of my decision but it didn't take much. Scheduled for next month.

Dr. Ivan Colon. 175 Ramsen St, Suite 1225, Brooklyn, New York, 11201 718-696-0186. Was referred to Dr. Colon via my primary care physician after requesting a vasectomy. Questions asked included that I understood the procedure was permanent and that I was 100% sure that I did not want children in the future. New York State 30 day waiting period after initial appointment was also required. Procedure was quick with 30 minutes under general anesthesia. Male, 24 yrs old, No Children

Dr. Dana Gossett (referred bilateral salpingectomy for 30F, no kids) - great listener, didn't make me feel rushed with the information I felt I needed to tell her. Not once was I asked "are you sure?".

Dr. Ronochelle Joly I got referred to her, and after a consult she scheduled the bi-salp and put everything in motion. Very simple and direct process. And my experience at the hospital was fantastic, the staff were friendly, accommodating, and willing to answer all my questions. I loved the whole experience!

Dr Valerie Wells "Dr. Wells has been my doctor for years and has known I don't want children, so getting a bisalp scheduled was a complete non-issue. No pre-op appointment (we discussed it at my annual) and she did the surgery. Really wonderful practice, very accepting of whatever path you want to take."

Dr. Ximena Matamala NYU Langone Ambulatory Care West Side 355 West 52nd Street, 5th Floor New York, New York 10019. I am 29, married, with no children. Dr. Matamala is amazing. She never questioned my desire to be sterilized, however she did require two meetings (the very first time I met her and told her I wanted to be sterilized, and a second meeting to confirm). Once the paperwork was signed for a bi-salp and we waited the legally required 30 days, it was very fast. Absolutely no wait time at the hospital. I got there, they got me set up, I went in and it was done. Everyone who worked with me was absolutely amazing and supportive.

Dr. Taraneh Shirazian. Bilateral salpingectomy (not yet completed, scheduled for 1/5/2022). Age: 32 Marital Status: Committed partnership Childfree Status: Very, VERY childfree. Experience: I met with Dr. Shirazian virtually, and I told her that I was looking to get a bilateral salpingectomy for primarily sterilization reasons, secondarily as a preventative measure (my paternal grandmother had ovarian cancer that killed her at 53). I explained that I never want to have kids and, the older I get, the more sure I am of my decision. She told me it was a very reasonable decision that I was more than capable of making for myself - not a bingo in sight. She scheduled a pre-op ultrasound to make sure there were no other issues to deal with pre-surgery, and she said I’ll unfortunately (her words) have to come in to sign paperwork at least 30 days before (NYS law), but that once that’s done they can schedule my surgery.

Dr Steven Sheng Bilateral Salpingectomy on late 20's female patient

Alfred Winkler Weil Cornell Medical 646-962-9600. Procedure: Vasectomy (cauterized ends and tying). Age: 39 Marital Status: Single Kids: None. We had the conversation where he asked all the questions to make sure it was something I wanted to go through with. I didn't feel like he was trying to talk me out of it or anything, I felt as if he was just performing his due diligence with care. He had me wait two week before going into to sign the paperwork, from which point, I then had to wait the mandated month. My surgery was in August, and it went well - he and his assistant were just really pleasant and professional. FYI, his process included cauterizing AND tying the ends I was all healed up in 2 weeks and as of last week, I got the all zero sperm count all clear. My insurance was Blue Cross Blue Shield for those interested.

Dr. Leigh Rosen Mount Sinai Medical Center 5 E 98th St, New York, NY 10029, Dr. Rosen performed my bilateral salpingectomy one month ago. I went to her based on my friend's recommendation, she did her bi-slap a few months before mine! I am 33(F), never had any children or abortions, and I'm not married. Dr. Rosen was the first surgeon I have ever met with that didn't bingo me at all. Over the years I had some awful things said to me by surgeons I sought the procedure from, that I shared with her and she was disgusted. She was kind and warm and didn't hesitate scheduling my surgery. I imagine there's a lot of surgeons in the city who are willing to perform the procedure but she has to be one of the best.

Dr.Melissa McHale mmchale@reproductiveimmunology.com. She was a wonderful doctor that explained all options and reviewed/answered every question and lab result. Never pushing any agenda except that she was there to support me in whatever decision I thought was best for my body. Currently, she is completing her surgical time in NY/NJ and will be moving to a practice in DC around May. She is willing to do elective surgery on in and out of network patients. At this time, she is willing to work with all insurance and won’t/does not make the patient responsible for paying the difference if the insurance covers less than cost of procedure.

Dr. Veronica Lerner in New York, NY, October 2023, at Lenox Hill Hospital. 30, VNOTES bilateral salpingectomy. Absolutely zero bingos and very easy through Aetna insurance. We had one virtual consultation, then an in person pre-op, and a 30 day waiting period for surgery (NY state law based on signing consent paperwork). The process was very easy, she was extremely kind and thorough, and her office staff was extremely helpful and kind as well. I would love for other redditors to have access to and know about her services.

Niagara County / Cheektowaga

Dr. Brian Rambarran

Poughkeepsie

Dr. Lawrence A. Zolnik - Dr. Zolnik did a bilateral tubal cauterization at 33 years old. No children, no health issues, had been his patient for a few years, was on oral contraceptives, and in a relationship with a man who had a vasectomy. Dr. Zolnik only said it was permanent and if she changed her mind, she'd likely have to try IVF. She said there was zero judgment, no attempt to convince her otherwise, and no request for a partner's permission or consent. He did ask if she knew about Essure, but she declined that option in favor of cauterizing her tubes with no issues. Update Nov. 2024. Dr. no longer does sterilization surgery.

Queens County

Dr Adeepti Gupta. Performed sterilisation via tube removal.

Dr. Amy Lai, 8906 135th St #6S, Jamaica, NY 11418. Agreed to perform tubal ligation (cauterize tubes) on 23 year old. First visit, I brought up sterilization, she asked if I knew it was permanent (I do), no further questions. Had to schedule a mandatory counseling session (about 10 minutes of paperwork) which is required for my insurance purposes.

Plattsburgh

Dr. Molly Mentzer DO, Champlain Valley Physicians Hospital UVM Health Network - 206 Cornelia Street Suite 202, Plattsburgh, NY12901 - Requested bilateral salpingectomy 9/9/20 received 9/28/20. 26yo childfree female. Stated her views but said as long as I knew that I was 100% sure that she would schedule me. Everyone at the GYN office and at the surgery was kind and respectful of my decision.

Dr. Rebecca Parad, Plattsburgh New York, Champlain Valley Physicians Hospital, University of Vermont Health Network. Had a bilateral salpingectomy done April of 2022, 22 year old single trans masc. Dr. Parad was very nice, gendered me correctly, and explained everything in detail. She went over non-surgical options, but ultimately supported my choice. My insurance (Tricare) covered most costs. I got scheduled for the surgery within two months from my initial appointment.

Ogdensburg

Dr. Andrew Ogden OB/GYN,3 Lyon Pl # 300, Ogdensburg, NY(315) 393-6186 - Filshie clip tubal, "just asked if I knew it was permanent, zero bingos, or hassle"

Olean

Dr Kaitlin Hanmer in Olean, NY, . No one at the hospital bingoed me or gave me a hard time about my decision. Dr Hanmer is very kind and professional and listens to what you want. Bilateral salpingectomy 25F

Oswego

Dr. Raj Mahajan - Oswego County OB-GYN 42 Montcalm Street, Oswego, NY 13126 - Approved for Bilateral Salpingectomy at 21 y/o

NB a member has contacted our team to advise that the above doctor has had, "some serious past charges of negligence/misconduct" and "he had his license suspended back in 2005 for thirty-six months with the last thirty-five months on probation". Further reading may be found via this link. This doctor appears to have completed the necessary steps/training to be treating patients but we encourage our members to review the above document first before moving forward with this doctor.

Dr. Mehri Del Pino, bilateral salpingectomy. 1144 meadow drive Oswego, ny 13421. 315-363-9380.

Rhinebeck

Dr. Elizabeth Elsagga, Northern Dutchess Hospital in Rhinebeck, NY, Bilateral Salpingectomy(Removal of the fallopian tubes), 34yo. Dr. Elsagga is kind, patient, and receptive. She explained the procedure without trying to change my mind, detailed the risks, and approved me without pushback. Had my surgery on 9/5/23 and everything went smoothly. I’m very grateful to have found this provider!

Dr Christine Beer MD, FACOG, CareMount Medical. Bilateral Salpingectomy, 29yo. The initial visit and surgery could not have gone better.

Rochester

Dr. Heather Weber, DO Building D, 3101 West Ridge Road, Rochester, NY 14626, 585-225-1580. Also in Webster. Nov. 2024. Hysterectomy on late-30s CF redditor. Dr. Weber was very responsive and kind. She made me listen to all the different options for treating fibroids, asked if I was sure, and mentioned that regret was possible before approving the hysterectomy, but it sounded like the hospital lawyers made her do that. She was otherwise very supportive. Surgery was fast without complications and I was given great pain relief options.

Franziska Haydanek, DO Rochester General Hospital Rochester, NY. This gynecologist has contacted us directly to advise they provide salpingectomies and tubals for childfree people.

+1 Dr Haydanek, she approved me for a bisalp the first time i had an appointment with her and got absolutely no bingos, all at the age of 21.

+1 Dr Haydanek. Oct 2023. Bisalp on 25-year-old redditor. She was great and the only thing she asked me is why I want to get the procedure done. No bingo’s or anything. Then right before the procedure she asked if everyone at the hospital had been nice to me. Totally positive experience!

Dr. Joseph Scibetta, 125 Lattimore Rd. Rochester, NY 14620

Dr. Nancy McKnight - Rochester Gynecologic and Obstetric Associates Http://www.rgoa.com

Dr. Laurence Donahue - Urology Associates of Rochester 995 Senator Keating Boulevard, Rochester, NY 14618

Dr. Melanie Butler - Urology Associates of Rochester 995 Senator Keating Boulevard, Rochester, NY 14618 - No Scalpel Vasectomy

Dr. Dianne Edgar. Bilateral Salpingectomy approved and performed by said doctor. Female, 27 when approved, 0 kids, unmarried (but long term relationship), no genetic conditions. Approved for procedure with very little resistance, but required 4 appointments (discussion, confirmation, pre-op, post op). Did not require meeting with SO. Cost nothing due to ACA + insurance, ~4K for doctor if uninsured. Mentioned "If you ever change your mind, you can always get IVF." Which I think is a plus. Due to COVID only does surgery some Tues and Fri.

Dr. Catalina Vial Rochester Regional Health Address: 995 Senator Keating Blvd building e suite 210, Rochester, NY 14618 P: 585-368-4455 Summary: Went to a well visit to establish care at the office. They found an ovarian cyst that needed removal. Discussed once with Dr. Vial that I don't want children and want to get sterilized. Discussed that this is a permanent form of birth control, discussed risks/benefits, consent form was signed and I was scheduled for surgery. Took my request seriously the and was clear and concise with me. OP also advises that this doctor did a UNILATERAL salpingectomy as OP had previously had the other fallopian tube removed.

Dr. Linder at 125 Lattimore Rd. in Rochester, New York. I am a childfree 32 year old woman, and Dr. Linder is my regular gynecologist. When I asked about the procedure, he didn't blink and said he could certainly do it, suggested the bilateral salpingectomy, and explained the procedure. He said he prefers to do that procedure because it's thought to really reduce risk for ovarian cancer. At my pre-op appointment, I had to sign a form from the hospital stating I knew risks etc. I was very happy with how I was treated by Dr. Linder. I never felt judged or second-guessed at any stage of the process. I've worked with him for 2 years now, and he is the best doctor I've ever had. I had the procedure done in conjunction with another, but I felt healed from this one in about 4-5 days.

Dr. Anna Barbi 777 Canal View Blvd. Suite #400 Rochester, New York 14623 (585) 244-3430. bilateral salpingectomy. mid-20s, unmarried, not in a relationship, no current children. Really listened to all of my concerns and did not try to "bingo" me or belittle me. Wonderful to talk to and great at describing the process so as to ease nervousness. Wait was only about a month out to schedule an appointment for establishing care with the practice.

Dr. Kara Repich Highland Women's Health - Culver Road, 909 Culver Road, Rochester, NY 14609, (585) 602-0440. Also: other locations in Rochester, Pittsford and Fairport. 2022. Elective hysterectomy on 37-year-old redditor. She was overwhelmingly kind to me when I thought I was facing a fight. She reassured me I was not. She initially told me "Yep, I'll do your hysterectomy for whatever reason, it's your body, it's your choice." Double points to her for being able to say that to me while she was pregnant. Clearly not a person who imposes her own morality on others. This doctor is a good human!

Dr Maureen Slattery Rochester, NY. Dr Slattery performed a bilateral salpingectomy on me, 27F. Unmarried and living with a partner, but Dr Slattery never even asked if I had a partner, let alone their take on me getting sterilized. We basically discussed my fear of loosing access to birth control including sterilization, how I've known for 15 years I don't want children, then she agreed to approve my request. She was very accommodating and kind. No bingos, although she said she's hesitant to approve people under 21. Not that she won't do it though. It took 6.5 weeks the first consultation to the surgery. I've only paid my copays for the 2 consultations, which totalled $60.

Dr. Louise Carroll, Rochester, NY, I received a laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy at age 31, not married, no children. I had one consultation and just had to wait the mandatory waiting period but was approved with zero bingos or pushback. The whole staff was great and all female, I felt very comfortable. I also want to give a shout out to Trillium Gynecology for the initial referral.

Dr. Alam he practices as part of URMC in multiple locations in the Rochester, NY area. Vasectomy Age: 28 Marital Status: Single Childfree status: No kids and never will. Was very professional throughout my vasectomy experience. No attempts to talk me out of it or offer alternatives. Sterilization was one of two issues I saw him for, and after getting the other taken care of the turn around on the vasectomy was about 1 month. It was honestly more difficult to setup the post-procedure lab work than the procedure itself. Sept 2024

Saratoga

Dr. Stefanie Alison - [Saratoga Gynecology Associates] 1 West Ave #305, Saratoga Springs, NY 12866 - Just asked questions about why I wanted to get sterilized. She believes in full body autonomy.

Saratoga Springs

Dr, Amos Cutler Saratoga OBGYN at Myrtle Street 59 Myrtle Street Suite 100 Saratoga Springs, NY 12866 Phone: 518-587-2400 Agreed to perform a bilateral salpingectomy on a 24-year-old woman. Makes sure you understand what the procedure entails, but does not bingo. Very informative.

Schenectady

Nicholas Montalto. Performed a hysterectomy removing my uterus and fallopian tubes (and endometriosis), leaving my ovaries and by request leaving my cervix. Age 22, unmarried long term partnership, no plans for children bio/adopted/etc., Transmasculine legally male. He and his staff are very friendly, I did not encounter any bingos from anyone at his office. The nurses I worked with were very informed about the procedure and his methods. I felt listened to (they agreed I should keep my cervix if I felt it would make a difference to me) and they brought up the possibility of endometriosis before I did after listening to my symptoms. After reaching out to his office I was offered a surgery date 6weeks later and they were very flexible with my schedule (I had surgery 9weeks later instead). He did accept my insurance but I haven't received the bill yet to know how much it cost. Telemedicine is available for appointments that don't require physical examinations

+1 Dr Montalto, bilateral salpingectomy. 28yo.

Syracuse

Mark Adelson, M.D. 1200 E. Genesee St. Suite 205 Syracuse, NY 13210 Phone: (315) 423-4222

Dr. Beth Houck 475 Irving Ave Suite 406 Syracuse, NY 13210 phone 315-671-5310. Performed a bilateral salpingectomy on a 29 year old CF woman without questions, and was happy to schedule her for the procedure. -1 Dr Houck may have stopped doing sterilisation procedures.

[Dr. J.C. Trussell](https://www.upstate.edu/healthcare/providers/doctor.php?docID=trusselj, and he performed a vasectomy for 24M in Syracuse, NY. Incredible doctor. He asked if I had children and if I understood the procedure is permanent, I told him I had no children and he had no issue performing the procedure. He had me scheduled a month later and we were all done.

Dr. Stephen Brown - CNY Obstetrics & Gynecology, 5800 Heritage Landing Dr Ste C, East Syracuse, NY 13057. Preformed bilateral salpingectomy, covered through insurance, on 25 year old women with no children. Dr. Brown very much supports bodily autonomy. I had zero push back, and no unnecessary questions. I highly recommend him!

Dr. Catherine Fiori at CNY Women’s Health in East Syracuse, NY. Laparoscopic bilateral salpingectomy

Dr, Carol Lopes, bilateral salpingectomy, 21 years old, single, no children. I met Dr Lopes in November and asked for a bisalp. She asked if I tried other birth control options and why I wanted the procedure. I stated why and she was very willing to do the procedure. She informed me of the risk of it being permanent without any bingos. I asked about insurance, she said she would make sure it was covered. If there were issues she would file it under something related to my Crohn’s disease. She scheduled the appointment for January. Everyone at the surgery center was nice as well and I experienced no bingos.

Utica

Dr. Lora Papandrea in Utica,NY to the list. She’s at OB/GYN Associates of Central NY. She can be very blunt and honest which I appreciate but never once did she question me about not wanting children. Medically she just makes sure everything is good to go and asked me when I wanted to schedule it. I was going to do it last year but had lost my job with COVID. We just did it on Monday May 2nd and everything went fine.

Dr Amankwah in Utica - I got a bilateral salpingectomy from him less than a year ago. No referral, made an appt, got a surgery date at that appt, and was done in less than 3 months. Asked a few bingos but wasn't pushy, a bit condescending but wasn't rude, entire appt was 15 minutes.

Watertown

Macy VanArnam, aka Dr. V in Watertown, NY. Referred by Watertown Planned Parenthood and approved on first encounter after showing her sterilization binder. Performed a bilateral salpingectomy for me (22F, childfree, unmarried) on 12/9/22 with little issue. Will say she'd prefer you to get an IUD, but ultimately it's your body, your choice. States she's childfree herself. Post-op support pretty non-existent due to lack of communication from nursing line, but will schedule a 2-week post-op to ensure you're healing correctly.

West Seneca

Dr. Ashley Conway, MD Trinity Medical OB/GYN & Midwifery Care 550 Orchard Park Road # A100, West Seneca, New York 14224, bilateral salpingectomy 24F.

Yonkers

Dr. Melissa Groves. 2 Park Ave, Yonkers, NY, 26F, unmarried/no children. Bilateral salpingectomy done October 2023. Dr. Melissa Groves is fantastic and anyone would be lucky to have her as their surgeon! I first asked at my well-woman check with her in August. She had to do the legally required “you know this is permanent?” but never bingoed me. I had my tubes out 2 months later! She made me feel comfortable and empowered every step of the way. She understands how liberating this decision can be for some people! Best decision ever! Thank you Dr. Groves! Surgery itself was technically covered 100% by insurance as preventative care performed by the primary surgeon and hospital, but had to pay a portion of assistant physician’s fee, as well as pre-surgery bloodwork and office visit copays. Overall my insurance was billed a total of approximately $20,500, and I only had to pay about $860 for everything (counting 3 pre- and post-op office visits, bloodwork, surgery itself, pain medication, and pathology, etc.) Very happy! 10/10!